"I was introduced to Steve only in mid-December by my friend Jim ?Gweed? McMichael. I had but that one meeting with Steve, in the hospital, and solo, due to COVID. I wondered how it would go: meeting a friend of a friend; no prior introduction, although a connection as Air Force officers, and recently dealing with cancer of a family member. Over many years of flying over Iraq, I may have spoken with Steve over the radio?.no way to say for sure.
I thought I might be in his room for a few minutes, and hoped it would not be awkward.
Instead, I stayed for nearly half an hour. Steve made me feel like a life-long friend from the start. We talked about flying, the Air Force, history, medicine, treatment options?.and God. What was readily apparent within moments was both the strength of Steve?s intellect, the depth of his heart, his love of his family, and the fortitude of his Faith.
I easily would have stayed longer, had the doctors not arrived (as well as Julie), and it was protocol for me to go. Steve and I exchanged contact info, and over the next few weeks, I sent him various bits of flying remembrances, medical strategies, and just words of encouragement.
Lord Tennyson said ?It is better to have loved and lost, than to not have loved at all.? The same could be said for friendships. Having known Steve for a scant two months, I too now bear the loss of his passing.
But I also carry the memory of a brief friendship of an exceptional human being, and I am ever so glad to have met him.
Silver 7, cleared for takeoff. Fly heading 270 and climb unrestricted. Proceed on-course when able. Departure frequency 269.4
And: do one more roll, Hawkeye.
See you on the other side, my friend.
-Bruce ?Spike? Benyshek
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