"It is a sad day in Quincy. We have lost a friend who touched so many lives with her wonderful smile and personality. She brightened so many people's lives with her positive attitude. No one can take her place. Please accept my deepest sympathy."
In loving memory of
Janet E. Faler
October 31, 2013
Janet Elizabeth "Jan" Faler, age 76, of 2612 Old Orchard Road, Quincy, died Thursday, October 31, 2013, at 5:35 pm in her home.
Janet was born July 19, 1937 in Quincy, Illinois, the daughter of Edward R. and Ruth M. Burgdorff Stupasky. She married Lawson V. Faler on July 4, 1959 in Quincy, Illinois. He survives.
Jan was a graduate of St. Anthony's Grade School, Quincy Junior High School and Quincy Senior High School. She had been employed by WTAD/KHQA and Gardner Denver Company. After faith, family and friends her great love in life was music. As a member of St. Peter Church, she was involved in the music ministry for over 30 years. Her beautiful voice and guitar led many masses. Jan was also one of the founders and coordinators of the Perpetual Adoration Chapel at St. Peter Church. For many years she was very active in Cursillo, TEC (Teens Encounter Christ) and QUEST. She served on over 30 Cursillo teams and was the Rectora of #161. She was a team member on 22 TEC weekends. Jan, her husband, and sometimes their daughters sang for hundreds of weddings, anniversaries and special events. She also served a 6 year term as a director of the board of Cursillo. When the Quincy Community Chorus, (later the Quincy Symphony Chorus) was reactivated in the 1970's, she was a charter member and sang with the group until 2008. Jan was also a past member of the Quincy Service League and a former Blessing Volunteer.
Survivors include her husband, Lawson, two daughters, Laura (Chris) Kammerer and Kendall (Thom) Bowen all of Quincy; 9 grandchildren, Logan (Mackenzie) Kammerer of Quincy, Kori (special friend Alex Tappe) Kammerer of Quincy, Adam Kammerer of Normal, IL, Keaton (special friend Shelby Carlstrom)Kammerer of Glen Carbon, IL, Caleb Kammerer of Normal, IL, Anna Kammerer, Blake Bowen, Lindsi (Fiance Christian Bias) Bowen and Briana Bowen, all of Quincy; 2 great grandchildren, Aria and Everly Kammerer of Quincy; six sisters, Mary Kientzle and Dottie (George) Klingele of Quincy, Sally (Bob) Giles of Mundelein, IL, Anita (Jerry) Eberhardt, Bonnie (Kenny) Heming and Debbie (Rod) Davis, all of Quincy, a brother, Paul "Shorty" (Carolyn) Stupasky of Quincy, and many wonderful nieces and nephews.
Jan was preceded in death by her parents, her in-laws, Dick and Nellie Faler, a sister, Nancy Engelmeyer, a sister-in-law, Charlene Stupasky, and a brother-in-law, Emmett Kientzle.
Services: 10:00 am Monday, November 4, 2013 at the Church of St. Peter, with Monsignor Leo Enlow officiating.
Burial: Calvary Cemetery
Visitation: 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm, Sunday November 3, 2013 at Church of St. Peter
Memorials: The Church of St. Peter, American Heart Association or Children's Hospital of Illinois in Peoria
www.hansenspear.com
Hansen-Spear Funeral Directors are in charge of the arrangements.
Tributes
"Uncle Lawson, Laura Chris and family, Kendall Tom and family, Keeping you all in my prayers. I will miss her hugs, smiles and kisses deeply. Love Nanette"
"I'm so sad to hear of your loss. Jan was always so gracious and positive. I felt uplifted every time I was with her. She will missed dearly by so many people."
"I met Jan at Cursillo that I was on 12 yrs ago with my mom, Judy Quinn. She was a very special lady that was truly filled with God's Spirit. Jan and Lawson meant a lot to my mom. I never did get to thank your family for coming and singing at my mom's funeral 10 yrs ago. What a special tribute that was to my mother. As your family grieves the loss of your mom, wife and family member I pray that God will give you strength and peace. I believe Jan is up in heaven singing glory and praises to God. What a beautiful sight to see when you join her some day."
"Dear Beloved Faler Family and Extended Family... ironically words almost fail me as I learned of Jan's death Sunday night... and while I cannot be present for her Glorious Mass of Resurrection Monday, all the storytelling & music, laughter & tears... an image immediately comes to mind. JAN is one of those PEARLS OF GREAT PRICE... and while we so deeply treasure her in so many ways, Our Dear Lord will enjoy her ever more in her new home. May her smile & LIFE SONG continue to bless all of our lives already so enriched by her servant heart, expansive love & infectious JOY! My love & prayers, Pat"
"I can just imagine the hugs going around in heaven right now! Jan was truly one of a kind and will be missed by anyone who had the privilege of knowing her."
"Mr. Faler, I was SO sorry to hear of Jan's passing! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. Jan was one of the first people I met when we moved to Quincy 15 years ago, this week. Her kind words and encouragement meant so much to me! She will be missed! May God bless!"
"We are so sorry for the loss of Jan. She was a role model for us. Her smile and hugs will be remembered always"
"Heaven 2 and earth 0 My mother left on Monday and is meeting Jan. Both are excellent musicians and singers and will now join the heavenly choir. Jan will be missed but lives on the voices and talents of her children and grandchildren. Praise God for her life and discipleship. Jesus loves you and we love you."
"Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Heaven's gain is our loss. Jan will be missed by all."
"Oh boy they are singing in heaven. God be with you all. She was one of a kind. Many special cursillo memories of jan and the family."
"Dear Faler & Stupasky Families and to all who loved Jan, Just a brief note to let you know that we are thinking of you. As ever, Dick & Pat Wentura"
"Dear Lawson, Laura, Kendall and families, Please accept our deepest condolences. I can honestly say that I can never remember seeing Jan that she didn't have a smile on her face, a hug in her arms and a song in her heart. She has always been a bright light in this world and the world will be darker because of her passing. Some time ago we lost someone who was special to us and I wrote the following poem. I hope you like it and it will be of some comfort to you. Birth of an Angel An Angel was born in Heaven she was taken from this Earth, God spoke to Jan and said "I chose you at your birth" You brightened people?s lives with companionship and love, The time had come for me to bring you back to Heaven above; Your family will miss you and tears you know they'll cry, Faith in Me and love for you will help them to get by; Sometime in the future no one knows just when, You and your loved ones will be together again; Until that time arrives you can shower them with love, They will feel it in their heart And know it?s from you above."
"We join the many people who honor the life of a wonderful person who made a difference with her community contributions. The music of the Faler's leave pleasant memories. God's Blessings to you, Lawson and family,in this trying time and forever."
"To live in the hearts of others is not to die. May Jan's loving memories follow you all of you lives.....until you meet again. With love and prayers, LeAnn Kassing"
"Although we did not know Jan and family well, we served with them through Cursillo, and her beautiful voice and spirit will be greatly missed there. But Heaven has a new angel to add to its chorus!! Condolences to all!"
"I will miss Jan's music and smile. I am sure God is greeting her with open arms, "Well done, good and faithful servant, well done!""
"Our sincere sympathy to you, Lawson and your whole family. I loved Jan the first time I met her. She was music director for Cursillo #70 in April 1984 when I made Cursillo. She was as sweet as her voice. You made a great couple. We offer our love and prayers for all of you. She will be missed."
"We offer our heartfelt sympathy to you Lawson and your family. I loved Jan from the first time I met her. She was music director for #70 in April 1984 when I made my Cursillo. She was as sweet as her voice. You made a great couple. Love and Prayers for you all."
"Our sympathy to you, Lawson, Kendall, Laura & family. We will miss her beautiful smile & her hugs, what a wonderful person."
"Dear Beautiful Stupasky sisters, Lawson, Spouses, Children, & how very much Jan truly enjoyed the presence of her little angels . We truly want you to know just how much we would love to embrace each of you and wish you God's most treasured blessings. With Love Jo Ann ,Dennis, Scott Hildebrand , Erica, Bradford, Hayden ,Trevor, Paxton Kirlin ."
"So sorry for the loss of Jan!!! Such a sweet lady! You have my thoughts & prayers z@ this difficult time & times to come!!"
"Jan was an angel when she lived. She will soar now! Our prayers are with all of you. Love, light, and healing."
"We worked together in many organizations and music groups for years. Jan was an inspiration to all she met, - as well as Lawson. George and I considered them great friends. She will be missed but has left a great legacy."
"I am so saddened to hear of this great loss to you, Lawson, and your daughters and extended family. God bless you and help you through this difficult time."
"Our hearts are with you in this time of sorrow. Jan will be greatly missed."