"It warms my heart to read all of these kind words about my dad. He was a great person and a wonderful dad. My whole life with him is full irreplacable memories with him. He was always positive, always caring. He could make me smile no matter what i was going through at the time. I love and miss him so much. But i know he wouldnt want me to give in to my sadness and pain. Through his entire life, and his entire sickness he praised God. He told me "No matter what happens God is in control and i trust him." Closer to the end of his life he said "It just didnt work for us honey. (referring to the cancer treatments). Its ok to cry, but you have to just wipe your tears and keep going." I miss him so much every day. But the person he was is what keeps me going. God bless all of you."
In loving memory of
Ron Messer
February 16, 1955 - August 31, 2015
Ronald G. Messer, of Antigo, went to be with the Lord on Monday, August 31, 2015 at his home surrounded by his family. He was 60 years old. He was born on February 16, 1955 in Zion, IL a son of Dixie Lorraine (Whitt) Messer of Antigo and the late Clifford Messer. He married Jill Rosko on January 20, 1990 at Four Corners Assembly of God, White Lake. She survives.
He was a graduate of Zion Benton High School. Mr. Messer worked for the City of Antigo in the Public Works Street Department from 1991 until 2014.
Ron was a member of Four Corners Assembly of God in White Lake, where he was the lead musician and served as Deacon.
He enjoyed playing gospel music with the Stone Soup Brothers and many other musicians throughout the years. He also enjoyed motorcycling, bicycling, spending time with his children, grandchildren and relaxing together with his wife.
In addition to his wife and mother, survivors include two daughters, Jaime (Sean) Greener of Azusa, CA, Stephanie Schweiger of Antigo; three sons, Jeffrey Messer, Ryan (Mandy) Messer, Kyle (Michelle) Messer all of Antigo; grandchildren, Makayla and Bailey Bessert, Morgan Schweiger, Selah and Kaleb Greener, Riley, Makena, Rennen Zahn and one on the way, Gabriel Messer; two sisters, Brenda Messer of White Lake, Sue (Rev. Tim) Wilson of Park Rapids, MN; two brothers, Marty (Chris) Messer of Bryant, Brian (Lynn) Messer of White Lake. He is also survived by brothers and sisters-in-law and many nieces and nephews.
In addition to his father he was preceded in death by his brother, Clifford "Brad" Messer.
A memorial service will be held on Thursday at 10 a.m. at Four Corners Assembly of God, White Lake with Rev. Marvin Kindle officiating. Burial will take place in Langlade Cemetery in the town of Wolf River. Visitation will be Wednesday from 4 to 8 p.m. at the Bradley Funeral Home and Thursday at the church from 9 a.m. until the time of service.
Tributes
"I will always be a big fan of Ron. A tenderhearted fella with an amazing spirit. A piece of Ron lives in all who adored him. "
"Our deepest condolences. "
"Dear Jill and family So sorry for your loss of Ron - I still remember when he would be up in the bucket truck waving at people as he put up christmas decorations for the city with Dan - He always had a smile on his face and kind words for everyone - I know he will be missed by his family and everyone he knew - may God bless you at this time and may you find peace"
"Ron was an inspiration to a lot of people. Including myself. He always looked for the best in people. Just a great and wonderful person. I will miss him, as will all of us."
"So sorry for your loss Jill. My prayers are with you. and your family."
"May God comfort each of Ron`s family and friends. He will be greatly missed by you all, but what wondrous joy for him to be standing before the Jesus he loved and served and seeing Him face to face!"
"kids & Grandkids at BB Jacks"
"Jill and family So sorry to hear about Ron, he has fought so hard, understanding that he was tired. There are never the right words to express, just want you to know you and your family are on our prayers. Sincerely, Steve and Thalia Messer, Indiana"
"Jill, our prayers are with you. Ron was an amazing man. I will never forget him. When I was baptized, the smile on Ron's face after I came up out of the water was so big. Also the same when I gave my life to Jesus. I remember Ron coming over to me and saying, welcome to the family. I truly am grateful to have met two wonderful people. Ron will be missed. And some day I will see him again in the house of the Lord. May God bless you and comfort you in this difficult time. "
"To the Ron Messer Family and Friends. My thoughts and Prayers are with you. I also wanted to share how Ron touched my life physically and mentally. I worked with Ron at Nortech . When working in the spray booth a hose ruptured and paint sprayed in my face and eyes. I could not see and Ron started flushing my eyes out with water. When going to the emergency room the Doctor said due to the fast thinking of Ron he saved my eye site. Thanks again Ron. "
"Ron and I worked together for many years and was the best joke teller ever. I always laughed harder from his laugh than I did his joke. Always a fun guy to be around. You put up one heck of a fight old friend and now its time to rest and save me a seat."
"Man of God"
"our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Greg and Debie Percival"
"Very sorry to hear of Rons passing. I knew him many years ago when the ostrowski vla, Brenda and Sue Messer and I all hung around. Deapest sympathies to all. Deb Truax- Ulrich"
"Jill and family, I didn't even know Ron personally but he touched my heart with your words throughout his illness. Your love story has inspired me to appreciate my loved ones even more, please know that my deepest sympathy is with all of you. God bless!"
"You will live in our hearts forever. "
"My Deepest Sympathy to Jill and all the family. I feel so blessed to have known Ron. He was a great friend, a true treasure. Ron was so kind, had smile for everyone, a heart of gold. I have always heard the music in Heaven is beautiful, now that Ron has join the Angels it will be even more beautiful. You will live in our "
"Jill and family, I am so sorry and pray that God's peace be with you and comfort you. I grew up knowing Ron and went to the same church. Always had a smile on. Loved listening to his voice and his musical gift. You both made my wedding day very special by sharing your talents and praying for us. He will be missed greatly, but we have comfort knowing he is in God's hands now and no longer in pain. He is with our family members that have gone ahead and reuniting with them. We're are hurting here but we also know we will see him again. God bless you and comfort you. "
"I've known Ron and the Messer family since I was 6 or 7 years old. I played video games, board games, and went on road trips with the family. Ron was very supportive of our musical endeavors, even if they were at odds with the type of tunes he loved playing. Always a smile on his face, even after years in between seeing him. I can't remember him saying a negative thing about anyone. They were practically a second family to me, and it's extraordinarily sad to see such a good person go."
"Where your treasure is, there also will be your heart. The treasure of your friendship will always be in our hearts! Your smile will be missed along with the sound of you guitar. "
"The world has lost one of the most wonderful people that I've ever known in my life. My condolences and prayers to Jill and all of Ron's family."
"There are no words to describe how we feel. God has gained a wonderful soul who will be deeply missed here on earth. With deepest sympathy. Love and prayers always!!!"
"Such a good kind gentleman. He will truly be missed. Sandy Fischer "
"Jill & Family, We're so sorry for your loss. Ron was a great guy and will be missed by so many. May it comfort you to know that he's with Jesus now and no more suffering. With love & prayers, Larry & Betty"
"I am sorry to hear of Ron's passing, I worked in the Clerks office for the City of Antigo years back & always enjoyed his smiling face. ...& even after I left employment there, he was so KIND to me each time I would run into him somewhere. Only the good die young. Many condolences to the entire family. "
"My last memory of Ron was when Joan and I sang at one of the song inspirations at Four corners last summer and when we finished our song, I was shaking like a leaf, and I looked over at Ron and he gave us a big smile and a thumbs up. He was a wonderful man, loved by many..My prayers will be with Jill and the rest of the family...I know he is celebrating today in his new home, reunited with his dad and uncles who passed on before him, Will see you in Heaven Ron...."
"So sorry Jill ,God blessed you with a wonderful man. gentle, Kind and loving with a heart as big as all outdoors. He will be at the gate looking for you when we join him in that meeting in the air."
"I had not seen Ron for a few years but I'm surprised and saddened to hear of his passing. I extend my deepest condolences to his family and friends. "
"So sorry to hear of Ron's passing. Thoughts and prayers to you Jill and the rest of the family. "
"Dear Jill & Family, May God wrap HIS arms around all of you! The strength and courage and Love we seen in every post was a true testament of what trusting in the Lord truly means! You are all in our hearts and Prayers! Sincerely, Ron and Phyllis Meyer"
"We are so sorry for your loss, Ron was such a great person he will be missed by all. Hugs & God Bless all of you. John & Nadene Stegall Lakewood, WI."
"so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family "
"Jill, Thinking of you and wishing you hope and courage at this difficult time"
"Srnding heartfelt condolences to the entire family! Ron was a great man n will be missed by many! Rest in peace Ron!"
"Our deepest sympathy! Ron was a wonderful guy who was always was happy go lucky, he will be deeply be missedð??¥"
"Ron will be missed, he was one of the more kind hearted, wonderful man we have ever known."
"Every thought I have of Ron makes me smile because every time I saw him, he was smiling!! What a wonderful man he was! He will be missed!"
"Ronnie was an awesome guy! I used to work with both Jill and Ronnie and was so blessed to be there friend! Praying for comfort and peace for the whole family!"