In loving memory of

Dennis L. Fetters
September 1, 1952 - June 19, 2016

Although he accomplished so much of which to be proud, Dennis Fetters was a humble man whose greatest joy was found in the family he shared with the love of his life. He was a devoted husband and father, but he would be quick to say that nothing was better than welcoming grandchildren into his heart. Dennis was a hardworking man, but he also knew how to enjoy so many of the best things that life has to offer. Life was not without times of trial for him, but his strength, courage, and perseverance were truly inspiring. Dennis will certainly be missed, but he leaves behind a timeless legacy that his loved ones will proudly carry on in his footsteps.

It seems only fitting that Dennis started his journey during a time that was as vibrant as he was. It was the 1950s when televisions were becoming part of our homes in huge numbers, which brought with it the introduction to shows like I Love Lucy and Father Knows Best. This was also the decade that Elvis Presley took the music world by storm with the sounds of rock n roll. It was on September 1, 1952, that Richard L. and Betty Jane (Adams) Fetters announced the birth of the baby boy they named Dennis L. in Wolf Lake, Indiana. He was raised on a dairy farm in Noble County, Indiana, alongside his brother, Duane.

In many ways Dennis was a young boy of his generation. Living on a farm meant that he had plenty of farm chores; however, when he was finished up with the cows he loved playing baseball. It was while growing up that Dennis became a New York Mets fan, and his friends even gave him the nickname of Yogi after the famous Mets coach, Yogi Berra. Dennis attended local schools and graduated from West Noble High School in 1971. He then continued farming for his dad.

Not to be forgotten during this time was Dennis introduction to the young girl who would forever hold the keys to his heart. Her name was Darlene A. Bouchard, and they met when he was up at Knapp Lake in Western Noble County the summer after graduating. As fate would have it, she was at her grandmas cottage on the lake that same day, and the sparks flew. They soon began dating and fell deeply in love. With a desire to spend the rest of their lives together, Dennis and Darlene decided to get married. They chose a date in the spring so he would still be ready to start farming for his father. A year after Darlene graduated from high school, the sweethearts were married on March 24, 1973, in Merriam at the Christian Chapel Church. As a young newlywed Dennis satiated his love for baseball by playing slow pitch softball, and he also joined his wife in becoming a member of the church she was raised in, Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.

A bit later, Dennis and Darlene learned they would become parents. Together they welcomed six children including Jennifer, Sarah, Katherine, Richard, Evan, and Emily into their hearts and home. Dennis loved being a father and was very actively in the lives of his children. He was also active with his children as they took part in various youth programs through the church and especially enjoyed going with them on trips. As a nature lover, Dennis loved visiting a variety of state parks with his family with his favorite being Yellowstone National Park. One of the things he loved most was being outside and right in the middle of wildlife. Around home Dennis enjoyed gardening with his wife. He always joked that she could have as many flower beds as she wanted because it was cheaper than a therapist with raising the six children!

Throughout his life Dennis was one to work hard. In addition to farming for his father, he bought his own farm, which also led him to become a seed salesman. Dennis eventually sold the farm in the Etna-Troy Township Northwest of Columbia City and moved to New Castle in 1989 due to a job transfer. In the mid-nineties, he made a career change, owning Grist Mill Publications, a coupon printing company. In 2002, Dennis moved back to the Columbia City area to help his parents as his mother was suffering with Alzheimers disease.

A man of many interests, Dennis enjoyed pursuing his interests. In addition to being a Mets fan, he was also a fan of Notre Dame football as he loved watching both of these teams play. Dennis was filled with unspeakable joy to learn that he would become a grandfather. He absolutely loved children, and his life was truly completed with the 29 grandchildren he adored. Both his church and his family were the cornerstones in his life.

Life was forever changed for Dennis and his loved ones when he suffered a stroke that left him partially paralyzed on October 5, 2006. Through vast amounts of hard work, he was able to return home until 2013 when he moved to Courtyard Healthcare Center in Goshen.

All who knew Dennis Fetters would agree that he was such a fun-loving guy. He loved jokes and teasing others as nothing was better than making others laugh. Dennis had the most amazing smile as it radiated from the joy that was in his heart. A family man through and through, his wife, children, and grandchildren were his greatest gift. Dennis will never be forgotten.

Dennis L. Fetters, of Goshen and formerly of Columbia City, Indiana, passed away at 10:45 a.m. Sunday, June 19, 2016, at Courtyard Healthcare Center in Goshen. Survivors include his wife of 43 years, Darlene Fetters, of Elkhart; children, Jennifer Lynn (Kaman) Lykins, of Fuquay-Varina, North Carolina, Sarah Elizabeth (Tyson) Lee, of Oceola, Katherine Mary Fetters, of New Castle, Richard Blair (Amanda) Fetters, of Sanford, North Carolina, Evan Arthur (Amber) Fetters, of Heber City, Utah, and Emily Janele Fetters, of Trapper Creek, Alaska; brother, Duane Lee (Trudi) Fetters, of Noble County; and 27 grandchildren. Dennis was preceded in death by his parents and two grandchildren, Tara Lykins and Vanessa Lee.

Visitation is 2-4 and 6-8 p.m., Friday, June 24, 2016 at DeMoney-Grimes, a Life Story Funeral Home, 600 Countryside Drive, Columbia City. Funeral services will be 10 a.m. Saturday at Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, 3085E Lincolnway, Columbia City with visitation one hour prior. Burial will follow at Salem Cemetery in Wilmot. Memorial donations may be made in his memory to the churchs perpetual education fund. To send Dennis family condolences online, visit www.demoneygrimes.com.

Tributes

Joe Lopez wrote on Jul 1, 2016:

"My most deepest and sincere condolences to the Fetters family."

Linda Ault wrote on Jun 26, 2016:

"Darlene I am so sorry to hear about your husband. I never met him but he sounds like a wonderful man. You are in my prayers."

Douglas Arnold wrote on Jun 24, 2016:

"Darlene, with great sadness my mom shared the passing of this giant of a man to us boys. My life has ever been affected and influenced for the better by Bro. Fetters (our young men's leader and wonderful exemplar). The sacrifice of time, work, family he gave to us is priceless. The days of baking pies at the church and watching The Good, The Bad & The Ugly together, the faithful home teacher to our family and an Aaronic Priesthood Commemoration at Chain O'Lakes where our meal ticket was to memorize and recite the 13th section of the D I still remember it and recited it just last Sunday while instructing the Deacon's Quorum - how fitting that was? We played ball together - one campout we played whiffleball well past midnight only from the light given off from 2 coleman lanterns. I know how much he loved his family as he spoke of each member with love and reverence - the only other time I heard him speak with such reverence was about his Heavenly Father and Savior Jesus Christ. May your tender hearts be blessed this day and every day hereafter with the knowledge that you shall be together again. We love you and your family and pray for your comfort and pain to be lightened each and every day. I can still hear in my mind the words he spoke from the pulpit one priesthood opening exercise with his lisp "Boys! Stop snickerwin on the back row." Loved that man of men and you as well. Thank-you for sharing him with us."

Rose Rieske wrote on Jun 22, 2016:

"Darlene I wanted to let you know my heart goes out to you and your family. I can't think about you guys without thinking of all the great times we had together. Dennis has made such an impact as you have in my life. It was always so much fun to be with you guys. I have done a lot of remembering of our times together. Thank you for all you've done for our family and sharing your sweet husband."

Expression of Sympathy wrote on Jun 22, 2016:

" A SPATHIPHYLLUM was ordered on June 22, 2016 "

gary lemke wrote on Jun 22, 2016:

"Fetters family, So sorry for your loss. liked serving with Dennis. He was a very devoted servant of the Lord. He was a very funny man."

Expression of Sympathy wrote on Jun 22, 2016:

" A RAY OF SUNSHINE was ordered on June 22, 2016 "

Phil Fought wrote on Jun 22, 2016:

"I remember meeting Denny Fetters in the fall of 1967. Something just clicked and we became good friends. It might have been because we both were dairy farmers and had Ag class together and were both involved with FFA, but I am not sure.We had so much fun in high school doing the high school things like spook house hunting, football and basketball games, dribbling the basketball to Kendallville during the sectionals, weekend parties at The Lake, playing poker, and cruising Ligonier every night. Sometimes , if we were brave, we would cruise Kendallville or Goshen. Denny was always with us in his Ford Fairlane!Throughout my life, every time I heard a bell ring I would think of Denny and smile. Seems odd, I know but here is why and some of you 1971ers may remember this.Back in the late 60s and 70s, the NECC conference had a traveling bell. This is how it worked The bell would be in the possession of a school and if that school was defeated in basketball (maybe football too but not sure), the team that beat them would take the bell until they lost. Denny, it seems, could not wrap his head around that concept. Back then, basketball was very popular and we would fill the gym EVERY game. Our team was decent and would end up winning a couple more games than we lost for the year. We had the bell and traveled to Westview to take on one of our rivals. It was a close and exciting game as Denny and our guy pep club cheered on our Chargers. We lost the game and the Westview cheerleaders promptly came over to our side and took the bell to their side. We started yelling that they took OUR bell and Denny jumped up, ran across the court, and proceeded to retrieve OUR bell and as he ran back across the court with the bell held high, he was yelling I got our bell, I got our bell. I sat there stunned!I am sure Denny is ringing that bell now and he will be missed greatly"

Expression of Sympathy wrote on Jun 22, 2016:

" A THE COLOR OF MEMORIESTABLE ARRANGEMENT was sent on June 22, 2016 Darlene Fetters and Family: We are thinking of you with love. Please accept our sincere sympathies for your loss. You will be in our prayers. From the family of Darlene's sister, Barbara: Kevin M. Marler, Barbara K. Bouchard Marler, Christina Marler (Chip) Bailey and Jonathan (Monica) Marler. "

Charlotte Ivers wrote on Jun 21, 2016:

"Sorry for your loss Darlene. Heaven has received another Angel. Sending prayers for you and your family. Dennis will be truly missed. I am happy that I got the pleasure of knowing you and him while I was in Courtyard. May God Bless You."

Rick and Thom wrote on Jun 20, 2016:

"Sorry for your loss Darlene and Family. The love in your family is strong. We are glad we have met the family. Our hearts are with you all. Sincerely Rick and Thom"

Randy Grimes, Brett Gerber and the Staff of DeM.. wrote on Jun 19, 2016:

"May each of you find courage to face tomorrow as you rest in the knowledge that we truly care about each of your needs and that we will be here to walk beside you in your journey of grief.Randy Grimes, Brett Gerber and the Staff of DeMoney-Grimes Funeral Home"