"Kristie and Greg: I am so sorry to learn of Matt?s passing. For no reason other than that intuition most don?t pay much attention to, I had a push to check in on Matt. Something about the last time I saw him stayed with me. Nevertheless I hope you both can take great comfort in your memories and not look back to the cross words and negative ways that we all give AND take with those closest to us. With great caring and fondness, Patricia Flores, Tucson AZ"
In loving memory of
Matthew Steelsmith 07/17/2019
April 9, 1969 - July 17, 2019
Matthew Steelsmith, 50, of Beaman, IA, passed away Wednesday, July 17, 2019. Private graveside services will be held at a later date. Inurnment will be at the Conrad Cemetery in Conrad, IA. Arrangements are entrusted to the Conrad Chapel of the Anderson Funeral Homes. Memorials may be directed to the Marshalltown Animal Rescue League in memory of Matt. Online condolences may be sent to www.andersonfhs.com.
Matt was born April 9, 1969, to Gary and Cinda Sue (Don Carlos) Steelsmith in Edina, MN. He graduated from BCLUW High School in 1987. Matt was united in marriage to Kristie Gardalen on June 16, 2010, in Marshalltown, IA. He was employed in many different aspects though his life including: owning and operating trash removal companies, service manager for a semi dealership in Davenport, IA, assisted with the family farm, and owned and managed many different properties. Matt had a true love of dogs and volunteered at the Animal League of Green Valley in Arizona. Matt was known for his kind and generous heart.
Matt will be missed by his wife, Kristie Steelsmith of Beaman, IA, a brother, Greg Steelsmith of Albion, IA, two aunts and uncles, Dick and Sally Elliott of Bettendorf, IA, Roger and Jill Anderson of Tulsa, OK, and several cousins. He was preceded in death by his parents.
Tributes
"Kristie and Greg: I am so sorry to learn of Matt?s passing. For no reason other than that intuition most don?t pay much attention to, I had a push to check in on Matt. Something about the last time I saw him stayed with me. Nevertheless I hope you both can take great comfort in your memories and not look back to the cross words and negative ways that we all give AND take with those closest to us. With great caring and fondness, Patricia Flores, Tucson AZ"
"To my Husband Matthew .......... Its been 7 months since we' ve touched. Since i saw your handsome face ...since i heard your voice....since our lips have touched......I miss you so much?.......i know our beloved dog Bubba has been reunited with you ....i know you've missed her? I hope you are at peace and know im doing my best down here for now till we see each other again........i love you Babe ??? HAPPY VALENTINES DAY MY LOVE......"
"The Matt I knew eore his heart on his sleeve, his heart so vunerable. The way he looked at me with his loving eyes. There was never any words that needed to be said , because the words I Love You came from his heart and soul. The tender moments that only we knew, I will never forget. His smile forever imprinted on my heart. His laughter forever echoing in my mind. I promise to keep his memory alive by remembering all the good times we shared. To my best friend and Husband: I will see You again!!!? Your wife Kristie "
"Matt Matt Matt...... I am just now hearing of your departure. I have so much to say but finding the right words is difficult. I pray God carried your tired soul to heaven and that you were greeted with loving arms by your dad, mom and Whiskey. I hope you are truly at peace for this is the only thing I know of that you needed. The song "Permission" by Nikki Six of Motley Crüe comes to mind in light of your passing. I pray for Kristie to find her way in this world because I know she must be lost. I pray she finds the strength to carry on without you. It will not be easy for her because you my friend, are her world. I pray that the desire for life and perseverance take a deep, strong and ever lasting root inside her and that "purpose" finds her again. Greg, brother, reading your words I realize that you knew your brothers nature well. I had heard from Matt of your reaching out to him in an effort to build your relationship with him. Knowing of the past, I feel certain that doing this was not an easy thing to do. But something in your heart told you to do so. Rest assured that Matt is with you in spirit, keeping a watchful eye over you and he will be at the gate when God brings you home. (I loved your story of Matt coming home when he was born) I love you Matt-man. Your true friend, Susie Renaud"
"God , we ask you help Greg every day getting better from this pain. "
"Oh, My Dear Brother Matt I am going to miss you so so much. I can still remember the day you came home after being born in the hospital and I invited all my friends over to show off my new little brother. Matt, I hope you can forgive me for all the hurtful words and actions I brought to you over the years. I so very sorry. I am proud of you and know who you really are! Yes, deep inside without numbing your heart from pains and disappointments in this life, you really are so outstanding, intelligent, kind, generous and have a very soft heart. Each time I see your picture the tears just flow. I really don't know how I am going to make it in this world without you. I love you so much and am missing you more than any words can ever say. I so longed to have a great and bonding future in Brotherhood with you and to share great life experiences. But, I guess it is not to be in this life. I hope to be reunited with you Buddy and with Mom and Dad. I love you Matthew Dean Steelsmith my Dear Brother forever, and always have. I will see you later, Gregory."
"I am so sorry to know of Matt's passing. I knew him so well. He was truly a kind and generous and extremely sensitive human being. My prayer is that he now has the peace he never seemed to find in life. All is forgiven everywhere and there is only deep and abiding love with the memories of your laughter, your love your deep intelligence, your tender tender heart. Be at peace my heart's adopted son."
"Greg, Sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. May God comfort you in this time. Bob & Holly Blayer"
"I'm so sorry to hear of your passing my High school sweetie! I know you are resting in the arms of Jesus. XOXO "
"To my husband and best friend May you find the peace you" ve been searching for. Ser you in the next life. Miss you and I will always love you!!! Kristie "
"Greg, So sorry for the loss of your brother. Jo Clarke Macy"
"I am finally glad your at peace! May your anger be at peace Buddy! Your demons can lay at rest now. God Speed my Friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"