In loving memory of

Sandra Scheetz
December 31, 1969 - December 31, 1969

Sandra Boyd Scheetz, 67, passed away on May 5, 2012. She was born in Indianapolis on May 20, 1944 to Bette Anne Carr Boyd and Guy F Boyd, Jr.

She is a graduate of Immaculate Heart of Mary, Ladywood High School, and Butler University. She is a lifelong sister member of Kappa Alpha Theta sorority.

Sandi recently retired from Cathedral High School after teaching and coaching speech for twenty-one years. She loved her students. She taught by example, living a selfless life devoted to others. She loved to travel. She made several trips to Europe with the students from Cathedral and travelled throughout her life with friends and family.

She received the distinguished Monsignor Busald Award and the St. John Bosco Medal, which is the highest honor bestowed on a volunteer from the Archdiocese of Indianapolis. She coached youth kickball for more than 25 years at Immaculate Heart, St. Monica?s, St. Luke's and Our Lady of Mt. Carmel. She was the Sweetheart Queen for Sigma Nu fraternity at Butler. She was president of the PTO, Women?s Club and member of the Mt. Carmel Parish Counsel, serving in many capacities. She was a eucharistic minister and was also involved in the St. Margaret?s Guild. She loved and supported Birthright.

A devout Catholic, the love of God and devotion to the Blessed Mother were cornerstones of her life. Her family was the most important and cherished part of her life. She spoke often of the importance of family life and was the best mom possible.

She loved her cottage at Bass Lake, her little paradise. She looked forward to each summer when she could have her family and friends join her in creating memories we now hold dear to our hearts.

She courageously fought a battle with cancer.

She was preceded in death by her first husband, 2nd Lt. Steven L Dongus, her mother, Bette Anne Carr Boyd, father, Guy F Boyd, Jr., and sister-in-law, Mary Ellen Boyd. She is survived by her sons, Steven (Beth) Scheetz of Coppell, Texas and their children Morgan, Ryan and Rachel; Michael (Melanie) Scheetz of Carmel and their children Kate and Will; and Clayton (Lainey) Scheetz of Indianapolis and their children Tanner and Hayden. She is also survived by her brothers, Jack Boyd; Guy (Christy) Boyd III; and Gregg (Debbie) Boyd; sister-in-law Jane (Brad) Dongus Rainier; and nieces and nephews including the Rainiers: Beth, Brad, Jeff, and Katie; the Boyd?s: JB, Chris, Katie, Guy IV, Gabrielle, Kristin, Brian, and Heather.

You may visit www.leppertmortuary.com where you may sign the guest book, share a personal memory, or in lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Sandi?s honor to Cathedral High School located at 5225 East 56th Street, Indianapolis, Indiana 46226.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, May 9, 2012, at 10:30a.m. at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, 14596 Oakridge Road, Carmel. Friends and family will gather Tuesday, May 8, 2012 from 3 to 8 p.m. in the Leppert Mortuary, Nora Chapel, 740 E. 86th Street, Indianapolis, with the Rite of Committal will be held at Crown Hill Cemetery.

Tributes

Jim Alerding wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Sandy was a wonderful person and she will be missed especially in the Cathedral community. I am out of town and unable to attend services but please accept my sympathy. Sandy and her family are in my prayers."

Eileen Desautels Padro wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Sandy was a wonderful and loyal friend to my mother, Helen Desautels. She will miss her greatly and all of the good times they had together at her lake house.God Bless her and her children,Eileen Desautels Padro"

STANLEY THOMAS wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Iam so sorry to hear of Sandy's passing. The world will be a lesser place without her. There is no doubt she is with the Angles now. "

Leon Auerbach wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I'm very sorry to hear about this. I've been an exchange student from Germany at CHS and Mrs. Scheetz was my speechteacher. She was a wonderful teacher and a really nice person. I will miss her really much. She was amazing. I'll pray for her and her family."

Kathy & Ralph Bruns wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Although we are at Wright Patterson AFB for a Chaplains Conference till Thursday we wish to send our Love and Prayers to the family. She was a beautiful and loving gal. Ralph will forever be thankful for all the help she provided for him and his Children when he needed her the most.We will greatly miss her and will continue to keep her family in prayer. As I have told her many times in the past few months, "Little is much when God is in it! Keep the Faith! God is in Control and He will Take care of every aspect."

Lisa Hastings-Smith wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Sandi was a wonderful colleague at Cathedral. Her love of speech and her students was apparent. I appreciated the high standards to which she held them and her legacy lives on in their futures. "

Ellen Healey wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"The Prayer Chain at Immaculate Heart of Mary Parishextends condolences to the family.Ellen Healey (for the Prayer Chain)"

Susan Hall wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Whenever I interrupt a task in order to enjoy something beautiful in nature, I think of the time that Sandi made me stop in the middle of fixing dinner to come outside and watch the sunset. She taught me to take time for the important things."

Molly McClellan wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I remember very fondly being a part of Mrs. Scheetz' first period speech class during my Junior year at Cathedral. She challenged us each and every day, but greatly rewarded us later during our college speech and writing courses that I am guessing most of us were able to do well in :) Thank you Mrs. Scheetz for being such a great part of Cathedral."

Ryan William Faulk wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I will never forget Mrs.Scheetzs from my time at Cathedral. She was one of my favorite teachers and helped me to come out of my shell and develop the love of public speaking that I still have today She will be missed!! My thoughts and Prayers are with the family at this time,rest assured knowing that she was an amazing women who touched the lives of many"

Colleen O'Malia Stine wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Mrs. Scheetz had a baby shower for my mom when she was pregnant with me, and just this fall she gave ME a baby shower for my little guy. I have known Mrs. Scheetz all my life, as a family friend and as one of my all time favorite teachers. She is one of my mom's dearest friends and I know she touched the lives of many, including my own. She will be missed and my thoughts and prayers are with her boys and family at this time. XOXOXOXO, thanks for the Sock Monkey :) Colleen"

Rita Doyle O'Malia wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"you cant replace good friends...but you can always keep their memory alive...which is exactly what i will do....soooo many memories of Sandi....she was my mentor....my go to recipe girl..my counselor,,,,my advisor....and one of the best friends i will ever have...even though her retirement was only a few weeks before her illness hit....she is having the best retirement of all now...i have no doubt...rest in peace my friend....love you...Rita O.."reetz""

Rita Doyle O'Malia wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"you cant replace good friends...but you can always keep their memory alive...which is exactly what i will do....soooo many memories of Sandi....she was my mentor....my go to recipe girl..my counselor,,,,my advisor....and one of the best friends i will ever have...even though her retirement was only a few weeks before her illness hit....she is having the best retirement of all now...i have no doubt...rest in peace my friend....love you...Rita O.."reetz""

Cessalee Smith-Stovall wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"What a woman!! From freshman year, Mrs. Scheetz always was right there in my corner at speech meets and was relentless in her efforts to make me the best I could be! For four years she stood by me, encouraged me and was single-handedly responsible for thousands of dollars in college scholarships-just because she knew I could. Mrs. Scheetz, thanks for helping me believe in me. I hope I can inspire someone else the way you inspired me. "

Sara and Bill Campbell wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Our sincere condolences to the Sheetz and Boyd families.This is a great loss to all.Sara & Bill"

Mike Bussell wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Carr, Bussell, Boyd, some of my fondest memories growing up came when our families joined together at Lake Wawasee and of course Christmas Eve. Sandy mentored us all during those youthful times and beyond, she will truly be missed."

Julianne Desautels Gallagher wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Even though Sandi was one of my mom's dearest friends, Sandi was also my friend. There is a void in the world without her but I know she is happy and at peace. My heart smiles and fills with warmth when I think of her now and always. I am sending her and her beautiful family light and love during this very difficult time. Thank you Sandi for making my life richer. Julianne Desautels Gallagher"

Carol Queisser Cox wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Jack,I am so sorry to hear that you have lost your dear sister, Sandy, and very sad to learn that she suffered with cancer. My thoughts and prayers are with Sandy, you, and your family.Carol Queisser Cox"

Suzanne Storer wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Clay and family,My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. "

Maurice & Mary O'Connor wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Dear Clay & Family; Our deepest sympathy on the death of your mom R I P. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this time. Sincerely, Mary & Moss."

Judy Robinson Bouchard wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Westlake, North Central and Butler buddies.Remeber: Your red Sunbeam riding to school singing It's Now or Never, Kathy's Clown, You'er 16. Norhtwood and cherry cokes. The NC dude ranch trail trip writng songs about frogs and watching the ranch dudes. Dances after football games, dating falling in first love. Your fixing me up with your old flame John Leppert who brought me recycled flowers! Your grandmother's lake cottage-exploring, skinny dipping, tanning and water skiing. My move to Buffalo and your trip to me-Niagra Falls and Lake Erie. Oh the fun we had and the laughs! Slumber parties and making Chef Boyardee Pizza at 4AM and thinking it was the best pizza ever. We pledged different sororities and went our seperate ways but boy did we have a great time together. I will miss you my old friend. God Speed!"

Karen (Buzzelli) Barnes wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Your mom was so much to so many. She was such a good friend to my mom; I know how much they loved to share in their joys about their kids and grandkids. When I visited with her recently, I was so impressed with her positive attitude, and the courage and strength she displayed. She was truly in God's hands then...and now. And how happy our mom's must be, to be back together again... Prayers to all."

George Jackson wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I am very sorry to hear of Sandi's passing. I will pray for her family that they might find comfort in knowing that she has earned a place in heaven."

Sheila Thompson wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Clay and Family, when I met your mom at ND graduation it was like meeting a soul sister. She made such a great impression on us that I was sorry we lived so far apart. Your family's journey with her these last few months was sacred and you honored her with your presence, care and love. I have printed her obituary and find it truly inspiring. thank you for sharing her with us. May she rest in peace. Sheila Thompson."

Diane Alerding wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Sandy has left us to be with Jesus. I am so happy for her, but sad for all of us who enjoyed her quick laugh, her stories, her life. Someone said, "Give to the world the best you have and the best will come back to you." Sandy did that with her friends and her teaching for sure.I met Sandy when we moved to Carmel about 37years ago. We had many Newcomers Club get togethers back then, and we always wanted to be in the Scheetz' group because they were so much fun. We would laugh and laugh. Those were good times! Sandy will be greatly missed."

Michael Sloan wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Steve, Michael, Clay: I am very sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. I lost my Father to cancer last year so I know how difficult this time is for you. I have known your Mother since I was in 1st. grade at Our Lady of Mount Carmel...she was there often and always very quick with her smile. Your Mother led a great life and left a plethora of examples from which we can all learn. I hope you are able to derieve comfort in knowing your Mom is no longer suffering and in the many fond memories you have. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. "

Susie Hiatt Wagner wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"My deepest sympathy to all of Sandi's family. I have so many fond memories of the entire Boyd family during our years together at Immaculate Heart of Mary.....kickball games, football jamboree each Fall, May crownings, and a special memory of Sandi having the largest holy card collection in the entire school!! A great childhood friend and a lovely woman."

Rebecca Cash wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Sandy was a wonderful mentor. I coached speech at LN, and she was always helpful and willing to lend a hand. Whenever I felt overwhelmed, I knew Sandy would know how to help me get through. Such a wonderful women!"

Julie Alexander wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Sandi was one of the first coaches to befriend me when I started coaching at Lawrence Central. She was always so helpful and I looked forward to seeing her at tournaments. She will be sorely missed, but we know that her pain and suffering are gone and she is at the feet of Jesus. I"m sure He is saying to her "Well done, my child. Welcome Home." "

Kathy Shroyer wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"So sorry to hear of Sandy's passing, but must say that I LOVE the picture you have posted of her. She was SO much fun at speech meets and always supported other coaches and all the kids. Sandy often spoke of her family, and she especially delighted in seeing her grandchildren; she was so very proud of all of them. We will miss her, of course."

Jerri,and Jim Pontius wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Sandi, is a beautiful person inside and out she will be missed by all. I think she has the nices boys that have showed her nothing but love. God Bless and I will pray for you all."

Laurie Alerding McCormick wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Clay I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. What a sad time for you and your family. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Laurie Alerding McCormick"

The Buzzelli's wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"Sandi (Mrs. Scheetz as I called her) was a wonderful person. She touched many lives and helped many people. She raised three wonderful boys and they have wonderful families as a result of her love. She was a dear friend of my mother. They connected on spiritual, social, personal and intellectual levels often. The Buzzelli's are truly blessed that Sandi was in our lives being such a wonderful friend to our mother and to us. She will be missed, but the legacy of the lives she touched and the lessons she taught will always be felt. God Bless Sandi and my may His perpetual light shine upon her. I know Heaven just became better with Sandi's passing. I also know my mother and her are together and watching over all of us with big smiles.With Sincere Sympathy,Ray and the Buzzelli family of New Jersey"

JoAnn Martin Orr wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I remember Sandy very well from my days attending Our Lady of Mt. Carmel with her son, Steve. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. God bless."

Tom Bruno wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"May she rest in the peace of the Lord. Sandi was a special person from the early days of grade school. Always the fun, funny and cheerful person.God bless."

Jim&Ann Sawyer wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"We send our sincere condolences to Sandy's entire, wonderful family. May your grandest memories give you the strength to endure the pain of the loss. "

COLLEEN WIGGS ATARAS wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I WAS IN GRADE SCHOOL WITH SANDY; WE PLAYED ON THE KICKBALL TEAM FOR IMMACULATE HEART OF MARY; SHE WAS SUCH A SWEETIE! I WENT WITH HER AND HER PARENTS FOR A WEEK AT LAKE WAWASEE DURING 7TH GRADE SUMMER, WHERE HER DAD TAUGHT ME HOW TO WATER SKI!I ALWAYS REMEMBERED HER FONDLY, AND AM HAPPY TO SEE SO MANY LOVELY ENTRIES IN HER GUEST BOOK AT LEPPERT MORTUARY.GODSPEED, SANDY!LOVE ALWAYS, COLLEEN"

Elizabeth Jamison wrote on Nov 13, 2012:

"I am so sorry to hear about Mrs. Scheetz's passing, yet I rejoice in her strong faith and know that Christ has welcomed her into His kingdom. Mrs. Scheetz was my speech coach for 4 years in high school, and I would not be the woman I am today without her. I am so glad to have known her, she was a teacher who truly believed in her students. I will never forget her kind smile, the way she would lean in to give you a compliment, and bless her heart for getting up at 5 am every other Saturday October through January for speech meets all over the state. She had such a gift for listening to her students and I enjoyed seeing her during my school breaks and college. My last memory of her is going to see "Courageous" in the movie theatres and getting lunch at Panera this past October (2011). I miss her very much and to all her family, please know that I am praying for all of you right now. "