"Charlie Goff - Cindy's older brother December 1
I'd like to offer some additional details about Cynthia Batten and her life.
Cynthia Ellen (Goff, Oxley) Batten passed away November 24th in Hollywood, FL after a short battle with small cell lung cancer complicated by COPD, emphysema, and pneumonia. Born near Etam, WV to Henry Lawrence Goff and Carrie (Britton) Goff, she is survived by her son Russell Batten of Hollywood, FL; by her daughter Susanne (Craig) Oxley Cardella of Arvada, CO and their two Children (Christopher and Elyssa); by her sister Myra (Gene) Goff Knapp of Zephyrhills, FL and by her brother Charlie (Becky) Goff of Gold Canyon, AZ; by her former (first) husband Robert Oxley of Aurora, CO; and by numerous more distant relatives from her native West Virginia and beyond. She was preceded in death by her parents, brother Denton (Donna) Goff and former husband Jerry Batten.
Cindy grew up near Aurora, WV and attended high school there, later earning an undergraduate degree from West Virginia University. She lived and worked in Delaware and Georgia, but spent most of her adult life in south Florida. She remained enthusiastic and knowledgeable about her West Virginia heritage as well as the state's culture and people, making frequent visits there throughout her life. She was particularly interested in visiting cemeteries and old homesteads as windows into the lives of her ancestors and their era.
While Cindy talked a lot about her interests, relatives, activities, etc., she was also an intensely private person. As a result, none of us knew of the serious health issues she had been facing in recent months.
Cindy's childhood was as the youngest of four children (2 girls, 2 boys) on a dairy farm with all its' attendant chores, responsibilities and opportunities. Like all of us, as soon as she was big enough she helped around the farm, for example moving hay or straw bales, driving tractor, gardening and picking blackberries, and with the morning and evening milking of 25-30 cows. Cindy relished the memories of those experiences and the life lessons they taught all of us. One such lesson she and I learned as a 'shared experience' when we were perhaps 8-10 years old was 'never send old tires rolling down a hill at a herd of cows unless you want to start a stampede!'
Another memorial service may take place in West Virginia at a later time"