"Fr. Druding and family, My prayers and the prayers of the parish of Saint Joseph go out to you all. Know that when I pray the Divine Office and Offer the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, that you, your father and brother are mentioned. Our Lady of Sorrows, pray for us."
In loving memory of
Vincent J. Druding
December 31, 1969 - December 31, 1969
Vincent Joseph Druding, Jr., 75
Michael Vincent Druding, 49, Noblesville, IN, passed away March 11, 2010. Vincent was born in Philadelphia on September 13, 1934 to Vincent J., Sr. and Irene Dooling Druding. Vincent was a salesman and a very active member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Carmel, IN. Vincent was preceded in death by his parents, his brothers David and Richard; his son Daniel J. Druding and his wife of 51 years, Marian, whom he married on May 31, 1958 at St. Hilary Catholic Church, Chicago. Michael V. Druding was born in Chicago on June 10, 1960 to Vincent J. and Marian Wallace Druding. Vincent and Michael are survived by Kristen A. (William) Bussick, Patrick R. (Jessica) Druding, Colleen M. (Jeffrey) Scariano, and Rev. Vincent J. Druding III; grandchildren, Taylor, Katey, Ben, and Zoey Bussick; Emma, Grace and Luke Scariano; and Nicolas and Liam Druding.
Vincent was reared in Edison Park, IL, and graduated form St. Julianna?s Grade School and St. George Catholic High School in Chicago, of which he was an active and proud alumnus. He attended Beloit College, where he played football and basketball, Florida State University, and completed his college education at Loyola University in Chicago. Vincent served as a radio operator in the U.S. Army and was stationed in Bremerhaven and Gelhnausen, Germany from 1954-55. Vincent followed his father who worked for the Dupont Corportation in Chicago. He completed his career as a manufacturing sales representative, a sole proprietor of Carmel Coatings Consultants. In recent years, he worked for Target Corporation and MKM Logistics.
Vincent was one of the greatest storytellers, and he was an avid sports fan, especially of the Chicago Bears and the Chicago Cubs. He enjoyed telling stories around the dinner table and making people laugh. He had an uncanny ability to remember places, names, dates and stories of his experiences in life--he often recited the starting line-up of the 1954 Chicago Cubs--and it brought him joy to share them with others. In recent years, he spent much of his free time at the football, basketball, baseball, and soccer games of his grandkids. Vincent and Marian moved their family to Carmel, IN in 1977 and joined Our Lady of Mount Carmel parish, where he coached many sports teams, served on the parish council, and volunteered in many associations. Vincent had a high threshold for pain and seemed to have nine lives: he survived a car accident, a mugging, a stabbing, a shooting, and triple bypass surgery. He rarely complained. He could talk to almost anyone about anything, and will be missed for his memorable stories and the gift of laughter that he shared with all.
Michael was born in Chicago, IL, attended St. Viator?s High School in Arlington Heights, IL, and graduated from Carmel High School and Ball State University. Michael worked in construction, in sales for building materials; and in recent years he devoted his life to serving the homeless and those who struggle with alcohol and drug addictions. He was Re-entry and Life Plan Program Manager at Wheeler Mission in Indianapolis, IN. Michael had a passion for his family, for music, and for his faith in Jesus Christ, His loving mercy, and the Word of God. His mission was to minster God?s Word and tender mercy to others in need, to share the same mercy with others that changed his life.
Family and friends will gather for visitation on Monday, March 15, 2010 at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Carmel, IN (146th St./Oakridge Rd.) from 3:30 pm - 9 pm. On the 15th, there will be a rosary with Evening Prayer of the Office of the Dead and a preached homily at 7:00 pm; eulogies to follow. Family and friends will gather again at the church Tuesday, March 16, 2010 from 9 am - 10:30 am, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 11 am. The burial will take place at Our Lady of Peace Cemetery after the Mass. In lieu of flowers, any financial contributions can be made to The Wheeler Mission, 254 N. Deleware Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46204 and The O'Connor House, P.O. Box 1061, Carmel, IN 46082 (or online at www.oconnorhouse.org). Finally, you may go to www.leppertmortuary.com where you may sign the online guestbook. Arrangements and care entrusted to the Leppert Mortuary, Smith Carmel Chapel.
Tributes
"My thoughts and prayers will be with you in the upcoming days, weeks and months. Please know I am here for you all. I will remember Vince and Michael in my prayers as well as encouraging many people to pray for your family. Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord. And my perpetual light shine upon them. May the souls of the faithfully departed through the mercy of God rest in peace. Amen."
"A most difficult time for your family - almost too much to bear. My prayers and the prayers of the people of Sacred Heart of Jesus Parish are with you. "
"To the family of Vince, Marian, Danny, and Michael:Please know with certitude that your parish family is praying for you all unceasingly. Our parish has been blessed beyond measure through the prayers, sacrifices, and works of charity so generously given by your entire family throughout the years. Words can't begin to express how sorry we all are to hear of the most recent sacrifice your family has been required to offer up. We offer up our prayers and sacrifices for your intentions. We ask that God give you the strength to bear your sorrow and that your broken hearts will be consoled by His infinite Mercy and Love until your entire family is once again reunited in heaven for all eternity. "
"Kris, Colleen, Patrick and Fr. VinceMy heart aches for all of you, please know you're in my prayers during this most difficult time..................May our Blessed Lady place her most loving arms around all of you as she craddles your Dad and Brother and our Loving Lord comfort you and bring you peace!Love In Christ!"
"Kris, Colleen, and Family : I know you have a wonderfully strong family and many friends. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers."
"To the Druding Family: My thoughts and prayers go out to your family at the loss of your Father and Brother and your Mother Marian. I went to high school with Marian and knew your Father in our early days in Chicago.Judith Witt"
"My sincerest condolences go out to your family during this time. These were lives that were LIVED, which is worth rejoicing. I hope that fond memories, family ties, good friends, and affirmed faith carry you through this storm. "
"Colleen and family,Our heartfelt condolences to you and your entire family. Having just lost both of my parents within 7 months of each other, I recognize the pain that it brings. Knowing that they are with Jesus and are all together brings a bit of comfort during this time of mourning. God bless you, and all of the family, and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.Love, Aunt Barb and Uncle Tony"
"To the Druding family,My thoughts and prayers are with you. May the love and faith of those around you help you through the days ahead."
"Fr. Vince, You were our daughters' first and favorite sitter when we moved to the neighborhood in the late 80's. We've known your parents for years and just had a nice visit with your dad a week ago. We continue to pray and ask Our Lady to comfort you and your family and for the eternal rest of your parents and brother. "
"Dear Father Vincent and family,I have been holding all of you in my prayers and Masses since I heard this sad news and will continue to do so.May Our Lady of Sorrows interceed for each of you in your needs. May Our Lord be your strength at this time and bring you comfort and healing.Sister Linda"
"I heard about the trajedy in a round about way, I was listening to mass at St Pats church on the radio and Fr. Vince was remembered in the intentions and found out after doing a search on the computer. My connection is Vince was my football coach in the mid 1970s. He and my father became good friends and coached football together for a few years even after I stopped playing. Coach Druding was a great guy and I remember he loved the game and could throw the football a mile. After practices he and my dad would talk for 3 or 4 hours at a time. At the time I did not think alot about it but looking back I think their friendship was to help each other heal. Vince lost his son Dan and my dad lost his best friend at about the same time and I think they helped each other get through their pain. I am very sorry for the loss of these two wonderful men, something tells me that they are ok and at peace. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole Druding family. "
"My heartfelt condolences to Colleen and her Family for their tragic losses. Laura will be there Monday evening representing our Family and I apologize for my in-person absence, but know my thoughts are with you all. Best wishes . . . "
"Fr. Vince and family,As you grieve the tragic loss of your father and brother, remember that the prayers of many, including ours, will beseech God for mercy for them and consolation for you in these difficult times. We thank you for your personal Christian witness and that of your whole family."
"Father Vince, Thankyou for your prayer, it was comforting. I can't explain how deeply Mike touched my heart, I feel truly blessed to have been a part of his life. It was a pleasure meeting you Colleen. Mike's smile was ear to ear when talking about his family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. "
"Kris, Pat, Colleen, and Fr. Vince,I wish with all my heart we could be with you. In time I hope you will find it comforting to know that your Dad and Mike were called Home on the first day of the novena to Saint Joseph, Patron of a happy death. You are a very special family and we are praying you will be showered with His peace. We love you."
"Kris, Patrick,Colleen and Fr. Vince, Our thoughts and prayers are with you.I was with Michael on Wed. March10th. We wereboth shopping at the deli at Marsh..We talked..He said that Mom was always bringing us togetherand now she is still doing that..we are becoming closer..And then he said that he had had some rough times inhis life but that it was amazing how Christ was usinghim to reach the men at Wheeler Mission..he said thathe could relate to these men..He gave the Gloryto Christ. He also relayed how his Dad and Boband Bobby Delagrange had gone to a Butler Game andhad such a nice time together. He promised to pray for my intentions..a neighbor,Elayne May, had died and he promised to pray for her. He wished me well. Gave me a hug and said goodbye. I will always treasure Mike's kind words to me.And he pointed out his great love for his family. God bless you all. Kathy Stadler"
"To Fr Vince and FamilyRevelation 21:4 He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."May the love of God comfort you all... and the memories of their lives bring you solace and peace...until you meet again-Chayka"
"I worked with Vincent at Target. I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family thru this difficult time. It was a pleasure to know him and he will be missed."
"It is hard to know what to say at a time of such unspeakable loss. I want you to know that our family is praying for you and will continue to pray for you as you grieve your loss. I did not have the pleasure of meeting your father or brother but was grateful to have known your mother. She radiated such love and joy for God and for all of you, her family. May God comfort you and bring you His peace."
"I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God has taken 2 good men!"
"Dear Scariano Family - We have just learned of your unspeakable loss and we are so sorry. We are in FL but have been told by our neighbors what happened. There are just no words to make it better - just know that you are in our hearts and minds at this tragic time."
"My deepest condolences for you and your family. May God be with you. "
"Colleen, Vince, Kris, and Patrick,I shall always treasure the memories of knowing your Mom and Dad. They will always be a blessing to me and my family, though the passing of years made our paths cross less. Together with my sons, we send our prayers to go before you. Much joy in heaven now -- may it comfort you in the difficult moments."
"Mike, I will miss seeing you and talking to you at City Gospel Mission. Knowing your heart to serve others and a willingness to do, I can hear God say to you "Well Done" my good and faithful servant.You have earned your rest,Chris"
"Dear Druding Family,I will continue to pray for your family.Your Friend,Adaly"
"mike il never forget u. u were the one that understood me and really cared about me u never once gave up on me. telling my mom and dad tht i was something else and to lighten up on me. il never forget the talks we had about my family and how i was the lucky one and i should be more greatful. il miss u and u will never be forgotten. ive been through so many rough times and ur the only one tht understood them all like u knew what i was going through and the right words to say. your the only one i could talk to to get my problems off my chest, u were the only one who would listen when no body else would u treated me like i was your daughter and for tht i will always love u and u will always be with me. thanks so much and im hoping to be tht firecracker u knew i always was :) i love you and i hope that where ever u are that u are resting in peace:) "
"To the Druding Family:We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your father and brother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. "
"May God Bless You All and May Our Blessed Mother shower you all with all the graces you'll all need at this time."
"To the Druding Family: I can not imagine your loss or sorrow. I prayed a rosary for your family before mass today. My sister is a year into recovery and it was because of people like Michael that it was possible. Your mom and dad were essential in all the service they did for OLMC. We were neighbors and fellow parishioners. The Polley Family"
"Kris, Pat, Colleen and Fr. Vince,Words cannot be found to express the sorrow at hearing this news in the last few hours. Thinking back to all those pickup games or games of H-O-R-S-E that took place on Dayton Drive and the many other neighborhood gatherings, your family has had such a meaningful and positive influence on so, so many. My prayers are and always will be with you."