"I work with Valerie at Lakewood a&p we had so much fun such a nice person I know coleen and your mom will be miss love Marie iuzzolino"
In loving memory of
Valerie O'Connor
April 25, 1956 - January 6, 2016
Valerie O'Connor passed away on Wednesday, January 6th 2016. She was 59 years old.
Born in the Bronx, New York City, she lived 30+ years in Jackson, NJ. She also resided in Belmar, and most recently in Whiting.
Valerie worked for 3M Company, Freehold for many years in Quality Control. She also was a school bus driver for the Anderson Bus Company, Howell for many years as well. In the past, she volunteered as an EMT for the Spring Lake First Aid Squad.
She loved the beach, and her dog Priscilla. She had a talent for arts and crafts and enjoyed gardening.
Valerie was predeceased by her father, Bruno Stulle. Surviving are her three daughters: Sarena Henderson and her husband John, Sandra Goderstad and her husband Roy, and Cara O'Connor; three grandsons, J.T., Ryan and Kevin; her mom, Audrey Stulle; and three brothers, Lou Ballester and his wife Phyllis, David Ballester, and Bruno Stulle.
There will be a Memorial Gathering on Friday, January 15, 2016 from 4-6 PM at HORIZON FUNERAL AND CREMATION SERVICES, 1329 Route 37 West, Toms River, NJ 08755. The service will be offered at 5:30 PM.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made in Valerie's name to Associated Humane Societies and Popcorn Park, http://www.ahscares.org
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"Valerie was one of my oldest snd closest friend. We grew up together snd shared so many memories .one of which wr both wanted a horse val one and we would go riding in the field behind her house on bryant dr. The list continues all I can say is I will miss her very much and may she rest in peace. Cindi robins jacob"
"So sad to hear of Val's passing. She was a high spirited, wonderful person. I have very fond memories of her from high school and some of our crazy antics. She will be missed. Rest in Peace Val."
"On behalf of the Sapio/ Becchetti family; we offer our sincere condolences. May God be with you all in this time of need! Love you all! "
"We are so sad to hear of Val's passing. We are glad to have known her, she was a warm and sincere person who will be missed. We send our condolences and prayers to her daughters, friends, and all her family. Rest in peace beautiful Val."
"We are so so sorry Sandra to hear about your Mom passing, our prayers go out to you and your family at this time. "
"Sarena, We are so sad to hear of your mom's passing, and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep the faith, and God bless. Rich, Dawn, Henry & Ian"
"I worked with Val at 3M many, MANY years ago. It was certainly a crazy time back then but we had lots of fun! I share my deepest condolences with her family & friends. May you Rest in Peace, my friend. "
"Valerie you always stood out of all people by your cute character and your big heart those of us who got to know you were very lucky for having crossed paths with you,you now have God by your side,May the Good Lord comfort her family."
"May all your wonderful, happy memories of Valerie fill us all within our hearts and remain with us throughout our life. She will be dearly miss by many. I love you my dearest friend. Rest May the Good Lord wrap his arms around everyone in her family and comfort them through these trying times. Her family was and will remain her heart and soul."
"I met Val in 1999. Things I know...she loved the beach, sunshine, loved her pup and most of all, loved her family. She will be missed by those who loved her. Condolences to her family. May memories of her love for all of you warm your heart and comfort you at this time."
"Dear Sandra, Cara and Serena.....so sorry to hear of your mom's passing....may your happy memories get you through this sad time."