James J. Lynam, age 84, of Columbia City, IN and formerly of Peconic, NY died at 7:15 a.m. on Sunday, September 6, 2009 at The Oaks Nursing Facility. He was born in New York, NY on October 7, 1924 to James M. and Bridget (Barry) Lynam.He lived in Long Island, NY until March of 2008 when he moved to Columbia City. He graduated from William Howard Taft High School in New York City with the class of 1942. He served in the United States Army where he obtained the rank of sergeant and served with the 865th Air Engineering Squadron. On December 4, 1960 he married Beatrice D. McDonald. He retired from the City of New York-Sewage Treatment Department in 1972 where he worked as a water treatment technician. He was a member of St. Patrick's Catholic Church, Southold, NY. Survivors included his children, James (Pat) Lynam, Edgewater Park, NY; Carol (Rudy) Gonzalez, Poughquag, NY; Theresa (Laurant) Carter, Thousand Oaks, CA; Robert J. (Leslie Quiles) Lynam, Columbia City, IN; 10 grandchildren; and 1 sister, Mary Lynam of White Plains, NY. He was preceded in death by his parents, wife, Beatrice D Lynam, brother, Francis "Frank" Lynam and sister, Ann Cavanaugh.Visitation is from 2-4 p.m. Sunday, September 13, 2009 at DeFriest-Gratten Funeral Home, 51400 Route 25, Southold, NY 11971. The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, September 14, 2009 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Patrick's Catholic Church, 52125 Main Road, Southold, NY 11971. Burial to follow at Calverton National Cemetery, 210 Princeton Blvd., Calverton, NY 11933 (Long Island). Memorials may be given in memory of Mr. Lynam for Masses at St. Patrick's Catholic Church, Southold, NY. Envelopes will be available at the funeral home and church. Arrangements have been entrusted to DeMoney-Grimes Countryside Park Funeral Home, Columbia City, IN. Please visit www.demoneygrimes.com to send family condolences or sign the guest register book.
Tributes
sharon shepherd wrote on Sep 8, 2009:
"I am glad I could get to know James for the short while he stayed at the Oaks. We developed a good understanding of each other while he was with us and he will be missed. Each one of us is God's special work of art. May you find rest as James now is at peace. My deepest condolences.Sharon Shepherd"
Joni Heck wrote on Sep 8, 2009:
"Bob, Les and family, So sorry for your loss. James was a unique man and to know him was to love him. He will be missed. Hope to see you sometime. Joni Heck and Suzanne Lachance. "
Shawn and Emily Miller wrote on Sep 7, 2009:
"Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Lynam family. May you find comfort in knowing he is with our lord and savior. God Bless you all!!!Shawn and Emily Miller and family"