In loving memory of

Harry Edward Niles, Jr.
January 5, 1926 - October 10, 2018

Services to honor and remember the life of Harry Edward Niles, Jr. will be Tuesday, October 16, 2018 at Ft. Gibson National Cemetery. The family will receive friends Monday evening from 5-7:00 pm at Bixby Funeral Service. Mr. Niles passed away on Wednesday, October 10, 2018 in Tulsa. He was 92.

Harry Edward Niles, Jr. was born January 5, 1926 in Rochester, New York to Harry Edward, Sr. and Frances (Kusse) Niles. Both of Harry's parents died at an early age which required him to spend his childhood with various family members. Living in Virginia and New York, Harry attended and graduated high school in New York.

Upon graduation, Harry moved to Baltimore, Maryland where he enlisted in the United States Air Force. Through this endeavor, he served his country during WWII and the Korean War. Once honorably discharged, in 1952, Harry furthered his education by attending Baltimore's Polytechnic Institute of Engineering. He then pursued a degree in accounting through the University of Maryland.

Once finished with his education, Harry found employment in Houston, Texas where he worked for various oil and gas companies. Throughout his career, he served as both a chief financial officer and also as an administrative officer. Later on, Harry would work as an independent financial and management consultant. After living in Texas and New Mexico, Harry made his home in Tulsa where he started his own company, Dubloon, Inc.

When not pursuing his career, Harry could be found at his ranch where he raised Longhorn cattle and cared for his two Quarter horses. This hobby led to start of Territory Oil and Cattle. There was no doubt that Harry enjoyed being outdoors. In fact, he spent a number of hours outdoors camping and deer hunting. When he was indoors, Harry was an avid Texas Longhorn football fan and enjoyed watching his team play.

Harry had many friends and was very social. His hairdresser, Nancy, thought so highly of Harry that she took it upon herself to play matchmaker. As a result, she introduced Harry to another client of hers, Gladys Hulsey. After three short months of dating and getting to know one another, the couple married, on August 23, 2008, at World Outreach Church where Harry was a very active member. The couple, along with their two cats: Utah and Boots, made their home in Broken Arrow where they became members of South Broken Arrow Baptist Church. When they were ready to get out of town, the couple enjoyed traveling to visit Harry's daughters: Penny and Kelly. Another special trip that the couple made together was a trip to Washington D.C. to see the various memorials.

Harry will be remembered for his unconditional love, his sarcasm and for being "neat as a pin". He will also be remembered for using the phrase "and so forth" in all of his conversations. Harry passed away October 10, 2018 in Tulsa. He was 92.

He is survived by: his wife, Gladys Niles; daughters: Penny Howell and husband, Jason of Florida and Kelly Becke and husband, Craig of Ohio; step-daughters: Linda Jones and husband, Lewis of Tulsa and Pat Skelton and husband, Homer of Illinois; four grandchildren: Barrett and Shelby Becke and Riley and Jessa Howell; along with a host of other relatives, Marla Smith and husband, David, Michelle Grunewald and husband, John, and Joe Morris and wife, Colleen, Harrison and Danielle Morris and all their families; and many friends.

Tributes

georgia may niles andreae wrote on Dec 16, 2018:

"I am georgia.kay niles andreae and harry was an absent father and grandfather to myself.and two sisters Katie and jami and ggrandchildren Jerry Smith, Jessica bennett, Lauren shaw and alec handy. in the pictures.it appears.he.was a.good.father and grandfather to you....kelly and penny. we have met as children but then harry totally lost contact with his first family. I have come to terms with what he did in his life although my one daughter is still bothered that she never got to.meet her grandfather. this will never happen now.and.i am sorry for your loss but we have had loss for 40 plus years. we all live in ohio and are in the the book so you can contact.us if you want to. bave.a good life. "

Jami Handy wrote on Dec 16, 2018:

"My name is Jami Handy (Niles). Harry was my biological father, along with my two sisters Katie Ellen Smith (Niles) deceased, and Georgia Kay Andreae (Niles). Children from Harry?s first wife, Kathryn Baker Wallet (Niles). We moved to Ohio when I was 9 years old and never heard from Harry again!! I knew my 2 half sisters; Penny & Kelly I would like to know why we aren?t mentioned in his obituary?? Guess he never mentioned we existed!! Harry walked away from his 3 daughters and never looked back!! Harry was not the great man you described!! "