In loving memory of

Shelby Evans
December 31, 1969 - December 31, 1969

Shelby Leigh Evans, 21, passed away June 7, 2009. Shelby was born April 29, 1988 to Lisa and Carl Evans in Carmel, Indiana. She had just completed her sophomore year at DePauw University in Greencastle, Indiana. She was a graduate of Carmel High School and a member of Carmel High School Ambassadors Show Choir.
While at DePauw, she was a member of Pi Beta Phi Sorority, Assistant to the Academic Chair, member of the Advisory Board for the Wellness Center, mentor for first year students, and tour guide for the Office of Administration. Elected by her peers at DePauw, Shelby was a Representative of Management Fellows for the Student Council. Shelby was a passionate, kind, selfless person with ambitious academic goals and a strong faith.
Survivors include her parents Lisa (Emmert) and Carleton Evans; sister, Lizzie Evans; maternal grandparents, Amor and Mary Emmert; paternal grandparents, James and Rosemary Evans.
Visitation will be held Wednesday, June 10, from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at E. 91st Street Christian Church, 6049 E. 91st Street, Indianapolis. The funeral service will take place Thursday, June 11, at 11:00 a.m. at the church. Contributions can be made to the Intervarsity Christian Fellowship in memory of Shelby Evans, PO Box 7895, Madison, WI 53707.
Please visit www.leppertmortuary.com, where you can sign the guestbook or leave a personal message for the family.

Tributes

Paige Rittgers wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I always enjoyed seeing your smiling face on campus and you will be missed dearly."

Anthony Navarrete wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby, from serving on the Wellness Center Advisory Board with you and always seeing your bright smiling face around campus-- you always lightened up my day by your sweet hello and beautiful smile. You will never be forgotten. Rest in Peace my friend. I will miss you. * My Deepest Sympathies to Shelby's family. * *She was a great person and will be missed by all. * "

Dina Hermina wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby,I remember you from highschool and I will never forget your hair. You were truly a great person and it is so sad that you had to go like this. I know you are in a better place looking down upon everyone here, esp your family. You were a very nice person and I am sure that God will reward you for the many things you have accomplished in your life. My condolences go out to your family. You are in a much better place now. Dina"

Sarah Harbison wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"My thoughts and prayers go out to the Evans family. We all were truly blessed to have know Shelby. May God bless her."

Becca Dray wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Look at how beautiful you are--inside and out. You will light up the heavens with your smile. Love you baby girl, always and always."

Jill Petruzzi wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I always loved when Shelby would come workout with us ladies. Her smile and positive spirit was contagious. My heart is broken for your loss and I will continue to keep your family in my prayers. "

Don and Janice Kosten wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"How beautiful Shelby is! How she must grace the Kingdom!!!! We serve a big God who knew how her presence would gift your lives, and now she is required elsewhere. How precious was the time you had her! How precious those memories! She is whole with Him! We will pray that His comfort and love will sustain you until you join her...a most joyous day! In His love, John 14"

Lillian Beyer wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby - I knew you when you were a little girl running around the neighborhood - hair flying - lauging with my kids. You were beautiful then - and you will always be beautiful. Carl, LIsa, & Lizzie - I'm so very sorry. There are no words that can make any sense of these things. Just know that we are all thinking of you. You will be in our prayers. Lillian - Herb - Ray - LaRae Didier"

Marjorie Nyhart wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Please express my condolences on the loss of Shelby. She was a kind girl that was only welcoming from the day I met her freshmen year. I only knew her for a short couple of years, but she was someone I knew that lived life to the fullest. Her presence will be greatly missed at DePauw and in all of our lives. Sincerely, Marjorie Nyhart"

Sandy Smith wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Lisa, Carl and Lizzie,Please accept my deepest heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I know Shelby will be dearly missed by your family but also missed by the many lives she touched on a daily basis. I will miss her dearly. Shelby is holding hands with Jesus and looking down upon you. Her memory will be forever in your hearts. May God hold you all close during this very difficult time. Hugs to all of you.In deepest sympathy,"

Mark Smith wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Carl, Lisa and Lizzie,What a blessing it was in my life to know Shelby as a student at Clay. Her zest for life is a memory that will live forever. In these difficult days may you find comfort from our eternal Father , a peace that passes all understanding and refuge in the memory of the many lives Shelby touched in such a positive way. Please know that you are in my prayers. "

Liz Roller wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dearest Shelby,From our days at Carmel to the two years we shared together at DePauw you graced me with your kindness, beauty, and optimism. You were so intelligent and accomplished so much in the short 21 years you were with us. You are truely unforgettable. I miss you. "

julie and don truetken wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Our prayers and hearts go out to Shelby and her family.God Bless!"

Katy Cannady wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Evan's Family.I am in utter shock to hear about Shelby! I can't even imagine the pain your family is feeling. I just wanted to share my deepest sympathy with you and let you know that you are forever in my thoughts and prayers! Shelby joins all the angels in heaven now... she is so beautiful and I know she will forever shine down on all of you here on earth! Lizzie, I remember you at my mom's services... the part that is so strange is it is still just a fog... PLEASE, don't hesitate to let me know if I can do ANYTHING to help you or your family out. Again, I am so sorry for the loss of Shelby... she is in eternal PEACE! God bless."

Mary C Roberson wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"To the Evans family,My heart is broken for your loss. I knew Shelby only for one semester as she was in my Spanish class. I remember her bright smile and beautiful, perfect curls! She was always full of life and brought vibrance to the classroom. I know the pain you feel is great but know that she is safe and protected in the arms of our Father. She is looking down on you all and smiling, waiting patiently until you are all reunited. You are in my thoughts and prayers."

Faith Mullins wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I am sincerely sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers. "

Greg, Tanna Hanger and family wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Lisa, Carl, and Lizzie,We cannot even find the words to express how deeply sorry we are about the loss of our beautiful and loving Shelby. There are so many things to remember, appreciate, and love about Shelby that we will carry with us in the days, months and years to come. I still remember like it was yesterday being able to share in her Pi Phi initiation. Now more than ever, I'm so glad I was able to share that day with Lisa and Shelby. I can still picture us eating lunch together. We will never forget her beautiful hair and her touching smile and personality. We will hold each one of you up in prayer this week. We love you all...the Hanger family."

Beth Helm wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl, Lisa and Lizzie,I am deeply sorry for your tremendous loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.Beth Helm"

Bryan Dental Group wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Please accept our condolences and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Rick Gilmer, John Bommer, Stan Tipton, Carl Chaney and Staff."

Clovernook Health Care Pavilion / Tami Frisk wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Please accept our deepest sympathies on your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time!"

Larry Mc bride wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Carl and Lizzie.When Tom Svenstrup called and told me about the loss of your daughter I was in shock.My heart goes out to you and your family.I never met her but I understand she was a truly wonderful daughter with the world ahead of her.I will keep her in my prayers."

Nikki Guhl wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl & Family,I just got the pleasure of meeting Shelby these last few weeks here at the office. I will always remember her beautiful smile. She would light up the office when she walked around. She will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you."

James Svenstrup wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl and Family,I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go to you."

The Kanne Family wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Lisa, Carl, and LizzieOur thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. We cannot imagine life without our children, but Shelby is in a special place. She will be missed by all who knew her.Caren, Roger, Bryan and Patrick Kanne"

Herman and Sharon Renfro wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Lisa, Carl and Lizzie,We were so saddened to hear about the loss of your sweet Shelby. I have so many memories of her smiling face and curly hair running around the house with Emily. There are no words to express the sorrow we feel for your family during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Emily is in Spain for the summer, but we will pass this sad news on to her. Shelby will be missed by many."

LaRae Didier wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl, Lisa, and Lizzie,I am so sorry for your loss. Shelby was an amazing person and we are all so lucky to have known her. I remember playing after school with her in elementary school and night games as well. She was always fun to be around. We are thinking and praying for you all. She will never ben forgotten."

Amy Linville wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby, I remember you from working with you at your uncle's office and I speak for all of us there when I say we were all truly blessed to have known you. You always had such a great spirit and were an absolute joy to be around. My heart goes out to your family. Amy Linville"

Sharon Casamo wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Lisa, Carl, and Lizzie, Shelby was a childhood friend of my children Jillian and Michael. I will never forget her smile, that beautiful hair and her spirit !! She left quite an impression on those who were fortunate enough to have known her. My heart aches for you and your family and I hope the beautiful memories of Shelby will keep you strong during this very difficult time. Sharon Casamo"

Amy VanLandingham wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Carl, Lisa, and Lizzie,Darin and I are so sorry for the loss of your precious Shelby. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Shelby was a blessing to our family when Abby and Alex were young--a radiant beam of light and an example of a beautiful, intelligent young woman. I'm certain heaven is a brighter place this morning because of her presence there. May God be with you all. "

Betsy Laskey wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I had the honor of participating in the Pi Beta Phi initiation ceremony this year and was fortunate to spend the day with Shelby. She was a beautiful, talented young woman and will be deeply missed by her Pi Phi sisters and by her many friends. Our family is praying for you all.The Laskeys...Tom, Betsy, Jack, Hannah and Peter "

Maryette Harms wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"What a privelage it was to know Shelby. She was a volunteer intern for us last summer at republican headquarters. She was a wonderful ambitious girl who was blessed with beauty inside and out. Our prayers for your peace in your forever home are with you Shelby. God bless you."

Steve and Mary Page wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl, Lisa, and Lizzie, We are so saddened by your loss. Shelby was a beautiful young lady, inside and out. She was such a delight to see around the neighborhood as she grew up. Kevin and Christian recalled many fond memories of playing with Shelby. We will always miss her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. If you need anything at all, please do not hesitate to call upon us."

Emma Lanham wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby had a unique way of touching everyone she met. She gave off an hora of strength and brilliance. This will not be forgotten. I feel blessed to have spent time with her.Lots of love,Emma"

Laura Halley wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby, you are one of the most kind, generous, smartest, prettiest, and most amazing girls I have truly ever met in my life. I am heart broken over the loss of you and I send all my deepest sympathy to you and your family. You will be forever in my thoughts and prayers and the memories that I have with you will never fade. Love and miss you forever."

Herb Didier III wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I remember having so much fun years ago playing day and night games with Shelby, Lizzie and other kids on the street. I haven't seen you in a while but will alway remember your smile, laugh, happy face and curly hair. To the Evans family; you are in my thoughts and prayers. It's still hard to believe something like this can happen to a bright person so young. God bless you all!"

Linda and Bob Nourse wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl, Lisa, and Lizzie - We are so saddened for for your loss. We still remember the friendly little girl next door. Her smile, enthusiam and joyfulness were wonderful. Our hearts ache for each of you."

the Pettigrews wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Our thoughts, prayers and offers to help are with you and your family. We thought so highly of Shelby and your family."

Gary and Kathy Major wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl, Lisa and Lizzie,I was shocked to read the paper this morning and see Shelby there. I remember seeing her 21 years ago when she was just a baby and I would see you out with her I would always want to touch her soft beautiful curls.She is in a beautiful place waiting for all of you who love and trust the Lord! Your Long Time Neighbors,The Major Family~Gary, Kathy, Brooke and Brandy"

Gretchen Person wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"My deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with your family. Sincerely, Gretchen"

Betsy, Richard , Emily , Ally and Adam Delks wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"It is so difficult to come up with words to express our deepest sympathy for your loss. Becky has always bragged about how wonderful Shelby and Lizzie are! She was a real blessing from God!! Memories of her will go on forever and will be cherished by anyone that was fortunate to have known her!Our love to you and your family, The Delks Family"

Sarah Heck wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I met Shelby through mentoring and she was truly a wonderful girl. She was incredibly ambitious, a hard-worker, always had a smile on her face, and was such a great easy-going person to be around. She will definitely be missed and my condolences go out to her family."

Doug & Elizabeth Sheets wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I had the pleasure of getting to know Shelby while she worked in our office the past few weeks - she was a joy to be around and eager to learn. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I am so sad for your loss. Shelby will be missed dearly. "

Christine DiGangi wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby -- you were one of the only girls I knew when we joined Pi Phi last year, and I was thrilled to show up on bid day to see at least one familiar face. Always smiling and ready to start a conversation, you were a great person to have around. I'll never forget all the funny things you'd say, your enthusiasm, and all your bright ideas. It was wonderful being on exec with you, and I'll miss you around the house, next year and always. You're a true angel, Shelbs. I wish I could be there today with you and all our sisters.TTF"

Mary-Therese Schmidt wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby's memory will forever inspire others. Her presence added a passion, a strength, a kindness, and a wit to any situation or person she happened to touch. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Evans family. Shelby will always stand as one of Pi Phi's greatest and most influential role models."

Patrick Legendre wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I only knew Shelby in passing at DePauw University but I knew that she was a very influential person on our campus. I believe that since I didn't even know her personally but still knew how she impacted our campus speaks to the joy and spirit she brought to DePauw. My condolences go out to her parents and family."

Angela Davis wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl, Lisa, and Lizzie, My deepest condolences. Shelby was a joy and such a glowing beam of light growing up. I truly believe God has a plan for us all. All my love and prays are with you. "

Cathy Patane wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Evans Family,Shelby was an amazing person who will be missed. I remember teaching both Evans girls and enjoying every minute that they were at Clay Junior High. Although her time on earth was cut way too short, she's made a tremendous impact on those she left behind. You are in my thoughts and prayers."

Cassie Abraham wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby,You made such an amazing impact on each and every person's life that you touched, you will be deeply missed. To Shelby's Family, you are in all of our thoughts and prayers. "

Stan, Janie, Richard Naraine and Leigh N.Pylman wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Carl, Lisa, and Lizzie,Our deepest sympathies to your family at this most difficult time.May God's loving arms surround you and His peace comfort and guide you in the days ahead."

Ralph Garcia wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I met Shelby in the mentor program and I'm very blessed for having known her. She was such a wonderful, beautiful, intelligent, talented person and she will be missed so much by so many people. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family, friends, and everyone who has ever met this amazing Angel."

Gary Lemon wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby was a wonderful person. She made numerous contributions to DePauw during her short time on campus. I will always remember her smile. I will miss her."

Sara Spence wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby, You were such an amazing person. You have changed me so much in how I think and believe in myself. When you baby-sat me back when I was little you taught me to never be afraid and that what ever happens happens for a reason. You have influenced me because when ever I saw you you were always smiling and that made me smile because I thought that there was never a reason not to be happy. You lived an amazing life and now you are watching over us with that same smile that has changed so many of us. I will miss you so much and you will always and forever be in my thoughts and prayers. Sara Spence"

Mindy Choate wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"My deepest sorrow soars to the family and friends of this young lady. It is very obvious that she has touched so many lives in the short time that she blessed this earth with her presence. My hopes go to the family to heal from this pain and sadness and know that you did such an impecable duty for God by creating such a beautiful angel. God Bless"

Rob and Vicki Apatoff wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Evans Family-Although we only got to see Shelby a few times on our visits to DePauw, we could never forget her beautiful smile and outgoing personality. She was such a dear friend to Claire and one of her favorite Pi Phi sisters. She will be sorely missed by all and our hearts and prayers go out to you at this very difficult time. "

Margaret Musgrave wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I knew Shelby when we came in as Management Fellows together, and in our econ classes. While I didn't know her as well as I would have liked, she always made a point of saying hello whenever we saw each other. This only goes to show how wonderful Shelby was to everyone. Shelby was such a kind, strong, natural leader, and she will be missed terribly. My condolences to the Evans family. "

Susan Hansen wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"LIsa and Family: I am so stunned and saddened to hear about your loss. I never met Shelby, but knowing LIsa, I am sure she was a very special young woman. My deepest sympathy to all of you."

Emily Renfro wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Carl, Lisa and Lizzie,I was shocked to hear about Shelby, I'm so sorry. When I look at her picture a flood of childhood memories come to mind, playing and growing up with Shelby, she was so fun and sweet and the first best friend I ever had. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.-Emily Renfro"

Jo Trakimas wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"In the late spring of 2008 Shelby and I had lunch together to catch up on her first year at DePauw. We talked in depth about all the years we spent together becoming friends, and not just as a student with her voice teacher. Although she loved her music and sang with such a lovely voice, she knew her greatest gift was in reaching people to try to make a positive impact on their lives. Shelby knew who she was; she knew what she wanted her life to be like. Her goals were high. I frequently would remind her what a classy lady she was. Her demeanor, her intelligence, her sincerity and her warmth define her essence. The genuine sweetness and caring that she truly felt for others leaves all of us with such a strong positive role model. My love for Shelby runs deep and I have so many precious memories of her. I am shocked and grieved beyond words at her passing. It will take a very long time for all of us who love her to adjust to this loss. But we will not, can not, forget her. She was in our lives so briefly but so purposely. My own life has been immensely enriched by having Shelby as a dear and honored friend. Thank you, Lisa, Carl and Lizzie for sharing her for so long with me. Bill and I extend our deepest sympathies to you as you adjust to this unbelievable loss. All my love, Jo "

Brittany McCullar wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby was such a welcoming, sweet person. I got to know her this past semester, and I enjoyed the times I spoke with her. She was really helpful when I missed class because of sickness. It was a terrible shock to hear this news. I'm thankful I got the chance to see her and say hi to her just a few days ago. Rest in peace, Shelby. "

Alejandro Puga wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I am heartbroken as I write this, but I at the same time I feel so privileged to have known Shelby and to have had her as a student. She was a delightful, caring and talented individual. I will miss her winning smile. I am at the service of the Evans family, and I just want them to know that even though I knew her briefly, I remember her fondly."

Colton Krueger wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I knew Shelby only briefly, but her warm personality and strong work ethic was admirable and is something we should all try to imitate."

Ed Evans wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carleton, Lisa and Lizzie - Uncle James just called me tonight with this devastating news. I am almost without words to express my sorrow at Shelby's passing, and I want you to know that the family here in South Carolina are thinking of you, praying for you, and we wish you peace.If we can do anything please let us know.ED"

Jeffrey S. Smith wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl and Lisa:I was sadden by the news of your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. There is nothing we can say that can lighten the heavy hearts you are carrying, Please accept my deepest sympathy.Jeffrey S. Smith & Brinkley"

Jenny Miles wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Evans Family,My fondest memories of Shelby had to be the two years in the Accents choir together. I had the true honor of being an officer of the choir with her. And even though she was only a grade below me, I always felt like she was so wise beyond her years. She knew how tough high school was for me, and she was always there to make me laugh hysterically (without even trying I might add!) Shelby, you were so beautiful and talented in many ways, not to mention your dedication to helping others is something that nobody will ever forget. Heaven has gained a real treasure of an angel. Shelby will be truly missed. I can only begin to hope and pray for your family as you go through this terrible tragedy. There are so many people pulling for your healing. My thoughts and prayers are with you. "

Kevin & Cindy Williams wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl and family,Our hearts and prayers go out to you in this difficult time. Please accept our heartfelt condolences.Kevin & Cindy"

Cortney Steinborn wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Although I only knew Shelby for 9 short months, I feel truly blessed to have known her. I transferred in to DePauw this past year, and she was nothing but kind to me even before I was a Pi Phi. She had such a welcoming presence and always lit up the room with her beautiful smile and curly hair. I will never forget all of the great times and memories that I shared with Shelby this past year. She will be deeply missed, but I know that she will watch over her Pi Phi sisters as our true guardian angel.TTF Shelby, I miss you.Love, Cortney"

Angela To wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Even though I only got to know you for a few months, from the first time I met you, I could tell you were one of the sweetest, most genuine person I would ever get to meet. I couldn't help but have this great big smile and warm feeling every time I got to see you. Your spirit will remain in our minds and hearts forever and I know you're looking down on us right now through this tough time, with that great big beautiful smile of yours, reminding us that everything will be all right.Love you and miss youAngela "

Caity Gilday wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Mr. and Mrs. Evans & Lizzie,You raised such an amazing woman. Shelby was one of the most talented and successful people I have ever known. I consider myself very lucky to have had her in my life. She was my locker buddy in sixth grade and introduced me to chocolate cream oreos, along with so many other great memories. You will be in my thoughts and prayers forever. Stay strong and God Bless."

Julie and Tracy Peters wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I had a chance to spend some time with Shelby and our daughter Grace Tober at Pi Phi over mother's weekend in February. She was such an impressive girl--self-directed, focused, and friendly. I will remember the unusual confidence that she displayed for her age, her bright shining eyes, and the friendship that she and Grace shared. The entire DePauw community shares in your grief. Our family's thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter."

Alex Schulze wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby, your infectious personality and kind heart will forever be missed. I am truly lucky to have met you Shelby, you are beautiful inside and out. "

Bill and Jennifer Kiesel wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl, Lisa, and Lizzie, We are in Fl on our annual scuba trip and recd an email today with the news of Shelby's death. We are both shaken and sadden beyond explanation. We have prayed and are praying for you and your extended family and her friends. Bill spoke so highly of all the young ladies that were at the graduation get together. Know that God is holding all of you in his embrace and Shelby is safe in his arms too. Bill and Jennifer Kiesel"

Raymonda Burgman wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I would like to send my deepest sympathies during your time of loss.Shelby was truly special to me. She will be missed at DePauw because she gave me more than I would ever expect from any student. That smile and deep commitment to whatever she was doing demonstrated how everyone should endeavor to live their life. "

Gloria DeLong wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Lisa and family,Your loss is indeed the saddest. My thoughts and prayers are with you in mind.Gloria DeLong"

Margo Fritz wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"So very sorry for your loss. I remember the times she visited our home with Alissa. Shelby always impressed me with her strength in knowing who she was and what she stood for. My prayers are with you, Margo"

Todd and Michele Grace wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Evans Family,We were lucky enough to have been touched by Shelby's spirit and enthusiasm for life while she was at Clay. She had such an impact on all those around her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.Todd and Michele Grace"

Johnny Buchta wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby had a unique ability to light up a room the second she entered it. I'll always remember her smiling face. My deepest sympathy to the Evans family, you will be in my thoughts and prayers. "

Nikki Davis wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Deepest sympathies to your family. You are in our prayers. The DePauw Pi Beta Phi family runs very deep, and we all mourn your loss.Yours in wine and blue,Nikki DavisEvansville, IN Pi Beta Phi Alumnae Club PresidentDePauw Class of 2000"

Janet (McGinley) Smith wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I'm so very sorry to hear of your daughter's passing. I cannot imagine your pain. My thoughts are with you during this very difficult time."

Kelli Martin and Family wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"My family and I were shocked and saddened with the news of Shelby's passing. I have a lot of fun memories with her ranging from elementary school Christmas parties to being on GKOM Council and having classes with her senior year at Carmel. You raised a truly remarkable woman! Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. See you later, Shelby."

Darlene McCormcik wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl - I am so very sorry to learn about the passing of your daughter. I have read through others comments and she must have been a tremendous person. I am sure your grief is great and my prayers are with you.Dar"

Melissa Jenkins wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl,My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this time. God bless."

Caton Bredar wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby was and will continue to be, for all who knew her, a true role model and inspiration. As an officer of Pi Beta Phi, I had the honor of working with Shelby for the past six months as she served as VP of Member Development. Shelby took her position very seriously and constantly worked to help others and to serve as a positive example. In her regular communications, she was a bright, ambitious and caring soul who conveyed her enthusiasm for academics and college life, and her true concern and love for her fellow students with every correspondence. I am so very sorry for her loss and know how much she is already missed."

Henry and Terri Enno wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Carl, Lisa and LizzieHenry and I just heard about Shelby and we are absolutely heartbroken. we always loved getting to hear Shelby and Lizzie stories whenever we met on the Merrill Lynch trips and your pride and joy in the girls was always so obvious. Know that we are thinking of you constantly and praying for you all. It always sounded like Shelby had already accomplished so much in her young life, what a joy she was!. We love you both and miss you. Henry and Terri Enno"

Kathie & Bob Barclay wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Lisa, Carl & LIzzie,We still can't believe the tragic news about Shelby and can only imagine the depth of your grief. Our hearts and prayers are with you on this very sad day.Love, Kathie & Bob"

Kim Hairston wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I was so shocked to read of the loss of your beautiful Shelby. I had the wonderful pleasure of doing a photo shoot with her when she was younger. I am truly sorry for your loss and hope you feel comfort in knowing that she is home and safe with the Lord."

Alan and Kris Harris Amy's parent's wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"We are so saddened to hear of your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathies during this difficult time. We still remember her smiling face when we met after Lizzie's graduation at your lake house. Our thoughts are with you."

Janis Agee and Family wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Lisa and family, We were all so saddened to hear of Shelby's death. Mitch reminded me of our times at the swimmeets at Smokey Row pool. What a wonderful lady she had turned out to be and what joy they are experiencing in heaven at her arrival. Our prayers are with your family . May your memories comfort you, The Agees"

Billy, Runelle, Gerran and Sarah Weeks wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times. "

Becky Horwitz wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I am still in shock and cannot believe that you are gone. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. "

Cari and Rick Kiovsky wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dearest Carlton and family,We were so saddened to see in the newspaper of the loss of your daughter Shelby. We can't begin to know what you are feeling. Losing a child is one of the most painful things life can bring. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God wrap His loving arms around you and hold you tightly during this time.Your friends,Rick and Cari"

Suzanne Kriz, Pi Beta Phi Regional Officer wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"My prayers go out to the Evans family at this time of great sadness. Your daughter will be missed. "

Julie Kallas wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I was so sad to hear that Shelby had passed away. Pi Phi really will not be the same without her. Her quirky sense of humor always left me with a big smile on my face.Shelby, you know how much we all love and miss you. My life was made better because of your presence in it, and I know I'm not alone in feeling that way. I'll be praying for you always. TTF."

Cara Sutcliffe wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"In my work as an officer of Pi Beta Phi, I regularly heard from Shelby and the other officers at DePauw. Shelby truly stood out. I never had the chance to meet her in person, but my fellow alumnae who did universally described her as sweet AND very dedicated to the chapter and campus. I'm very sorry for her loss."

Tom, Susan, Tom, Brad and Matt Hughes wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl, Lisa and Lizzie - Words cannot express the heartache we feel and have for your family. Shelby left us way before any of us were ready to say good-bye but she gave us memories to beautiful to forget. Hold tight to your memories for comfort and remember to lean on your friends and family for strength and know God is lovingly carrying your family through this unimaginable time. Each tear we have shed is our love rising up to Shelby in heaven. When we see the rays of sunshine shining through the clouds we will know Shelby is up in heaven smiling that contagious smile down on all of us. I, like Shelby's friend from DePauw, have a divine intervention story about Shelby. I was looking out my kitchen window in total disbelief with pain and sorrow in my heart thinking about Shelby. I said to God as I was looking out my kitchen window at my flowers, if I see a hummingbird today I will know Shelby is happy and safe in heaven. About 7 minutes later I saw a hummingbird, only for a second, in my garden. I knew Shelby was with God and she was happy. I haven't seen the hummingbird since but everytime I do I know it is Shelby coming to let all of us know she is fine. We will miss her so much. She was a remarkable young woman we should all strive to be like. She accomplished more in her short 21 years than most of us do in a lifetime. We love you and are here for you."

Greer Horne LDC Pi Beta Phi wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Evans Family,During my two visits to the Pi Phi chapter at DePauw University, I met with Shelby. Although I didn't know her well she had a smile and personality that lit up the room. I know she was a wonderful young lady and well loved by all those around her; I really enjoyed my time with her. My heart and prayers go out to each of you at this time. With my deepest sympathy,Greer Horne"

Carey & Tom Jones wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl, Lisa & Lizzie,We are devestated to hear about Shelby. We have such fond memories of your family from our Dallas Lane days.You are in our thoughts and prayers.Carey & Tom"

Lucy and Ron Dallas wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Lisa, Carl, and Lizzie,It is evident by the outporing of love in these messages that Shelby touched many lives with her spirit and her joy of living. I remember her smiling face at Laurie and Mike's leading Kevin around by his nose, always off on a new adventure. She lit up a room, even as a child, and she continued to do so all through her life. Your loss is incomprehensible, but I hope that someday the knowledge of how many lives Shelby enriched will offer you some consolation. Lucy and Ron DallasI"

Kali Geldis wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"When I first met Shelby during mentor training, I was amazed by her positive energy and outlook on life. She was someone who understood how wonderful life could be and I'm confident that in her short time with us, she instilled that worldview on everyone she knew and everyone who knew her. Her impact on this world has been tremendous and she will be missed by all. My deepest condolences to the Evans family and all of her Pi Phi sisters as well. An angel couldn't more perfectly describe Shelby."

Raymond Didier wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Have not seen you for quite some time, but i will always cherish those memories growing up playing arounf the neighborhood. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless"

Milton and Lynn Cuppy wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl,My family and I were devastated when Danielle called me about Shelby. Although I had never met Shelby, Lisa and Lizzie, I knew they all were very special from what you have said to me about your family. In watching the pictures on the screen at the church, I saw what a wonderful times you had and all of the wonderful and dear pictures of them thru their growing up which will be cherished thru your lives. My heart aches for you and your family and our hearts and prayers with you always. Milt, Lynn, Bron and Brad Cuppy "

Linda Krontiris wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Lisa,Shelby had a gift of making other people feel special with just a smile. Her beauty, warmth and that twinkle in her eye is what made her 'the pretty girl with curly hair'. But it was not what was outside, but the immense beauty inside that could not be contained and radiated out that affected everyone she met.May we all sit outside this summer at night, find the brightest star, and think of Shelby and offer up a pray for your family so that you can understand the reason why God took her so young. No family should feel your pain, but we must believe there is a plan for all of this.May everyone's prayers help you through this horrible time in your lives. "

Tonya Spore wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl, I am so sorry for your unimaginable loss. You will be in my prayers."

Rosemary and Rod Passarelli wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Lisa, Carl, and Lizzie,I am so sorry we were not in town to personally offer our support and love at this time. Rod and I are deeply saddened and shocked by the tragic and sudden loss of your beautiful Shelby. No words can ease your pain but have faith that Shelby is in a good place where her beautiful face and sunny outlook illuminate the heavens. I remember her so well from Mohawk Trails where she outshined everybody - always happy, always smiling, always animated and talking as she'd move throughout the halls and classrooms with those beautiful curls bouncing. She grew into a beautiful young woman reflecting back to all the love of the wonderful family she came from. She was a gift to all who knew her. Our prayers are for Shelby and for the three of you that God may keep all of you in his safekeeping."

Kim Ayers wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"On behalf of the VA Epsilon Chapter of Pi Beta Phi (University of Virginia), we send our thoughts and prayers to Shelby's family and Pi Phi sisters. Reading the other entries on this guestbook make it clear what a special person she was and how much she will be missed.Kim Ayers, President"

Kacey Curry wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Evans family-My thoughts and prayers are with your family through this unimaginable loss. Shelby was a schoolmate of mine from 2nd through 12th grade. She made a lasting impression on everyone whose life she touched. She is no doubt shining down upon us from Heaven."

John Marske wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carl & Family,I didn't know your daughter, but I have been touched by the outpour of love from those who did know her, and those who will always be thankful for her touching their lives. My deepest sympathies."

Pi Beta Phi Virginia Zeta Chapter wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I want to send my sympathy to the family and friends of my Pi Phi sister. Though I did not know her, know that I am very sorry and you are in my prayers.Pi Phi Love,A sister at Virginia Zeta"

Pi Beta Phi North Carolina Delta Chapter wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Our chapter wants to send our condolenses and sympathy due to this tragedy. We are very sorry for your loss and we are keeping you in our prayers.Pi Phi Love"

VA Gamma Pi Beta Phi wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"You, your family and friends and your chapter are in our thoughts and prayers. From our sisters to yours, VA Gamma sends our deepest condolences. In Wine and Silver Blue,Juliette Jordan and the VA Gamma Chapter of Pi Beta Phi"

Annie Adams Hamilton wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Thoughts and prayers from the Ball State University chapter of Pi Beta Phi.Yours in wine and blue,Annie Adams HamiltonBall State University, Pi Beta Phi Chapter Advisor"

NC Gamma, Pi Beta Phi, Wake Forest University wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"The ladies of NC Gamma send their thoughts and prayers to your family during this difficult time. "

Melody Hamilton wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Lisa and Family,I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Although I have never met Shelby, I got to know a lot about her through Lisa. I could tell you were very proud of her Lisa. She was very much loved by many and I sure will be missed. May God bless her."

GA Alpha Chapter of Pi Beta Phi wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Our deepest sympanthies to Shelby's family and friends. You are truly an angel! Pi Phi Love, The Georgia Alpha Chapter of Pi Beta Phi"

FL Epsilon Chapter of Pi Beta Phi wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"On behalf of the Florida Epsilon Chapter of Pi Beta Phi, we send our dearest condolences and best wishes to the Evans family. Like any Pi Phi near or far we all share a special bond and in times like these we can truly understand the depth of our sisterhood. We are very sorry for your loss and offer our greatest support in wine and silver blue."

Lynda and Don Dumoulin & family wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Lisa, Carl and Lizzie,Please know that our prayers are with you during this difficult time. We have been out of the country, or we would certainly have come personally to express our deepest sympathy. Shelby was such a beautiful young lady (as is Lizzie). I know you are so proud of them both. I hope that you will feel God's comfort in the days to come."

VA Theta wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"You & your family are in our thoughts and prayers - Virginia Theta sends our condolences. "

Kimberly Smouter wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Evans Family, Shelby's distant Pi Phi Sisters at the MI Epsilon Chapter would like to send their sympathy and support in this rough time for your family. We are truely sorry for your loss and at our upcoming Convention, we will particularly think of Shelby at the memorial service held. In our thoughts and hearts,The MI Epsilon Chapter of Pi Beta PhiKimberly SmouterChapter President"

VA Eta wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Our thoughts and prayers go out to Shelby's family and friends. Pi Phi Love,VA Eta Chapter of Pi Beta Phi / Richmond, VA"

Helping Honduras Kids wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"We pray God's comfort and peace on all the family during this very difficult time. Our deepest sympathies are with you all!Board of Helping Honduras Kids"

Jessica Green wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby, I still can't believe you are gone. Definitely too soon. I took for granted all the time we spent together in Ambassadors and choir at Clay. I wish I would have been a better friend to you, but I know you are in a better place now.To the Evans Family, there is never an explanation or words comforting enough for a loss like this. My heartfelt prayers go out to you all and everyone that was ever touched by Shelby's life. God bless and stay strong for her."

Jessica Green wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Shelby, I still can't believe you are gone. Definitely too soon. I took for granted all the time we spent together in Ambassadors and choir at Clay. I wish I would have been a better friend to you, but I know you are in a better place now.To the Evans Family, there is never an explanation or words comforting enough for a loss like this. My heartfelt prayers go out to you all and everyone that was ever touched by Shelby's life. God bless and stay strong for her."