"Cal came to mind today and I wasn't sure why and then realized today was the one year anniversary. Jennifer, my heart and prayers go out to you and the family today, and many days. "
Carl David Calcamuggio, 50, of Carmel, IN died suddenly on June 21, 2012. He was born in Toledo, OH on August 3, 1961 to Milton and Jill Calcamuggio. Carl graduated from the University of Toledo in 1987, then served his country in the U.S. Army MP Corps. While there, he attained the rank of Captain and received both the Army Commendation and Meritorious Service Medals. After leaving the service, Carl joined Arrow Electronics as a project manager, where he worked for the last 16 years. Carl was a former Boy Scout Leader and a member of King of Glory Lutheran Church, where he served as a deacon. Carl is survived by his parents, wife, Jennifer; son, Nicholas; brother, Richard (Lisa); brother-in-law, Jeff (Michelle) Emch; nieces and nephews, Nathan, Corey, Sarah, Ryan, Stephanie and Megan. Family and friends will gather on Sunday, June 24, 2012 from 3:00 to 7:00 p.m. in the Leppert Mortuary, Smith Carmel Chapel. A memorial service will be held on Monday, June 25, 2012 at 10:00 a.m. at King of Glory Lutheran Church. You are invited to visit www.leppertmortuary.com to sign the guestbook or make memorial contributions to The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention or King of Glory Lutheran Church.
"Cal came to mind today and I wasn't sure why and then realized today was the one year anniversary. Jennifer, my heart and prayers go out to you and the family today, and many days. "
"Jenny, Nicholas, Aunt Jill, and Uncle Tony-Prayers, hugs, love, and many, many tears for all of you (and our whole family) for such a huge loss. I wish I had words that could help with the pain. You are very close in my heart and thoughts, and will do absolutely anything I can do to help. Love to all."
"We met only once, but worked together by phone almost daily. I will miss his friendship.My heartfelt condolences to Jen, Nick and family."
"Fabianita and I extend our sincerest sympathy to the family of Carl, especially his dear parents who have done so much and touched so many lives in numerous positive ways."
"I am sad to hear about Carl's passing. I went to school with Carl and remember our point place days. My condolences to Carl's family and friends. "
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted. We will remember Carl's wonderful, fun spirit - nicely captured in the picture you offer here. We give our love to your family."
"Rick and Lisa,At a time like this there are words to help explain the loss and hurt you are felling. I want you to know you are in my prayers, asking God to take your hand and help you through your days."
"That's the smile I remember. Thanks for posting that photo. Carl and I only knew each other for a couple years back in college when we were fraternity brothers. When we were getting to know one another, Carl told us how he met his wife. I believe the story he told was he was playing the flute over on the Ottawa River. Thinking it was a corny story, I laughed then later we met Jenn,... I then wished I knew how to play an instrument."
"I'm sorry to hear the news of my former classmate from Toledo Woodward high school. Carl was a stand up guy. On behalf of the class of '79, you will be missed. "
"Jenny, I am so sorry for your loss. I never met Carl but we talked often about our husbands while we were "working" at HA!"
"My heartfelt condolences to all Family and Friends of Carl. His energy and smile were infectious, and was always a pleasure to be around. We may have lost touch over the years, but I never forgot the two of you together. So sorry for your loss Jen. So happy you had all those years together. "
"So sorry to hear this, Jenny. Carl was a good friend to me at both Point Place Junior High and Woodward High. He will be missed by all."
"To Jen & Nick - I'm very sorry for your loss; please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I didn't know Carl, but his parents I do know well. "
"My heartfelt prayers go out to the family. Carl and I shared a few classes in high school, and I'll never forget his ability to make all of us laugh. What a wonderful man to have known."
"Our deepest sympathy to Carl's wife, Jennifer, and son, Nicholas, and to his brother, Richard, and to our dear friends, Jill and Cal: It was like yesterday when Carl and his brother came with you, Cal, to our apartment early one August morning in 1972 and helped us move to our new home. Both boys worked so hard we could never forget them.Carl was so young and nothing we can say will make you all feel better, but know this: what a wonderful person he was! Love,Bob and Barb Bins, Toledo"
"Jenny, Nick and Family (Chloe too). Our hearts are broken with a space that will always be filled by looking in your yard and seeing Carl and Sarah and now Chloe tossing that ball. We will hold onto the memory as I hope you do of that fine man with the big smile and heart in your doorway. We love you guys and our heart and soul are available for anything you need. Love the Varma's"
"I'm very sorry for your loss. Carl was a wonderful young man .A pleasur to be around, funny storeies about the Maumee Police Dept. Everyone loved Carl in the 323 MP Co."
"I just want to say I'm sorry for you loss, I work with Carl several years at Arrow, He was a good person and a good friend. He will be missed. You are in my thoughs and prayers."
"Your St. Luke Lutheran Church family is praying for you."
"God bless all of those who knew Cal. He was a wonderful friend to us for many years. Cal's humor and wit will be things we will hold on to as we remember our dear friend."
"I am very sorry for your loss you are in my prayers. My condolences to all family and friends."
"I knew Carl from Carmel Band Boosters. He help me chaperone several Jazz events and was always a joy to have around. My prayers are with your family."
"I am so, so sorry! I've known Carl since we were in elementary school together. This is so shocking to me. Jenny, I am so sorry you have to experience this pain. My heart goes out to you and your son. Since the whole Facebook "era," I have searched for you and Carl many times, but this would not be the way I would have liked to have found you. Please let me know if you need anything."
"Just stunned and empty. Carl was always so kind to us. He made us feel like long lost friends newly reunited. We will dearly miss his smile, friendly words, and wonderful personality. Know that our hearts and our door are always open if there is anything we can do to help."
"To all of our family members. It goes without saying that we will miss Carl (pudgy) for the rest of our years. He was a great cousin, brother, son and father. Let's keep all of our prayers with Jenny, Nicholas, Rick, Aunt Jill and Uncle Tony. We love you all!!! Carl we will miss you the most, be with god and rest in peace."
"Our prayers are with you at this difficult time. "
"Cal and Jill,We were stunned to read of your son's death in today's Blade. Know that we are holding you, and your whole family, in our hearts and prayers. We will talk with you and see you soon. Be safe. We love you very much."
"Jenny, I have often thought of you and Carl. I always knew that you both had something very special. I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your families at this time.."
"I had the opportunity to meet "Cal" while working our volunteer jobs at Bands of America/Music for All. A ready smile, always willing to pitch in wherever he could help, and someone you could count on to brighten up your day. I'm stunned by this loss, and my condolences to the family and friends of Carl. I will very much miss seeing him at Lucas Oil Stadium this fall."
"Jen and Nick-We are praying for you. I know this is a bad time, but remember, Jesus said He would never leave us nor forsake us. He is beside you now in your time of great sorrow-take comfort in His presence. "
"Jenny,We are so sorry to hear about your loss. We were shocked to hear about the passing of Carl. We have so many wonderful memories with you and Carl that will be forever cherished. You, Nicholas and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We pray that God will comfort you and give you peace during this difficult time. We love you and we will continue to lift you in our prayers. "
"My deepest condolences to his Family . I still rememebers those days in Arrow working closely with each other. "
"I am sad and speechless to hear about Carl's passing. Sorry that I don't have words that could help with the pain. Carl and I knew each other a couple years ago from Arrow Unity project, we were colleagues and friends.My condolences to Carl's family and friends. Carl we will miss you. R.I.P."
"Jen, I can not even find words which can really describe the sadness and emptiness I feel. But what I definitely can say is that I'm proud that he was my friend and that I was allowed to share real good moments with him! He was a magican --- always able to put a smile in our faces and hearts regardless of how worse you felt before he was brighten our day, and this is how we are going to remember him --- always. All my thoughts are with you. "
"My hearfelt condolences to Cal's family. Knowing Cal for past 2 years, i can say that he was one of the best persons i have ever met in my life. Will always remember Cal for his wonderful spirit and his kind nature. "
"Jen and Nick,Cal touched the lives of people all around the world. He will be missed! During my times and conversations with him, it was very evident that he cared about both of you. You will be in our prayers and want to let you know that we are here for you....."
"Cal was a caring co-worker who always went above and beyond for our Unity team . Cal always reached out with a helping hand when needed and he was always there with a smile . That was very comforting to us , to have a friend from North America there in foreign lands with us who was so kind. We will miss him but will never forget Cal. My sincerest condolences to you , his famiy . God Bless you always . "
"My deepest condolences to the family. I will always remember Cal for his smile, upbeat personality and kindness. He always spoke so highly of his family and friends and was highly regarded by his colleagues. He will be missed by all!"
"Words simply cannot express the sorrow we are feeling. Carl was one of the most vibrant, loving, caring, and generous people that we have ever met. He truly touched the lives of all who knew him and we are honored to have called him a friend. Jenny and Nick......please know that you will be in our daily prayers. May God grant you comfort, peace, and strength. All our love.......Jen and Kevin"
"Jenny...I don't know what to say but sorry to my friend and her family. I am shocked and saddened at Carl's passing... We had so many great times together that I will never forget. Please know that I'm here for you anytime...thoughts and prayers with all of you always."
"Uncle Tony & Aunt Jill, Jenny and Nick~ We are so saddened to hear of Carl's passing. We have been and will continue to pray for your family during this difficult time. "
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"Jenny and Nick,I am so very sorry to hear of Carl's passing. Since hearing of this tragic news memories of so many fun times have made me laugh and cry. Carl was my dear friend so many years ago and while we had lost contact our friendship was always very special to me. He was a great man and a great friend. Jenny and Nick...you are both in my family's thoughts and prayers."
"You had such a caring heart in all the everyday moments you gave to others, it made you special Cal, and a part that makes me so blessed to have come to know you "
"Jenn, Nick, Mom and Dad, I loved him too. Loved his smile, his insatiable laughter, his kindness, his big hug when we saw each other for the first time on every new trip. I miss him dearly and want to kick him for leaving us so soon. But also want to hug him one more time and tell him he did not have to bear his pain alone. I realize this days are extremely painful but if you ever need to reach out, please call me. I will be there. 773.306.6884"
"My deepest condolences to Milton, Jill, Richard, Jennyand family. I was so saddened to learn about Carlthis morning. My thoughts and prayers are with all ofyou this week. I will always be thankful for the timeswe shared growing up. God Bless."
"I only knew Cal for a short time working at Arrow but I am blessed to have know him. He was such a happy and kind person, I'll never forget that smile. He always spoke highly of his family, I feel I know you a little, Nick doing well with his music, Jenny would have a list of chors ready for when Cal returned from work trips and sadly his fathers poor health, I could tell he loved you all so very much. I am so shocked and saddened by his passing, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. "
"He was a wonderful person, who provided a bit of sunshine and laughter when you were in his company. He will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. "
"My thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Cal. He was an outstanding person, always had something nice to say and was always very easy going."
"My deepest condolences to Cal"
"My prayers go out to Cal's family and friends. He was a great man and friend during those years we worked together at Arrow (Memphis). He will truly be missed."
"Deeply saddened by this tragic news. My heartfelt condolences to his family. Having worked closely with him for more than 4 years, he was one of the nicest persons I have ever known. Always in good spirits, he made every effort to ensure that the same was true for people around him. Working with him has been a pleasure all along. Kind, considerate, understanding and hard working - I am fortunate to have known him. He will be missed, everyday..."
"To Cal"
"I would like to express my condolences to all his family.Carl was a very nice person, he had always a smile for everybody and he was one of the most professional co-workers I worked with. "
"My deepest and sincere condolences to Cals family. I have worked with Cal for the last few years and he was one of the kindest,most genuine people I have met. He always had a big smile ready for everyone which is what I will remember. He wil be missed by us all."
"Cal was one of a kind. He had a gracious personality,great attitude,and love for work. There was never a time during work or off work that he did not share his knowledge and advise to many of us. He always had something funny orInteresting to talk about and no matter where he was or went he always left us with a smile. He will be truly missed by all."
"Carl was a such a kind person allways there if you needed help, i will allways remember his smile and his wonderful sense of humour. He will be truly missed and allways in our thoughtsMy thoughts are with you all at this very difficult time, God Bless. "
"I am so very sorry and saddened to hear of your loss. Cal was an exceptional co-worker who never hesitated to help in any way possible. A very caring and giving person who brightened any given day with that beautiful and contagious smile, I have been blessed for having known him. I hold you all in my prayers."
"THANK YOU CAL !thanks for being a special person, for your kindness at all times. Once again you are giving me a great lesson.Goodbye Cal, God bless you!My condolences to all family and friends."
"So very sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and Nick."
"Jenny & Nicholas and family,We are sad with you today. We fondly remember such good times when you all lived in Anniston! Love, prayers, and sympathy from all of us. God's peace,Christina, Ed, & Faith Dorn"
"Jenny- So sorry about your loss. We had such fun times and lots of laughs. I still tell stories about Carl. I think about you and your family often. Carl will be missed by everyone who knew him. "
"Words in no way can express the loss... Carl is in my heart a student, wrestler, coach , friend and a son. My spirit and soul grieve his loss to his family.. .. So many thoughts and so many blessings that Carl and his family have given me ... you are all a part of my life forever... "
"I had the pleasure of working with Cal for many years at Arrow. He always made an impression on me with his smile and is someone that you just don't forget. My thoughts and prayers are with his family in this time. "
"I only found out about Carl's passing yesterday, I have no words to express how deeply sorry I am and my heart and prayers goes to His Wife and Son whom he talked so proudly. I met Carl in the Year 2000 in New York before Arrow sent Us to do some warehouse system implementation in Hong Kong, then we met in Germany again and we kept in touch via email or skype. Great Man, Great Colleague, and Great Friend, I will miss your smile ! Dear Carl may You Rest in Peace. "
"I was all shocked and saddened to hear of Carl's passing. I also enjoyed his smile and great sense of humor. He was also a true animal lover and I always appreciate that quality. My thoughts are with Jenny, Nick, and Chloe."
"My deepest condolences to Carl's family. I just could not believe the news. Lost a good friend with an ever lasting smile. I remember him as a very jolly person, very methodical and who made things look simple for everyone in the team."