Mike P. Jellison
December 31, 1969 - December 31, 1969

"I was dubbed "project manager" for an HL7 interface while I was working at Harborview quite a few years ago. First of all, I knew nothing about HL7, second of all, I knew nothing about project managing... Mike went above and beyond to help me and was so kind and patient, always telling me I was doing a great job. I always got a big smile on my face when I saw him and Stephanie walking through the parking lot holding hands... He will truly be missed by so many."

"Seldom does a day go by when I'm not looking for information from HIT and Mike pops into my head and I miss his not being there. My thoughts have been with Mike and his family since I first heard about his illness."

"Mike and Stephanie Jellison have been part of my extended family for more years than I can recall. Though I didn't see them as often as I might have wished, they have always been a bright and very special presence in my life. Mike's energy and passion were palpable; even hearing someone else talk about him could bring a smile to my face. He may be gone, but his light will always be with me."

"A little retreat on the 4th floor at Northgate. Mike and his office always provided for a quick getaway with great company. You'll be greatly missed for all of the joys you brought in life, but will continue to bring in memories. I will always smile when I think of you."

"Stephanie, Life gives us all too brief moments of love, laughter and shared dreams... I hope you can take comfort in knowing those brief moments provide memories that will last your lifetime... Sending my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Sue"

"Stephanie, We were all blessed by Mikey, those who knew him and those who just heard us go on and on about what a wonderful, kind man he was. I never heard an unkind word spoken by him and think he was the gentlest man I know. I smile when I think of him. His eyes and smile always brightened the room. Nor will I forget him playing "Target Fairy" to our daughters and the laughter that rang throughout the store that day.The love you two share inspires us all. Know that you are in our hearts always and we pray for strength during this difficult time. We love you~!"

"Mike will remain a part of UW Medicine IT Services formerly MCIS's history. He was very helpful and very easy to talk to. He was very calm, and spoke very softly. He will be missed !"

"My tribute to Mike probably should have been short and sweet, but that would not do justice for how he affected my life. And so with deep love and appreciation for Mike: I once saw a man who was gentle and kind A man of rare qualities that is so hard to find. In his office, I first met him, where he was employed Doing what he did best or at least enjoyed Happy and open and welcoming was he That it was okay to talk with him, whatever it be. He would listen and ponder about all you would say And give you some guidance or see another way My friend was really a kid at heart A heart that was so generous and yup he was smart. With wisdom and care he built a family he enjoyed Though the family he made was where he was employed. He walked with me personally through my depths of despair He guided me, sheltered me, and fed me with care. It was only a short time but the affects have been long When I was the weakest, he and his wife made me strong. He gave me my life again and a purpose to fulfill And how I truly thank that man and yes, love him still. In mutual triumphs and successes, he was most overjoyed Annual picnics, BBQs, and good food is what he enjoyed His office was a joyous place, with a bubbling spring And for many, a place of refuge, or so it would seem. How deep is my sadness, and a loss to us all He has passed through this life to a different call The threads of life sewn here for me Is a man of great honor on my tapestry. I thank you my dear friend for all you meant to me And this is my tribute to you for the world to see. With a deep sadness and personal loss I have to say goodbye to one of my life�??s truest friends. Yet, my appreciation and adoration that I have for Mike cannot be complete without celebrating his life and all the joy that he gave to me and others. Mike and Stephanie, thank-you for allowing me to share a part of your lives."

"I will never forget Mike's smile, warmth, gentleness, dedication to quality in his work, deep thoughtfulness, and great heart. It was so much fun watching him blossom when he and Stephanie fell in love and built their life together! Despite his cruel illness, his joy in sharing his life with Stephanie and all of his extended family was solid. I will always bless Mike for helping me when I was struggling to make a decision about buying a new house that would make my life easier. I told him that I was grieving because I loved my current home so much, and I just didn't like the new one as well and wasn't sure I ever would. He thought for a minute, then asked, "How much did you like your current house when you moved in?" In that one question, he softened my grief and gave me hope for the future, because I remembered that I thought it was not a great choice when I bought it years before! And now I'm very glad I moved, because I live only a mile from Mike & Stephanie, and therefore have seen them often."

"It is a difficult task to put into words who Mike Jellison was and what he meant to us all. His love for his wife and love for life were unequaled. He was always there to help regardless of the task, often at a cost to his own personal well being too many long hours on-call!. He always had a smile and a heart of compassion, ready at a moment to give a warm handshake, a pat on the back, or a hug. He was someone you could ALWAYS count on. Mike, you will be sorely missed my friend, and always have a part of our hearts."

"God has called Mike home he has some beautiful work for Mike now. he is with the Father, i use to see Mike and Stephanie out side on my break and during the years that i have worked here. Mike always said hello and treated me with kindness. you could see the love and kindness in him, and the great love he had for people. God Bless the family and sorry for your loss. May God bless you and know that Mike is being held in the arms of our Lord. and is no longer in pain. There is no greater love than the love of God. Lyndia Wright data entry."

"Our thoughts & prayers are with you. Love, Chuck & Kitty Rhodes"

"Mike trained me when I started here at MCIS, almost 10 years ago. Immediately I liked him because he had candy, food, patience and the drive to 'play' that's the word we used every time I got stuck and needed his help. His door was always open to ALL, even my kids. Several years ago one of my daughters needed help making a mechanical wood hand, she came to me and I told her that she was about to fail her class, I am afraid of the tools heck I don't even own those tools required scary tools to me. I mentioned to Mike the wood hand and his reply was "GREAT! -- I get to make dust, can I help" that is what he called doing beautiful work with his hands. The hand was completed and she received a good grade for the hand. From that moment in my home he was know as the CANDY MAN. I never saw Mike raise his voice. I never saw Mike angry. I wish I could be more like him. I WILL MISS YOU!"

"Mike, is in our hearts just as he was in our prayers. Remembering his joy of life and his love for his family and his special love he shared with his beloved Stephanie. Life loved Mike everday he was on this Earth, it showed in his eyes and in his smile. It wasn't fair he should leave us so early. But Our Lord must have needed him by his side. With all the sadness in the World, Our Lord must have needed someone like Mike, to remind him that there will be happier days ahead. And only Mike could make us laugh when we wanted to cry. We cry now that Mike's physical body is gone but we smile remembering those times Mike made us so happy and proud to have know him. Because it would not have been the same if Mike Jellison wasn't in our lives."

"I love that Mike loved to �??play�?� and to include others in his �??games�?� �?? He taught so many so much making what some saw as work, play. I love that Mike loved to love and he shared his love with others, especially with Stephanie. I love that Mike had a ready smile and an open heart. But most of all I love and am thankful for the glimpse I got of Mike in my life. His presence will be missed but he will live on in all of our hearts."

"My Memories of Mike J. were summers on Flathead Lake. We were four years apart I was a "teenager" and he was a "child" of nine. My Mom and dad loved all three of those boys who wouldn't! He spent time fishing on the barge with my Dad, Jack Evans the dreamer of all dreamers and Cecil, his grandfather. Both Cecil and Jack were the bullshitters of all bullshitters and huge story tellers! Mike hung out with those crazy old men and they loved him for it they were too cranky and full of B.S. for the rest of us Mike spent part of his Summers at the Fort, driving the backhoe and peeling logs. No doubt, Jack,Dorothy and Cecil were waiting for Mike to Arrive in heaven with open arms, a cold beer and "nibbilies" for happy hour. Well, I'm sure Dorothy was at the Pearly Gates, but Jack and Cecil are questionable. Blessing to all. The world would be a much better place if there were more Mike Jellisons, he will be deeply missed."

"I met Mike when he first started working at IT Services then MCIS. I immediately thought that this was one smart man. He really loved to dive into his work, and find out everything about things. Over time, I learned that he was also a very kind and thoughtful person. I appreciated the donuts and choclate that were always present in his office, marveled at the toys, and was grateful for his help for my many picky little problems. He handled all problems with patience and brought some calmness to the chaos that can suddenly appear at work. I will miss him and his great sense of humor."

"Mike, I didn't know you but I wish I had. From what I have heard here at work, you were a special person. I work in IT and we are often stereotyped as lacking people skills; I doubt anyone ever said that about you. Life is too short. Your passing has caused me to send a couple of emails to friends out of state. Easter is a time for celebration."

"There is a bright violet light that shines within each of us. It carries our hopes, fears, love, humor, warmth, peace and grace. Michael's genuine warmth and gentle approach touched our lives; his gifts enabled us to set our own best intentions. He shared his light with us and that is how he will always be with us. Thank you Michael."

"I didn't know Mike, but I know from the ways Stephanie talked about him that he was someone worth cherishing. Sympathies to all who did know and love him."

"How do I begin to say how thankful I am that Stephanie found in Michael the love and support she needed. I will always remember the wonderful time I had with them in Seattle and will always be thankful to Michael for encouraging Stephanie to visit me when I really needed her after her father's death. He truly was one who enjoyed life and because of this made those he knew enjoy life more. I loved him like a son and will miss him."

"Sorry to hear the loss of Mike. He is a wonderful person that we all worked with. My deepest condolence to you and your family. I will miss him. God bless you. Sincerely, Connie Chu"

"Stephanie: I was so saddened to hear of Mike's passing. When ever I think of Mike, I automatically think of you. I can remember when you two were first married. The kindness and respect you showed each other taught me many lessons of how life should be. The love you shared is not found by many people and how fortunate for the both of you that you found each other. We who are your friends and family benefited greatly from your union because your love radiated around you. I knew when ever I had a problem while working at MCIS, Mike would give me a willing hand. He would be the first person I would ask questions because I knew I would get the help I needed. He was a wonderful co-worker. I was not aware as to the extent of Mike's illness. I knew he had been ill but thought things were getting better. Please accept my sincerest sympathy to you and your family. The love you two shared will always be with you and my wish is that it will be of great comfort to you in the days ahead. I am sorry I will not be able to attend Mike's memorial service but my heart will be with you. Love, Sandie"

"Stephanie, Marla and I are so sad to hear this news but are so glad you took time to send us this note. Several people at UW know how much I liked Mike and you �?? so they had forwarded the news already. Mike was a great guy to work with and was one of the reasons it was hard to leave UW and join another company. I have many very good memories of those times �?? including how he took me golfing and got me interested in it because life on the golf course was fun. He taught me how to enjoy the sport and not get mad at where the ball went. If it does not go where it should then the game does not end too soon. Mike was also smart when it came to computers �?? but I guess you already know that. Since Marla and I will not be able to attend the memorial service, we will do the next best thing. We will go out on our patio and have a late dinner and talk about Mike. It is 12.5 hours later in the day in India �?? we will have an after dinner toast to Mike while everyone there is at the service. So I guess you can say it will be an international memorial event. Now I do not know if you had heard that I am stationed in India. I am half way through an 18 month assignment here in Bangalore, the fifth largest city in India. Finally, thank you so much for including a photo of Mike �?? with the smile I remember too. Love, Peter & Marla"

"We send our love, caring and blessings."

"Dick and I were so sorry to hear about Mike. What a great person he was. We felt priviledged to know him. Our son, Jeremy, had a cancerous brain tumor, so we feel an added closeness to the cause of Mike's death. Our hearts our with you and your family. Sincerely, Suze Dasen"

"Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Neal and Helen RhodesBaker, Dan and RobinBaker Hagadone"

"Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. Be strong and know that friends and family are there with and for you."

"I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL. DALE GIFFORD"

"I am so sorry for your loss! I wished I had got to know Mike as an adult. He sounds like he continued to be a wonderful person. Knowing him as a child he was mischevious, fun and kind. I remember the time he and my daughter at around age 5-7 yrs old crawled out onto the roof of their house. I thought Mikes mom was going to have a heart attack. I'm sure there are other stories that could be told also about his escapades. Mike, we will miss you!!"

"I gave Mike his first taste of computers at Flathead High, and was very pleased with his successes. My condolences and prayers for all of you."

"Mike had sawdust in his veins. In between interface projects, troubleshooting, and brain storming, we found time to discuss wood building projects and ideas. Mike was always ready to hear one more story about the kids, and always had a piece of candy when the kids stopped by the office. Mike was a great friend. He will be missed. Ben"

"It saddens me that Mike is gone. I have wonderful childhood memories of Mike. Please know that our prayer and thoughts are with all of his family at this sad time. Love Wayne & Suzanne Smith"

"I did not know Mike very well I only joined IT Services in 2004, but every contact I had with him was a friendly one. My only interactions with him were positive. I hope you know that I mourn your loss and wish you nothing but strength in the future. My family�??s prayers will be with you in this tough time. My deepest condolences and best wishes to you and all who loved him, Doug Hudson"

"I wanted to tell you of my heartfelt sorrow for your loss of Mike. As I remember, you both were/are such lovely people, sincerely a giving couple and I wanted to tell you Mike will be misses by many many people, dincluding myself. I hope that you are doing well and that life will settle in and with it may you find peace. My best to you, Julie Thomsen"

"I really enjoyed the few times that I got to be with Michael. I wish we could have gotten together more often. I am so glad that Stephanie had someone in her life who loved her so much."

"Mike was my best buddy in High School, as we spent our time discovering computers together. On a Friday night most of our classmates were out cruising up and down Main street or getting drunk. Mike and I, however, were typing some program into a computer and oblivious to time and space. I took it for granted at the time and only in later years realized what a gift it was to have been able to spend that time with Mike. God Bless."

"Mike was a kind soul, always smiling and had a warm, fun and lofty spirit. He's amongst his fellow angels now and resting -when he's not making 'em laugh for sure. :"

"Stephanie, I have thought so often of you and Mike and sent an extra prayer for you both. I am so sorry that a miracle never came and Mike has lost his battle. He was an incredible man. Although I was not fortunate enough to know him well, I saw enough to know that few people have a heart as large as Mike's. His love for people and life was contagious. His relationship with you will remain an example for me always. He loved, respected and adored you. How he treated others and particularly you will be forever imprinted in my mind as the gold standard. My heart goes out to you! I know there is nothing I can say to ease the pain you must be feeling. But know that I am thinking of you and so very sorry for the loss of Mike. Sincerely, Kathy Cox"

"Nancy, Roger, Timmy, Stephanie, Gene & family. We were so very sorry to hear about Mikie. Our hearts and prayers are with you all. Keep all of those wonderful memories close to your hearts. Love and sympathy. Yvonne, Steve, Linda Thomas and Mike Steckel."

"It is difficult to share ones feelings for a loved one who has left this life for his eternal one. Michael was one of the gentlest persons I have ever known. I remember when we first met his big and friendly smile matched his warm personality. It was evident that Michael and Stephanie were a great match. We will all miss Michael and the joy he added to our lives."

"The love shared between Mike and Stephanie is one of the most beautiful and powerful I've experienced. I will always remember the last time I saw them together. Their love encircled Mike's bed like a warm glow. When I entered the room, it expanded to include me. I felt blessed and honored. Even though Mike's body was weak, his love was as strong as ever. Love like that must be eternal. Bob and I will keep the imprint of this love in our hearts for the rest of our lives. In closing.... the words of an old Dale Evan/Roy Rogers song keep going through my head. Mike, "Happy Trails to You, Until We Meet Again"."

"Mike's generous spirit and caring nature were exemplified during my last encounter with him about a month ago. It was the first time we�??d visited since I had a minor stroke. We talked about his condition and compared our experiences. Quite unexpectedly Mike asked me, �??So, how has it affected you?�?? Even at that late stage of his disease, he was concerned about me and offering support. His insights have helped me understand and adjust to my own situation. Mike will be missed."

"sorry for your loss. mike brought such joy and smiles where ever he went. will sure miss him at finnegans and his visits to kalispell"

"The eleven years that I've been in this building, the sight of Mike or hearing his name mentioned brought thoughts and feelings of his gentleness and love. Running into Mike and Setphanie outside while taking their break/walks, arm-in-arm, like twins their faces mirrored eachother's love and peace in their souls. Mike's presence will be missed on this earth but his spirit is with us forever. Thanks Mike."

"Mike was one of the kindest and gentlest men I�??ve ever had the pleasure to know. In the ten years that I knew him, I never heard him speak ill of anyone nor raise his voice and he always had a ready smile. He was a man loved by his friends and especially his wife Stephanie, who always took care of him. She made his office into a tranquil garden for him, with plants and a water fountain. If I were to sum up Mike in a word, it would be �??peace�?�. He exuded it, his workspace was filled with it, and he is now at peace with the life he fought so hard to keep. Thank you Mike Jellison. I�??m a better person for knowing you�?�"

"Stephanie - I have known you & Mike for many years at the UW. Mike was one super individual �?? always very helpful with a great sense of humor. He was one of the good one & will be missed by all. Please accept my condolences �?? Sincerely John H Twenter"

"In the short time I worked with Mike I always found him to be warm and friendly, and I enjoyed working with him. This memory of Mike will remain with me - Sincerely, Louis"

"Mike will be greatly missed by all who knew him and for those who did not know him; they missed out knowing a wonderful human being. Mike always looked for the good in everyone and was always about how best to tackle challenges. I cherish the time that I was able to spend with him."

"Great men speak softly and smile broadly. Mike was exactly that kind of man. I remember him with great fondness and respect."

"I didn't know Mike well, but felt I did through Stephanie. Stephanie has a way of making everyone feel they are the most important person in her life - and after being at Mike's memorial I know now he had the same gift. I hope I, as well as all of Stephanie's co-workers, are able to give back to her just a tiny bit of the love and support she brings to us every day. My favorite memory of Mike is just a moment I saw in the NEC parking lot at work three or four years ago. From behind, I could see Stephanie and Mike were out for a walk, arm in arm, so clearly the soul mates that were described today at the service. I feel blessed to have witnessed that tiny of moment of their life together. I believe that we live on in the memories of those we leave behind. Mike touched so many and Stephanie touched so many more on his behalf. Mike will live on in the memories of his friends, family, co-workers, and especially all those nieces and nephews who will remember and tell stories about him for years and years to come. Ellen"

"I usually ended up working with Mike when we were both on call. I was always pleased to see his name on the list because I knew that no matter what time of day or night it was, he would always be helpful and in a good mood. One day I was driving to work and I found myself pulling into the parking lot behind two matching scooters...it was Mike and Stephanie, and this was the first time I realized they were married. I was jealous every time I saw them go to lunch together, since I didn't get to see my hubby that often. Their love for each other was obvious and genuine. Having gone through a long-term illness like this in my family, I was glad to see Mike approaching the problem with resolve rather than despair, and a desire to enjoy whatever time he had."

"When is the most important time? Now Who is the most important person? The one you are with. What is the most important thing to do? To care. Ajahn Brahm Mike and Stephanie embody all those things and more."

"I am Stephanie's step brother. I remembering visiting Mike and Stephanie several years ago and enjoying a tour of their many projects around the home. I made a flower bed in my backyard this week in tribute to Mike. My prayers are with his family, especially Stephanie."

"Stephanie: I found you and Mike in the copy room or the elevator one day many years ago and said, "Okay you guys. I just saw you two walking across the parking lot holding hands." And you said, "Not only that, but we're engaged to be married." My reaction? YES! EXCELLENT! I was delighted. Everybody who knew you was delighted, and we still are. Mike was a terrific example to me of how to live this life. And your relationship has been a wonderful example, too. You were so in love. We should all hold hands a little more often, don't you think? Thank you Mike, and thank you Stephanie."

"I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I didn't have the pleasure of meeting Mike, but felt that I had through conversations with Nancy, and my father Larry McAtee. But all that I heard made him out to be a very special man! Nancy--we love you and miss you! Our deepest sympathies to you all. You will be in our prayers, and may God's peace comfort you."

"Stephanie, I am very sorry to hear about Mike's death. Blair Cockerline told me about the bad news last Thursday afternoon. I knew Mike through the change control meetings. His professionism was highly respected and his good-bye letter to all IT Services touched a lot of people's hearts. The pain that you are going through is beyond any word can describe. My thoughts are with you. Please take care... Mae Liem"

"My precious Stephie - I haven't been on line in almost 2 weeks and have just found and read your mail that Mikey has passed. I cannot even begin to fathom this and how hard this is and has been for you. I know the extent of the devotion you held for each other. I will light candles for him in honor of his great and loving light. Your sister and friend - RAVEN"

"I am truly saddened by Mike's death. A generous soul, a great employee, a good husband to a good friend. I will miss him. My heart aches for you and I pray God is merciful in your grief. Tom"

"My family�??s thoughts and prayers are with you during this very tough time. Mike will always be remembered for his huge heart, jest of life and persistence for technical perfection. Yours always, Dave Dreiblatt"

"I am so sorry to hear this news. He was such a wonderful man and it was truly my pleasure to have known him. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help. My thoughts are with you... ~Jim"

"My very deepest sympathies and condolences in your loss. Mike was a really wonderful guy, and I hope you can find comfort in the fact that there are a lot of other people who knew him, who will miss him too. I know I do already. -- Wayne"

"Mike was a great guy. He will be missed. Josh Wendt"

"I worked with Mike for a short time in the late 90's. He was so genuine and consistently kind, helpful and generous with his knowledge and humor. Stephanie, I am sorry for your loss and send all manner of good energy in your direction."

"As I have read through the bible, the following chapter not only reminds me of Mikey, But also of you, Stephanie, my dear sister. 1 Corinthians 13 LOVE Agape "And now I will show you the most excellent way. If I gpeak in the tongues of men and of angles, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and have the faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patint, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies , they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled, where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love". Mike was LOVE, and so are you my dear sister. He will be in my memories and heart forever. May God comfort you during our great time of loss. I love you. Crash"