Joseph Vierhile
December 31, 1969 - December 31, 1969

"Sorry for your loss Vierhiles. I am thinking of you guys and praying everyday. Ryan you are like a brother to me and I feel really bad. Hope you guys get through these tough times and no matter what you can always talk to the Clarks. We are here for you guys always, remember that. Your friend, Corbin Clark"

"Ben, Ryan & Josie - Your Dad was a good friend and a great man. I will miss his big brain and huge smile, but let's not forget, he's always with us and just a prayer away. Hugs & Kisses. "

"Ryan and Family,My heart is filled with sadness at your loss. I know you will have many wonderful memories to keep and cherish always. My thoughts and prayers are with you."

"To the family , My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this emotional time. Joe was a classmate of mine during our time in highschool and a great friend . Joe will always be missed and thought of in high regard .His smile and warmth for others will be greatly missed. I look forward to the day we meet again. . My prayers our with you all. Take care, Thomas Hamilton, Naples Central School Class of 1986.... "

"I'm so sorry for your loss. I met Joe when he was with Merrill -Lynch and continued with Joe at Lilly. He was a great guy and easy to talk to. My wife and I liked him the first day we talked to him at our home. He always talked about his wife and children. God be with Joe and his family in this passing. I will miss him greatly."

"Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. "

"Charleen, Ben, and family,We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. God bless you all. Sincerely,Wayne, Sandi, Ryan, Cortney, and Dillon Byle"

"To all of the Vierhiles, I am so sorry for your loss. I was a friend of Lisa's at Notre Dame and I always remembered how much she looked up to Joe, and all of her big brothers. We all always heard about Joe and Char, saw pictures of their beautiful family, and rejoiced with Lisa when we heard she'd not only be moving to Indy after graduation, but, then, moving in behind Joe and Char's house! My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Take care and God bless."

"Dear Vierhile Family,I do not know you nor do you know me I read about your husband and felt I needed to send to you my thoughts & prayers. I too lost my husband Aug. 23 he was only 50, it is a very difficult time for you and your family as it was for ours but always know he is whole again and will always be with you as well as God. May God watch over you and help you thru this time. I hope this makes since to you, God bless you and your family. "

"The Board of Directors, Members and Staff of Meridian Hills Country Club would like to express to you and your family our sympathy for your loss. Our heartfelt prayers go out for you at this time. "

"I'm so sorry for your loss. I worked with Joe at Merrill Lynch. He was a great man, always quick witted and made us laugh a lot! May you keep his spirit alive with all of your great memories of him. I'm praying for you all,Michelle Laycock "

"Charlene and family, My sincerest condolences. Joe was friend of mine from ND and I always enjoyed his wit and sarcasm. I could count on him for a good laugh, specially after a painful football game loss. He would give you that "look" and you were not sure whether he was serious or just working you over.. Indeed, I recently happened across that "look" in a short clip of Joe and Charlene from a May 1990 graduation party that I apparently brought a video camera to. The clip turned up as part of a video my father prepared for my surprise 40th birthday. While I will certainly miss seeing Joe at ND football games, I will think of him whenever my kids play that video (which they seem do often)."

"Nancy & I are so sorry to hear about Joe. He was a great guy who had a warm friendly personality. I know he is resting in peace now. We will miss him.Love, B & Nancy Moore"

"I want to share my heartfelt sorrow and sadness for your loss. I have many fond memories of playing kick the can at the moore/vierhile yard in the twilight hours of summer. Joey always had a smile and laugh that lit up a room, and his favorite expression..."DooDah" always made us laugh. Usually as he was running for the can he would shout it out! We will miss you.I am praying for all of you, Tom, Andy, Lisa my hearts go out to you all. Cheri Mortensen (Braun)FitzpatrickClass of 1981 Naples Central School"

"To the Vierhile Family-May God grant you the peace and serenity you need at this very difficult time. Please accept our heartfelt condolensces for your loss.Eric & Lisa Schaeffer"

"I will truely miss my conversations with Joe at First Baptist during baseball. He was one of my oldest son's first coaches and one of the main reasons that six years later, we are still with the program. He had such a great disposition and sense of humor. I am shocked by his passsing but want to offer his family the heartfelt sympathy of my family for their tremendous loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace, Joe."

"WE JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU HOW SORRY WE ARE. JOE WAS A SWEETHEART TO WORK WITH WHEN HE WAS HERE AT THE DEALERSHIP. WE ALWAYS ENJOYED IT WHEN HE GOT A CHANCE TO VISIT. YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS.PETTY,CINDY,JULIE,JENN AND SANDY"

"To the Vierhile and O'Brien Families,May the fond memories of Joe -- especially his warmth and good humor -- help you through this difficult time. He was and always will be a wonderful man.Sincerely,Patrick, Christine, and the whole Creadon Clan"

"Charleen & Family-I am so sorry to hear of Joe's passing. He was a wonderful guy. Whether I ran into him walking through Dillon Hall during our time at ND or later in the tailgate fields around the stadium, I could always count on a kind word, an intelligent conversation, and his great sense of humor. He will be missed by many."

"Our family's thoughts and prayers are with you. Joe was a great neighbor and friend. I am truly saddened by the loss."

"Memories keep the one you loved close to you in spirit and thought and always in your heart, today and forever. Thinking of you with sympathy. The Ambeau Family "

"I am so saddened to hear of Joe's passing. I grew up with the Vierhile's in Naples, NY and have many fond memories of Joe and his family. We lived down the street from them. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Peace be with you all. Tom"

"Lois, Tom, Andy, Lisa and Joe"

"To the Vierhile and O'Brien Families, Ben and I want to express our sincere condolences to all of you. I know how difficult this must be for everyone and how much Joe will be missed. I was Lisa's college room-mate at Notre Dame and I'll never forget the weekend Joe came up and spent hours and hours building us our loft at the beginning of freshman year. He would do anything for his kid sis and he always seemed like a very thoughtful and special person. You will all be in our prayers.Sincerely,Sonia and Ben Stewart"

"Very sorry to hear about Joe. He was a great guy. Best wishes to his friends and family."

"To all of Joe's beloved family, I am so saddened to hear of Joe's passing. I wish everyone of you much love, support and prayers during this incredibly challenging time. I will forever hold the fondest and most humorous memories of Joe. He was a great friend to me in high school. "

"I went to High School with Joe and have many fond memories of classes,sports, band, and get-togethers with Joe. He was a good kid with a great smile, always creating fun along the way. I send love and blessings to his family and wish them peace."

"Dear Charlene and Family,Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this terribly sad time. We think of the time you rented two doors from us at WaWaSee and Joe came down and started telling of the time he and Terry were trying to get home from Cancun and they spent the night at the airport with a 'few provisions" ... need I say more! He had us in stitches . I believe that was the last time we were together. We shall think of Joe with fondest memories. I know he and Terry shared many wonderful times at Notre Dame and he was a true friend when Terry was going through his difficult times. Please know we will be with you in prayer this Thursday. Our love to you and your family. May God help you through these diffecult days ahead. Love ,The Hipskind Family from Fort Wayne."

"Dear Vierhile Family,We are deeply saddened to hear about Joe's passing. He was a very kind man with an uplifting personality. Our thoughts and prayers are with you."

"To Char & Children,We would like to express our deepest sympathy in the lost of your husband. Joe always enjoyed the time that he would spend at Meridian Hills and it was our pleasure to have known him and worked with him. You and your family will be in our prayers.Sincerely, Jack Barber and Golf Staff"

"I did not work closely with Joe at the Eli Lilly Federal Credit Union but I will always remember his warm smile. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time."

"Ryan,I am so sorry for your loss. I was very sad to hear about your dad.I know what a tough time you are going trough right now, and everyone is there for you. It sounds like you got your humor from your dad, you are always making everyone laugh. I know you will never forget him. Your friend, Carlie Witsken"

"Dear Lois, Tom, Andy, Lisa, and Joe's family,I extend my most sincere sympathy to all of you. So many happy memories come flooding back to me when I think of all the times we spent together years ago. You will all be in my prayers. "

"Charleen & Family, We were so sorry to hear the news about Joe. You and your Family are in our thoughts and prayers. "

"Charlene and kids,I was stunned to hear of Joe's passing. I can't put into words how my heart sank when I thought of the grief you must be feeling. I hope you can take comfort in knowing that God is not only looking after Joe, but all of you as well! When I remember Joe, the first thing that pops into my mind is that great, warm, friendly smile. You will be included in my prayers. "

"Dear Charleen and family,I am terribly sorry for your loss. I was just thinking of you two last week, Char, as I was recalling our SMC commencement. You can running up to show me your shiny diamond! I recall only wonderful memories of Joe with his bright eyes and beautiful smile. You have my deepest sympathy. You will be in my prayers.Love, Lara (and family)"

"Lisa and I are praying for God to abundantly bless the family in this time, and that Joe is in Heaven to share his big, contagious smile with all of us. May God bless you all."

"Dear Vierhile Family,What a tremendous loss for everyone; know that our prayers join with yours. I was in Andy's class at ND and a fellow Dillonite. When I heard the news, the first image that jumped into mind was Joe walking through Dillon Hall with a big grin on his face and a bounce in his step. He had tremendous energy and humor, which permeated through those around him. God Bless you all. "

"Hey Ryan,It's Alex. I know i am not one of your closest friends, but i feel so bad for you that I honestly can't describe it in words. I know that EVERYONE feels horrible. I can'[t belive that this happened, i just saw him at your party. I know that everyone including myself, will be waiting for you with open arms. I understand why you don't want to come to school, but we are all waiting for you. I am so sorry. Honestly, if I can do anything to help, just tell me."

"Dear Lois, Tom, Andy, Lisa, Charleen & Children,We have always thought so much of your family...our prayers and thoughts are with you now and in the days to come...Joe was a beautiful person and we know that he is at peace and will keep smiling down and watching over each of you.God bless you and give you strength,Sharon, Jack & Family"

"Charleen and Vierhile FamilyOur thoughts and prayers are with you and family as you go through this difficult time in your lives. Joe was like a son to us since meeting him 12 or so years ago. He was a personal friend in addition to being a business associate of our family. We will never forget his kindness and compassion in working with all our family members."

"To all the Vierhile family...we've known Joe for but a few years...at Merrill and at Lilly...but what a wonderful man and such a professional in his chosen field. We are shocked and saddened to learn today of his passing. Our sincere warm thoughts and prayers go out to all of you...may God be with you."

"We wish to send our heartfelt condolences to all family members and friends during this extremely difficult time. Know that Christina and I will be praying for you and wish you peace."

"Dear Char,We feel such sadness for your loss. We remember so well when you moved in across the street on Park Avenue and watched your family grow. Joe almost always had a smile and was willing to help or just chat the night away. Seemed like he rarely met a stranger. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family--fondly,"

"To Joe's Family - My thoughts and prayers to you for strength and courage with the passing of Joe. I was shocked to hear the news. I was going to call him this morning when Cheryl from credit union told me the news. Joe always had a smile and kind words to say. I would email him on weekends and he would email back saying he was with kids doing something. God bless."

"I wish to share my deepest condolences with all of Joe's family & friends. Joe was such a wonderful friend growing up...going back through our NCS yearbook tonight, he was such an integral part of so many of our lives. My thoughts and prayers are with Joe, his family, friends, and all of the lives that he has touched over the years. I know that my memories of Joe will forever be cherished, and he will contine to bring a smile to my heart. "

"Dear Charleen, Ben, Ryan, Josie and family:There is a candle burning brightly at the Grotto tonight for Joe and all of you. I placed it next to the green Alumni candle on my visit there today. You are in the thoughts of my family, as well as in the prayers of the Notre Dame family. We are so very sorry for your loss. Mary and Joe LaMagna "

"Dear Vierhile family, What can we say, Joe was such a wonderful guy. We loved having him in our home and talking and laughing with him. He will be missed. We pray for your family. "

"Dear Viehele family, What can we say, we loved talking to Joe. Such a nice young man. We will be praying for your family. "

"The loss of Joe on this earth has deeply touched my heart. Please know that I keep Joe and his family in my prayers. The memory of Joe's sparkeling smile and beautiful eyes will always be remembered."

"My heartfelt sympathy to the entire Vierhile family. May the memories of happy times help to ease your pain and may God help you to find peace at this very sad and difficult time. Love and Prayers especially for Joe's wife and children."

"Dear Char,We are deeply saddened by Joe's passing. We will be praying for you and the kids in this difficult time. May his soul and all the souls of the faithfully departed rest in peace."

"Dear Vierhile FamilyWe were saddened to hear about Joe. We always enjoyed his visits to our home and always ask how we were doing and what could he do for us. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your families. There are many fond memories that will stay with you forever. He will be missed. "

"Dear Vierhile FamilyWe were saddened to hear about Joe. We always enjoyed his visits to our home and always ask how we were doing and what could he do for us. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your families. There are many fond memories that will stay with you forever. He will be missed. "

"Words cannot express my sadness at hearing of Joe's passing. Memories of growing up with Joe will never be forgotten and I look forward to the day we will meet again. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.Love,David WilliamsNCSClass of '86"

"Joe was our financial planner for over 10 years. He was always very honest and open with us. We felt he treated us as he would his own parents. He spoke of his family often. We will mis him. You are in our thoughts and prayers."

"To Verhile and O'Brian Families I am sadden to hear of your loss. I went to school with Joe. He had a dynamic smile and great personality. He will be truely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Always,SherryNaples Central School Class 1986"

"May the Queen of Peace Our Lady bless Joseph and comfort his loved ones at this most painful hour. "

"Dear Mrs. Vierhile, Tom, Andy, Lisa, Charleen & Children, I am so very sorry at your loss. I remember growing up with Andy wishing I had a brother as great as Joe. I know there is nothing that can be said that will make your loss any easier for you, just know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Billy Carter"

"I am very saddened and sorry to hear of Joe's passing. I remember him as a very clever, thoughtful and fun guy to be around with his great sense of humor. My condolences to his family as my thoughts and prayers are with you."

"Our deepest ssympathy goes to Joe's family. He was a wonderful man, who will be missed greatly."

"Dear Charlene, Ben, Ryan and Josie, you all will be in our daily prayers asking our Father in heaven for strengh, courage and comfort in these sad days ahead. Joe was our advisor for the past five years and we have so many memories of the great stories he told about his wonderful wife and fabulous kids. He was truly an amazing man--he could bring a smile to anyone's face. We will dearly miss him in the VOWC neighborhood."

"Char-I am so sorry for your loss. You and your children are in my prayers. God Bless."

"My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I was saddened by the news of your loss. I remember Joe as a warm and friendly, caring young man - a real joy to have around."

"My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.Cheryl Sheedy Wheaton, Naples Class of 1986"

"Words cannot express how sorry I am for your entire family. May the Lord give you the courage and strength to face each new morning with hope and peace knowing that Joe is on a new journey. I, too, remember his big wide smile that he had for everybody. My heart is aching for you all. Class of 1986 Naples Central School "

"To the Vierhile and O'Brien Families: although the time of knowing and working with Joe at the credit union was very brief, it took no time at all to discover his many talents. I had a great appreciation and respect for Joe's intelligence and for his sincere appreciation of his wife and family. I always enjoyed the stories he shared about his children. God Bless."

"Char and family, I am so sorry to hear about Joe. I have a lot of fun memories of him from ND. I can't picture Joe any way other than with a big smile on his face. He managed to somehow make even Statistics class bearable. Our thoughts and prayers will be with all of you. Karen"

"To my much loved neighbors,I am so deeply sorry for your loss. The whole Vierhile family is like a second family to me. They all helped me, especially Joey, remember how to live and have fun after my own brother died. I second everything Cheri Mortensen said. Joe lit up my life, no matter what we did. Trips to Roseland Park, bowling at Locust Lanes on Saturday AM or just playing "I Doubt It" on our back porch, special neighborhood birthday parties, getting in trouble with our parents...tons of great memories. I'll miss my little brother now more than ever. My only solace is that I know he is in heaven with my mom. If they have Pepsi and chocolate chip cookies in heaven, he is at my mom's kitchen table enjoying both...just like always. I love you, Joey. "

"To Charlene & Children,My deepest sympathy to you and all of your family during this difficult time. I remember working with Joe at the Chrysler dealership and he ALWAYS was in a good mood and made everyone laugh. Although I didn't know him that well, I never forgot him, nor you Charleen, especially at this time. Prayers ..."

"Dear Charleen and children, We want you to know that you are, and will be, in our thoughts and prayers at this very, very difficult time in your lives. Know that the Lord will carry you through this, so keep your eyes focused on Him. Love and hugs to all of you!"

"We are saddened to learn of Joe's passing. He was a wonderful person and we have fond memories of him, particularly from our days at Notre Dame. We know he will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his wife and children, and his mother and two brothers. We are so sorry for your loss."

"Dear Charleen, Ryan, and Family,Our whole family was saddened to hear about Joe"

"i worked with Joe for a number of years at Merrill Lynch. He was always quick with a crack or an interesting story. Great personality and one of the smartest guys I've had the pleasure to know. I'm sorry for you loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family."

"Charleen & Kids,Our entire family is praying for all of you. Joe was always so quick with his smile and to say hello..every time we saw him. God's plan is so very hard for us to understand at times like this and we pray that your faith gives you strength. All our Love"

"To the Vierhile and O'Brien families - my sincerest sympathies. The boys from ND '90 will greatly miss Joe. Lots of great memories have come rushing back these past couple of days. May we never forget the good times and especially with Joe - all the laughs. "

"To the Vierhile Family:I will always have fond memories of Joe in high school. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.Sincerely,Connie Thompson BorchardtNCS Class of 1986"

"Wonderful memories of Joey in school. First grade always comes to mind. He was always telling stories, making me laugh, and getting us in trouble.We were finally made to sit in our own cubbies. he would peek around and make me laugh again. My prayers are with your family and I'm sure he's making someone laugh right now. God bless. Love, Kimmi"

"I worked with Joe at the credit union and found we had a special bond. We were both born on August 5th and he never failed to remind me that I was ten years older than him. Joe was always happy, energetic and just had the type of personality that could brighten any day. I will miss him and his stories of his Mom and Char and the kids. Rest in Peace, my Leo friend. Judi wright"

"I worked with Joe just every once in awhile when he came to the ELFCU Greenfield Branch. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss."

"Charleen & Family,We can not begin to express the sympathy we feel for you and your family. We pray that each of you find the strength you need to get through this difficult time. "God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble." Psalm 46:1"

"Tom, Andy, Lisa and the rest of the Vierhile family, I know it has been a long time since I have seen any of you but I can not tell you how sad I am to hear of Joe's passing. He was a great guy and always fun to be around. As you can see by all the people that have signed this page he was loved by many, and will greatly missed. "

"Charleen:Just wanted to pass along my heartfelt sorrow for you and for your family. Some things just can't be explained or understood as being a part of God's plan, but you will get through this as I have always known you to be a strong person. Take care of yourself and give the kids a hug for me. "

"Dear Vierhile family -I am so sorry for your loss. I was a friend of Andy's at ND and since reading the news of Joe's untimely death have had a heavy heart for the loss you all must be experiencing. Please know you are in my prayers. May time bring you peace and may Notre Dame, Our Lady, who has meant so much to all of us, comfort you. With deepest sympathy,Nancy (Horas) Robinson ND '88"

"Joe was like beam of sunshine. His smile lit up the room, and he was full of life and fun from the moment I met him. He was someone that we all cherished in our "school family". I am deeply sorry for his family, friends, and all who knew him. "

"All of us at the FPA send our deepest condolences for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time."

"Char and family-Unbelieveable. My deepest sympathies and thoughts and prayers are with you. Joe was a character for the ages: quick, witty, funny, mischevious. He found humor most everywhere - even with his own foibles -a testament to his humility given that he was a smart, accomplished guy ("Mensa Man"!!).I wish you strength and peace and may the Lord be with him and with you guys.Pete"

"Uncle Joe was fun to have around. I'll always remember playing with him at the lake. "

"To all the Vierhile"

"Dear Vierhile Family,I came to know Joe during his time at Merrill Lynch as a proud and loving husband and Father. Our many conversations on Monday's centered around the weekend soccer games and family outtings. Then of course, during the Fall, N.D. games. He was a great guy! My thoughts and prayers are with you all. "

"Dear Ryan,We know we hardly even know you, but when we heard about your loss, it devastated us. We know that everybody at Creekside will be here for you with open arms and can't wait for you to get back. We miss you and are thinking of you! Can't wait to hear all your funny jokes at school!!! See you soon!!!"

"i am so sorry Ben Ryan and Josie Ben if you want to hang out some time tell me your welcome over anytime"

"I am so sorry for your loss"

"Dear Lois, Tom, Amy, Andy, Carrie, Lisa, Dave, Charleen, Ben, Ryan, Josie and all of Joe's friends,My heart reaches out to all of you at the passing of Joe from our midst. Today I pulled out the class composite picture of Joe and his classmates when I was his 4th grade teacher in Naples. Even as a 9 year-old, Joe had that warm, engaging smile and a wonderful sense of humor. The kids loved to work and play with him because Joe was fair and respectful to others. As I read through the questbook, I can see that Joe carried those wonderful traits with him into adulthood. May the special memories you have of Joe give you comfort now and in the future. God's strength and peace be with each one of you.With love and sympathy,Mary Peck"

"We little Knew that morning, that God was going to call your name. In life we loved you dearly. In death we do the same. It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone; for part of us went with you, the day God called you home. You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide; and though we can not see you, you're always by our side. Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same; but as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again. Loved and missed by your NCS class of '86 family"

"Know how much we love all of you. Joe was a wonderful man and father. You are in our hearts and in our prayers. Love, Joey, Cindy, and JoJo"

"To the Vierhile family, I was a client of Joe's both during his time at Merrill and the past couple of years with the Lilly Credit Union. I am truly shocked and saddened by the news of his passing and can only imagine how you must feel. I thoroughly enjoyed my contacts with Joe and it was easy to see that he was an exceptional person. My prayers and thoughts are with you. "

"uncle Joe was a lot of fun. We had lots of fun at mummum and pop's pool in the summer. he was a great uncle.he was also my god father."

"my uncle was so fun and funny! i love him. "

"Dear Ryan,We are really sorry about your loss. Hope all goes well and me and sammi will always be there for you. We all are thinking about you at school.Your Friends,Emily Cornelius and Sammi Shaw"

"Dear Veirhiles, I am very sorry and just wanted to tell you I am praying for you everyday. I will miss your dad/husband very much. Feel better. Love, Casey"

"You and your family will be in our prayers,Elizabeth and Matt"

"Joe is in a place where he is enveloped by the warmth of God's embrace...always and forever. Love to all of you that he loved so much. the wehlage family"

"I am sorry for your loss and for our loss. I was privilaged to work with Joe at Merrill Lynch and he was always a breath of fresh air. He will be remembered for his wit and extreme brightness. He will be missed but will always be in our hearts. May the Lord watch over your family in this difficult time."

"Char, Ben, Ryan and Josie,We love you guys very much and are keeping your entire family in our prayers. Joe is in a better place and at peace. He will always have a special place in our hearts.Love,The Kennedy's"

"Char and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find warmth in your many wonderful memories of Joe Christmas."

"I'm sorry, and I hope that you recover from your loss. We miss Ryan at school a lot. "

"I am so dearly sorry for your terrible loss. I hope your whole family recovers. We miss Ryan's presence at school."

"Vierhiles, I am praying for you every night. I'm very devastated by your loss. Many thoughts and prayers! Much Love!"

"Dear Verhiles,I just wanted to say I'm very sorry about your loss and we will keep you in our prayers. Ryan, I hope to see you soon at school and hope you all feel better!!Much Love!!!"

"Dear Vierhile family,You are all in our thoughts and prayers. You are the best."

"I first met Joe when he was at Merrill Lynch. I became a client of his shortly after our first visit. This was just the beginning of a great business realtionship and a wonderful friendship. Joe and I shared a passion for golf and snow skiing. Joe attended all of my winter "Boys to Big Sky" trips each February in Big Sky, Montana. He touched the lives of my wife Denise, and my two daughters Heather and Bonnie. Our deepest Sympathy goes out to the entire Vierhile family. We will miss our great friend."

"All our love Char. Whatever, you need, whenever you need it- we're here for you. "

"We are holding your family in our thoughts and prayers wishing you peace."

"Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family"

"You are in our thoughts and prayers. "

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"We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers. "

"We are with you in our prayers. Cousins,Theresa, Shirley, Connie, Bonnie, Sean, Julie, BrianAnd Aunt Betty Shewman"

"Dear Vierhile'sWe are very sorry for your loss. We will be keeping you in our prayers."

"Char and family,With our deepest sympathy and fondest of memories, you and your family are in our prayers. God will hold Joe and grant him peace and watch over your family.With love, the Caito's."

"Char, Ben, Ryan and Josie, We are so sorry about the passing of Joe. You are in our thoughts and we are here for you now and in the future. Our prayers are with you all."

"Char,Know that Ken, Alexandra, Madison, Avery and I will hold you and all your children close to our hearts in prayer and that as time passes we will not forget you and neither will our loving Father above.Fondly,Ken and Lisa Dawes"

"Dear Vierhile Family,You are in our thoughts and prayers. God's love will shine on you always.Much love"

"Will always remember Joe's great sense of humor and his intellect. He was always kind, thoughtful, and nice to our family. We will miss seeing him."

"We love you Char! Look forward to seeing you soon. Give the kids our love...maybe a hayride is in your future!"

"We are so sorry for your loss. Joe always made the room laugh and he will be dearly missed. "

"I am at alck for words as I am sure we all are. Please know that we are keeping you i our houghts and that we are here to lean on."

"We are thinking of you and your family."

"I cannot express what is in my heart. There are no words. Just know you are in my thought and prayers."

"I am so sorry :)"

"You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers."

"Char, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Toby and Carolyn McClarmroch."

"We were terribly shaken by the news of Joe's passing. He was a great person with a big heart. Charlene and children you are in our prayers. "

"we are very sorry for your loss...he will be missed."

"We hope that you find peace with your loss and we are praying for you and your family. If there is anything we can do for you please contact us. "

"In our prayers."

"We will remember Joe as someone who loved being around his family & kids. He always greeted us with a smile and never seemed too busy to stop and chat for a minute or two. We will miss him. Charlene, Ben, Ryan, Josie- you are in our thoughts and prayers, we hope you have all the support you need. Charlene- you and/or the children are always welcome at our place. Michael, Sharon, Hailey, Aiden, Jordan & Nathan."

"Charleen, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It seems like just yesterday we were playing hopscotch at St. Luke. My mother mentions your name from time to time so I feel like we are still just as close. My thoughts are with you and your family. "

"our thoughts and prayers are with you."

"Hey Char- lots of love to you as you try and stay strong for your children. May God wrap his arms extra tight around the four of you. I am so sorry.XOXO,Amy (O'Brien) Jackson"

"To Joe's family and friends,Although there are no perfect words at a time like this, I feel deep sorrow for your loss. I pray that God's grace will sustain you through this ordeal."When a great man dies, for years the light he leaves behind him, lies on the paths of men."- H. W. Longfellow"

"Uncle Joe was very fun and exciting person! I love him sooo much. Even though he pasted away I always know he's in a better place! "

"To the Vierhile and O'Brien families:Anne and I have known and worked with Joe the past dozen years and feel blessed that he came into our lives. His positive outlook and warmth touched us as it did for many others. We will be attending the MSU - Notre Dame game this weekend and though we will root for the Spartans (Spartan daughter and with thoughts of my recently passed MSU alumni father), we will also cheer the Irish in Joe's honor. Our prayers are with you during this difficult time.Rod and Anne Casavant "

"Ucle Joe, was my favorite uncle!I I love him! Even though he is not here , he is, in my heart!!!"

"Dear Lois, Tom, Andy, Lisa, O'Brien Family, Words cannot express my sorrow for your loss. Joe was a beautiful soul who touched so many of our hearts. I will always remember Joe as a smart, funny guy who everyone adored. I feel we were all very lucky to have known such a man."

"I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family."

"I love you so much Uncle Joe, Aunt Char, Ben, Ryan, and Josie! Uncle Joe was an amazing person and was loved by everyone who knew him, including me! If you need anything, please let me know! Once again, I love you guys sooooo much!!"

"Joe would be so proud of each and every one of you today!!! He will be with all of you always and forever, and there to watch over you all as you heal and grow.God Bless,The Ahlrichs Family"

"Our deepest sympathies to the entire family, Joe was so full of energy when he was around, we will have many fond memories of times we were able to enjoy his humor. "

"Dear Vierhile Family,I am so sorry to hear about Joe. I was good friends with Lisa growing up and would see Joe from time to time when I was at the house. He was always my favorite! My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I know he will be missed."

"Charleen,My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your children. Hugs."

"On behalf of the Notre Dame Class of 1990, we extend our heartfelt condolences to you. We will miss our brother. The Notre Dame Club of Indianapolis prayed for Joseph and his family on Wednesday, September 17th. We will also remember him at our reunions. If there is anything we can do, please let us know. Patrick J. Olmstead, Jr., on behalf of the Class of 1990. "

"My sincere apologies to all of the Vierhile family. I went through K-12 with Joe in Naples and have thought of him fondly throughout the years that followed. I hope that you will have the much needed support of friends and family throughout this painful time. Joe was a great guy and someone I will always remember. "

"God Bless Joe. He was a kind soul. He will be missed.Notre Dame, Our Mother. Tender, Strong and True. Please pray for Joe and his family. Love,Joe Donnelly - ND Class of '86 and the Donnelly Family"

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"I am very sorry for your / our loss, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Joe was a great person, I have many fond memories during his time at Notre Dame. RIP JV"

"Charleen and familyI am so sorry for your loss. I lived in Dillon Hall and was a Business major with Joe. I was always impressed with his intelligence and sense of humor. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you ."

"Dear Char and Children:We were so sorry very sorry to hear of your loss from our sister Nancy (McMurray) Davis. We do know how you must feel, having lost our Mom. Please know there are many people praying for you and your children to find comfort, strength and peace during this challenging and difficult time. From the memories listed, it sounds like Joe was a very caring person who loved people! May you feel God's comfort and love at this time and always. Take care - Sue and the McMurray Family"

"Dear Char and FamilyStruggling for words and fighting back tears. I just have so many great, funny, inspirational memories of Joe. Three years of seeing him just about every day in the hallowed halls of Dillon, and another full year of weekends when he came back to visit his future bride. He will be missed. My heart cries for all of you. Look back fondly on the good times, he is in a better place. To Ben, Ryan and Josie - You dad was awesome!"

"To the Vierhile and O'Brien families - my sincere sympathy -- I was a classmate at Naples with Joe. I saw him last summer at a gathering and we all had a great time reminiscing about all the fun and mischievous times we had. I found a picture that was taken that night and you guessed it he was smiling. He was always so kind and the life of the social events. The memories of him will always live in my heart. I will miss him as I always looked forward to talking to his mom about what he was doing and finding out about his family. Words cannot express how sorry I am. May the Lord give each of you the courage and strength to face each new day with hope and peace? You're in my prayers."

"Charleen:My heart breaks for your family. Having gone through a very similar situation a year ago with my own family. Please feel free to reach out to those around you for strength and comfort during this difficult time."

"My heart and my prayers go out to the vierhile family.As a naples girl you know alot of people in your town.joe was a few years younger, but I do remember that smile. Andy, I am so sorry you are going through this terrible time. God bless. Lauren"

"sorry to hear of the loss of Joe we went to school together my prayers go out to everyone of his family members."

"Dear Vierhile Family, The Vierhiles have been a big part of the Naples Community for years. I didn't know Joey well but if he was anything like his brother Andy, he was a great guy. Please take comfort in the knowledge that Joey will never leave your heart and will always be watching over you."

"Charleen,I think of Joe-Boy and Char-Girl and the great times we shared at Notre Dame. The two of you smiled, laughed and shared so much together. I remember Joe in the halls of Dillon riding his bike and wearing his water polo gear - a source of laughter and smiles. I will keep these memories of him always. My best to you and your beautiful children."

"Charleen, My thoughts are with you and the kids during this difficult time. Sincerely, Lisa Schmidt Poat"

"To the entire Verhile family,I am so very, very sad to hear of Joe's passing. When we were in school he played first chair sax and I, second chair. We spent a lot of time together in band and in marching band. We had some very fun times, and he was a wonderful friend. I miss him and will think of him often. My heart and prayers are with you all."

"Charlene, Ben, Ryan and Josie,We were so sorry for your loss and our sympathy goes out to all of you. We will miss seeing Joe come and go and chatting with him in the yards. We will miss poking fun at him trying to assemble a new and improved heavier trampoline that Charlene has purchased. This was becoming an annual ritual. Most of all, we'll miss seeing Joe's friendly face around the neighborhood. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. "

"To the Vierhile and O'Brien Families, My deepest condolences- I was a classmate of Joe's at Naples High School. Rejoice in all of your fond memories of Joe and know that he is home now.God Bless and keep you. Laura"

"Dearest Char, Ben, Ryan and Josie:From the entire Rahner clan - our deepest sympathies for the loss of your husband/ father, and our Cousin Joey.Joey was the easiest and sweetest kid you could ever be around. From his birth, he was a pleasure (in fairness and to be balanced, we must keep in mind that Andy was already in the picture, closest in age, and the largest comparison for Joe's easiness and sweetness, a major curve.....we also must keep in mind (from the Rahner perspective) that in those early years he had yet to be brainwashed into the Notre Dame fanatic/lunatic fringe, and therefore, was much more pleasurable for us civilized Penn State fans to be around.)Joey walked lightly on this earth. He always gave more than he took. He did this without keeping score or expecting something in return. Quick to smile and slow to anger. That is the Joey Vierhile we remember. Our Grampa Benjamin was a simple man. There was no flash to him. He had the quickest, truest smile you had ever seen, a belly chuckle laugh, all framed by twinkling eyes. He was an unbelieveable and constant kidder who had a nose to the grindstone work ethic. He never passed up an opportunity to help someone else, whether convenient or not. If greatness is measured in the number of lives touched in a meaningful way, then Grampa, although cut from simple cloth, was a great man. By that same yardstick - Joey was also a great man.We were so sorry to learn of the heaviness in Joey's world the past few years. That just doesn't seem possible to those who had known him so long. That was not Joey's true nature His was always a world of light and fun. Darkness just didn't belong. It has finally been banished. Joey will never be forgotten. He will always be remembered with the happiness that those memories unleash. May peace find you, and may your own loving memories find you whenever you need them to lighten your load - today, tomorrow, always. Your Loving Cousins,The Rahners "

"Joe always had that mischievious look in his eye and great big smile on his face. He always succeeded in making others laugh. That is how we should always remember him. Hold on tight to the precious memories we have and know that he will always be watching over every live that he touched and SMILE! He would have wanted that. Heartfelt sympathy to all in this difficult time. "

"Our hearts are filled with sadness for your loss. Joe was a wonderful person and always made us laugh. You are in our prayers. "

"To all the Vierhile family It has been many years since I have seen or spoken to any of your family. Hearing of Joe's passing brings many memories of high school, both of Joe and his father. God bless you all and comfort you in this time of sorry."

"Charleen,Ben,Ryan & Josie, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time.Please know that Joe lives on in the memories of the many people he touched.God bless and be with you always"

"Thank you to all who sent along thier kind words in this very difficult time. Your rememberances have brought real comfort. Thank you to all who waited in the long line at the funeral home to share your memories of Joe with us. Thank you to all who attended Joe's funeral with us. Joe is physically gone--his spirit will never be buried. All of us are given a lifetime to make this world a better place than it would have been without us. It only took Joe Vierhile forty years to accomplish this. May you rest in peace my brother--until we meet again. "

"No words can express how sorry I am to hear of your loss. I have many memories of Joe and the family when we were all growing up in Naples. Those happy memories will always remain with us. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless."

"I am so sorry for your loss. I went to ND with Joe and was shocked and saddened to read of his passing. He was a kind, funny, intelligent guy who clearly grew into a wonderful family man. Your family will remain in my prayers."

"I remember the laughter and smile Joe always carried with him. He always made people laugh in school. His humor was infectious! His family is in our prayers. May God give you all comfort in knowing he is now Home. Andy there are no words that can provide you comfort during this terrible time...please find strength in Him and know that you are in my prayers."

"Dear Andy, Carrie and family:We are very saddened by your loss. It is very clear that Joe was a wonderful man and held a special place in many people's hearts. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Take care and God Bless...Jackie and Kevin Carges & family " When the storm clouds gather "

"Char and Family,We are so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed the time I spent together with Joe in Dillon Hall and in our finance classes. Those are fond memories. Joe and your entire family will be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless."

"Char, Ben, Ryan, and Josie, I am incredibly sorry about your husband and father. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this time of loss. There are no words to describe the agony in my heart. Joe was a wonderful man, full of laughter and love. Hold on to the memories of Joe; know that he is watching over you all. We will all miss him. God be with you and may He calm your troubled hearts. Sincerely,"

"Joe and I were freshmen roommates at ND. I believe he was the first associate outside of CA and I was possibly his first associate outside upstate NY. We opened each others' eyes. That year, we engineered our loft, shared our single computer, joisted over Letterman vs. Carson, and battled vigorously over music tastes. In the end, we compromised. I look fondly on these years. Joe was incredibly level-headed and always maintained sound judgment. He added to our planet and my life. "

"I am so sorry. Joe always put a smile on my face at school. He was also very sweet. My heart sincerely goes out to Joe and your family."

"My thoughts and prayers are with the Vierhile family, both in Indianapolis and NY. Joe was a great friend to me growing up, and I am grateful to have connected with him regularly through the years. There is a lot to miss about Joe, but for me he represented positivity, humor, and true friendship. I know from reading this message board that he touched people everywhere he went, and that he will be warmly remembered by all. I'll miss you Joe - glad I had the chance to call you my friend.Josh Sarkis"

"Charleen,I'm so shocked and saddened to hear of your loss. I often think about our days at Saint Mary's. You and Joe were always laughing and making those around you laugh along. As a mother of three myself I can only begin to imagine how you are feeling right now. May your love of family (and loving family), faith in God and the knowledge that you are in the prayers of many help you through this awful time.with my deepest sympathy, prayers and best wishes,Jane"

"Charleen and Family,I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your husband. I am glad I was able to meet him one time when we were all living out in Southern California. I remember him being so funny and nice and a perfect match for you.Our warmest thoughts are with you in this most difficult time. May you find strength in your faith, family and friends to get you through this. We are thinking of you and your family."

"I was deeply saddened to hear about this tremendous loss. I was fortnuate enough to work with Joe at Merrill Lynch during an internship in college. During the time that I spent with Joe, I learned a great deal from him about the business world and he was a wonderful mentor. He spoke glowingly about his family and I have no doubt that he will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.Mike Albright"

"Char & Kids,We are truly heartbroken for your loss. You all are in our prayers and thoughts daily."

"I'm am so sorry for your loss. I remember a lot of great times with Joe when we were little kids. We went our seperate ways, but the memories haven't. You're family will be in my family's thoughts and prayers. "

"Dear Vierhile and O'Brien Families:We are saddened to learn of Joe's passing. Please know that we will have Joe and your families in our prayers.With deepest sympathy,Pat (ND "89), Karen (ND '90), Lilianna and Leah Larsen"

"i don't know him in person but i was touched by his age so i felt to say my condolence to his family and May God give them the heart to bear the lost of their loved onerichard"