Nicholas J. Stalker
June 1, 1964 - December 2, 2013

"Wow. Just found out. Can't believe it. I was talking to my husband about you a few weeks ago. We moved to Houston and I wanted to catch up with you and Wendy. Tell you about how I have grown and that i have 4 boys. Wanted to ask about my mum Debra. My Dad John boy (Newell) wanted to say how you will be missed and condolences to Wendy. Just can't Believe I will never get to meet you in person and say thank you. Thank you for looking after my mum. Thank you for being the kindest person I have ever met. Tara xxxxx"

"We are missing you at work ."

"Nick I will miss your smiling face at the swapmeets!! We always had so much fun, it will never be the same with out you there, I may not even go anymore, you were one of the main attractions for me! Ill never forget when you lost all your cash you had saved all winter somewhere at the Barbour swap meet, you were devastated. I asked if I could look around for it and you said with a sad face "If anyone can find lost money its you Wes" I found the roll of bills 3 minutes late in the bottom of a Kleenex box in your van!!!!! it made your weekend and my day. You were a class A person and I will miss you greatly. Im really in shock about all this as I had no idea and just found out today 3/11/14 God bless Wendy and let me know if you need anything"

"Nick and I grew up in the same village in Dorset, we were at upper school together and our friendship culminated in Nick being my Best Man at my wedding to Helen some 28 years ago. This, in true Nick form, was a little testing as my soon-to-be father-in-law had recently barred him from the pub where we were having our reception. I hadn't seen Nick for many years but a few years ago I bought a company based in Cross Plains, each time I head out there I thought I would try and get back in touch, never actually doing it but thinking next time I will. Last weekend I decided to look to see if I could find out where he was living so that I could arrange to meet up on my next trip, but sadly I found his obituary, even sadder was that I found that he lived only about 20 miles from where I stay when I am out there. We will all carry forward great memories of Nick; I will also always regret my attitude of "next time""

"I went to school with Nick ... or Mickili Porcorkavich as we used to call him. We had many good times at QE. He was a witty an humorous chap. Many fond memories. So sad to hear the news."

"when nick was wrestling my wife janell julseth at psp pub and when nick would joke that bald eagle was his favorite food"

"Your stupid dangerous triumph herald, pints of scrumpy, Wales with uncle Archie. Nick will be a memory that always makes you smile, a very rare thing."

"It's been too long , and now way longer . Never got that fishing trip in , but the beers were fun .. Can't say I ever really knew you , but you never failed to brighten my day . Gone too soon . "

"so sorry to hear about nick .got me thinking about old times when his bike got put in the front room his face when he got up in the morning was how the hell.R.I.P nick "

"We are still in shock after hearing the news. Nick was always a great neighbor. We will miss the nights down at the PSP tipping a brew or two or three..... Your spirit will always be at the PSP, your smile, your laughter. As many others have said you will be leaving a big hole in many lives. You will always be remembered. Wendy our hearts go out to you as you go through this very difficult time. We are always here for you."

"ride free my dear friend, ride hard until we meet again xx"

"Everyone mentions the bikes and we know they were an important part of your life. Billy and I knew another part - remember the snowmobile you bought from Hoeser and stored at the farm and ran across the field racing cars on Hwy N. Those were some "untypical" memories for a warm weather biker ! ! ! But you, Billy and I had fun and we enjoyed your accent even through a frozen snowmobile helmet. You will be missed . . . much. Wendy and the rest of the Stalker family, HE will be missed greatly! "

"Wendy, I am so, so sorry. Last night I was able to see such an outpouring of love for Nick, for you and your family. Your presence in this world has shown many people true character, compassion, fun and love. The two of you mean so much to so many and I hope that your wonderful memories can some day help to ease the pain. I can imagine that there was a wonderful party at the Pub last night and that Nick was laughing and enjoying every minute of it. Remember, Nick will never leave you, the two of you loved too much. I hope to get the chance to hear more stories and get to know your family at the Pub. Hugs, Cathy"

"knew-him briefly a good guy"

"NIck was one of my best childhood friends. The summers spent in the garden in Holt are such magical memories. Then we grew up and lost touch and then last year at Juliet's wedding all those years vanished and reconnecting was so easy. Now tragedy has struck and I feel sad for the lost opportunity to spend more time with a truly special person. But I am consoled because I know when we meet again it will be as if we were never apart. Love and condolences to Wendy, Maggie, Simon, Rebecca and Mark."

"Will miss you lots, you brought so much fun and laughter over the years. So many memories, you will be forever in our hearts. "

"It was really a pleasure getting the opportunity to get to know Nick. We always had a good time, and he always put a smile on my face. I always knew who to ask if I was feeling the urge to enjoy a Guiness with someone and I think there may be a few videos of us dancing our asses off on people's phones. Cheers, mate - I hope you have a Guiness waiting for me!"

"I only knew Nick for about three years but it many ways it felt like we were friends much longer. He was always quick with a smile, a handshake, and often a cold beer. I would often talk of Nick to my family and one by one, as they met him, they came to understand and share my fondness for Nick. I will miss our inevitable jabs at one another each time we met about his Bronco and my Chaparral. Nick, I feel like I only got to see the tip of the iceberg with you. I feel cheated. I'll miss you, mate. We all will. Also, I will still not sell you my Gold Star. "

"How lucky I was to have Nick as a "mate". Feeling a bit robbed at the moment, another road trip would have been nice, but not to be. Combi vans and Harleys in Australia, picking apples in Orange, rallying a hire car in Malta, bent over in Customs at Heathrow, rigid and girder forks on the back roads of the Isle of Man and lots more. Its been a real blast. Party on Pig. We are with you Wendy"

"Nickolai, Our wise, witty and worldly friend. Your smile was infectious and your laughter contagious. You brought joy to many and will be remembered where ever your friends gather, and there are many, and whenever a Guinness is hoisted! Our deepest sympathy to Wendy Dear, family and friends worldwide. We love you Nick, Bumps mate! Your "cat sitters", Bill and Lori "

"Hey Mate! I need to preface this with the fact that I have had a lot of names in my life, but until I met you 'Bloody Colonial' wasn't one of them. I appreciate your honest efforts in trying to convert me to the dark side of the force (Norton). Your constant bantering almost accomplished the job. I'm still a little soar you went and leaked out on us so soon. I really enjoyed the times we got to hit the road together. I wish I had more time to comb through some of the things stuffed in that Limey head of yours. You sure as h*ll were well travelled and well versed in life. You'll be missed by us all, friend. (insert liturgical 'CHEERS MATE!' here)"

"Knowing Nick was a real pleasure. I met him through my dad when i was probably 14 years old and saw him many times throughout the years after. There are very few people like him in this world. He always had such a positive friendly vibe and was always such a giving person. My deepest sympathies go out to Wendy and the rest of his family during this ordeal. It's still so hard to believe he's no longer with us. Nick, you will be truly missed by everyone. Josh Stapelmann"

"So many good times, always a smile and a hug. You always took the time to listen, give some thoughts and share your thoughts. Friends like you are extremely valuable and rare. Thanks for all the great times and laughs we shared. Choo-Choo"

"I have many wonderful memories of my wonderful cousin Nick, in all of them I remember a warm kind hearted person. Time chatting to Nick was always worth while time spent! I remember first time really getting to know Nick when he and some of my other cousins took me out to my first pub on a family holiday. I always thought he was my cool biker cousin, i remember him driving my grandmother in his bike and sidecar! I was so glad to reconnect with both him and Wendy when they came to Juliet's wedding. He was the same lovely Nick........ My heart and thoughts are with Wendy, Aunty Maggie, Simon, Rebecca and Mark tomorrow........"

"What a joy it was to know Nick. He truly was a terrific person so full of life The stories that he shared with us, the laughter that he provided, his caring manner is what I will remember most. I'm sure there's one hell of a euchre game going, you've probably taught Joe the game already and you have plenty of players to keep the game going... Jeanne, Papa Smurf, Lee, Gary, Meryl, Neal and Clay to mention a few. Till we meet again...."

"Massive condolences and sympathy to Wendy, Maggie, Nick's family and all of his friends across the globe of which I have been glad to be one. Nick & I met in Australia 1988 and from that moment I can say, hand on heart, I have spent some of my most happy memories in life with Nick, we really did have some laughs together over the years. This is in the main down to Nick's physical and emotional generosity and his unyielding sense of uncomplicated fun. Nick, you will be greatly missed but never forgotten... "

"Wendy, know that you are thought of and prayed for. May the Lord give you strength, courage and grace in the days ahead. We grieve for your loss of such a fun loving mate. "

"Its so hard to believe Nick is not in the world even if that was far across the world in the States. Our lovely cousin. So sad for Wendy, Maggie, Simon, Rebecca and Mark and his nephews Archie and Gill, and all the wider family as we try to take this in. His warmth and laughter made him many great friends, I know, and know too that they will be reaching out to comfort Wendy and all those who knew him. My memories are scattered across the years, playing cludo (the mystery game) with Simon and Nick in the summer house at Rhoose and swimming in the pool that long hot summer of 1976, playing in Green Goddess (a car) in Little Orchard, crazy days skiing, nights with Gluvwien and silly hats in St Anton, stories of the road and of meeting Wendy and knowing how good they were for each other- Nick settling down and still loving life, nd bikes. I think he told me he had one in a sitting room once. Then most recently and so glad now to have re-connected at Juliet's wedding and then sadly at Joe's funeral meeting his friends, talking, laughing, drinking and crying late into the night at Simons with Jane, when Nick told us how he felt he'd been so lucky that his life had been the way it was, to have had someone like Joe for a dad and to have such a great family. Reminiscing with Jane and Claire, I know we all feel the same gratitude that he was a member of our family. I remember a look Nick had, I keep thinking of it, and as Iook back over some of the photos there he is smiling, kinda soft and cheeky, mischief in is eyes, and something of a continual look of surprise at where he found himself at that moment- happy. "

"I will always be so glad I decided to get off a huge TransAmerica train to see my big cousin (and Wendy of course). Without doing that I would have never got to know what a warm and loving person Nick was. He made me feel so special (he even took time off work to show me the sights!). Since then, every time I saw him again it reaffirmed what a genuine guy he was. I am thankful that I got to know him and I am so sad that he has gone. I wish I could be there with you tomorrow but my thoughts are with you Wendy, Maggie, Rebecca, Simon and Mark. "

"I only had the honor of meeting Nick once. My brother took me to meet him and look at his shop. I immediately felt as if we had been friends for years. Being from Texas it took me a little bit to understand what he was saying, but I couldn't wait for his next joke or comment to come out of his mouth. It was a cold rainy day we went to his shop, and I remember leaving feeling warm and smiling. We need more people like Nick in the world. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones. "

"We didn't know Nick well, but once you meet him, you just know that every time he opens his mouth thereafter, you know you're going to laugh! I won't forget how Wendy pointed out it was just like Groundhog Day all over again every time we came into the PSP and talked to Nick about being neighbors - he could never quite pinpoint where my house was located, but he always had a good idea where it was at (as he always said). Wendy, Our condolences to you. Nick will be sorely missed!"

"Hey Nick, I am stunned mate. Bummer. And you just finally got the Inter back! But at least we we got to hang out a bit last summer. It was so good to see you again. As ever, you were great company, a great guy, great help to a traveling biker (even if we were on an Harley) and what a great bike collection! You were always there even though it was years between seeing one another. Everyone 'down under' is stunned too. That's just not fair. Safe riding brother, I won't be forgetting you for a very long time. You were one of a kind the world could do with more of. I better get a beer now....."

"Wendy, I did not have the obvious pleasure of meeting Nick, but when I came by last Tuesday night after Nicks untimely passing I not only left feeling his presence and a life well lived but I left feeling the overwhelming love that he and you shared, his was undoubtedly a life fulfilled. My thoughts and prayers have been overwhelming with you and Nicks family. I pray that God wrap his loving arms around you and comfort and keep you as you live on to celebrate a life well lived and a Love that will live on forever and ever Amen. May the love that you shared and the memories and the life that you shared comfort and keep you forever. With lot's of Hugs, Rhoda"

"I only had the pleasure of meeting Nick once but it was at a time in Wendy's life that probably called for his wonderful presence the most. One time a co-worker and I were commenting on how we preferred our 'men' to be taller than us. You should have seen the look on Wendy's face when she turned and gave us the famous Stalker eye. That's when I realized that Wendy was married to a man who was 100 feet tall. After reading all these comments and memories today I would have to agree. I found this from his brother Mark "Wendy, I cannot begin to express my sorrow and sympathy. However deep my loss, pales into insignificance beside your own. I was in awe of the love you shared. Thank you for the happiness you gave Nick. " . The only thing I would add is thank you to Nick for the happiness he gave Wendy who by the way is one amazing woman who has the pleasure of claiming one amazing love in her life."

"Wendy, although I did not know Nick, I knew how happy he made you-what a terrible loss to this world and for you. My prayers and thoughts are with you always."

"My first nephew: playing in short trousers with brothers and sister when I visited Little Orchard, then sailing with him on Lesmar and Savacou, later growing up in Rhoose and then providing The Lawn with motorbikes. I even made a speech at his wedding, about the transatlantic romance. It's so hard to believe he is gone - so young, and such a great relative. Too much sadness."

"I will miss you dearly. you made me laugh on my hardest days and were a true friend.I'm glad I had the chance to call you my friend.cheers mate..nipple nipple ball ball...."

"My best mate Nick .The best of friends. I will miss him for ever.Riding round the new forest on his old BSA.camping out drinking beer. A great mate.ride on buddy."

"Nick cousin and friend, I have too many memories to put here, but getting to know you again as an adult and travelling around the world with you could not have come at a better time in my life, I remember laughing so many times on that trip and when we met Wendy enroute I never guessed that you had found your true love. I was so happy for you both when we came to see you be married. Reading all these messages has helped bring home to me that you have moved onto the next part of your journey and I wish you safe travels xxx"

"Hello Nick, Do they have Craigslist where you are?? LMK if there are any good listings..... I'm really going to miss you, mate.... Not least of all because I'll not hear you issuing some of those great Limey profanities towards me, for me to hurl back at you, usually confusing the 'Colonials' among us....... I think the shock is only just setting in. I know how much 'swapmeets' or, more correctly in our vernacular; autojumbles, were so much a part of your life.... and you were so much part of them for me. They will never be the same, nor as much fun....... My heartfelt feelings go out to Wendy especially, your mum, the rest of your family and all your great 'muckers', that will undoubtedly miss your sharp wit and humour. It feels really odd writing this..... It should never be.... I'm hoping that you'll somehow be 'with me' at the next swapmeet I go to... Cheers mate. Thinking of you and yours..... "

" We have known Nick for many years. Since his first day of work, for Joe. You could always count on Nick to get a pile of projects dumped on him, when he came in for his shift, and have it done by morning and DONE RIGHT! A lot of peoples jobs were made easy because of his dedication and expertise. He always greeted you with a smile and a nod, and referenced you as "Mate"! Nick, you were much appreciated by us and you will be truely missed. There will be some big shoes to fill with you gone. May you rest in peace. Our sincerest condolences, Joe & Christina"

"Nick and my brother Tom celebrated their birthdays together numerous times. Nick always called me "The mad aunty". Of course it sounded much better coming from Nick's wonderful ancient. I will always remember the extra boost you gave to the family functions and fun times at the pub. May the angels wrap their wings around you Wendy and give love, protection and strength.. "

"I was in shock when I heard this sad news. You're a lovely person with a great sense of humour. I remember one special occasion when he was walking in his sleep and he tried to sleep on our bed. The next morning I told him that he tried to sleep with his sister-in-law and Nick looked all confused as he didn't remember a thing. We laughed so much. My thoughts are with Wendy and family in this difficult time. Love Fab xx"

"Nick, I could not have wished for a better brother than you. You made me laugh so much, I could barely breathe. It was a privilege to share time in Dad's workshop with you, fixing up leaky old British engineering. Wendy, I cannot begin to express my sorrow and sympathy. However deep my loss, pales into insignificance beside your own. I was in awe of the love you shared. Thank you for the happiness you gave Nick. My thoughts are with you."

"You will always be in my heart forever and always. Love your sister xxx"

"The world has lost a wonderful man, no one knows that more than you Wendy. He is up in heaven now, sitting on a Ducati watching out for you. :) We are all blessed to have known Nick and his memory will live on through you!"

"Wendy, Nick stole your heart in CA and spirited you away to England, but he also created a special place in our hearts. You and Nick were the loves of each others life. To Nick a friend was just a smile away. I will miss his great warm smile, sense of humor, quirky English accent, teaching me to drink ale and the special hugs. Nick reminds me of a snowflake - he left a mark, but not a stain. Miss you my little limey "

"Wendy, There are no words or actions that can bring you the comfort you need at this time, but I am hoping that all the wonderful memories help you heal and bring you some peace. You are in my thoughts and prayers, I have been thinking of you so much. I wish you strength, peace and comfort during this difficult time and know that I am sending love your way. Also, I see that memorials are to be made out to the Dane County Humane Society and I think that this is amazing. Even brought a tear to my eye! Nick and I share a passion for this organization and we'd often talk about it. It truly warms my heart to see this in the obituary; to know that though he has left, donations will still be made, and in his honor. I am blessed to have known Nick and to be left with memories that make me smile. I will, without a doubt, carry on our awful luck for the shake. "

"I knew Nick when I worked at Trailers. He was such a great guy. I know how he will be missed by the people who knew him. One of his friends called me very upset to tell me of his passing. "

"Wendy, So sorry to hear about Nick! He and Clay are sitting at Heaven's Suck Em Up, harassing the bartenders, drinking Newcastle Brown Ale, and making everyone fall in love with them! So happy I had the chance to meet you both, and Wendy, you are in our prayers. Please let us know if there's anything you need! Danica and Jeff Horner (Suck Em Up) "

"I can't believe I'll never carry him to his vehicle again. I can only think that he is with Clay insulting each other and raising a cold one."

"I came to respect and admire Nick and Wendy over the good times we shared at the PSP. Nick and I would pick on each other or share heartfelt stories like we were brothers. His world and knowledge was very unique and he made it a fun place to be. What an awesome individual! I will miss you as if someone stole motorcycle and left me penniless. For a small guy you will leave a vey large hole in our hearts. Wendy our prayers and thoughts are with you."

"Nick, though I never met you, I know you were loved as I seen it every time in Wendy's face when she spoke of you. Wendy, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Words can never say enough. I am so sorry. "

"Nick & Wendy were the first people I met when I moved to the area. Nick was always super friendly & enthusiastic when we chatted. It was always great to run into you guys, and I'm going to miss seeing his face around. Hugs to Wendy and to your family. I'm so sorry and thinking of you."

"Wendy, You are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray all the memories will help you during this very difficult time. My heart goes out to you. Lisa K."

"Nick, the most worldly person I have ever met. thank you for allowing me to travel the world thru your stories, you have brought so many memories both near & far your humor and wisdom will be greatly missed the loving caring person you are helped me thru the loss of loved ones in my family. PROUD to call you my FRIEND!!! love JIMI RAY & JEAN"

"Nick & I became fast friends when Nick first came to the states and noticed I was wearing a Triumph belt buckle. It didn't take him long to introduce himself in his witty British accent and the rest is bike memories & history! "MATE" as he would address me...May your roads be long & adventurous & always DRY (you know how you hated the rain) & know you will always be in my heart until our paths meet again. May you & Joe enjoy many "Ciders"! Wendy, Rebecca, Mark, Simon & Maggie, our most sincere sympathy goes out to all of you. It truly was a Honor to call Nick......FRIEND! Mark & Nora Lea Hoesly"

"I worked with Nick for over 15 years. He would always come in with his coffee, newspaper, and his hair all messed up and talk to me before his shift, and I would brief him on the days events, good or bad. With his accent and the way he did things, he gave our shop that British flair. Nick was a true professional at what he did, never doing things half-way, but most important was that he was a really caring and loving person who would do anything for you. Nicks passing will leave a huge hole in peoples hearts that knew who he really was.My sincere condolences to Wendy, her family and Nicks family. "

"Nick, you are loved. Brian and I are lucky to have had you in our lives and will cherish the friendship we shared and all of our memories. You will be in my heart until I leave this life and move on to heaven or my next life. I prefer the latter so we may meet again."

"Nick, I only got to meet you a few times but I loved your accent. You were always cheerful n full of laughter. Wendy, my heart goes out for you and will keep you in my prayers."

"Nick ... I will miss your huge smile and your cheery voice with the accent that I loved to hear. You will be missed by many. My condolences to you Wendy, .May the lord help you through this trying time."

"It is with heavy heart and great sadness and tears that I read this, I worked with Nick for 7 years at Stoughton Trailers and was thankful to be able to know him, he was a great and caring person and will be missed by many. Thoughts and prayers to your loved ones, Fly high with the Angels Nick "

"Nick - I feel such sadness by this loss that will be left in the world, you truly were a one of a kind that will never be forgotten. I will always remember your smile and your very welcoming hello's. "

"Nick...you were the best brother in law a girl could ask for. You were always afraid of my driving but I forgive you for that :) Wendy and I had the uncanny ability to drive you around the bend, especially in parking lots....every time we drive the wrong way down a parking lot aisle, know we will be laughing and thinking of you. I love you man...save a cold one for me "

"You are the love of my life. "

"I am so deeply saddened of the news! I will miss your funny jokes and your great since of humor. Nick may you ride high in the wings of the lord. My thoughts and prayers go out to Windy and family. Love you bike man!"