"Cat and Jonathan asked me to attend the birth of their son Griffin. It was an honor and joy to see them working together as a loving couple through labor and birth. Cat was patient and determined throughout and Jonathan gave her encouragement and support, and humor. When Griffin was born I saw the beautiful transformation from woman into a mother, from a man into a father. A sense of calm and love filled the room and Cat became intensely focused on her perfect and wonderful little baby. The radiance on her face proclaimed she had immediately fallen in love with their beautiful boy. She and Jonathan and Griffin. Cat was a lively, vibrant and energetic woman who brightened so many lives with her voice, personality, and seriously fabulous ever-changing hair! She was a devoted and loving mother and wife. Cat lives within each of us that had the privilege of knowing her. Cat is alive in Griffn. She touched my life in a unique way and I will always be grateful for that. Love to Jonathan, Griffin, and family. Fiona "
In loving memory of
Catherine Barney
July 7, 1971 - September 9, 2017
Catherine Louise Barney, 46, of Kingston, NY, formerly of Light House Point, FL, passed away Saturday, September 9, 2017 at home. She was born July 7, 1971 in Westwood, NJ to Jim Messing and Claire (Feliciano) Messing. Catherine was a graduate of Deerfield High School, Class of 1989. She later received her Bachelor's Degree in Acting and Directing from SUNY New Paltz. She was a member of Alpha Psi Omega and was a Yoga Instructor. She is survived by her husband, Jonathan Barney of Kingston, her son, Griffin. Entrusted to the care of Keyser Funeral & Cremation Service, 326 Albany Ave., Kingston, NY 12401, where family and friends may visit on Saturday October 7 from 1pm to 4pm. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to Center for Spectrum Services at http://centerforspectrumservices.org/index.php/component/content/article/23-avenues-of-support/302-donate-now
Tributes
"I have had the honor and privilege of knowing Cat through being one of her yoga students, she was a amazing instructor. As well as a amazing person with many talents, I enjoyed the plays she performed in. I could never figure out in yoga class how she could tie her hair in a bun without and ties. She will be greatly missed and always be a part of my yoga practice. Sincerely, Wendy Dunn "
"Oh, my beautiful Cat. Jonathan and your sweet Griffin are in my constant thoughts, and I wish them a healing grieving and great peace, knowing you will always be with them. Go give 'em hell, chickie...I'm gonna go pick flowers ??? Love you always, Cat. ??'-Emmy"
"Cat was by far my favorite yoga instructor. Her spirit, calming energy and beautiful voice will be forever in my heart. "
"Cat Barney is one of the most talented, brave, honest performers and friends I've had the pleasure to work with and know. She meant so much to my work, and to the lives of MaryEl, the boys and me. Nothing but love to the "one woman crusade." Jonathan and Griffin, you are in our hearts."
"Jonathan and Griffin, My heart, love and prayers are with you and your family. Cat was such an inspiration to me and to our staff, her love for Griffin was so powerful and joyful! She shared her story to strengthen other parents and support them in their journey. I am so fortunate to have known her! We would like to place a memory paver in the front of the building next to Griffin's. Take care of yourself and give time for healing and remembrance. Celebrate her wonderful life!! Leah"
"Jonathan, I am sad to hear about your lost. I don't have enough words to express the magnitude of such event, but my thoughts and prayers goes to you and family. The light and peace will come for those that have left us, but for those who stay, sweet memories will remain in our hearts."
"Cat was a new yoga instructor and I was a new student when I first met her many years ago. It was an honor to know her and to watch her mature into a very fine woman and mother. She taught me how to breathe... "
"Cat was an inspired yoga teacher. She was wonderfully supportive and always made me feel comfortable about my abilities (which are questionable most of the time). I will miss her."
"I only met Catherine for a brief moment in time, but I know I will never forget her. She was so very courageous. I know her family has a tough road ahead. Sending hugs and much strength to all, especially to her amazing little boy, Griffin. "