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In loving memory of
Eric Clark
December 31, 1969 - December 31, 1969
Eric Clark
Eric Clark (73), who always went by ?Eric,? was affectionately known as ?Big E.? to friends and family, ?Pappa Eric,? to his grandchildren, and ?Pappa E.? to his great-grandson. He and his wife, Betty, lived in Carmel for over 50 years. Eric went on to Heaven at 7pm on October 7th, 2009, after months of ?tryin? to get better? from illness. Eric was resting peacefully in his beloved family room, surrounded by his wife, children, and grandchildren during his final moments.
Eric was born on September, 1st 1935, in Indianapolis, Indiana to Dr. Cyrus J and Mrs. Edith L. Clark. He would tell friends, ?I wasn?t born in a log cabin, by we moved into one as soon as my parents could afford it.? He had an older brother, Cyrus ?Skip? Clark, and a younger sister Patty. In 1941, Eric attended the 1st grade at Carmel Elementary, and would remain in Carmel schools his whole life, save for one year when he attended Broad Ripple High School. He graduated from Carmel High School in 1953. Eric married his high school sweetheart, Betty Linebarger and was a loving husband to her for 56 wonderful years. The couple had three children, Deborah, Douglas, and David.
Eric was a graduate of Earlham College in Richmond, Indiana. At Earlham, he earned 12 varsity athletic letters in football, basketball, track, and volleyball. Eric was acknowledged as the Earlham basketball team most valuable player in 1954-55. In football, he was a starter at quarterback and middle linebacker. Later in life, he would be quick to tell modern football players about how he ?played both ways with no facemask.? Eric was also an All-American Volleyball player while playing for the Earlham Quakers. He was awarded the George Van Dyke Award- the highest award for an Earlham athlete- for outstanding contribution to Earlham athletics in 1957. He was inducted into the Earlham Athletics Hall of Fame in 1995. After earning his Bachelors from Earlham, Eric went to Butler University where he earned a Masters Degree in Education.
Eric was an educator in the Carmel Clay School System for 39 years, during which time he was a teacher, counselor, and Assistant Principal. He was in charge of student activities and prided himself on being a matchmaker around prom time, often keeping a written log of which students needed dates. There was even a TV show about this on the Carmel High School channel called ?Clark?s Couples,? where Eric was the host and conducted a ?Newlyweds? style game show with high school couples. Eric served as the Head Coach for Football, Basketball, and Track while at Carmel High School.
Eric?s crowning achievement as a coach came in 1977, when he led the Carmel Greyhounds to win the I.H.S.A.A. Basketball State Title. Of the 100-plus state titles won by Carmel High School athletic teams, this remains as Carmel?s only State Championship in Basketball. His underdog team overcame immeasurable odds, losing 7 games in the regular season, before making their run at the state title in the now legendary single-class Indiana High School Basketball Tournament. After defeating East Chicago Washington 53-52 in the final game, Eric?s Greyhound team drew numerous comparisons to the famous 1954 Milan team that was depicted in the movie, ?Hoosiers.? Eric was awarded as the Indiana Basketball Coach of the Year for the 1976-77 season by Kellog?s and by the Indiana Sportswriters and Sportscasters. He was nominated to coach the Indiana Basketball All-Stars in the annual Indiana/Kentucky All-Star Game in 1978.
Eric retired from Carmel High School in 1997, 55 years after beginning the first grade at the same school. In retirement, he enjoyed hunting and fishing and watching sports. He caught a 45? Northern Pike while in Canada one summer, and he made sure there were witnesses and took several pictures to show to his buddies back home. Eric hunted small game his entire life, and bred and raised Beagle Hounds for rabbit hunting. It wasn?t until the late 90?s, when his son Doug purchased a farm in Paoli, Indiana, that Eric began hunting deer and turkeys. He took the first deer of his life with a cross bow in 2002, and would forever after tell the story of how he and his granddaughter-in-law, Margot, had to drag the deer out of a mucky pond in total darkness. He had season tickets for Colts games, and he complained about the run defense quite often, but not as often as his wife, Betty. Eric attended nearly every Carmel High School basketball and football game, home or away, throughout his retirement. He ran a firewood business out of his house with his good friend, Earl Casper. Eric split and sold firewood and delivered it to peoples? houses, and even stacked it?for an extra fee.
In the summers, Eric loved going to his son, David?s lake house at Lake Wawasee, in northern Indiana. He would wake up early and wait for the fishermen to boat down the channel that the house is on, so that he could ask them, ?Doin? any good, men?? He won the bi-annual shuffleboard tournament at t
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"We remember how Eric would encourge our boy's before sports events with calls. Also, Bob's many enjoyable visits to the Clark home and wood lot. Our pray is for comfort for Betty and the family at this time. Eric is resting with the Lord. "
"Mr (Eric) Clark was my saviour in HS! He stood up for me many times. I was the youngest of a large family to go through Carmel Schools and he was always there to defend me when things were rough! I owe 'graduating' to Mr Clark! I would have dropped out long before if it hadn't been for him! "
"I am Eric Clark's biggest fan! I learned more about lfe and the real world from Mr Clark than anyone else in the world! He was a great man and will be missed!!! My prayers and thoughts goes out to all his family!"
"Eric was my track coach during my first year at Carmel High School (1971-72). I remember Eric as a man truly interested in developing high school students into well rounded men and women. I saw Eric treat those he worked around with respect and would do all he could to be of help where he could. Eric will be greatly missed, but we can take solace in knowing he is with his Creator, and we will see him again one fine day. My prayers go out to the whole family, and to his dear friends who are mourning his passing."
"Thank you Mr. Clark for your beautiful smile, laugh and encouraging words. I am glad that you were friends with my parents, John & Roberta Tague, all these years. You will be missed! I will be praying for your family."
"I remember Mr Clark as always smiling and had the best attitude. I went to him 4 months before graduating and informed him I wanted to go to college after all. He almost fell off his chair. There wasn't much time but he got it done! It changed my life. Thanks to Mr Clark for all his help. We were all his kids."
"Carmel has lost a great man i will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers"
"Eric Clark was an educator who had a positive impact on every student with whom he came into contact. Whether in P.E. class or while monitoring lunch, Mr. Clark made each student feel as if what he (or she) had to say was important.A friend recently reminded me of how we would line up at lunch time and try to grip Mr. Clark's enormous paws, er hands and to out squeeze him. To my knowledge, there were none who weren't brought to their knees in pain.Mrs Clark, Debbie, Doug and Dave: Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss, and my gratitude to you for sharing him with the rest of us."
"Mr. Clark holds a special place in my memory of CHS for his wonderful smile and because of the stories I would hear from some of the male students in my graduating class about his sound advice to them.All of the Radloffs will miss him- Susie, Janet, Paul, Jim, Mary"
"Mr. Clark was my first coach when I moved to Carmel so many years ago. He always made me feel welcome, appreciated and I looked up to him greatly. I know he will be missed by not only me, but the vast number of other lives he touched. I wish I could have let him know that I finally learned how to make a proper lay up."
"I was surely saddened today to learn of Mr. Eric Clark's passing.We all had hoped from the CHS Class of 1969, when we had our 40th Reunion in June of this year 2009, that Mr. Clark would have been able to attend, but we learned he was too ill at that point.He was there in spirit I know and I will always carry his spirit everyday. I always have and will continue to, in his memory.Eric Clark was not only a great treasure of a man but as a friend and concerned adult as we were teenagers. He cared greatly for our education at CHS and beyond. He was truly a big man with a big heart and had the capacity to care about you as a student and a friend. Mr. Clark, as I still refer to him today, was one of the men in my early life I admired and respected deeply. He would see me in the CHS hallways and would always speak and acknowledge me, no matter what.My favorite thing Mr. Clark would say to me was "How you doing Easterweek, Easterday, Everyday!" It would always make me laugh and I would say, "Doing Great, Mr. Clark, thanks for asking!"Its been many years since I have seen Mr. Clark, but he has been in my thoughts many times through the years.I know how close Mr. Clark was to Mr. Graham as friends and to this day I have met very few men I have respected and appreciated more in their caring and concern for me as a person first, then a student. Mr. Clark and Mr. Graham were gems in my life and a treasure to have known.Mr. Eric Clark will never be forgotten by anyone who had the privilege to meet and know him. His spirit will live on with all of us who were lucky enough to have him in a part of our lives.My deepest sympathy to Debbie and his entire family.Michael Easterday"
"Mr. Clark was a great man and a great educator. There will not be another like him. I was in the class of '75 with Doug. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. "
"Mr. Clark (Eric as I knew him) was a wonderful teacher even back in his early teaching days when he was my brother's, Fred Smith's, coach. I knew him personally due to this friendship with my brother. He always went out of his way to talk to me and I admired him very much. even after high school. He touched many peoples lives and made their life a lttle better. His family should be very proud of him. My condolences to all of his family. He will be missed and remembered always."
"Please accept our condolences in your time of loss."
"Mr. Clark always made you feel appreciated and treated you like the most important person in the world. A BIG part of Carmel is gone, leaving the lasting legacy of a GREAT family and by teaching us how to treat people with respect and live as Christ intended. Mrs. Clark, Debbie, Doug and Dave, Thanks for sharing Mr. Clark with us. You are shining examples of his love!"
"Coach Clark, will be missed. He not only was a coach for sports or a teacher of academics, but a coach and teacher of life. Thanks coach for all your guidance and the sharing of your knowledge. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Clark family."
"Mr. Clark was truly a special man and a blessing to all of us who went to CHS - he encouraged us all and made CHS a friendly place.. I'm so glad to have had his influence in my life and in the lives of my kids. My thoughts and prayers to all his family."
"Having known Eric Clark since I was very small, he and my brother Wilbur were very good friends, they spent a lot of time along Crickle Creek camping out, I of course was too young to be there, but will always remember, Eric always had a smile and kind word to me. I renewed my friendship with him not long ago at my sorority sister's birthday party (Suzanne Beard) Hodges, it was as if we had never been away from each other he again was kind and friendly as we remenisced of years long ago.I wish to send my heartfelt condolences to Betty and his children, you should be so proud to have been a part of his life and I know he was proud of all of you!Carmel has lost a wonderful person and mentor to all who had contact with him. May he rest in peace!"
"So many, many memories! Our deepest sympathy to Betty and the family at this difficult time. Our hearts, thoughts, and prayers are with you."
"Eric Clark will be missed not only here about around the country, He infuenced so many lives of students in Carmel that are now scattered about the United States. I remember as a man of faith,educator and coach. He tought many of us how to live and not only how to play sports. Thanks Eric and God bless his family."
"When I think of Mr. Clark (I'll never be able to call him anything else) is his big beautiful contagious smile. He had a way of just making people feel better. I think he's up in heaven probably discussing things with Mr. Graham about Carmel's various sports or maybe he's doin' alittle fishin and finally catching something this time! This legend of a man whom I am grateful to have known will never be forgotten. We are thinking of you at this time and pray that your loving memories will comfort you and ease your sorrow. With much love, Sue Ann and Tom McGoldrick"
"I attended Carmel High School from 78-81. I remember the Mr. Clark's constant smile. I was not the happiest teen and he always cheered me up. I believe compassion for his students was one of his greatest gifts. This earth has lost a great soul, but heaven has gained a big smile.No End To The Journey No end, no end to the journeyno end, no end neverhow can the heart in loveever stop openingif you love me,you won't just die oncein every momentyou will die into meto be reborn - Rumi"
"Eric and Betty were great friends of my parents. Every time the families were together I remember what a fun man I found Eric to be. Betty & Eric were a comfort to me and my family when we lost both of our parents within one month of each other. My thoughts and prayers go out to Betty and the Clark family. "
"Death be not proud, though some have called theeMighty and dreadful, thou art not so; . . .One short sleep past, we wake eternally,And death shall be no more; death, thou shalt die.Abbreviated from "Divine Poems"John Donne (1572 - 1631)One of the finest men I have ever known, Coach Clark was more then a sports coach - he was a 'Life' coach.For all of us, he led by example on how to deal with life, through his savvy recipe of humor, thoughtful action and tough kindness. He was the most respected man I knew.While we are sadder for a time, we are better for having stood in his shadow.May GOD Bless and Keep the family Always and lighten their load through these most difficult times.For though it rains today, the sunshine of our love, in this dark time, will help brighten the coming days.The Odoms."
"How very lucky for us that we got to be with Mr. Clark through out our high school years. It is so very touching and uplifting to read all these wonderful comments about this great man. The common thread in all of them is his constant smile and how he made everyone feel better..not matter what was going on in their lives. That is remarkable...I feel sorry for the kids at Carmel High School now who do not have the chance to have Eric Clark in their lives. Carmel will never be the same."
"Eric was one of the first to greet me when I joined the CHS staff in 1972. His famous words, "You're gonna think you've died and gone to heaven!" was prophetic. Eric was Carmel High School's greatest cheerleader and he did so much to make it the great school it is today. He was a great friend, colleague and mentor. I will miss him greatly."
"To Doug and the rest of the Clark Family, Although I didn't know Eric very well I will always remember him. I know how much he liked coming to Paoli and remember him coming Pine Valley several times. He always asked about the kids and took the time to talk with them when they were at the store.Our condolences and prayer are with all of youRobert, Amy, Dylan & Allie Lowe"
"Our love and sympathy to the family of our dear friend and Neighbor."
"As all of us who knew him and loved him, I'm also missing Eric Clark this evening...He truly was one of the heroes in my life. This wonderful man gave me the courage, and encouragement, needed to accomplish things I could only dream about. He took the extra time and effort needed to coach me to a state record in track, out the the goodness of his heart. He waded through the controversy with me, at a time when it wasn't considered "appropriate" for girls to be competitive athletes. A few years later, I realized how much he had helped me and many others move forward in history, with the inclusion of women's athletic programs. Years after that we would occasionally run into each other at the state fair band days, and have wonderful talks about how good life was in spite of the challenges put before us sometimes. God knew what He was doing when He formed this man, as He always does. Eric Clark knew what he was doing to fulfill God's plan and will in his life. The results of Eric's gifts to us will live on in our hearts and lives forever...Prayers to Betty and all the family as we celebrate the life of this remarkable man..."
"Our deepest sympathies to the Clark family - what a tremendous life, and now, a tremendous loss to all of you and the citizens of Carmel. May God bless you and yours."
"My prayers are with the entire Clark family. What a loving and generous person we have lost. I spent many, many, many hours sitting across from him at his desk when he was my counselor at CHS. His wisdom, humor and honesty kept me on the straight path. Had it not been for his guidance and patience I may not have made it through. He always made the time to share his thoughts and help me sort through mine with a wink and a grin. What a wonderful man.Melanie Lane Class of '76"
"I moved to Carmel in 1957, a sophmore. Eric's sister Patty was in my class. From my first days there I knew that "Eric" was special; because my new friends told me so.Then I met him and found out for myself. I attended Carmel Friends Church with he and Betty. One of my favorite memories was in front of the old church on an Easter Sunday when Doug was very small (probably 2 yrs old). Doug and Dad were "playing football". Doug would bend over hike the ball between his legs to Dad and Dad would catch it and throw it to him. I don't know who was the proudest. Although I've been away for many years, I know he never changed. That laugh and smile will be remembered by all. My prayers go out to Betty and the family."
"In 1997 our oldest daughter Sarah graduated from Carmel High School. She was being recruited for a volleyball scholarship and the process demanded that she make a decision. She was having a difficult time and I knew as her Mom that I couldn't be impartial because I didn't want her to go away far from home. I asked Eric to help. He called her down to his office and asked her about her hopes and dreams. They sat and made a list of pro's and cons for all 5 schools. When she came home from school, it was if the weight of the world was lifted off her shoulders. She did go away to the University of Iowa, got a business degree, married her college sweetheart and is now expecting her 3 baby. Eric had a huge part of all the blessings that have come our way. It takes a special educator who can talk to students and make each one feel as though they were his favorite...Eric did and now we are all missing a true Gentle...Man."
"Mr. Clark was one of the best. He could light up a room with his smile, and always had a good word for you. I'll always remember running into him once; when he had a nice stringer of bluegills that he had just caught. I asked him: "Where did you catch those, Mr. Clark?"He then pinched his upper lip with his thumb and forefinger, and said: "Right here!", with that big grin of his. He was "Old School" Carmel, the way it was back in the day. Carmel won't be the same without him. Our family's prayers and thoughts are with Mrs. Clark, Debbie, Doug, David, and the rest of his family."
"Betty and family - Carl and my prayers are with you. You are all a great part of Eric's legacy.As growing up with Eric's sister, Patty, as one of my best friends, I have a lot of fond and fun memories. As we were a few years younger, any of us girls who spent time with Patty at her home, were in awe of Eric and his handsome, rugged, sports star friends. We spent a lot of time hanging around them, giggling, and I never remember Eric telling us to "get lost"!I saw Eric a lot, too, because Betty lived just down the street from us. Eric probably dated other girls, but for as long as I can remember, it was only Betty for him. I went to Earlham with Eric, Betty, Patty and Edith when they moved into student housing at Earlham and thought this was so neat!Time moved on and all three of my children had the privilege of attending Carmel schools while Eric was there. My mom also worked in the bookstore there - Eric was so kind to her and always had time to stop by and tell her a joke.Come to think of it - he always had time to tell a quick joke or swap a fish story in the vestibule before church!I'd like to see his eyes when he sees the size of the fish in Heaven!See you later friend.Marty Comstock"
"Dear Clark family,I was fortunate enough to be an office assistant my senior year at CHS, 1975. Mr Clark always had that great smile every day he infected many others with! High school can be a rough time for students, but he could always make you feel better about yourself and made me feel "at home" during my high school years. May God wrap His loving arms around your beautiful family!"
"My family moved to Carmel in 1970 and, when I was home from college one summer, I went to the Carmel gym to see if there were any pickup games. It happened to be open gym. I was reticent to go in since I had gone to another school and did not know anyone. Mr. Clark was the first person I saw and he greeted me as if we had known each other forever. After I was finished playing, he made sure to encourage me to return to play against his "big guys". He sure made me feel welcome.Over the years, he would always greet me at first eye contact. Thanks for the picture in the obituary - I do not know if I ever saw him without that smile and that is how I will always remember him. "
"Betty and family, we would like to send are condolence in the passing of Eric, Judy thought of Eric as her second brother, in her early years Duke and Eric where always together more like brothers than just good friends . Judy's mother had many stories about Eric and Duke , the one I remimber the most is when they Started college at Earlham came home and said they weren't going back, Judy's mother would't have any part of that and said both of you are back and they packed up and went back to Earlham and Judy's mother told Eric to be good to Betty and take care of her . Donald told me many stories of things he and Eric did as young boy's we had many laughs we we would let together. I know after talking with Eric after Donald died how close he and Eric where "
"Betty and family, we would like to send are condolence in the passing of Eric, Judy thought of Eric as her second brother, in her early years Duke and Eric where always together more like brothers than just good friends . Judy's mother had many stories about Eric and Duke , the one I remimber the most is when they Started college at Earlham came home and said they weren't going back, Judy's mother would't have any part of that and said both of you are back and they packed up and went back to Earlham and Judy's mother told Eric to be good to Betty and take care of her . Donald told me many stories of things he and Eric did as young boy's we had many laughs we we would let together. I know after talking with Eric after Donald died how close he and Eric where "
"To the Clark Family:Eric was a delight to be around, always with that huge smile on his face. We will always remember sitting with Eric at Cramel Lebanon basketball games and how every student would stop and say something to Eric as they passed by his seat. We have never seen that amount of admiration toward a high school administrator in our lives. This says a lot about what kind of a man Eric was and what kind of life Eric lived.We will always have the kindest memories of Eric Clark. You have our sympathy.Mary Jane and Jim Limp"
"Coach Clark had me running up and down steep hills in the Springs of '71 and '72. "But I'm the high jumper, Coach. Why do I have to run?". "Because you're not jumping high enough."Our deepest sympathy to the Clark family. His legacy will live on forever."
"I would like to express my condolences and warm thoughts to the Clark family. Although Eric was a student at Carmel before I was there, he was a legend and I followed his excellent coaching and teaching career through my brother who also taught at Carmel. He was truly an outstanding role model for all of us. "
"Eric Clark...the Man, the Myth, the LEGEND!!!!When someone has had such an profound impact on your life, how do you put that into a few menial words what this person meant to you?I have to start out that Mr. Clark was always a "Go To" kind of guy. You could truly go to him with ANY question, problem, news (good or bad) and talk to him. Carmel has always had a great number of teachers, counselors, deans, administrative staff, and principals that you could go to and talk with. But never was there one who was as in tune with EVERY student and their circumstances, as Mr. Clark.He was a stand up guy, who would pull your leg in a heartbeat, but never lie to you in a million years. He just had a way of knowing how to say what needed to be said in a positive way. You could trust his guidance and advice to be given with total honesty and integrity. He wanted only the best for "his kids". He saw it as not only his job or responsibility to help us become the outstanding individuals he knew that we were or could be, but also his PRIVILEDGE. I had worked in the counselor's office and during that time made a great friend in Mr. Clark. During my senior year one of my best friends found herself in a delicate situation. She was mortified, terrified and absolutely unconsolable. I was very scared for her as well. I told her that I knew exactly what she needed. She needed to speak to Mr. Clark. He was so understanding and loving and had such profound advice. He told her what her options were and what possible reprocussions that each might have. He told her what he hoped for her. But I'll never forget these words to her. "You are going to do what you are going to do, but give it a lot of thought and consideration, because you are going to have to live with your decision for the rest of your life." What a profound statement! I knew that I had made a good decision taking her to speak to him and I had also made a great friend.My father had also attended CHS with Eric and Betty. He has told me over the years that at the time, he thought that them getting married right out of high school was crazy and would never last. He has been happily eating his words for the last 56 years. This past Wednesday, when I told him of Mr. Clark's condition and eminent passing, he broke down and said that "theirs was a true love affair." I believe he is right. Mrs. Clark and the entire Clark family, please accept my most heartfelt sympathies and prayer at this time of great sorrow, as well as my memories and tribute to one great man! I'm quoting someone off of a tribute website about Mr. Clark. "Hands of steel, heart of gold." I love you, Mr. Clark . Tell Mr. Graham hi and kiss my mom for me.""
"Our love and Prayers are with the entire Clark family-Eric had a great gusto for life and friendship, his infectious love for both never failed. We know that he was in a lot of Hall of Fames and deservedly so, however, his greatest will be that he is in God's Hall of Fame for a life lived well with his genuine love and friendship. He contributed so much to the development and success of the youth in this city -- with his inspirations and guidance. His heritage will always endure and the foundations he built will be in Carmel forever. The same youth that he dedicated his life and love to - will continue to be honored with scholarships in the name of Eric Clark, what a great legacy. In Christ's love, Ken and Elaine Keltner"
" We've lost another one of the "good guys"."
"I just hope that when my teaching career is over, I leave an impact on kids at least half of what Eric Clark did to all CHS graduates. I've worked with some good administrators, but none will ever compare to Dale Graham and Eric Clark. He will be missed. My condolences to the Clark family."
"Carmel has lost a part of it's soul and CHS has lost a legend. I remember Mr Clark as both a student and a good friend of my dad's. The smile, the handshake, the laugh and the fishing stories will always be remembered. Like many past CHS students, I have moved away now but Carmel will always be home and people like Mr Clark are the reason why.I last saw Eric at my fathers funeral in 2005, he came up gave me that get big bear handhake and said "Do you know why I am here, because Carmel has lost a great man". Well Eric yes they did and they lost another one this week but I am confident you two are swapping fish stories already.God bless the Clark family "
"As a niece of Uncle Eric and Aunt Betty, I remember so many family gatherings and the laughter of Uncle Eric always filled the air. I grew up in Zionsville and we shared a friendly rivalry throughout the years I was in school. The love of his family and love in his heart for every student he ever came in contact with will not be forgotten. We were never together without a funny, memorable Clark story being told - my favorite was the "Uncle Eric Honk - Cuss" story told over and over by Debbie. May God wrap his loving hands around Aunt Betty, Debbie, Doug, Dave, and all of his much loved grandchildren.Cindi"
"To Betty and the Family: I am sorry that I am out of town for the calling and services. Eric was such a special person who gave of himself to his "family", but his "family" was every student who attended Carmel. He was a skilled teacher, coach and administrator who loved Carmel High School and every event that the students were involved in. As a former school board member, I thank his real family for sharing Eric with the rest of us. As a past president of the Indiana Basketball Hall of Fame, he was so deserving of Induction into the Hall of Fame but also supported us in many ways as well as attending so many HOF events. The last time I visited with him, at a basketball game, he was upbeat and thankful for the doctors who were treating him. A very special person, loved by many, honored by many and remembered by so many."
"We will never forget that wonderful smile and caring person who was behind it. He always seemed to know what we needed. He is one of the few people who will live on in us because he cared. Thanks for everything Eric."
"We wish to express our deepest sympathy and prayers."
"Mr Clark will be so dearly missed...with his hugh smile and big, warm laugh.... was such a significant person at Carmel High. His mentoring and guidance touched so many including myself.Before the days of "equal opportunity" for young women in sports, Dawn (Roberts) Benndict and myself deperately tried to recruit Mr Clark to coach the girls basketball team. He knew the talent was their but in the late 70's it was not proper to have a male coach for a female athletic team...he did in fact coach us from the "side lines" and whenever it did not interfer with coach Sharon Eskew....to many, he will always be an excellent coach, teacher, and caring mentor. God Bless him and loving confort to his wife and family. Eileen Desautels Padro, Columbus Ohio (always a Hoosier)..... "
"Mr Clark will be so dearly missed...with his hugh smile and big, warm laugh.... was such a significant person at Carmel High. His mentoring and guidance touched so many including myself.Before the days of "equal opportunity" for young women in sports, Dawn (Roberts) Benndict and myself deperately tried to recruit Mr Clark to coach the girls basketball team. He knew the talent was their but in the late 70's it was not proper to have a male coach for a female athletic team...he did in fact coach us from the "side lines" and whenever it did not interfer with coach Sharon Eskew....to many, he will always be an excellent coach, teacher, and caring mentor. God Bless him and loving confort to his wife and family. Eileen Desautels Padro, Columbus Ohio (always a Hoosier)..... "
"Mr. Clark was my 7th grade English teacher at the Old North Elemenary MANY years ago. He was very funny and seemed to always get such a kick out of the students. We were amazed at how "big and tall" he was. Carmel was so small back then and everyone knew everyone. When he moved to the high school, he was "the man" to go to if you needed help with anything.He loved sports so much and was extremely motivational. It is only fitting that the sports center would be named after him. He was the kind of teacher/administrator that you could laugh and cry with and knew he was sincere. Mr. Clark couldn't believe that he and I were getting our masters at Butler at the same time! He had a class across the hall from me . He is the last of the "good old boys" to leave Carmel schools. That is such a shame as he was indeed dedicated to Carmel Clay Schools and the thousands of students he greeted and laughed with. My prayers are with Debbie and family during this very sad time. God Bless."
"Mrs. Clark, I went over to Carmel on Sun. afternoon to pay my respects but the line was about a mile long. So I did not stay as I had to get to a funeral for one of our long time members in church. I just want you to know that I have talked to lots of people in Noblesville and all of them had great things to say about Eric. He was a great man and I appreciate very much having known him and he being a part of my life here on earth. I know you must be very tired tonight after greeting so many people at church. What a tribute to him and his family to have so many people pay their respects.God bless you and your family. Bill Nevitt- Noblesville"
"All coaches, teachers and principals could learn alot from a page from Mr. Clark's playbook. I took for granted his daily positive attitude toward life and all of us crazy kids. He knew everyone by name and was gracious and respectful to us all, teaching by example. How did he do that for class after class, year after year? He quietly guided kids through high school fears and successes and prepared so many for the real world beyond CHS. It was my privilege to be in the same class with Debbie and with Barb Graham and Girls, I know you know the legacies your fathers left you. Rest assured, your dads live on in all of us as well. As I remember the men of CHS today, I remember you too and wish you and your family a lifetime of happy memories as I know that is what smiling Eric would have wanted. "
"Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this very difficult time. Our children would come home from school and share about what a wonderful mentor he was for the students of CHS. Peace be with you all. Larry, Karen, Kim, Brian and Kelly Kaser "
"Education lost a great man with the retirement of Coach Clark;the world lost a great man with his passing. He was a difference maker.He was an inspiration and a model for all of us in education."
"I had the pleasure of knowing Eric during the '49-'50 school year when we were both freshmen at BRHS. He left and I stayed and we lost all contact.I do however, remember that he was always friendly and out going with the ever present big smile. I also have a vague recollection of he and Skip tooling around in a jeep.After reading his impressive list of accomplishments and the many testimonies from lives that he has touched his was truly a life lived fully.My sincere condolences to the family.Bob Cochrane"
"What a life well lived! There are not many people that have touched so many lives and made such a difference in his world as Eric Clark. His legacy in the community will live on through his family, who are as caring, loving and positive as he was.My thougths and prayers are with you, Debbie, and all your family. I pray that as the fog lifts, you will find the peace that comes with knowing that your Dad is in heaven with the Lord, and that some day, you will all be together again!Love,Lisa, Carl and Lizze Evans"
"I was very sorry today to read of Eric Clark's passing in The Indianapolis Star. Mr. Clark was not one of my teachers, counselors or coaches. I was just one of thousands of kids that went through Carmel High School during his tenure. But even though we didn't have a player/coach or student/teacher relationship, Mr. Clark knew who I was and went out of his way to talk with me, encourage me, and otherwise be an all-around great guy that I remember with much fondness today. He is one of several people in the Carmel school system that struck me as someone that really cared about students and who made a positive impact in the lives of many people. My condolences to the Clark family."
"Mr. Clark was one special man. One that will never be replaced but that I look forward to meeting again in Heaven. There are many good memories and especially the "fire up stix" for the basketball team (back in the 70's).He encouraged me to continue pursuing my goals. My prayers are with your family at this time. "
"On behalf of the Christy family, please know that we have you all in our prayers. Grandpa, John Christy, will now have a buddy to share persimmons and stories with. Dale will miss you and your stories as well. Cherish the moments you have now, as they will keep you in your faith. Jana Christy Smith Class of 75."
"Joanne and I express our deepest sympathy and send our very best wishes to the Clark family. Your husband and father was one of the heroes in my book. He not only made a tremendous difference in the Carmel schools and community, but I recall how faithful he was to both practices and games during Doug"
"I once asked Mr. Clark why he retired from coaching high school basketball at a relatively young age...especially after winning the state championship. He said he would immediately resume coaching if he could just find a team of orphans!I have never heard a negative comment about Mr. Clark....a wonderful guy."
"Mr. Clark will always be remembered for his incredible smile and special handshake. He had a way of making everyone feel so special. Have long wished that everyone in education and coaching could follow his example. Truly just the BEST guy...my sisters and I have so many great memories of Mr. Clark from high school...and we were Noblesville High School students! Such a great ambassador for Carmel. We will miss him, but are celebrating his life and his new life with our Lord and Savior in heaven. We look forward to seeing him again someday. In His Grip!"
"Dear Betty:I'm very sorry for your loss of Eric. I will be thinking of you and praying for you."
"Eric and I have known each for a long time through the Indiana Principals Association, but until we worked together as part of the Principals Service Corps as retired Administators did I get to know him well. Eric was highl respected in the profession and he knew more people than anyone I ever knew. When we attended state meetings together and younger administrators always came by to talk with him because he was, obviously, a great role model. He was remarkable when it came to telling stories and I admired him. We exchange numerous emails and I always enjoyed the personal and professional relationship we had these last few years. His respect, friendship and admiration for Dale Graham was always obvious as was his friendship and respect for Charlie Scott. I ejoyed his stories about his days at Earlham College, particularly with Buzz Duff when they both were in sports at Earlham. I regret that we will not be able to attend the funeral due to family obligations but you can be assured that we will have your family in our prayers and thoughts you proceed throught these tough times. Always remember all of the good times. Those memories are very important. God Bless."
"He accomplished so much for both Carmel High School and the Carmel community during his lifetime. All of our lives were touched by him."
"Debbie and Mrs Clark, we are saddened to loose another wonderful teacher, coach and person from our days at Carmel. The four of us all attended Carmel and have fond memories of Mr. Clark (as we called him). Please know our sympathy and prayers are with you. Kit, Becky, Nancy and Joe Burks"
"Betty & Family -- For some reason our first attempt must not have gone through. We are indeed sad for the loss of a wonderful person, father, grandfather, friend and role model for so many people. My association with Eric was primarily throught the IASP and then the Principals Service Corps where we worked together, laughed together and shared emails and stories, but one thing always stood out in my mind about Eric, he was a straight shooter in whatever he did. I admired him for all of the qualities he had as a man and educator. He admired Dale Graham and it was obvioius to me that his relationship with Charlie Scott was the greatest. His days at Earlham college were some of his fondest memories and we had a mutual friend who played some football with him at Earlham. His name is Buzz Duff and his wife is Donna. I could go on and on but let me close with these thoughts -- when Eric looked at the "Man In The Glass" it was with pride and to all of you, Remember the Good Times". God Bless you all. Herb & Judy"
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"Mr. Clark was my counselor during my wonderful years atCarmel High School and was always there to help out. His smile was so bright that even on a rainy day it seemed sunny. His laugh was so infectious, and his stories were the best. I often thought of him and how he was Carmel High School. His love of teaching and children were inspirational. My deepest thoughts a prayers to Mrs. Clark and his loving family."
"It's sad news to hear of Mr. Clarks passing. I think we all wanted to earn his respect both on the athietic field or in the classroom. We played harder or worked harder for him. I believe I am a better person because of his influence....This also makes me think back to 7th. or 8th. grade, at the time of Mr. Clarks brothers (Skip) death. Skip was active in the Carmel Fire Department and died in a accident on the way to fright a fire. A day or two after that, during Mr. Clarks class, the fire departments' siren sounded off for the volunteer fire fighters. You could see a look come over Mr. Clarks face that told you he was thinking about his brother, Skip.... Well, from a students stand point, I don't think there was a dry eye in the classroom..... We all loved Mr. Clark ! When I'm watching the movie "Hoosiers", at the end of the movie, when they show a little kid shooting baskets in the old gym and they pan up to the picture of the "championship team" on the wall, I see Mr. Clarks face in that picture....I do not believe Mr. Clark will ever be forgotten, I know I never will forget him."
"The Jackson family, eight total graduates from CHS expresses their condolences to the entire Clark family on the loss of a great man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.Eric always encouraged us in school and sports, and his smile and laugh was infectious. He made us feel better even when we lost or were down on ourselves.He was my track coach and a story he liked to to tell on me, is when I lost a two mile race, and my legs were so wobbly I was staggering and could hardly stand. With his big smile and a chuckle he says " whats wrong Jackson you got lactic acid". I fell to the ground laughing and trying not to cry.We'll all miss a great guy.Ben Jackson 1967 Carmel grad ."
"One of the greatest school administrators I have ever met. Coupled with Dale Graham meant that High School was once in a lifetime opportunity to have two truly great to look up to and to aspire to be like. From sponsoring our Homecoming Trike Race team, to his appearance on my CHTV Program, "The Rappin' Show". My parents first memory was my interview with Mr. Clark as Santa Claus, still probably the best interview I have ever done."
"Mr. Clark, Thank You for your kindness and warm smile. You have always been a pleasant memory from days gone by and seeing you in the spring of this year was such a wonderful surprise. "
"Show me a student at Carmel High School who wasn't touched by Mr. Clark and I'll show you a person who missed a great opportunity. Sometimes that touch was a pat on the back, a strong grab on the back of your neck or even a kick in the pants. Eric seemed to know what each of us needed and was genuinely concerned about us that he would deliver. I had the pleasure to be his student, player and friend. CHS has lost a great friend. God bless Betty, Doug, Debbie, David and the entire family."
"I was a student admin assistant my sophmore year in the Activities Office. That was when I met Mr. Clark. He always called me by my name, even remembered it two years later when I was a senior. He cared for every student he came into contact with. He was an all around great guy and I'm sorry to hear about his passing."
"Mr. Clark always had his door open if we needed someone to talk too. He was one of the best man i ever meet. My deepest condolences go out to the Clark Family."
"Betty and family -- May the comfort of the Holy Spirit surround you in these days after the death of Eric. I well remember Eric in our years at Earlham College, and later as his pastor at Carmel Friends Church. God Bless."
"We are so very sorry for your loss. We have so many fond memories of " Mr. Clark" as a friend, teacher, mentor and coach. Our lives were enriched by the time we spent with him. How wonderful for your family to have been so close to each other all of these years. May this bring youeverlasting peace.Steve and Chris Campbell"
"What an inspiration, role model, and confidant. Eric's influence will live forever. He represented "community" and we are all better off because of him. "
"I was so sorry to hear of Mr. Clark's passing. I had not seen him in years, but every time I passed his home and saw his name on the mailbox, I thought fondly back to the years when our families got together for basketball games and other events in a much smaller Carmel, plus the attention he gave to me as a very shy kid in high school. He made everyone feel so special! I'll never forget his ever-present smile, warm greeting and the twinkle in his eye! My condolences to you, Mrs. Clark, Debbie, Doug & David and the rest of his family. Thank you for sharing him."
"My sincere condolescences to the entire Clark family. My mom, Barbara Hawkins Cadick, CHS '56, simply adored Mr. Clark, as he was her teacher and later friend. Mom passed July '09 and hopefully they are sharing fond memories of Carmel. I'll always remember his smiling face in the CHS halls, as I was second generation at Carmel ('78). "
"Mr. Clark was my PE / Health teacher in 7th grade when I began attending CJHS. Other than my parents, I hold him responsible for much of my limited academic accomplishments. At first I thought it was through intimidation, but when his mentoring took effect the smile on his face reflected his gratification. All of us at CHS were lucky to have known Mr. Clark. "
"Dear Debbie and Family: Your father was one of the greatest men I ever had the pleasure to meet. He taught me how to drive and I can still see all of us in the Driver's Ed car having the best time with him. He was always so fatherly and kind, and I always held the greatest respect for him. He brought three pillows for me to sit on the second day of class because I could not sit high enough to see properly. I remember all the kids in the car laughing so much about my pillows. You were incredibly blessed to have this man at the helm of your family. What wonderful memories of the best part of Carmel - your dad. Thank you and God Bless."
"I have not been home for over 30 years. So, my memories of Mr Clark are as fresh today as they were in 1969. I was very lucky to spend many hours with Mr Clark in my senior year at Carmel High School. We traveled often together to track meets throuoghout the state. We spoke not only as coach to athlete but as friends. We shared our fears and hopes together as we waited for my races to start. Mr. Clark supported, trained and believed early in my running life that I could be Carmel's first State individual 880 yards champion. I can still remember the joy and tears we shared on the day I won the Indiana High School Championship. So often in life we never live up to our potential and we settled for the easier option which usually is not first. Mr. Clark instilled in me that sport was not about winning but was about always giving your best. He knew that if we gave our best we would be winners and I thank him for this powerful message. I have lived in an area of the world so far removed from life in Carmel but my memories will never be removed from the man that made me what I am today. I am not religious today but we always prayed together before any sporting event we were involved in. Through these special moments Mr. Clark demonstrated that in life it is ok to ask for help. I am so grateful to have had a coach, a friend and teacher that loved life and made such a difference in mine. My condolences to the Clark children and Betty. In closing thank you for sharing your father with me - his memories will always be cherished."