"I just learned of Patty ' s passing. I am in shock and saddened. She delivered my oldest son Darius and gave my prenatal care for the next two boys as well. She was an amazing, kind woman and very inspiring. My love and respect for midwifery is because of her. She was incredible and I loved her very much. "
In loving memory of
Patricia Brumbaugh
December 31, 1969 - December 31, 1969
Patricia Ann (Patty) Carlson Brumbaugh, passed away at her home in Indianapolis on October 13, 2007. She was born to Harriet and Ralph Carlson on July 8, 1950, in Chicago, Illinois. Her parents both survive her. Patty was a 1968 Graduate of Bosse High School, where she was a member of the band and orchestra, cheerleader, and active in student government. Patty was a 1972 Graduate of DePauw University, where she received her Bachelor of Science Degree in Nursing. She was a member of Pi Beta Phi Sorority. She went on to obtain a Master?s Degree in Midwifery at the University of Mississipi. Patty was instrumental in founding the first free-standing birthing center in the state of Indiana, Nurse Mid-Wives of Indiana. Working at the center, Patty delivered over 1000 babies during her career. After she retired from midwifery, she continued to work as an RN.
She was an avid bicyclist and runner, having participated in several marathons, triathlons and the Hilly Hundred ride in Bloomington. She was an avid sports fan especially loved IU basketball. Her life was enriched by her children, her family, her friends, her patients and the many animals she adopted and loved.
She is survived by daughters Elizabeth Brumbaugh of Indianapolis and Margaret Brumbaugh of Bloomington; son, John Brumbaugh of Bloomington; siblings, David Carlson(Jami) of Evansville, Susan Fouts (John) of Fort Wayne, Peggy Hall (Gary) of Indianapolis and Ken Carlson (Nancy) of Indianapolis; nephews, Andrew Fouts(Kristen), Greg Fouts (Molly), Kevin and Alex Carlson; nieces, Katie and Chrissy Fouts, and Laura Carlson.
A memorial service will be Saturday, November 10 in the Leppert Mortuary, Smith Carmel Chapel, starting at 6:00 PM with a visitation from 4:00 PM until time of service.
You are invited to visit our website www.leppertmortuary.com where you can sign the guest book, leave a personal message, or make a memorial contribution to The Humane Society of Indianapolis, 7929 Michigan Road, Indianapolis, IN 46268 or Planned Parenthood of Indianapolis, P.O. Box 397, Indianapolis, IN 46206.
Tributes
"My daughter was the 78th baby born at the Birth Center in the Fall of 1993. I became a client at the Birth Center becasue I read an article about it in the Star the day after I discovered I was pregnant. It truly seemed meant to be. Patty delivered my daughter's head and let her dad "catch" the rest of her. All 3 of our older kids and 4 friends were present at the birth. Patty said the 11 people in the room( not counting the baby!) was a Birth Center record. Patty was a supportive and kind midwife. Occasionally over the years I ran into her and she always remembered my daughter and asked about her. Patty's passion and enthusiasm lit up a room. I am so sorry to hear that she is gone."
"Patty was a busy bee while here on B5/C5 at Methodist Hospital and was very independent when working. She wore a smile most of the time and never complained. Nursing is not always pleasant, but is consistently hard work and Patty's patients appreciated all her hard work. I didn't get to know Patty as well as I hoped to, but she was always kind to me and I always found her to be a pleasant co-worker. I am so sorry to the family for this unexpected and devastating loss and I will never forget the memory of her. God be with you all. Jenn"
"To Elizabeth, Margaret and John, I wish to express my sympathy to all of you. When I was teaching you in junior kindergarten at PT your mom was working hard to open a birthing center. She was determined to offer patients this option. I enjoyed getting to know her through all of you. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.Cathy Dezelan "
"Patty delivered my youngest son. She was such a blessing and encouragement. I am shocked at the news of her death. I will pray for comfort for all of her family and friends. Romans 15:13"
"Women in Indiana have lost a wonderful advocate. Her co-workers at Planned Parenthood will remember her passion and committment to her patients. Her family and friends have my deepest sympathy."
"Dr. and Mrs. Carlson, David, Sue, Peggy and Ken,I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Patty was such an inspiration to my life. She "adopted" me when i was in grade school, got me involved in Gymnastics and Cheerleading and was the main reason I went to Bosse. She even dressed me for my very first date, letting me wear her clothes and shoes. Patty and I would spend hours in your living room listening to records (mainly the Letterman) and playing cards - mainly "spit". She always won. She invited me to DePauw when she was a freshman and made me feel very special. We had some great times and I have many more memories of her. Even though we didn't keep in touch, she will always be in my memories. I wish the family peace in your loss.Sharon Smith Kennedy"
"I was shocked to hear the news of such a wonderful women and patient advocate. I worked with Patty at Jarrett Fertility Group for a short time she was there. She always had a smile and stories that touched your heart. To her children I'm sorry about your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family."
"I worked with Patty at a few of our Clinics. She was fun to work with. She was willing to help where ever neededMy thoughts and prayers are with you"
"I met Patty almost 10 years ago when pregnant with my 2nd child. I was new to Indianapolis, and wanted a midwife birth. Patty was a dream come true, an inspiration, and gave me the best care I had ever had. On rare occasions at the birth center, there were two of us in labor at the same time -- I was the second. She had to accompany the first patient to the hospital, so her colleague was with me, but she slid in at the last minute to be there during the birth of my daughter. It was a magical day, and Patty was my angel. I will miss her but will always have her memory in my heart."
"I met Patty through nursing work when we were muddling through a mandatory computer class at a local hospital and I recall her positive attitude. She had a great smile and was a pleasure to work with. I am so saddened by her loss and wish her family peace. "
"Sorry to hear that one of the nicest people I knew at Bosse High School has gone to a better place. My deepest sympathy and prayers will be with you in this time of sorrow."
"Dear Howard, Elizabeth,Margaret and John: Please accept our sincere condolences. "
"I first met Patty when we played Bridge together twenty years ago. Our paths have crossed several times since then. My memories of Patty are all ones of smiles and positive feelings. She could lighten up a room. We are very sad to hear about her passing."
"I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I have many great memories of hanging out at Elizabeth"
"We are so sorry to hear of Patty's death. We are thinking of you during these difficult days.Peggy and Bill"
"Dear Brumbaugh family-Patty was such an inspiration to me. Not only as a wonderful, caring woman passionate about the health of mothers and babies, but as my mentor. She was my teacher not only as a childbirth educator, but also as a midwife. I have such beautiful memories of attending births with Patty and aspired to be as compassionate as she was. She did so much to enhance midwifery at Methodist, in Indianapolis and in Indiana. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. May your faith and your memories sustain you."
"Patty was a true inspiration to me and I have such fond memories of working with her as a childbirth educator and doula. She was instrumental in changing the face of birth for many women in the state of Indiana and her legacy for birth advocacy will live on. I am also grateful on a personal level for her participation in the birth of my first beautiful daughter. My sincerest condolences for the family. Patty will be missed and was loved by many."
"To Patty's Family, I can't really begin to express the sadness that I felt when I heard of Patty's death. I have been thinking of her and remembering her positive outlook and energy that she shared so freely with those in her life. I cherish the years that we worked together as midwives and the support and skill that she brought to my own birth experiences. Patty has been a wonderful influence in my life and my world is a little less bright knowing that she is gone. My thoughts and prayers are with you.Sally "
"I am in shock right now after hearing of Patty's death. I had no idea and wondered why the emails stopped coming. I discovered patty when pregnant with what was suppose to be my 4th child. I went so excited to finally experience the pleasure of a midwife only to find out my baby had died. she was so caring and although I had just met her going with me to the hospital and stayed through everything educating me on all my choices. She then was with me on the birth of my 4 th child at the birth center in 1998 and with me when she delivered her last babies, my twins at Methodist Hospital in August of 2001. She stayed in touch with me over the years and I loved her dearly! I hope you still read this even after the years have passed. She was a one of a kind and I am very glad she touched my life!"
"patty was my midwife in 1983 And 1987. She is one of the reasons I enrolled in nursing school last year. I was looking for her on the net and found this information. I am sorry she is gone."