In loving memory of

Becky McMillen
May 30, 1956 - September 14, 2016

Rebecca Sue McMillen, 60, of Ames, died in her home on Wednesday, September 14th,2016. Becky was born on May 30th, 1956 in Davenport, Iowa to Norman and Shirley Dean.

Becky attended high school in Bettendorf, Iowa, where she was the homecoming queen. She was an Iowa State University graduate, with a bachelors degree in sociology. She then proceeded to work at First National bank as an officer.
She continued to reside in Ames, Iowa, where she was married to Tom Hostetter. They had two children; Nathan and Zachary. Becky was then re-married in 1987 to Ron McMillen, and they had a daughter named Chelsea.
Becky was a compassionate and loving woman, who had a laugh that was contagious. She was intelligent, and had a great sense of humor. She truly was a beautiful soul.

Becky is survived by her three children, Nathan Hostetter, Zachary Hostetter, and Chelsea McMillen; Her parents Norman and Shirley Dean; Two siblings, Dan Dean and Patricia Kendall.

A "Celebration of Life" in Becky's honor on October 6th, 2016 from 4-6PM at Grandon Funeral & Cremation Care 414 Lincoln Way Ames, Iowa
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In lieu of flowers, we ask that memorial gifts be directed to either Eyerly Ball of Ames, or to Youth and Shelter Services of Ames.

Online condolences may be directed to: www.grandonfuneralandcremationcare.com

Tributes

Chelsea wrote on Sep 15, 2019:

"I can?t believe its been three years.....I miss you. I love you. "

Jeff and Heidi Zinsli wrote on Oct 9, 2016:

"My greatest sympathies hearing about Becky's passing. I haven't seen her since college graduation but have fond memories of knowing Becky and her family."

Donna and Jeff Klinzman wrote on Oct 6, 2016:

"So sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time."

Norm Eckard and Family wrote on Oct 4, 2016:

"Ron and Family- Our sincere sympathy at your loss of spouse and friend. We've missed you and hope to see you in the future. "

Virgil Wulf Family & Class of 74' wrote on Oct 4, 2016:

"Sincere condolences to Becky's family from my family. Many members of the class of 1974 are also sending their best wishes and have shared memories and prayers. "

Dave Anderson wrote on Oct 4, 2016:

"Uncle Norman, aunt Shirley, Patty and Dan. I have fond memory's of visiting you guys in Davenport. Becky was a very loving person. I enjoyed visiting with her in thel last few years and talking about the past. My mother took her passing hard having just talked to her. On behalf of my family, we are very sorry for your loss. God bless you all."

David Boles. wrote on Oct 2, 2016:

"Just heard of Becky's passing. So many memories come to mind. Becky was a special part of my life even tho we lost touch after high school. RIP, Becky."

Martha Hellstrom Bakeris wrote on Sep 30, 2016:

"I was so sad to learn that Becky has passed. I will never forget our wonderful times all growing up together on Sunset Circle. She was a great girl and I am sure she turned into a wonderful women and mother. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family."

Patricia Zimmerman wrote on Sep 23, 2016:

"Becky was a very kind person and I know loved her family dearly. She was a person who would do anything for you and cared deeply about what was going on in ones life. She will truly be missed. My heartfelt sympathy, love and prayers to the family. "

family friend wrote on Sep 23, 2016:

"Becky was an outstanding, thoughtful woman who will be missed by all who knew her. She had a smile that would light a room, a laugh that radiated through you, and a heart of gold. Too early, Too soon, but loved throughout."

Chelsea McMillen wrote on Sep 22, 2016:

"My Dearest Mother, Words cannot begin to express the sadness in my heart. I love you more than any words can express. You never gave up on me. I never gave up on you. Our unconditional love flowed between us, and always will. I'll never forget weekends at Clear Lake, our talks and will keep your memory alive. I will love you forever. Your Daughter, Chelsea"