In loving memory of

Marilyn Comer
May 14, 2008

Marilyn Kay Comer, one of two children of Derwin Julian Larsen and Frances Dorothy (Pashek) Larsen, was born in Greenfield, Iowa on May 14, 1941. Marilyn grew up in Orient, Iowa and graduated from the Richland Township High School in 1958. After high school, she attended and graduated from Southwest Community College in Creston, Iowa.
Marilyn and Wendell Alan Comer were married in Orient on September 17, 1961. They made their home in Council Bluffs, Iowa and were blessed with three children; Donald, Deborah, and Daniel. Marilyn worked for U-Haul in Council Bluffs for ten years before the family moved to Mineola, Iowa in 1973. Marilyn worked for a time as the secretary at St. John Lutheran Church in Mineola and in 1985 began working for ECI in Glenwood, Iowa. She was a member of St. John Lutheran Church, the Extension Cords, and the ISU Extension Council. She enjoyed fishing, gardening, flowers, and dining out. Marilyn loved spending time with her grandchildren, family and co-workers at ECI where her official title of Comptroller could often be translated to "mother hen." In 1997, Marilyn and Wendell purchased a home outside of Bedford, Iowa for their weekend "get-aways." The whole family enjoyed spending time at the family retreat and Marilyn loved to take her grandsons fishing at their pond. Over time, Marilyn and Al decided to sell their home in Glenwood and retire to Bedford.
Marilyn and Al had been married 46 years when Marilyn died on her 67th birthday, May 14, 2008, at the Creighton University Medical Center as a result of a lawn tractor accident. She was preceded in death by her parents.
Marilyn is survived by her husband Al Comer of Bedford; daughter Deborah Henningsen and husband Kirk of Griswold, IA and their sons Austin, Travis, and Joel; sons Donald Comer and wife Jennifer of New Market, IA and their sons Nick and Noah, and Daniel Comer and his wife Colleen of Clarinda, IA; brother Paul Larsen and wife Diane of Belvedere, IL; nieces and nephews; other relatives and many friends.


Memorials suggested to: St. John Lutheran Church or Siam Church of Christ

Tributes

Dona Raye White wrote on May 28, 2008:

"My thoughts and prayers are with you and my heart goes out to all of you. With sympathy Dona."

Yvonne Stouder wrote on May 22, 2008:

"Al and family, I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your wife, mother, mother-in law and grandmother. When Marilyn and I would run into one another,in the store, on the street or where-ever she always had time to speak and visit with me. We always had a laugh or two over something we women thought was funny or stupid. She was a kind lady and my thoughts are with you and the family during this difficult time. God Bless, Yvonne Stouder "

Tom and Mary Fedler wrote on May 18, 2008:

"TO AL and family. We are truly sorry to hear of Marilyns accident and passing away just a week later. We all thought she was on the mend but only GOD knows best. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Just remember all the good times you shared together. I'm sure it will help the healing process. "

Alycia and Lester Carlsborg wrote on May 17, 2008:

"Dear Paul and Diane and the rest of Marilyn's family, Paul, I know family photos you have taken will help you all cherish the happy memories. I think I recall spending some time visiting with Marilyn in a tent on your front yard in the evening of Adam and Danyel's wedding. Les's and my prayers have been with you since we heard from Arlene about the tragic accident. In Christ, Alycia and Lester"

Hamiltion Sundstrand wrote on May 16, 2008:

"Dear Paul and Family, Our condolences to you and your family in your grief at the loss of your sister. Our thoughts are with you and your loved ones during this difficult time of loss. I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love. -Leo Buscaglia "

Laura Doocy wrote on May 16, 2008:

"Comer Family, Sorry to hear about your loss. I remember my times at the farm as a child & Marilyn was always a very kind & generous woman. Thoughts & Prayers are with you & your families. Laura"

Ricki Achenbach wrote on May 16, 2008:

"We are truly sorry to here about Marilyn. Please accept our condolences. Your family will be in our thoughts & prayers. Lonny & Ricki Achenbach"

Jill Stephens wrote on May 16, 2008:

"Debbie,Kirk and Boys, I am so sorry to here about your mom and Grandma. you will be in my thoughts and prayers through this rough time. hold the memories close to your heart for she will always be with you. With much sypathy, Jill"

Jill Stephens wrote on May 16, 2008:

"Debbie,Kirk and Boys, I am so sorry to here about your mom and Grandma. you will be in my thoughts and prayers through this rough time. Hold the memories close to your heart for she will always be with you. With much sympathy, Jill"

Dick & Marcia Cain wrote on May 16, 2008:

"We're shocked and very sadden. Life is precious and Marilyn lived every day to it's fullest. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers."

The Jeremy Marvel Family wrote on May 16, 2008:

"We are here for you all... Our prayers are with your family."

John and Diane Rempe wrote on May 16, 2008:

"To Al and family. We are truly sorry to hear of Marilyn's passing. I am sure she would like you to rejoice and celebrate her life by remembering all the good times you shared together as a family and with friends and to carry on with her in mind. "

Leslie & Paul Speck wrote on May 16, 2008:

"We have many precious memories of you and your family. Marilyn leaves many bereft friends who are keeping you close in thoughts and prayers."

Dan Mueller wrote on May 16, 2008:

"I am truly sorry to hear about Marilyn she sounds like a wonderful lady. Al I always enjoyed talking to you I hope you can enjoy her memories and your children and grandchildren to get you trough this. Will be thinking of you in my prayers. Dan Mueller "

Dana Jewett wrote on May 16, 2008:

"I was very fortunate to work with Marilyn at ECI. She was truely the mother hen of the place. She always took a great interest of my kids and wanted to see the new pictures. She will be missed greatly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jeff and Dana Jewett"

Lynn, Karen, Tobin and Torrey wrote on May 16, 2008:

"Dear Alan and family, Our hearts mourn with each of you at the loss of Aunt Marilyn. She was hospitality and warmth personified. Never once did any of us encounter her when there was not that warm hello and gracious welcome. What a blessing she was to you and everyone of us who knew her. "

Steve and Genelle Campbell wrote on May 16, 2008:

"Al, Don, Debbie, Dan & families, We are so very sorry - Marilyn was a great lady. She will be missed. We were lucky to have known her, we were blessed to have been her friend. Take care of each other. Steve and Genelle "

Vanessa Martin wrote on May 16, 2008:

"Al, Don, Deb, Dan & Families: My heart mourns with you at this sad time. Marilyn was such a wonderful person and was so proud of each of you. Remember the good times, they will help you through. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. May God's love help during this time. Vanessa and family"

Marv and Mary Fernald wrote on May 16, 2008:

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Marv and Mary Fernald wrote on May 16, 2008:

"The Comer Family - We are so sad for you and your family. Marilyn is such a wonderful person full of love full of live but mainly her wonderful smile whenever she spoke of each one of you. May her spirit of life and love be with you today and each day to follow. Blessing to you all. ... We have had you in our thoughts and prayers during this long week. As always, Marv and Mary Fernald "

Tami (Robbins) Chaffee wrote on May 15, 2008:

"Al, Donnie, Debbie, Danny and families, I am so sorry. We had such fun with you guys over the years. Marilyn will be very much missed. My thoughts are with all of you."

Jeff & Debbie DeYoung wrote on May 15, 2008:

"Al & family, we were very sorry to hear about your loss. Marilyn was a great lady, and we just wanted to know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this sad time."

Melissa Lewis wrote on May 15, 2008:

"Debbie & family, We are so sorry to hear about your mom and this terrible accident. This has to be a very difficult time and just know our thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care, Rick & Melissa Lewis & girls"

Lori Hackett wrote on May 15, 2008:

"We are so, so sorry for what has happened with Marilyn. She was a wonderful person that will never be forgotten. Our hearts go out to all of you. Love, Tom & Lori, Kelsey and Kyle"

Bill and Judy Scoggins wrote on May 15, 2008:

"Alan and family. It seems like just yesterday that I started to get to know you at the Comer Family Reunions, but many years have come and gone. Although the time was short to truly know an appreciate how wonderful Marilyn was, I can tell you that Mary and I loved and respected her. She was always kind, considerate and caring for all her immediate family and and her extended family as well. She will be missed for her smiling face, family talk, and easy going manner. Our heart, prayers, and love go out to all of you. God bless and may He give you abundant grace during this difficult time. Bill and Judy Scoggins"

Kevin and Carrie (Crawford) James wrote on May 15, 2008:

"Comer Family, We were so sorry to hear of Marilyn's passing. We just want you to know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Take care. Kevin and Carrie James"

Mick and Carolyn Miller wrote on May 15, 2008:

"Please accept our sincere condolences at this difficult time. We are lifting you all up in prayer. May God grant you peace, comfort and strength to endure. God bless, Mick and Carolyn Miller"

Matt, Pam, and Sage McLaren wrote on May 15, 2008:

"We just want to offer our condolences to you at this time. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Matt, Pam, and Sage McLaren"