"We are Jessica's grandparents and we want to thank all of you that have said so many kind things about Jessica, and her family. It is such a comfort to know we have so many friends and family praying for us during this horrible tragedy that has happened to our family and also the Mercer family. We continue to need your prayers surrounding us and especially for Lori and Kevin as they raise little Ty. Thanks again for your thoughts and prayers. Bob and Colene Greubel"
In loving memory of
Jessica Luedtke Deemer
October 17, 2008
Jessica Dawn Luedtke Deemer of Waukee, Iowa formerly of Chariton, Iowa died Friday, October 17, 2008 near Marshalltown, Iowa at the age of 24.
Jessica was born in Iowa City, Iowa on July 17, 1984 to Kevin and Lori (Greubel) Luedtke. She was raised on a farm near Chariton along with Jason, her brother, and Jamie, her sister.
Jessica attended school at Russell Community School until her sophomore year and transferred to Chariton High School. She was a dedicated student and loved to learn. Jessica graduated salutatorian from Chariton High School in 2002. She had completed enough college courses and entered into Indian Hills Community College as a sophomore. In 2003 Jessica earned her Associates Degree and went on to further her education at Simpson College in Indianola. She earned her Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Marketing in 2005.
Many memories were made during Jessica's high school years as she worked her first job in the pumpkin fields with her family. She also worked at Double Dip for Annie and Becca where Jessica was a very dedicated and loved employee. At the time of her death Jessica was employed at Principal Financial in Des Moines as a compliance associate.
Jessica had one son Ty Deemer age 6. Above all, her greatest joy was being Ty's mom. She had a big heart and would sacrifice all for those she loved. Jessica was as beautiful on the inside as she was on the outside.
Jessica was a genuine friend to all. She was a natural when it came to decorating. Whether it was a friend's wedding cake or painting Ty's room, her creativity was endless. She has always loved to exercise and recently began biking and running. This past year Jessica participated in RAGBRAI, the Dam to Dam Run, and Living History Farms Race. She enjoyed the challenge and was always the one encouraging her friends along the way.
Jessica is survived by her son Ty, her parents Kevin and Lori Luedtke, brother Jason Luedtke, sister Jamie Luedtke, all of Chariton, Iowa; grandparents: Bob and Colene Greubel, Lacona, Iowa; Orville and Joy Luedtke, Des Moines, Iowa; Joan and Bill Elliott, Indianola, Iowa; great grandparents: Paul and Veda Miller, Lacona, Iowa; mother-in-law Brenda Rumley, Chariton, Iowa; sister-in-law Ashley Rumley, Ottumwa, Iowa; grandmother Wilma Deemer, Lucas, Iowa; and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.
Services will be held Wednesday, October 22, 2008 at 10:30 a.m. at Pierschbacher Funeral Home in Chariton, Iowa with Pastor Eric Hann and Pastor Paul Olson officiating. Burial in Salem Cemetery in Lucas County, Iowa.
The family asks that memorials be made to Ty Deemer Trust Fund AT GREAT WESTERN BANK C/O JOHN HAMILTON, 201 N. MAIN ST., CHARITON, IA 50049
Tributes
"I'm Bryce's aunt. My prayers are with your family, as our family feels your loss as well as ours. May God's love shine through the clouds. My best to you all as you muddle through all the "stuff" that has to be done, all while missing your beautiful Jessica. Thank you to your family for the kindness you have shown to Bryce's family. "
"Our deepest sympathies to the entire family, friends and communities that have suffered such an unimaginable loss. There is no way of understanding, but only peace that comes with time. Obviously Jessica was already an angel on Earth to all that knew and loved her by reading all the wonderful messages. We are thankful that all of you who loved and cherished her will be there for those she left behind, especially her young son. God Bless you all. We are so sorry."
"I'm Allison, one of Ty's main teachers at daycare for many years. I am praying for Ty and his family. I was shocked to hear what happened and want to send my condolences in any way I can. I talked to Jessica every night she picked up Ty, and this woman always had a true smile across her face. She was such a loving mother and wonderful person. The smile that appears on her page is the only expression she ever used when I saw her. Her bright and wonderful personality lit up every room she walked in. "
"Dear Orville and Joy, Kevin and Lori,Our deepest sympathies to your family during this time of loss in your lives. Our lives were so very entwined so many years ago, we feel the pain also of your loss. Although we have lost contact over the years, our hearts are with you. The Tuttles"
"We hold your family in our thoughts and prayers and will continue to do so. I pray you find peace knowing so many are praying for you all."
"Lori, Kevin, Coleen, Bob, You have all been in my thoughts and prayers since hearing this horrible news. In viewing the pictures and reading all the compliments of Jessica, it is clear, she accomplished more in her 24 years on earth than most can only imagine. Lori, as a mother, I know this is heartbreaking and unbearable, but I know you have a strong loving family that will surround you. I am praying God will wrap his arms around you during this time and times to come. What a beautiful young woman you raised. You should be so very proud. Our deepest sympathy from all the Salsberry's to all of your family. Christi, Sean, Reilli and Trevor Dhabalt "
"Bob, Coleen, Kevin, and Lori, we have been thinking of you and your family since hearing of your tragic loss. We think so much of your family and want you to know how sorry we are that you must endure this tragedy."
"I was Jessica's teacher and coach in Russell during junior high. I remember her love for others, her kindness, her bouncy blond hair and her beautiful smile. She attracted others to her with her sweet and gentle way of living. You couldn't help but love the girl! I am so saddened that the world has lost such a jewel as Jessica. May her memory live on in her family and especially in her son. Our sincere condolences to your family. Our hearts break for you!"
"Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time."
"I tried to read each message that has been written to you, hoping to find some meaningful words that I could include that would comfort you. God will give you strengh and comfort that none of us can give. We want you to know that family and friends are here to help you walk through these days of grief. Know that your family is loved and cherished. We will pray for your peace and wisdom as you try to move head. I so wish that we could be there today. Through it all, learn to trust in Jesus."
"My deepest sympathy goes out to the entire family. Jessica was a great person and will be missed by all that knew her."
"Ty we love you buddy. You will be in our thoughts and prayers forever. We pray that Jesus comes and comforts you now and forever. Your mommy loved you very much. For the rest of the family we pray that you have peace and comfort in this difficult time. Your daughter was an amazing women. "
"My deepest sympathy goes to each and every one of you. I was so saddened to hear about your loss and my heart just aches for you. She was a beautiful young lady. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. "
"Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. "
"Kevin, Lori, Ty and family: I want you to know that we have been praying for you and we will continue to pray for you. If there is ANYTHING you need just let us know. We love you all. Andy,Dee,Bailey,Brittney,Mikayla,and Mac."
"To the Luedtke Family, The whole community of West Liberty, Iowa mourns your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you..."
"My deepest sympathies to the family. Jess was a great person, so smart and a wonderful person to work with. We will miss her so much and want you all to know we will never forget her! My prayers are with you all."
"Lori, Kevin, Ty, and the your families, I wish there were magic words that could take your pain away, but I know there are not. Please know you have our deepest and most sincere sympathy at the loss of Jessica. You have been in our thoughts and prayers. Cathy and Wayne Towle"
"Dear Bob & Coleen, Kevin & Lori, My name is Bruce Groenendyk and I was a swine consultant for Land O Lakes and worked with your farms along with Dave Hobbs. I was saddened to learn of Jessica's passing. I remember her quite well when I was in your area. She was a very nice teenager at the time and I remember you Bob talking about her. My deepest sympathy in your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Bruce Groenendyk Leighton, Ia "
"Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family at the loss of your daughter, sister, or niece. She was a beautiful young lady and may God be with you through this difficult time."
"I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that we are praying for you and your entire family; may God grant you peace."
"Ty, we had so much fun during baseball season and going to Chuck E Cheese. I really miss you at school."
"Our deepest condolences to Jessica's family. We are so sorry for your loss and we continue to pray for all of you. The service today was a beautiful one. We will miss you Jessica. R.I.P. Jennifer, Duke, Nevaeh, and Christian Brown"
"I have so many fond childhood memories of times spent with Jessica and your family. From getting perms together, to playing on the farm, to the later years of working in the pumpkin fields I will remember and cherish them all. She was a beautiful person on the inside and out and she will truly be missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers!"
"Our deepest condolences all of your family. We can't begin to imagine the pain your families are feeling after your tragic loss. Please know that you have been, and will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. "
"I still have a picture up in my apartment from when Jessica and I were five, Jason was four, Travis was three and Jamie was two and halfâ?¦it was January of 1989. Jessica is wearing this bright red leotard with her name puffy painted on it and she has the biggest smile ever on her face. She never lost that smile! I still tell the story of tying our shoe laces together on the bus because we thought for sure that if we couldnâ??t get the knots out we could go home with each other. We were proved wrong, the bus driver got out his pocket knife and cut those laces right apart! Iâ??ll never forget that story or about our puffy painted best friend sweatshirts or how smart I always thought she was, she could read a whole book on just one bus ride home or how she never told on me when I made Jamieâ??s eye bleed or when we thought it would be a great idea for me to walk all the way to her house (I never made) or how we started preschool and finished high school together! So many memories! Jessica was a great person and will be missed!"
"Jessica was one of the most caring girls I knew. She always had a positive outlook on life, no happen what was thrown her way. My thoughts and prayers go to you and the rest of Jessica's family. "
"Just a few short weeks ago, we were together celebrating the marriage of Taylor and JoDee, now such a terrible thing has happened. Jessica looked so beautiful that day and I just love the picture of her in the room the girls were getting ready "what a sweet smile" she had. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you since this happened. I pray the God will wrap you in His arms when the pain seems to much to bear. I can only imagine the hurt. You are not alone. We, again, will pray for you and your family espcially Ty in the next days, weeks and on and on. Love..."
"Our deepest condolences to Jessica's family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers."
"Remembering the time I knew Jessica at Russell School and what a nice girl she always was. Can't imagine the heartache the family is dealing with! Prayers!"
"We are very sorry for your loss. She was definately a beautiful girl and will be truly missed. I can not imagine your pain, but can only be there for you during this difficult time. One memeory I have is when she was small, I left Tyler with Lori and Jessica when he was about two weeks old and upon my return Jessica thought she should just keep him. Hold onto the good memories and let god help put the bad ones to rest. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always! Steve & Kerry"
"As i read through the words of all those who loved and cared for Jessica I know what a wonderful, loving family she was raised in. God is there for you at all times, so please embrace him and let him help you through this very difficult time. So many people care yet words are hard to find. I pray for strength on the difficult days ahead, yet courage to remember the wonderful way Jessica touched so many lives. With Sympathy and love, Angie Elliott (Bill and Joanie's daughter in law)"
"Kevin, Lori and family, when our young people leave us, memories, time and God's unending love is our saving grace. You will be in Basil's and my thoughts and prayers for a very long time. The dark cloud of grief surrounding you will someday break into the sunshine of thankfulness that you knew Jessica for 24 years and that she will forever live in your, and so many others, hearts. May God's blessings of comfort,love and peace be with you all."
"I am so sorry for your loss.I lost my son 3 weeks ago to a hit and run drunk driver. So I know this is a terrible time for you both. It sounds like she was another beuatiful young person. Just remember you have a lot of people that are there to support you thru all this. Cheryl Kaiser-Coe"
"I know that there are no words to say at this point in time that will heal the hurt. Just know that hundreds of friends (and even strangers) are praying for God to give you strength to survive each day. I know that your faith will help get you through. You are a strong family and are loved by many."
"Lori & Kevin, Kristi, all of you. I heard the story on the news and like we always do, breathed a sigh of relief that none of the names were familiar. Of course, that wasn't to be. I just can't stop thinking about all of you. And reading all of these memories of Jessica...it's not surprising that she was such a wonderful girl. You are one of the best families around and the phrase "strength in numbers" just keeps popping in to my mind. You are so lucky to have that and hopefully you'll gain stength from one another and be able to make it through, stronger than ever. And my thoughts are with little Ty too. How lucky he is to have been blessed in to your family. "
"We just want to express our deepest sympathy for you and your family during this time. We've had the opportunity to get to know Jessica in the past few years and she was truly a wonderful person and mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your whole family and all of Jessica's friends at this time."
"My deepest smypathy goes out to Jessica's family. Jessica was a friend to all who knew her. Ty and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. "
"My most sincere sympathy goes out to your entire family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers, and will continue to be in the days, weeks, and months ahead."
"I am at a loss for how to express my sympathy. Jessica was a wonderful person who will be greatly missed."
"Lori, Kevin, and family, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I was Jessica's teacher while she was at Russell and remember the fun-loving, sweet child I knew. She will be missed by all of us who knew her and watched her grow into the woman and mother she became. "
"Thank you to all of Jessica's family and friends for your thoughts and prayers. Jessica sounds like such strong and beautiful women, we wish we could have had the chance to meet her. We know now that Bryce will always be there to protect her and continue there friendship that they had started. Our thoughts and prayers will always be with all of you. Bryce and Jessica will live on in our hearts and in our stories, please keep telling them everytime you get the chance. Thank you once again for all your support."
"My thoughts and prayers go out to Kevin and family"
"Thoughts and Prayers are with both families during this extremely difficult time. I hope you find the strength you need in Christ and comfort through family and friends. "
"I was very saddened by the tragic loss of Jessica. Ty attended school with my son and they became friends during TBall. They spent time playing together during this past summer and my heart is truly going out to him right now. He is in my thoughts and prayers."
"It is so sad to see another friend go far to soon, especially one who in our eyes was one of THE MOST caring, gentile souls myself and Missy had ever had the pleasure to know. Just by knowing her or seeing her smile light up a room in some way changed the lives of many. She will be missed, and remember many people "
"I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family in this tragic time. Im sure Ty will grow up knowing he had a wonderful and loving mother. Always remember the good times you shared with Jess."
"My families thoughts and prayers are with all of you. From Dad & Mom, brothers, sisters, & children. Our families run deeply intwined with each other, and if we can do anything to help you with your memories or your grieving please let us know. May God bless all and know he has an angel watching over Ty. Kiss him for me."
"Rob, Colene, Lori, Kevin and family: Words seem very inadequate at a time like this. How do you begin to deal with the loss of such a beautiful young lady who meant so much to so many. Although I didn't know your granddaughter and daughter, after reading the obituary, it is clear that Jessica was a very special indeed. I had to smile when I read of her cake decorating ability...no doubt a skill she inherited from her grandma. Know that you will all be in my thoughts and prayers and may you all be comforted in knowing that God holds you close to His heart today and always. "
"Lori-Kevin-Coleen-Bob-Veda-Paul: Our thoughts & prayers are with you - So very very sorry for the loss of your beloved Jessica & the heartache you have to go through. We love you dearly & feel your sorrow."
"Losing someone we love is never easy to accept, and sometimes it must seem as if the pain is almost too much to bear. But we believe that your love will outlast the pain of the grief you are feeling... And that you have a place deep in your heart where treasured memories will always live. And one day those memories will be a tremendous comfort to you. Until the day when you can smile again, We hope it helps to know how sorry people are and how much so many of us care. Thinking of you."
"Kevin and Lori, I can't imagine what you are going through right now, but you are not alone. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Sue (Wilson) LaZella CHS Class of 1980"
"We are so sorry for your loss and heartache. There are no words to heal the pain during this difficult time, but know that you're all in our thoughts and prayers! "
"To Jessica's family, Randy and I wish we would have gotten the chance to get to know Jessica. From the little we have learned of her and pictures you shared with us we can tell she was an intelligent,caring, and beautiful woman. Your family's kindness and sympathy has been greatly appreciated and please know that you and Ty are in all our thoughts and prayers. May our memories of Bryce and yours of Jess help to heal our pain as their stars shine down upon us."
"Kevin ,Lori and family, We are so deeply sorry for your loss, Jessica was such a thoughtful, caring and beautiful young lady. I know that Ty will grow up to remember what a wonderful mother he had. You are in our thoughts and prayers always."
"I am Bill's grand daughter and over the years I have heard many wonderful things about Jessica. I am very sad I never got to meet her. My love and prayers are with you all. "
"My deepest condolences to Jessie's family. I work for Ty's daycare and every morning when Jessie would drop off Ty she would always hold the door and tell me good morning. She always had a huge smile on her face. I miss that little greeting everyday. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find the strength and comfort needed during this difficult time. Remember, God will lift you all up and watch out for you. Take good care of Ty we will really miss him. "
"Orville & Joy, Oh, that I could take this pain away from you. I must imagine that Jessica is as authentic, genuine, and funloving as you both. Know that my prayers will be with you during the time of mourning and celebration of your granddaughter's life. God's peace to you both. In deepest sympathy, Linda Murray "
"Lori, Kevin, Jason, Jamie, and Ty.. Jessica was such a BEAUTIFUL and AMAZING person. She will always be missed.. Your family will always be in our thoughts and prayers. "
"Kevin, Lori, & Kristi -- My deepest sympathies go out to your entire family. Although I never met Jessica, she has that same sweet smile that all of the Greubel girls were blessed with. You are such a loving family, and I know you will pull together to get through this difficult time. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers....especially little Ty."
"My deepest sympathy to Jessica's family - especially to little Ty. I am a teacher at Ty's daycare and the thought of not seeing either Jessica or Ty there anymore is heartbreaking. Jessica was one of those wonderful moms who would come in to pick up her son and let him play a few extra minutes without rushing him. She would help him pick up his toys and made sure everything of his was put away before they left. She was always very soft-spoken but made sure to say hello to all of us each night. - she was an EXCELLENT mother. May God give you all the strength to get through this difficult time."
"Lorie, Kristie, Craig, Jeff, Bob, and Colleen, and your entire family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all, I never knew Jessica but, she was a very beautiful girl, and I am sure she was a wonderful person as well. "
"To Jessica's family, Randy and I wish we would have gotten the chance to get to know Jessica. From the little we have learned of her and pictures you shared with us we can tell she was an intelligent,caring, and beautiful woman. Your family's kindness and sympathy has been greatly appreciated and please know that you and Ty are in all our thoughts and prayers. May our memories of Bryce and yours of Jess help to heal our pain as their stars shine down upon us."
"I played tball with Ty last season. I always loved looking at the Cubs banner your mom made for our team. I will miss having you on our team this year. You and your family are in my prayers. Your teammate Karsten Lappe "
"Our deepest sympathy is with Jessica and Bryce's family. You were such a beautiful girl inside and out. We will miss you at the party Saturday night for the girls. We will all have a drink in your memory(maybe even Connie) Ty is such a sweet little boy, too. He looks just like Jessica. Love always"
"I didn't know Jessica personally but I felt like I did. She has a place in my heart. Gramma Joanie shared pictures and stories of her accomplishments. Grampa Bill told sweet stories about Jessica and her family as she grew. I know she was an intelligent, genuine, beautiful person. Please know that the Elliott/Robbins family has Jessica and her family and friends in our hearts and prayers. Someone so special as Jessica...can never be forgotten. With my deepest sympathy and love for your family Karen Robbins (daughter of Bill Elliott) "
"I graduated from CHS before Jessica transferred so I never knew her...but I have heard many good things about her character and influence on others. She impacted a lot of people. I am sorry to hear about your loss--your family is in my prayers. "
"To Jessica's family, Randy and I wish we would have gotten the chance to get to know Jessica. From the little we have learned of her and pictures you shared with us we can tell she was an intelligent,caring, and beautiful woman. Your family's kindness and sympathy has been greatly appreciated and please know that you and Ty are in all our thoughts and prayers. May our memories of Bryce and yours of Jess help to heal our pain as their stars shine down upon us."
"Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through the most difficult time of your lives. This is something that is not supposed to happen to someone we know. Take good care of Ty."
"My prayers are with this lovely young lady and dear friend of my co-worker, Melissa. May she be forever honored in memory by her entire hometown community."
"I would like to express my sincere condolences to your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers."
"I am very sorry for your loss. I did not know Jessica that well, but my son goes to school with Ty. Ty and all your family are in my thoughts and prayers."
"I did not know Jess very well, but was still touched by her kindness and beautiful smile. Jess was a wonderful young woman and will be greatly missed by all. My prayers are with you all."
"So many thoughts and too few words...My thoughts and prayers are with you all."
"My heart goes out to you - family & friends of Jessica. I am praying for all and especially Ty - He was in my son's class and at daycare. Words cannot express how much sympathy is felt at this time. "
"A sweet, sweet woman who adored her son. We are all better for having known her and all feel a deep loss at her passing. May Ty and Jessica's parents continue to feel her loving presence forever and ever."
"Your family and Ty are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time."
"I am so sorry for your loss. It has been many years since I have spoken to Jessica, but a person like Jess never leaves your heart. We will continue to pray for your family and for Ty. We love you all."
"Jeff,Gina and Jess's family, we are so sorry for your loss. Although we did not know Jess she is beautiful and the world has lost a wonderful person. You are in our thoughts and prayers. "
"I work at Principal & although I didn't know Jessica, but I wanted you to know that I'm praying for your family & all of Jessica's friends during this tough time. May you find strength & comfort in the love that she brought to all the lives she touched."
"Im a good friend of Bryce's and just want you to know that we are all praying for your family as well. Bryce only surrounded himself with great people and although I never met Jessica I'm sure she fit that description. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this tough time"
"My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time. Jessica was such a wonderful woman, and she will be greatly missed."
"To the whole family..I am so sorry for your loss! I know there are no words to comfort you at this time except to know God will help you through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers! May God be with you through this time and through the years to come in helping Ty remember what a wonderful Mom she was and wonderful family he will always have! Love, Cherise"
"Our most heartfelt sympathies to Jess's family. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. May Jess's beauty live on in our hearts."
"We are so sorry to all of you in your loss! All I know to say is you're on our minds constantly and we're praying for you! May God be with you in this VERY difficult time!"
"Our deepest sympathies go out to Jessica's family. We met Jess only a couple times but she was truely an amazing woman and will be missed sooo much. God obviouly had greater and better plans for her in heaven than we did here. She is in a much better place than we can ever imagine. Our thoughts and prayers are constantly with you... "
"My deepest condolences to Jess's family. You are all in my thoughts & prayers. Jessica was loved by everyone and will be greatly missed."
"To Colene (my cousin) and Bob; Paul and Veda (my uncle and aunt) and your entire family. My heart aches for each of you as you cope with the loss of your precious Jessica. Lean on the Lord for strength and understanding; he will be your rock. Love, Carolyn"
"My thoughts and prayers are with you in this very difficult time."
"My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I wish I had gotten more opportunities to get to know Jessica, although she was always a delight when she came over to our old home in Pleasant Hill. In addition I would like to mention that I experienced your family's character when you took such good care of my brother's home while he was in need. I know such a kind and loving home will be just the place for little Ty. I will miss seeing him on Mondays when I pick up his buddy Hayden but I know that God and a special angel up above are keeping arms of love around him and all of you. Please take care, Kay Shriver"
"Although i never new Jessica my thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends. I had stopped to help that terrable night.I witnessed this entire tragady. I feel so bad i could do more to help her. I wish only the best for her young son and her entire family. God bless you all."
"I just wanna say i feel awful for jessicas family, i also was in the van w/ kevin when she came to us for help. Im so ashamed we couldnt do more for her, was a horrific tragedy. That poor girl, her poor son. im so sorry and my heart goes out to you all. All jessicas family n friends! She was such a beautiful girl. God bless you all! :("
"Jess was a wonderful person, and I'm not sure how to put into words the extent to which I & many others will miss her. My prayers go out to your family & especially Ty~(Ty: whenever you may read this, just know that you were the light of your mom's world)"
"I can't hardly believe such a good, sweet person has been taken from us. I enjoyed sharing baby stories with Jess durring my training, and I am so sorry Ty has lost such a wonderful mother. My prayers are with the family."
"Kevin, Lori, Jason, Jamie, Brenda and Ashley: Our thoughts and prayers are with each and every one of you. Jessica was beautiful from the outside in and had so very much to offer this world. We lost our 13 year old cousin and niece almost two years ago to a senseless act and know the pain and anguish your family is experiencing at this time. Our belief that she is in a much better place and the pride we had in her has been our saving grace. Trust that God is holding her close in his arms tonight and that she will always be with you. We are so very sorry for your loss. "
"Kevin, Lori, Jason, Jamie, Brenda and Ashley: Our thoughts and prayers are with each and every one of you. Jessica was beautiful from the outside in and had so very much to offer this world. We lost our 13 year old cousin and niece almost two years ago to a senseless act and know the pain and anguish your family is experiencing at this time. Our belief that she is in a much better place and the pride we had in her has been our saving grace. Trust that God is holding her close in his arms tonight and that she will always be with you. We are so very sorry for your loss. "
"My thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family at this very difficult time. Words can not express how my heart breaks for you.I didn't know Jessica ( I knew Bryce), but from everything I've read she sounds like a beautiful person. May God Bless all of you."
"Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Words do not express how sad we feel for all of you. "
"Our sincere sympathy goes out to all of you in this very sad time. Words cannot even begin to express the sorrow we feel for you. May it be of some comfort to know that your friends care. You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. May God Bless You and keep you in His loving care. "
"Stacy and I want to send our prayers, thoughts and best wishes. After reading about Jessica's accomplishments and meeting her family it is obvious to see where her character and good nature comes from."
"Kevin, Lori, and family ~ There seems to be no words to express the deepest sympathy that I feel for your family right now. Jess was a wonderful, wonderful woman who will be greatly missed by many but never ever forgotten. I admire her for many reasons and always will. I know Ty will grow up to learn what an awesome mom he had and know just how much she cared for him. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. "
"My heart goes out to all of you. Lori and Family, Bob and Colene and the wonderful Greubel family: I have you in my thoughts and prayers and am so very sorry for your loss. May God bless you all."
"My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. There are no words that can convey the sadness everyone is feeling.It's obvious that Jessica was loved by many and her son will know what a special Mom she was to him. I will say a prayer nightly for the family. God bless you all, and know that many people across Iowa are keeping you in their prayers. "
"We were shocked and saddened to hear about your loss. It's unbelievable that something like this could happen to that great Greubel family. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you. Joan and Vaughn Lewis"
"sleepovers on the trampoline, knowing i can call her at 3am if i've had a bad dream. sledding off the rooftop (and getting caught), learning how to curl my own hair without getting one single knot. campfires, bonfires, 'parties' down by the pond, of scotcheroos she was so fond. long walks along the railroad tracks, trying to grow our hair all the way down our backs. history lessons from a squirt bottle, watching her fall in love--foot full throttle. matching wall paper filling our new rooms, with every person she met a sure friendship blooms. taking rides on the four-wheeler with J. tied to the back, a beautiful smile she never did lack. being her annual date to the roller skate party, always because of each other that 1st period tardy. homecoming queen, salutatorian, everyone's best friend, now an angel God will send. to watch over me and all her other friends, family, and her one true love, Ty. i already miss you jess. i love you, goodbye. kevin, lori, jamie, jason & ty: you are truly blessed to have had such an amazing woman a part of your family. i am only one of thousands who share even a small amount of memories with jessica that will never be forgotten. she did not just teach me how to do my hair and make up, and how to ice skate. she taught me how to have a positive outlook on every situation and make the most out of every single day. she has helped me grown in so many ways throughout our lifetime and i am so thankful that we have never lost sight of each other and the friendship we have shared for so many years. i hope you, too, can find peace in her memory. love and prayers, "
"My deepest condolences to Jess's family. I know I join with the entire class of 2002 in remembering both her internal and external beauty. She was a friend to all and she will be dearly missed. May Ty grow to learn of the Jessica that we've all loved these past 24 years. Melissa Ansley CHS Class of 2002"
"Please know that people you don't even know are praying for your family! We are praying for strength and comfort for all of you especially Ty! "
"Jessica was a jewel....what a sweet, beautiful woman...I can never thank you enough for being so sweet and kind to Kyle's family. You were so good to Grandma and Grandpa Deemer and it will never be forgotten. Rest in peace Jessica."
"Bob, Colene and Lori: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. my thoughts and sincere sympathy are with you at this difficult time."
"Bob, Coleen, Jeff and Gina..I am so sorry to hear of your loss. my thoughts and sincere sympathy are with you at this difficult time."
"Jessica touched so many lives in such a positive way. She will be missed by many."
"I was a friend of Bryce's and am praying for you guys in this very tough time. Never knew Jessica but from reading various comments it sounds like she was quite the young lady. Very sorry for your loss."
"Your family and Ty have not left our thoughts and prayers since Friday. We know we cannot understand your profound loss, but please know we are here to help you. Paul and Leslie Goldsmith "
"Kev, Lori, Jason, Jamie, and Ty-- Jess was a great person and wonderful mother she will be greatly missed. I've been praying for you all. I love you all! Let me know if you need ANYTHING!!!"