Thomas Edward Schinbeckler, DDS, age 51, of Carmel, IN passed away at 8:10 a.m. on Wednesday, October 6, 2010 at his home. Born on December 17, 1958 in Fort Wayne, he was the son of Keith E. Pickle and JoAnne (Witte) Schinbeckler.
He grew up in Columbia City and graduated from Columbia City Joint High School with the Class of 1976. He then attended Indiana University where he received a dual degree in Chemistry and Biology in 1981 and in 1985 he received his Doctorate in Dentistry. He first was the owner of Southern Smiles for 15 years in Hilton Head Island, SC and then moved back to Indiana where he has owned Nora Family Dentistry since January 2002. He was a member of St. Elizabeth Seton Catholic Church, Fort Wayne, ADA, Knights of Columbus-4th Degree, Indiana Dental Association and Indianapolis District Dental Society. He enjoyed cars, racing, legos and puzzles, Jaguars and his 3 children.
Survivors include his 3 children, Sarah A., Christian T. and Rachael L. Schinbeckler all of Carmel; former wife, Amy Schinbeckler, Carmel; brother, H. David Schinbeckler of Mindemoya, Ontario, Canada; aunt, Carole Schinbeckler of Columbia City; cousin, Dr. Gary (Lesley) Schinbeckler of Greenwood; 2 nieces; 5 nephews; special friends, Susie and Laura Lee Stevens of Fishers. He was preceded in death by his parents.
A memorial service will be held on Saturday, October 9, 2010 at at 7 p.m. at Robertson Chapel, St. Luke's United Methodist Church, 100 W 86th, Indianapolis, IN with Dr. Carolyn Scanlan officiating. A reception will immediately follow the service in the church fellowship hall. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to DeMoney-Grimes Countryside Park Funeral Home, Columbia City, IN. Memorials may be given in memory of Dr. Schinbeckler to The Peabody Library, 1160 E SR 205, Columbia City, IN 46725 or The Timmy Foundation, 22 E 22nd Street, Indianapolis, IN, 46202. Please visit www.demoneygrimes.com to send family condolences or sign the guest register book.
Randy Grimes wrote on Jan 11, 2030:
"To the Entire Schinbeckler Family;
May each of you find courage to face tomorrow as you rest in the knowledge that we truly care about each of your needs and that we will walk beside you in your journey of grief.
Randy Grimes and the Staff of DeMoney-Grimes Funeral Home
"
Sarah wrote on Dec 17, 2012:
"Well, its been close to 2 years now and its Tom's birthday--my dad's birthday. We all miss him so much still, every one of us. It brings so much joy to my heart to look back and see these comments left by all of the various families and friends of my father. If he ever got the chance to see this, I think it would make him overjoyed to know how well my family and I have been taken care of. Thank you to all who reached out to us or said a prayer. We felt your love. So does he."
Karen wrote on Apr 12, 2011:
"Rest in much peace, Tom."
Marty Posch wrote on Apr 6, 2011:
"I just found out toady about Tom's passing. I have to tell you that I am truly saddened.He was a great man and a great guy to talk to about IU when I came in for a check up. I picked his practice randomly and stayed there for years because of him. I know you can see through these other posts that the measure of a man is how he touches those through his life that you dont even know about. Tom was one of those men and I am fortunate to have known him even a little.
"
Pamela Steele wrote on Apr 4, 2011:
"To the Schinbeckler'sFamily & Staff
I just learned of my dentist Dr. Schinbeckler death Saturday during my appointment with him [or I thought it would be with him]. Upon my asking for him did I learn he had passed a couple of weeks after my last 6 months check up Sept 18th. I'm still shocked. He always asked how I was doing. Asking not only in my dental health, but as a person. I own a child care and he would ask how are those children? My prayers go out to his family and all that knew and loved him."
Marcio Almeida and Ana Paula Durighetto wrote on Mar 28, 2011:
"My husband and I called this morning to schedule our appointments with him to just find out that he had already left to a much better place, to be by the Lord. We are still in shock to learn the news, and want Amy & her family to know that our heart goes out to them, and that we will be praying that you find peace.
Dr Schinbeckler was a wonderful dentist, a wonderful human being. We know that we will never find a dentist like him, but we also feel blessed for having the chance of being treated by him for so long. He will be forever missed."
John Johnston wrote on Mar 25, 2011:
"I was shocked to learn of the news of Tom''s passing today.My heart goes out to Amy & her family - I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.Tom and I were high school pals and I''ve kept in touch with him about once a year over the past 35 years.We spent countless days together in the summers on both Shriner Lake and Big Cedar in Indiana, perfecting our slalom skiing skills and working summer jobs in high school and college for boat gas.He was a true friend that loved life and family, and was so proud of his kids.This world has lost a wonderful man, father, and friend.I will miss him forever.
"
Monica wrote on Feb 25, 2011:
"I am just being made aware of the loss of Dr Schinbeckler.He has been my dentist for many years.When I moved I switched to a closer dentist and missed the service I received from Dr Schinbeckler, so I came back and would travel out of the way just to continue to get the top notch service I was used to receiving from him and the office.My heart goes out to to his children that he talked about during every visit and all those that had the opportunity to know him personally.God Bless you!!!He will be MISSED!!!"
Kim Metzger wrote on Feb 25, 2011:
"Being somewhat delinquent on our appointments, I just learned yesterday of Dr. Tom''s death.Shocked and saddened doesn''t begin to describe it.My entire family saw him for dental care; we have been patients since 2003.Rarely do you meet a kinder person.God bless you all."
Tyesha Holliday wrote on Jan 22, 2011:
"I was just told the news this morning, I had no idea of his passing.I am in disbelief and very heart broken because Mr.Schinbeckler was not only the best dentist I''ve ever had but he was a sincere, caring, funny, and wonderful person for me to know. I thank GOD for putting him in my life and showing me that good people still exist.My heart and prayers goes out to his family.May GOD be with you all."
Mike & Terre Kelly & family wrote on Dec 31, 2010:
"We were shocked and quite saddened to hear of Tom's passing! He was not only our dentist in HHI from day one, but also a great guy with a tremendous giving spirit... Amy, Sarah, Christian, Rachel and all the family: please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you always. May your heart always hold him close until you meet again...
The Kellys of Hilton Head"
La Shauna Smith wrote on Dec 22, 2010:
"After contacting the dental office to reschedule a visit my husband and I learned of Dr. Toms passing.Our heart are so heavy right now.Though it will be a difficult journey ahead, we know God doesn't makes mistakes.We will continue to keep your family in our prayers."
Becky Weimer wrote on Dec 15, 2010:
"Tom: I have not seen or talked to you since the days of shriner lake. I am truly shocked and saddened at this news. To Tom's wife and children: Be so very proud of all the lives this man has touched, since my freshman year in high school I have thought of him often because of his sincere, heartfelt connection to others. He truly did serve others the way Christ Jesus asked of us to do. From my kid days on to adulthood I have never forgotten that you told me to "Be Happy Becky".I miss you."
Rebekah Grider wrote on Dec 4, 2010:
"I just heard of Dr. Tom's passing and need to send my deepest condolences to entire Schinbeckler family and all the employees of the his Nora dental office. I've known Dr. Tom since he first joined that practice and always enjoyed coming to his office! He always made me smile and I enjoyed talking with him about his family and life, in general. He loved his family and wasn't shy to discuss their various accomplishments. My prayer is for God to send His comfort and peace to Dr. Tom's family and his work family, too. I will miss him, too."
Amanda and Chris Brodnik wrote on Nov 30, 2010:
"My husband and I have been seeing Dr. Tom for about 9 years. I have just found out today while visiting the Nora office for my sons dental appointment that Dr. Schinbeckler had passed. I feel truly blessed to have known him. I was always excited for my appointments. My deepest sympathies to his family who was always talked about with great enthusiasm and pride. Bless you in your time of need. He will be missed."
Todd Congrove wrote on Nov 23, 2010:
"Dear Schinbeckler family
I recently heard of Dr. Tom's passing and was truly shocked and saddened.Words to not describe what he has done for me personally in treating my dental condition.It will be difficult to be treated by another dentist as I will always compare them to Dr. Tom.He set the bar high and made going to the dentist as pleasant experience as any.He was truly a gifted person and cared extremely for his patients.He will be missed more than you know.My heart and prayers go out to his family and his collegues at the office. Thank you Dr. Tom for being patient with me and all you have done for me in giving me confidence to smile.I am smiling for you and may you rest in peace.God Bless
Todd and Amanda Congrove"
Berna Harris wrote on Nov 22, 2010:
"Dear Schinbeckler Family...
I recently heard of the passing of Dr. Tom Schinbeckler and I was very saddened.I was his patient for the last 5+ years and I can truly say that he was one of the best in his field.I have been reflecting on our conversations in his Nora office and remembered how patient he was with everyone and the smiles and comfort that he brought to us all.I even had an opportunity to talk to him about his mission trip to Haiti and the joy and fulfillment that he received as he blessed others.Dr. Schinbeckler was truly a man who touched many lives.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.May God comfort you at this time as you grieve the loss of a truly gifted man.
Sincerely, Berna.
"
Gerri Anderson & Family wrote on Nov 10, 2010:
"Dr. Schinbeckler was truly a kind and warm person with a wonderful personality.He was also a terrific dentist and will be greatly missed.I will pray for your continued strength.May God bless and be with you."
Brent M. Blackwell, Ph.D. wrote on Nov 8, 2010:
"Dear Schinbeckler family,
My appologies for not attending the service, as I just found out about this sad news.I am deeply saddened and would like to express my deepest sympathies.Tom was a wonderful dentist and a caring human being.Tom and I spent some time this last summer talking about Ball State, his daughter, and her future plans there.We were both disapointed that I never got to have her in freshmen composition calss.If there is anything I can do for her at Ball State, please do not hesitate to contact me.Tom was one of the few physicians who made me fee like a friend.I will miss him greatly."
Doug and Christ Ealy wrote on Oct 28, 2010:
"We are so saddened for the Schinbeckler family, my wife and I have be patients under his care for years, Dr. Schinbeckler was a down to earth person, he'll be missed."
Alisa Graham wrote on Oct 25, 2010:
"I have been a patient of Dr. Schinbeckler for many years. His warmth and friendliness made dentist appointments a pleasure. As my family grew, everyone eventually became his patient. He is the best dentist I have ever had. My thoughts and prayers go to his family."
Kim (Harker) Sandell wrote on Oct 22, 2010:
"To the Schinbeckler Family,
I was so shocked and saddened by the news of Tom's passing. My condolences go out to you. While we had not stayed in touch, we relatively close in high school, and he always had a spot in my heart. Lots of fun memories...
God's speed Tom."
Erin wrote on Oct 21, 2010:
"Wow.He was a great man.Some people, you can just sense their heart even in short moments of encounters.God bless your family, and his memory."
Mary Upton wrote on Oct 21, 2010:
"Mary Upton
My husband I were patients of Dr. Schinbeckler for the last 4-5 years.He was always so assuring and told me I had a "good set of choppers" that should last me a lifetime.He put others at ease and seemed so consistent and genuine.His life is an inspiration that sometimes being who you are and doing what you are good at, you are a source of good and blessing to many.You never know what your life may mean.I pray he has that vantage point now.We are sad with you."
The Quinlivan Family wrote on Oct 20, 2010:
"I was shocked and saddened this morning to learn of Dr. Tom's passing.He has been my dentist since he came to the Nora office and my wife and two children went to him as well.He was such a positive, friendly and caring person...I actually enjoyed my visits to his office and looked forward to catching up with him.Although he was our dentist, he also became our friend.
He will truly be missed by our entire family.
Our heartfelt condolences go out to his entire family.You will be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Jim, Diane, Amanda and Austin Quinlivan"
jennifer wrote on Oct 19, 2010:
"To Dr. Toms family, friends, and collegues:
I am so sorry for you tragic loss
I will truly miss Dr. Tom.He has been my dentist for years and always a kind and gentle man that knew how to make one comfortable.He touched my heart with his mission trips and his care and concern.I will miss his smile and laughter and his gentle reminders that I had missed my cleanings.You all will be in my prayers and thoughts through this difficult time.
I know he is smiling down upon us
"
Lesley and Gary Schinbeckler wrote on Oct 19, 2010:
"Not too many people that you can say you've known your whole life. We fully expected to have Tom forever. Our pain cannot compare to Amy, the kids, David and Susie. Tom told us just a few weeks ago how proud he was of all the kids. We hope time can bring some peace to all."
Heather Webber wrote on Oct 17, 2010:
"My deepest sympathy to the family.I will miss Dr. Tom and his infectious smile.He was my dentist for many years and I enjoyed sharing stories with him.My thoughts are with Christian, Sarah and Rachel who he talked about often during my visits.My thoughts are with you and I am very sorry for your loss.
"
Derek Butterbaugh Andrews wrote on Oct 16, 2010:
"Dear Shinbeckler Family,
I was a college friend of Tom's and a fellow Tree Troll (our intramural basketball team).Tom was a special guy and one that I always thought of as a big brother type.He was always looking out for me and others although just a year older. We had a memorable spring break in FLA and other adventures of course, but the over riding impression he left on me was that he could always be relied upon in a time of need.He must have made a wonderful father that way and a dear friend.
God speed to you Tom, you will be missed."
Robin & Sheila Shanks wrote on Oct 16, 2010:
"Words cannot express our feelings sufficiently.We are both so very sorry.God bless."
Mary Menzel wrote on Oct 15, 2010:
"Christian,Sarah and Rachael,
We are so sorry for your loss .Your Dad was a kind,thoughtful, wonderful man.Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
The Menzel Family"
Jenny Hicks wrote on Oct 15, 2010:
"I was devastated to learn of Dr. Tom's passing. When I moved here from CA over three years ago the deal was sealed when I saw the IU bathroom. As a fellow IU grad and frequent visitor to S.C. we had plenty to talk about and he was always friendly, positive and caring. He was on a quest to replace all of my fillings and I got to see him one last time when I made an appt late this summer.I had been meaning to call him to tell him that he did such a great job this time I don't even notice I have a new filling.I remember leaving after my last appt and telling the staff that their office was just the best. He was THE BEST dentist I have ever had and and pray for his family and his Nora office staff.I am not sure I will ever find a better dentist.Rest in peace, Dr. Tom.You will be greatly missed."
Nicole and Jacob Webster wrote on Oct 14, 2010:
"My husband and I were patients of Dr. Schinbeckler for the past few years and found him to be an amazing dentist. We always looked forward to seeing him and his staff! We were shocked to learn that he passed and our hearts go out to the family, friends and co-worker's of Dr. Schinbeckler. Our thoughts are with you. This is a true loss and we were very saddened to learn this news."
Bibb Family wrote on Oct 14, 2010:
"My mother & I were devastated when we heard the news of Dr. Tom's passing. Our family goes way back we were patients of Dr. Karen Fisher we loved her but then when Dr. Tom took over we instantly feel in love with him. We will miss him dearly. Our hearts & prayers go out to his entire family. We wish we would have known sooner we would have come to the service to pay our respects."
Jamie Cain wrote on Oct 14, 2010:
"Dear Shinbeckler Family,
I'm sure you are all missing Dr. Tom everyday. I miss him too. I don't have to tell you what a great guy he was as you all already know. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
"
Meg Gates Osborne wrote on Oct 13, 2010:
"To the Tom Schinbeckler Family,
Although I did not know your family over the past recent years, I grew up with Tom and shared many great memories in Columbia City and IU.He was a brillant and funny man that touched many lives.Our families shared many Columbia City memories that I will always cherish.I am so sorry to hear about his death and send many prayers to your entire family."
Mollie O'Farrell-Riner and Family wrote on Oct 13, 2010:
"Tom was a man of vision, compassion, and grace. Tom loved, and was loved. He had the most tender heart I have ever known in a person. There was nothing he would not have done for anyone, if he had the power to do so. I adored him not only as my dentist, but as the amazing individual that he was. Tom was my friend, a true friend. I loved his infectious smile and laughing with him...and oh what a sense of humor he had! Tom was and will always be a hero to many, including myself.
To: Tom's entire family, his family at Nora Family Dentistry, and Friends
My sincere condolences go out to all of you. A great man was lost. Though we are torn by this tragedy, Tom will never be forgotten. His memory will be embraced as he embraced all of us. Most of all, he will live on through his children. I pray that all can find peace in remembering how Tom affected each and every one of us personally. He will greatly be missed...as will his kind eyes, beautiful smile and hearty laughter.
Tom,
Thank you for all you did for me and my family. You touched my life in so many ways, and I will always be grateful. I am so thankful and blessed to have known you. You know...I will always carry a little bit of you with me...for as I look in the mirror, I see your reflection in the smile that you, and only you gave me as you repaired and transformed a once not so confident person who never smiled much. I love you Tom. I will see you again one day my friend.
Love,
Mollie"
Mollie O''Farrell-Riner and Family wrote on Oct 13, 2010:
"Tom was a man of vision, compassion, and grace. Tom loved, and was loved. He had the most tender heart I have ever known in a person. There was nothing he would not have done for anyone, if he had the power to do so. I adored him not only as my dentist, but as the amazing individual that he was. Tom was my friend, a true friend. I loved his infectious smile and laughing with him...and oh what a sense of humor he had! Tom was and will always be a hero to many, including myself.
To: Tom''s entire family, his family at Nora Family Dentistry, and Friends
My sincere condolences go out to all of you. A great man was lost. Though we are torn by this tragedy, Tom will never be forgotten. His memory will be embraced as he embraced all of us. Most of all, he will live on through his children. I pray that all can find peace in remembering how Tom affected each and every one of us personally. He will greatly be missed...as will his kind eyes, beautiful smile and hearty laughter.
Tom,
Thank you for all you did for me and my family. You touched my life in so many ways, and I will always be grateful. I am so thankful and blessed to have known you. You know...I will always carry a little bit of you with me...for as I look in the mirror, I see your reflection in the smile that you, and only you gave me as you repaired and transformed a once not so confident person who never smiled much. I love you Tom. I will see you again one day my friend. May peace be with you.
Love,
Mollie"
Jana Pehler wrote on Oct 12, 2010:
"My heart is broken for your family.I am widowed and I shared many stories with Tom about children and the joy they brought.I empathize with the loss but I also know you will one day feel better, just let time and good memories heal your pain."
The Lacombe Family wrote on Oct 11, 2010:
"Amy, Sarah, Christian and Rachael:
Please know that your old friends here on Hilton Head and at St.Francis School are devasted to hear of the death of Tom.Our family has many fond memories of the times we spent together doing family stuff and participating in the different activities at school.Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all and know that we are here for you in any way you need us to be.
with great fondness and sadness,
Mike, Eileen, Catie, Claire and Emily
"
Paula Stern-Bussell wrote on Oct 11, 2010:
"To the entire Schinbeckler Family,
I would like to express my sincere condolences to your family for the loss of one of the kindest and most professional Dentists.Both myself and my family actually enjoyed going to our dental appointments, as Dr. Schinbeckler knew how to put a smile on all of his patients and make each visit a pleasant one. Again, we are so sorry for your loss and may your family only know from happier times.
Paula Stern-Bussell"
Bev Clark wrote on Oct 11, 2010:
"I was shocked to hear of Dr. Schinbeckler's passing. I was a patient of his from the start of his practice in Nora. It was a long drive from where I live (35 miles), but he was worth it!It is evident his life and death made an impact on many.Please know I will keep all of you in my prayers."
Lynnette Johnson wrote on Oct 11, 2010:
"To the Schinbeckler Family
Dr.Tom was an amazing man. When there was a patient that need treatment he gave it. Tom was the only reason that my mother went to the dentist. He was a very compassinate man he will truly be missed by the community. I will keep you in my prayers. If you need someone to talk to just call me I will be there for you.
"
Bob & Nina Rodocker wrote on Oct 11, 2010:
"We only knew Tom and Amy a few years as neighbors on Shriner Lake, IN. where he grew up but did enjoy visiting with him with his warmth and interest in you.He seemed to be a happy, fun gentleman and a dentist many loved. We are very saddened by his passing from life and are praying for peace and comfort to Amy and the children."
Pam Sheets wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"As soon as I walked into Dr. Schinbeckler's office the first time, I could tell he was an extraordinary person.Everyone was genuinely friendly and concerned and Dr. Schinbeckler personified those qualities.It seemed he was a man who lived out his conviction to help others.He was always so friendly and encouraging.Please know that there are many people you may never hear from whose lives he touched and who will remember him fondly."
Mark Matthews wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"To the Schinbeckler family, you are all in my thoughts and prayers, and I offer you heartfelt condolences upon the loss of Dr. Schinbeckler. May your loss be lessened by good memories and by the support of family and friends."
Kelly Inman wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"I was shocked and saddened to read the news of Dr. Schinbeckler's passing.I have been a patient for the past few years, and had just called the office earlier this week to confirm details of an upcoming appointment.In addition to being an excellent and highly skilled dentist, Dr. Schinbeckler was a very kind and caring person who always took the time to chat with me and see how things were going, each time I came in for an appointment.He will be greatly missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family, co-workers and friends."
Russell & Saundra Vertner wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"Dear Schinbeckler family,
We were so moved by last night's touching memorial service....such a nice opportunity to see and hear from those whose lives Tom touched. So many and such a profound impact on us all. My wife & I were patients of his for the past 5 - 10 years. He was truly one of the best in his craft and a wonderful person to have manage your dental care needs.
Although he was unable to see the positives in a long life, please rest assured that we all have a loving heavenly father who cares for us all and promises eternal life, and that He will always be with us...even in our darkest times. We loved Tom too...cherish all the positives in your many wonderful memories of your times spent together, because you WILL see him again.
Make him proud of your life's decisions! Russell & Saundra"
Connie Dragan wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"Learning of the loss of Dr. Schinbeckler was and is a shock. The loss for all who knew him is tremendous!
He allowed you to get to know him and made the dreaded dental appointments not so dreadful. He surrounded himself with staff that reflected his personality of honest care, concern and ease that met you when you walked in his door. He was a rare find for me.
Please know that I hold his family, friends and staff in my thoughts and prayers.
Rest in peace Dr. Tom
Rest in peace."
Frank Smith wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"I am so sorry for your loss, and my best thoughts are with you. I only met Dr. Schinbeckler on a few occasions, but it was clear that he was a sharp, funny, thoughtful guy who cared a great deal about his family."
Jen Smith wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"As a vendor, I had the most wonderful pleasure and joy from calling on Dr. Schinbeckler and his wonderful dental staff.My prayers and thoughts are with all of you at Nora Family Dentistry and the entire Schinbeckler family. May your memories comfort you through this difficult time.
"
Celeste (Toth) Anthony wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"It was with great sorrow I found out today that Tom had passed away.To the family members and friends that were touched by Tom over the years I send my deepest thoughts of prayer and comfort during this time of reverence.
I knew Tom through a mutual friend and in knowing him I was blessed to see him happy, funny, and a caring man who blossomed into life giving his best to all those he came in contact with.I will always remember the support he gave in friendship.He touched so many lives through his practice, his friendships and family.Be always blessed with fond memories and good times of him.
"
Sue Ann Crick wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"To all of Dr. Schinbeckler's family and staff, I send my deepest sympathy.He was an amazing man.I was his patient for the past 9 years and we shared many talks about his love for his children and IU basketball.He will be sorely missed by all who ever had the pleasure of his company."
Ed Ogan wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"I was a new patient, and had been to Tom`s office 3 times in the last 6 weeks. I told my wife that we have found a dentist she is really going to like. He had that something special that you just felt.He will be missed. God Bless"
Terri and Tim Falvey, sons- Brian and Matthew wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"We are so very sorry to learn of Dr Schinbeckler's passing. He was a wonderful and caring dentist for our whole family. What a shock to open the newspaper and see his obituary. Our thoughts and prayers to his family and office staff."
Barbara Danquist wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"Dear Amy, Christian, Rachael, and Sarah,
I am sorry to hear of the loss of Tom Schinbeckler and your Father, children.All of his outstanding qualities are reflected in the personalities of Sarah, Christian, and Rachael.I hope you can carry this with you into the future.I always felt each of you had a special place in this life.I will always keep you all in my prayers.
Fondly,
Barbara Danquist"
Laura Hile wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"Please accept my heartfelt sympathy in your loss. I was a classmate of Tom's from our days at Thorncreek to CCJHS. There was always a special something about Tom...perhaps best illustrated by the fact that when, as fifth graders, many of us who decided to join band opted for clarinet, flute, coronet, or drums...Tom played French horn! I learned a few years ago that he had become a dentist...my father was a dentist who loved his profession and it sounded like a perfect fit for Tom. I often drove by his office as I live near Nora and thought of stopping by to say hello but sadly, did not. From the many condolences here, the world was a better place because of Tom. Wishing his family, friends and colleagues, comfort in your memories at this sad time."
Stephanie wrote on Oct 10, 2010:
"I was referred to Dr. Schinbeckler about 6 months ago by a coworker, and found him to be a wonderful dentist (which in my experience is not easy to find). I was and am particularly saddened to hear of his passing. I pray for his family and feel blessed to have known him for the very brief time that I did.He was a great dentist, and seemed to be an extremely nice person.What a sad, sad, tragic loss.Thinking of his family in their time of grief.
"
Bruce Wendel wrote on Oct 9, 2010:
"Sarah, Christian, Rachel, and Amy
Dr. Tom was a fantastic dentist and friend. I have so many wonderful memories being with Tom. From standing up with him at his wedding in Florida to countless weekends going to car races like The Rolex 24 at Daytona,12 hours at Sebring, and Petit Le Mans at Road Atlanta.We did have some challenging times as well like evacuating from Hurricane Hugo together and playing the Devil's Elbo golf course at Moss Creek in Hilton Head.
He will be greatly missed by our family, our thoughts are with you now, & always.The fun times and memories will be with us forever"
Cook Family wrote on Oct 9, 2010:
"Christian,
We were so sorry to read of your father's passing at such a tragically young age. The love and pride he felt for you and your sisters was obvious when he spoke. I know you all will continue to make him proud in the years ahead. We hope and pray that each day will get a little easier as you hold on to treasured memories of your dad.
Tom, Becky & Kevin Cook"
Marcia McConnell Meader wrote on Oct 9, 2010:
"My heartfelt sympathy to you all.I will always remember such a bright and handsome young man at the lake.He was very special."
Charlotte Provost wrote on Oct 9, 2010:
"I have no words that can express how deeply saddened I am by the loss of Tom. He was so much more to me than just a boss. He was a friend - like my big brother.
I will be forever grateful for the wonderful memories that he and I have shared over the years. Our mission trips to Haiti strengthened a bond between us that can never be broken-even in death. It was in Haiti that I truly witnessed the depths of Tom's passion to help others. As a dentist, father, friend and man - Tom treated all of those he touched with great care and compassion. The dental community has suffered a tremendous loss that will NEVER be replaced.
Sarah, Christian and Rachel-
You have become and always will bepart of my family. Please know that I will always be here for you no matter what the future holds. I have been fortunate enough to see the love that your dad had for you all.It was a love deeper than you could ever know.
Tom - There will never be a day that I won't miss you or forget all that you have given. You gave your ALL to everyone! I love and miss you!"
Mark and Debbie McCullough wrote on Oct 9, 2010:
"We were so devastated to hear of the loss of Dr. Schinbeckler.We have been patients of his for many years and enjoyed listening to fun stories about his children while sitting in the chair.It was so obvious how much he dearly loved each one of you.
He will certainly be missed!!Thoughs and prayers go out to the family and everyone in his office."
Charme` Smith wrote on Oct 9, 2010:
"I sadly heard the news about Tom's passing.He was my dentist for many years.He was also a friend as our kids had gone to elementary together for a while.I hope the kids know that never an appointment went by that their dad did not talk about his children and their lives.He was obviously very proud of each of them and their accomplishments.May he rest in peace, and may you all find strength and love in the memories and experiences you shared with your dad. My sympathy to all of you..."
Joanne Howe wrote on Oct 9, 2010:
"My husband and I moved to Indy in 2001.As an adult who had "dentist phobia," I felt so fortunate to find Dr. Schinbeckler and his fabulous staff--I actually looked forward to "going to the dentist"!My heartfelt condolences to his family and his wonderful staff."
Donna Anderson (Hilton Head, SC.) wrote on Oct 9, 2010:
"To the Schinbeckler Family,
I had the pleasure of working for Dr. Schinbeckler at Southern Smiles. Please know that your friends here in Hilton Head are embracing you during this difficult time.
My heart is heavy with sadness, and I pray that you will savor all the wonderful memories and special times you have enjoyed together.
May you find strength in the love and support of family and friends, both near and far.
My best to you always,
Ms. Donna"
Shawn Sheets wrote on Oct 9, 2010:
"Dr. Schinbeckler was easily the best dentist I have ever been to and an even better person. He will be missed."
Tami McGinn wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"To the entire family, we send our prayers.I have had the joy of working for Tom for several years and loved him dearly.This loss has affected me deeply and I can not imagine the impact it has had on you.We have all suffered a great and tragic loss but none like the loss suffered by Tom's children.I pray for you all daily and hope that if there were a slight chance that you could call on me for help, you know I would respond in any way I could.
Love, prayers and hugs to all,
Tami"
Dan Levine wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"I am so truly sorry for the loss you have suffered.May you find the courage through each other to face each day and realize you are not alone in this journey.
Dr. Tom was so much more than just a dentist to me, he was my friend and he will be missed."
Valerie Helms wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Tom was a wonderful boss and an even more amazing friend!He was always an encouraging and positive force in my life since the first day I met him!I am going to miss him so much!Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.I am here if any of you need anything!
Valerie Helms"
Greg and Pat Robbins wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Amy and family, we are so sorry for your loss.It's been a long time since I had been in contact with Tom, but I will miss him.He was a great guy and I hope you will remember all the great time you shared together.We especially remember that fun time we spent with you in South Carolina.Our prayers are with you all in this time of grief.Even in the darkest time, God is our strength and our rock.May he bless you with strength and peace."
Norma Lickey wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"I'm very sorry to hear of Tom's passing.He truly loved life and it is obvious he embraced it fully.
I worked with Tom when he was in high school.What fun he was!
My sympathy to your family. You're in my prayers.
Norma Lickey
"
JANET MINEAR AND ALL THE MINEAR FAMILY wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"To Amy,Children,and David,
We are saddened to hear about Tom.We will always remember the great times we all had at the lake growing up together.May he find peace with Pickle and Joanne walking hand in hand together. May god grant you all strength.He will be missed by all of us. Please let us if there is anything we can do for you.
"
Mary Levine Davidson wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have been with Dr. Tom since he took over the Nora practice and can't imagine this world without him.We will all see him again when it is our time. He was a giving soul.God is proud of him and has him in His precious arms."
Edna Kelly wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"My daughter Sandra and I are so sorry to hear of Dr. Tom's passing.We will truly miss him.It was always a pleasure to go to the dentist!"
Barb and John Gallina and family wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"We are so sorry for your loss.Please know that you are in our prayers."
Christie Crowder wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"I'm very sorry for your loss, Tom was a wonderful dentist and I will miss him deeply.Your family will be in our prayers."
Mary Cline wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"I was a patient of Tom's for many years and always found him to be a wonderful, caring person and enjoyed every encounter with him which is pretty amazing considering I was sitting in the dentist's chair! He had a wonderful manner about him and I am sure I am not the only patient he put at ease. My thoughts and prayers go to you all. Mary Cline"
The Soultz Family wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Christian..and family:
Words cannot express how sorry we are to hear about the loss of your father. You will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers."
Laura Fox wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"To the entire Schinbeckler Family - Dr. Tom's passing rocked us to the core.Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this very sad time.He will be greatly missed."
Ann Zevnik wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"To Tom's family and work associates--I know nothing I can say can ease your pain or lessen your loss, but I wanted you to know how much I liked Tom. He was my dentist; I didn't know him in personal capacity. But every time I left that office, I was smiling and happy to have spent time with such a great guy. He was always upbeat and friendly, interested in what was going on with everyone. When I described him to other people, I said I would have liked him to be my next-door neighbor. I will miss his smiling face. You should be proud that he was your father, brother, or friend."
Amber Scannell wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"May God grant you Tom eternal rest. I was always hoping for our next Dental Mission to Haiti.Tom helped many of our brothers and sisters in Haiti with our first Dental Mission.He served others well and I will always remember him for his service to others.May God give strength to his family and friends in this sad and difficult time.Peace my friend, Amber Scannell(SEAS Haiti Ministry)"
Alicia Welch & Matt and Family wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"To Amy & Children,
I am truly heartbroken to hear of your loss. I am so grateful I had the pleasure to work for him for 10 wonderful years. He was and always will be my favorite boss.We have so many great memories with the entire family and he always made us feel like family.
Please know we have you all in our hearts.
Love and big hugs from South Carolina,
Alicia Welch"
Chris, Stephanie, Alyssa & Evan Konkoy wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Amy, Sarah, Christian and Rachel,
Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you all and your family.May your many good memories comfort you.Our thoughts and prayers are with you."
Carol Taylor wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Amy,
I'm so very sorry to read about Tom's death.Please know that you & your children are in my thoughts & prayers.I will see you in the weeks ahead and ask you then if there is anything I can do to help.
"
The Braunecker Family wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Amy and Children:
We are very sorry for your loss.We will pray for strength and courage as you all work through this very difficult time.
"
Candy Bower wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"I went to grade school and high school with Tom.We were in band together in grade school. I remember Tom fondly.So sorry for your loss."
Myra Harper Huff wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Mr Schinbeckler and family,
So sadden to hear of the passing of your son Tom.
Thoughts and prayers for each of you.
"
Kathy Maeglin wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"I had difficulty finding a dentist I liked in Indy, and I was very happy to have found Dr. Schinbeckler. He did extremely good work for me, and I truly liked him as a person as well. My heart goes out to you as you grieve his passing. Focus in the happy memories."
Dr. Jim and Jeanie Canham wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Amy and kids-
Our family and the current and previous staff of Southern Smiles are so saddened to hear of Tom's passing. We all enjoyed working with Tom, he was such an upbeat guy. May God bless your family at this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers."
amy iaquinta wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Amy, Sarah, Christian and Rachel,
I can't tell you how heavy my heart is for all of you.Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.I pray that you will find comfort and strength in this time of pain.I love you all.
Dr. Amy"
Jeanne and Lu Lugo wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"We were so saddened and shocked to read about Dr. Schinbeckler's death in the IndyStar today. He has been our dentist since we moved to Indy 6 years ago. He was a wonderful dentist -- always upbeat, caring, and charming --- which are traits not always found in a dentist.Loved hearing the stories about his kids and his mission trips, as well as exchanging our travel stories.I hope the good memories of him provide you comfort in the days to come. We will miss him.So sorry for your loss.I'm sure that Dr S is up there ensuring that everyone who passes into the pearly white gates also will have pearly white teeth!
Our deepest condolences."
The Neitzel Family wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Amy, Sarah, Christian and Racheal,
We are so sorry to hear about Tom.Our love and prayers go out to you all.We have so many memories of all the good times we had with the families here on Hilton Head.He will be missed by many many people.If there is anything we can do, please let us know.Love and Prayers
Jeff, Vicki, Tim, Jessi, Melanie and Matthew"
Lori Maxwell wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"We are so very sorry for your loss.My daughter Samantha Phillips and myself were patients of Dr. Schinbeckler.He was nice person and will be missed. We are praying for you and your children."
Frances L. Gee wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Dear Schinbeckler Family
I was a patient of Dr. Tom and just saw him Tuesday, October 5, 2010. I was so sadden to read in the paper he passed away. He was so kind. cheerful and caring. I said to him,"I willl see you in 6 months." I have never enjoyed such peace sitting in a dental chair more. I will missed him.May God bless and comfort each of his remaining family."
Kirsty & Chad Peters wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"To Tom''s family and work associates:
I am deeply sadness by the loss of such a sweet man.No words can express how sorry I am, he will be truly missed.The world will never be the same without him.May he find peace now.Thoughts and prayers to all of you."
Lisa Vogel wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"To the Schinbeckler Family:
Im truly saddened and sorry to hear about the loss of Dr. Tom.He has been my Dentist since taking over Nora Family Dentisry.He was truly an amazing man and always brought laughter and enthusiasm! My condolences go out to the Family.He will be missed !!"
Teri Dervenis Patterson Dental wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Nora Family Dentistry and Schinbeckler Family,
I was having breakfast Wednesday morningwith a dental collegue when the call came in regarding Dr. Schinbeckler's passing. I know you all will miss him tremendously.Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers."
Lynne, Erin, and Casey Rowe wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"To Amy, Sarah, Christian and Rachael,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of loss. In the days and weeks to come, please let us know if we can be of help to you.
Grace and Blessings to you.
"
Paula Peck wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"One of my kids big memories, and mine too, is when Tom came and hung the picture Return of the Prodigal Son, in our townhome, with the kids help. It made a really big impression on all of us, how he was willing to give MORE than 100% to get that major project done!"
The Childers Family wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"I am sorry for your loss. I was shocked when my friend told me he had passed. We will miss him, already do."
Nicolas and Karen Granju wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Amy, Sarah, Christian and Racheal,
I hope during this difficult time you know there are lots of people who wish to embrace you with love and support, as my son goes to school with Christian.We are neighbors in Woodfield and did not know you personally, but you are not alone and we will lift you up in our prayers and send our sympathies to your family.Please remember that God and those who know you will help in the days ahead."
Aggie Colbert Adkins wrote on Oct 8, 2010:
"Schinbeckler family and colleagues,
I was shocked and saddened by the news about Dr. Tom.I was a patient for 8 years and never thought I would enjoy visiting the dentist so much.I consider myself lucky to have known Dr.Schinbeckler and will miss him greatly.My deepest sympathy."