Derek James Arensdorf
February 21, 1991 - August 24, 2008

"I dont remember much but Derek had an impact on my life i was 7 years old when derek died i was wrecked at the news i love and miss him and i think about him every day of my life i have an old picture of me and him we were on the bus going to a field trip and i was using his phone to play music when i am 18 i am getting a tattoo of his birth date on my arm so i will have it forever to remind me of what a good man he was and that he will always be with me when i need him most miss you buddy."

"Derek, the years go by, and still the pain is always there, along with a empty spot in my heart. I so wish you were here. Love you Bud and miss you so much. "

"you will always be in our hearts ,and i miss the way you always can up behind me and scared the tar out of me ."

"Its been 3 years and 2 months already, no words can possibly decribe how much I miss you Derek. I love you. "

"Derekyou have been gone 5 long months and it still feels like only yesterday that you left us. We all miss you so much. The holidays were espically hard for us as there was such a void in our family. I think of you daily. I just can not except to this day that you are not with us in ral life. But... you are there in our hearts and thoughts daily. I hope you are resting in peace my dear grandson. I love and miss you so much. I will treasure the memories we made and hold everything close to my heart. Take care until we meet again Derek. Love forever and always. Grandma Fields"

"Dear Derek Hi i miss you so much it seems like you have been gone for an eternity but in reality it has only been 5 months. I never realized how much you meant to me or how much I cared about you until it was too late. I will always think of you as a brother and know you are watching over me. I wish Michelle KaylaKristin and Erik the best."

"DEREK I LOVE YOU!!!! You mean the world to me. I miss you already and there is not words enough to say how much it hurts. I will Forever watch over you and protect you as i always have. I promise to look after Kayla Erik and Kristin as you always looked out for all of us. I will forever cherrish the memories photos and the ring you gave me this past Christmas (you were so proud of your shopping) I have had it on ever since and will not take it off. I will hold it close to my heart always. Derek as my oldest son you were and are so loving strong and a part of me that will always be with me. I LOVE YOU SON!!!!!!!!! Until we talk and see one another again rest in peace........ LOVE ALWAYS....MOM."

"D.J. I am missing you so much!I took your pictures to work with me and put them at my desk. They help me to get through the long days.The days that I don't think are ever going to end. The days that I don't even want to go to work but know that I have to. The days that I'd rather just stay home in bed and the rainy gloomy days that are so depressing. You are with me where ever I go at home at work or in the car. I took Spencer to the house yesterday to play with Buddy and Leo. The boys were fighting over a pine cone. Buddy was excited to see us and Leo ran and got the pine cone and dropped it down infront of Spencer because Spenc asked if he wanted to play fetch. Then the war was on because Buddy wanted the pine cone. Each time we get to town we come to vist. It's hard bringing Spencer because he asks so many questions and I just don't have the right answers sometimes. He misses his honey. He talks about you everyday and if he see's something that you liked he'll be sure to tell me about it. He's been playing his Cubs baseball playstation game all the time. He said that that's his team now since you loved the Cubs. We are all sticking together and helping each other out. All we can do is just take one day at a time. People say that it will get better and time will ease the pain but if they only new that time isn't a factor and we won't ever forget! I Love You Derek. Rest In Peace Dear Nephew. Love Auntie xoxoxo"

"I know it has only been a few days since I wrote last but I have been thinking about you constantly Derek. I miss you so much I miss the way you always acted like my big brother being over protective and telling me that you had to approve of all my boyfriends and demanding I make you stek and a baked potatoe. It seems like only yesterday that I was talking to you and we were laughing and joking around with eachother. It feels like you have been gone for an eternity. A little piece of me is missing now I only wish that I could have told you how much I really did think of you as a brother and how much that you meant to me. I still try and talk to Michelle whenever possible. Sometimes I call your phone hoping to hear your voic knowing I won't but at the same time praying I don't hear someone elses. I just wanted to tell you that I love you and I miss you "

"i love you derek..even if we wernt good friends.. im behind you for what you really wanted in life..youll always be remembered as an amazing person..watch over your family and take care of them..everyone loves you..luv-karissaprayers to the family..Eric Kayla Kristen and Michelle.."

"DEREK THE DAY HAS COME THAT I HAVE TO SAY GOOD BYE. THE MEMORIES THAT WE CREATED IN JUST THE 4 MONTHS WILL LAST FOREVER IN MY HEART. I WILL HOLD TRUE TO THE PROMISE THAT I MADE TO YOU ON THE NIGHT WE TALKED. MICHELLE/KAYLA/ERIK/KRISTEN I WANTED TO EXTEND MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO ALL OF YOU ON THE LOSS OF DEREK. HE WAS A GREAT KID THAT WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR ANYONE. JUST REMEMBER THE GREAT TIMES YOU SHARED WITH HIM. THOSE MEMORIES WILL LAST FOREVER IN YOUR HEART. DEREK REST IN PEACE UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN IN THE HIGHER HEAVENS. CHRIS "

"DEREK TO MY LOVING GRANDSON. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND MISS YOU EVEN MORE. I KNOW I HAVE WRITTEN BEFORE BUT....SOME HOW THIS BRINGS ME CLOSER TO YOU TO SAY THINGS I NEED TO TELL YOU. I LOVE YOU MISS YOU SO MUCH. IF I COULD BUILD A STAIR WAY WITH LOVE AND TEARS I WOULD RUN NOT WALK UP TO HEAVEN AND BRING YOU HOME WITH ME. I CHERRISH EVERRY MOMENT WE SPENT TOGETHER AND HOLD EVERYTHING WE SHARED CLOSE TO MY HEART. I WILL DO MY BEST TO HELP YOUR MOM BROTHER AND SISTERS THROUGH THIS. BUT...FOR NOW THERE IS SUCH A VOID IN OUR LIFE WITHOUT YOU. THERE IS NOT A MINUTE OF THE DAY THAT YOU ARE NOT ON MY MIND. I JUST WANT TO HOLD YOU AND TELL YOU HOW MUCH YOU ARE LOVED. TAKE CARE MY LOVING GRANDSON UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN. ALL MY LOVE HUGS AND KISSES ARE SENT UPWARD TO HEAVEN TO YOU. LOVE FOREVER AND ALWAYS GRANDMA FIELDS XO XO XO LOVE YOU. YOU WILL BE THAT BRIGHT SHINNING STAR ABOVE."

"My Heart goes out to all the Friends and family of our dear Derek. He is so saddly missed by all who knew him. I will always remeber the Easter Egg Hunts at our house.I still can see you running and jumping to get the high one that Tracey thought no one would get.I will alays have a special place for you close to my Heart. Give Grandma and Greatgrandma a hug and kiss for us. Until we meet again my dear nephew.I will see you in the stars and feel your gentle wispers in the wind to know that you are close. ove ya Aunt Laurie"

"Derek It's been a few weeks since you've been gone. I'm trying to stay strong but it's so hard. I know that there is no easy way to deal with this. I just keep asking myself why you wanted to go. I love you so much and I can't bare the thought of never being able to see you again. You left us on my birthday and I wanted you to know that from now on I will celebrate on the 23rd. The 23rd is the day you called me saying Happy Birthday Auntie. I will never forget that day as it was the last time that I spoke with you. I love you D.J. and I know you're watching over us. Each night since you left I've been looking for the brightest star in the sky and each time I lookI find itand it starts to twinkle so I look away and then look again and guess what it's still twinkling. I know that's your sign that you're okay. I think about you all the time I can't get you off of my mind. I love and miss you...xoxoxo Auntie"

"DerekToday marks the first month anniversary of your death.We all miss you so much our lives have been changed forever.It seems like yesterday that you were helping us move and telling me I need to get rid of my crap that I have. Our worlds were shattered last month and we miss you so much. I have an awesome picture of you with the kids on the frig you are thought of everyday.The Packers are doing pretty well so far this seaon Yeah I know you don't care but I had to rub it in to you anyway.I love you so much please continue to watch over us and know that it is not the same without you.Love yaConnie"

"I really don't know where to start. Cause it's so hard to bring the words from my mind so I'll let my heart do the talking.. I remember your smiling face in preschool with me. You were my best bud. Sure you picked on me & had me balling like a baby but in a way. I enjoyed it. Aha. Your grandma took care of us both giving us special treatment little sweet nicks & nacks && fun. Derek why did you have to leave all of us? We miss you I miss you. && I know this because my heart has another piece has been taken from it.I wish I could hold your hand when we lay you to rest into the ground.Don't be scared of anything.God will be there to light the way at the end of the tunnel for you.Until we meet again.I love you & miss you.-Jen.From Jane & Vivian Clark.To Derek's family. We're so sorry for your loss.We want to extend our hearts to you & our sympathy.Keep strong. "

"To the family I want you to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers and you have my deepest sympathy.Derek's memory will live forever in all of our hearts. Any one who knew him is blessed to have had the priviledge. Jennifer please know that I am here for you any time you need to talk or someone to listen dont hesitate any time of the day or night. I wish that there was something I could say or do to help take away the pain you are feeling but please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. "

"I am so sorry to hear about your loss and I hope Derek is in a better place in Heaven he was a good friend and somebody that always cared for you when you needed it."

"We were very sorry to hear about your loss of Derek. It's sounds like he was pretty special to alot of people. We can't even imagine the sorrow someone feels losing a child. It was bad enough for me and my family when my sister was killed. It hurts for along time but as the days months and years go on it gets easier to deal with. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. If you need someone to talk to let us know. Take care."

"Our thoughts are with you and you have our deepest sympathies at your time of loss.Randy Diane Jake and Tad Kinyon"

"There is Nothing I can say or do to make this any easier of Dereks Family but I am Truly sorry. God Bless You All"

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"Derek I love you. I can not even say how I feel now that you are gone. But...I know you will be watching over us. You will always be the brightes shinning star and when I see that I will always think of you smiling down on all of us. I am trying so hard to stay strong for your mom Kayla Erik and Kristin. But...grandma's heart is torn to pieces. I can just see you jumping around the room picking on us telling us jokes. I always remember you telling me to chill out and relax whenever I got after you for something. I will hold you love and memories close to my heart and cherrish them forever. You are going to be missed for ever. I love you Derek until we meet again. Love Grandma fields XO XO XO Hugs and Kisses though you though you out grew them."

"My son Joe was one of Derek's good friends. Our sympathy's go out to you and your family. I know what you are feeling as I lost a daughter 11 years ago and it is still hard but times do get better as years go on. I know Derek will be greatly missed by my son and all of us other friend's and family. If there is anything you need please contact me at McDonalds and I will do my best to help you. Stay strong and keep all those good memories of Derek in your head and the days will get easier."

"Evelyn Jamie Kayla and family...I am so sorry to hear about Derek! I remember when Michael and I would play outside with Kayla Derek and Erik when they were at their grandma Evelyn's house. The whole Arensdorf family are in mine and the Nims' family's thoughts and prayers. I know that Derek is up there at peace now! Your family has my deepest sympathy! Love Robin Bub Holly Megan and Michael"

"Derekit's been a little over a month now that you have been gone. The hurt of you being gone is still so fresh. I just can not get myself to except the fact that you are gone now. I miss you so much. I look at your pictures and you were always so full of life. I try to talk to your mom sisters and brother almost daily. But...at times Kayla and Erik don't answer ther phone. We are all doing Ok even though there is a great void in our lives and it will always be there until we meet again. I love you Derek it is so hard not to have you here. But...in time I am sure it will get better. But...in the mean time watch over us as we watch or each other. Always remember we love you no matter where you are. Though you are not here for us to see I know you are here with us. We have a lot of memories to hold close to our heart. I love you I can not say that enough and I miss you even more. Love Hugs and Kisses are sent up to you. May you always rest in peace. Grandma Fields"

"HAPPY 18 BIRTHDAY!!!!! love ya!!!"

"I don't know you nor you me but I feel for you with the absense of your son. He was so young and had so much to live for. My daughter-in-law also works at Sunshine whom all there will greatly miss him. You have my condolences."

"Michelle Kayla Erik and Kristin: My heart goes to you for the loss of your loved one. It's times like this when you need to cherish the time you have left with everyone because you never know how soon a loved one can leave. Keep your heads up and remember no one is to blame."

"Jamie Aunt Evelyn and familyI am so sorry to hear of your loss.My thoughts and prayers are with you all.Love Shelly"

"Michelle Jamie & ConnieI am so sorry to read of your loss today. I can't imagine the pain that you must be feeling at this time. I can only pray for each of you that in time will ease your pain and you may find peace in the memories you shared. May you find strength in God and each other to get through this trying time."

"Our prayers go out to the Arensdorf family. We are very sadden for your loss. We did not know Derek but was introduced when he was helping his Aunt Connie move. God be with you all!"

"Derek I don't even know what to say... I miss you. I miss you texting me those stupid forwards. I miss seeing you at Sunshine you could always make me smile or maybe just gossip with us girls. I miss you 'beating the crap out of me' at the park and leaving the mark on my neck that everyone thought was a hicky. I miss all the fun times we spent together on field trips or just talking on the playground while watching the kids. And the kids they miss you so much! Who else is going to throw the football with them and play catch. I remember all the things you wanted to do...have kids you would have made a GREAT dad. You were also SO excited for me to get my own apartment so you could party there because I work all the time. The last time I saw you I deleved a pizza to you and I called you an idiot because you were wearing a toga and your friends convinced you to give me a $0.99 tip. I love you Derek... who knew I would grow so close to you and your sisters after such a short period of time but it did and I am so thankful I got to know you! RIP and see ya later!"

"I am very sorry derek's family his mom i don't know what your going thought but i am very sorry and eric kristenand kayla i am very sorry to i wished this never happed to you guys but be strong there are lots of peple there for you guys ok you guys are in my heart and derek will always be in my heart to. avery."

"DerekYou will be greatly missed by my whole family.I am trying to hold everything together here for Christie.You will always hold a special place in Christies and my heart.You were so good with childrenand my little Joey loved youDerek.May you rest in peaceand please give strength to your familyas well as the rest of us."

"DerekI miss you so much already. My heart is so broke that I can not find words to describe how I feel. I love you Derek and I know that you are in a better place but it hurts. I will always cherish our times together and you picking on Mason and Brooke. I can remember the time when you came to help us move to Lake in the Hills Kevin and I went out to dinner and you watched the kids. They think you were the best babysitter in the world....Because you gave them cookies soda and ice cream for dinner.Our lives will not be the same without you you are missed so much.I love you Derek I know that you are watching over us. The days will get easier as life goes on but I will always have a ache in my heart for you. I hope you and Grandma Benny found each other in heaven!!!!Rest In Peace....I love you so muchAunt Connie Kevin Mason and Brooke"

"We will miss you like crazy. you were a good kid with a great heart. Always made people laugh even if they werent in the best of moods. Always made it fun in ASAC sorry i didnt bring my taco johns for you and troy. Your family is in our prayers. You will always be in our hearts! we love you!"

"Derek You have been in my family for seven years my friend for 13 years and you will be in my heart forever.When all of us gathered at Brandon's house I don't think there was one person there who didn't have a story about you that didn't end in laughs and tears. The way you made everyone laugh how kind you were and the love you shown to your friends and family will be greatly missed. I look forward to seeing you in the future. Thinking of you-Aubrey"

"Derek I miss you so much. We have so many memories toghether. I wish would could have many more. When we were kids you kayla erik I were always together. We always just said I was your guys sister. We got into so much trouble when we were young...and we still do. I will never forget the good memories of all of us going to visit aunt connie in the summers. and i will never forget the bad ones of you always beating me up and locking me in closet. We will never forget you. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Im glad we cherished all the times we had together because you are someone that i will never forget. friends are ?forever? cousins are for life. xoxoxo see you in the future and watch over me..."

"To Michelle Jamie and all family members you are in our thoughts and prayers. This was a tragic thing that has happened to you and your family members. I will alsways remember the times that the kids played ball across the street with each other because they weren't allowed to cross the streets. I will continue to remember all of the good times."

"Derek Our hearts ache for you. There is this void in all of our lives now with you gone. These last couple of days have been very hard for your family friends and anyone that knew you. We all miss you dearly. Kayla is trying to hang in there she knows you would want her to be strong. We miss your jokes your humor and most of all your bubbly personality. The dogs are lost without you Kayla and i went out tonight and threw Leo's pine cone for him. Kay will take good care of them for you you know that. Watch over your family they need you most right now. We miss you you can never be replacedbut most importantly you will never be forgotten in our hearts. We all miss you DerekLoveBritanie"

"My prayers are with all of the family and I hope Derek has found peace in Gods arms. Derek always brought many laughs at Christmas time and i will miss seeing his big smile. He has made me realize how precious life is and how quickly it can be gone. Even though we didn't see each other often I will miss him greatly. My prayers are with you and I will hold his memory in my heart forever.Tracey"

"DerekWhere to begin....it has been our great privledge to know you and call you our friend. You were always the kid with the big smile time to chat and a story to tell. There was so much goodness in you to know you was to love you. Although we may never know why you had to go we hope that as you look down from heaven and see your friend's and family's grief you will come to know how much you were loved and cared for. We hope this knowledge will give you the peace you so greatly deserve. We will hold you close to our hearts. Your smile and memories will live there forever. God Bless you and keep you."

"Michelle and family you are in our thoughts and prayers and our hearts hurt for you. I remember years ago playing wiffle ball with Derek in Mom and Dad's backyard and having so much fun. He was a pleasure and joy to be around we will miss him greatly. We love you all so much Travis Natalie and Tate."

"i really don't know what to say. but i just wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to derek's family. i only knew derek throughout high school because i was a football manager when he was in football and then through all the guys. he will truly be missed by all. sorry i kind of suck at this whole thing. my prayers and thoughts to all. love cassie"

"Derek you are such a great person we are definatly lost without you. You ment the world to all of us. You always put the joy into everyone even if it was a bad time. We all love you and you will always be with us in our hearts and memories. Rest in Peace.LoveChristie Brandi Emily Shelby and Bethany.Christie;Derek you were everything to me and it's hard without you here but I'm going to stay strong for you. I love you and always will love you babe."

"Derek..here i am again trying to think of something to say to you. you and i had more of a brother/sister relationship but also best friends. i will remember all the times we spent at home and also everyday at work!!! you have played such a part in my life that will never be forgotten. Im doing my best to keep mom dad erikkristin and all the rest of our family and friends in good spirits but its hard...you are in my every thought and i miss you so much! Today i went to your car and jus sat and remembered all the times we shared one memory for sure was our trip to minn just a few weeks ago u and them damn lottery tickets...i jus wish there was a way for me to know that your safe and that you will be guiding my every step of the way..i need you more now than ever before you have never let me down in the past and im confident that you wont now!i love you and will see you again in the future...untill then you job is to watch over us...xoxoxox!"

"I'm so sorry to here of your loss of Derek. He was just a baby when you lived across the street on 4th St. You have my deepest sympathy and are in my prayers."

"Michelle i am so sorry to hear of dereks passing my heart breaks for you and your family i wish there was something i could say or do to take away your pain. I am here for you if you need anything at all dont hesitate to ask. Derek will live forever in your hearts and your every memory he will be that bright star shining down on you guiding you loving you and protecting you everystep of the way. when the soft wind blows and touches your cheek those are his kisses from heaven and his whisphers of i love you. i love you all and wil continue to keep you in my everythought an prayer.May god comfort you and give you strength."

"We were very sad to hear about the death of Derek. Please know that Derek and your family are in our prayers. May his memory be eternal.SincerelyMarc and Nicki Moad and Family"

"Dear Michelle and FamilyOur heart goes out to your family in your time of great loss. Hold close to your memories. May they help you get through this tough time. God BlessJulie Scott and Family"

"Hey were sorry about derek. he was a really nice guy... brooke and rylee cried all day today... were sorry Brooke Says:Me and Brandon Hinkel had to go to the principals office because we were crying and mrs hildabrand wasnt there."

"Derek I remember how you told me how cool you thought I was. man..What was cool was how you made me laugh and smile and how I liked running into you here and there and talking to you. The cool one.... well Derek It was you my friend.I know you will always be in my thoughts and memories. I myself and i know many more will truly miss you."

"Michelle and Family We are deeply saddened by your loss. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Derek was a fine young man who was always there to help others. Love Mike and Colleen"

"I will always treasure the days I babysat you and Kayla you were such a good baby. Then when you came to work at Sunshine you made me feel old. Although we did get reacquainted and became friends. I will cherish your smile that went from one ear to the other and lit up your whole face. You always seemed so happy and carefree. You are definately missed by my family and the staff and kids at Sunshine.To the family of Derek~My heart aches for you I can't begin to imagine how you all feel. My thoughts and prayers are with you! Keep together and stay strong!"

"I know I'm the silly girl who tries to show no emotion because I want to remain strong for others but my heart sank in pain for you and your family when I heard what had happened. I wanted to reach out and hug you tightly as I can only imagine the pain of losing a child but you live through it. I don't know what to say but to offer you ears to listen when you need a friend my feet to stand tall through the difficult moments my hand to hold in comfort when there are no words to say. Most of all I offer you my heart to help carry the pain and sadness.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Your daughters words were very touching and I found this poem that I felt was fitting in the moment.In Memory of DerekA thousand times we needed youA thousand times we criedIf love alone could have saved youyou never would have diedA heart of gold stopped beatingtwo twinkling eyes closed to restGod broke our hearts to prove he only took the bestnever a day goes by that you?re not in our hearts and souls."

"Our Sympathies goes out to your family. We are sorry to hear about your loss."

"It is sad that Derek chose to go. I hope that everyone can mourn his passing and not feel responsible. The choice was never ours to make but the pain will last until we are at peace. I am sorry I cannot be there to say a final farewell or to offer comfort or assistance. Michelle Kayla Eric and Kristin I send my deepest sympathies. And hope you can forgive.Sam Lyons"

"i dont even know where to begin...so many memories!I can even remember the first time i met this boy in my back yard... Between all the aau games to a game of kickball in the back yard on butternut street....I spent part of my childhood with this family and learned a lot and i will never forget any part of it..Im sorry for the loss of Derek.. Derek will be greatly missed!"

"Michelle and family: I was so very sad to hear about your son. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I know this is such a difficult time for you and your family. I wish there was something I could do or say to take away some of your pain. Remember all the wonderful memories you have and that will help. Your son will always be with you in your heart. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Carol"

"We are so sad to hear about your loss. Our son Emmett got to know Derek at Sunshine and he loved it when Derek was in his room because he was a boy who could play rough and tuff and they could talk about boy stuff. Derek was always so pleasant and respectful to all of the parents and you could tell all the kids really liked him. I can't even come close to know what it must feel like but please know that we are praying for all of your family at this difficult time."

"Even though i didn't not hang out with derek he was still a good kid. I talked to him when we had class but we did not hang out. He will be missed."

"My Prayers & Thoughts are with all of you at this time. Aunt Merle."

"We would like to send our sincere apologies to KaylaErikKristenand Michelle. Derek was a great person and he could get anyone to laugh. He is was always the life of the party when it became lame he is was always there to spice things up one way or another. Derek will be in our thoughts and prayers and we are wishing for the best. xoxo MAC"

"Kayla Eric and family...Our hearts are broken for each of you. You are all such sweet kids! I always enjoyed seeing Derek at MHS and at Sunshine. He always knew that he was welcome in the library and would wander in whenever he needed a break from the classroom. I was so proud of him when he began working at Sunshine...it was nice to see how tolerant and patient he was with the kids after school. Our thoughts prayers and tears are with you. Call us if you ever need us...we're only a few minutes away.Gerardo Julie Mia & Dylan Alfaro"

"I dont even know what to say and there is nothing that i can say to make the pain go away. Ive known Derek for as long as i can remember we treated eachother like we were siblings this family was like my 2nd family and i loved them all we have so many memories together that i will never forget he will be truly missed by everyone. I will never forget or even stop thinking about you Derek. My thoughts and prayers go out to Michelle Jamie and family. "

"Dear family of DerekYou don't know me but i met Derek last summer through this year. He's probably the nicest and most animated guy i've ever met. He was always full of life and kept you on your toes. He was never the person that wouldn't talk to you every time i saw him whether he seen me or i saw him he'd always come over and have to say hi and ask how i was doing or what i had been up to. He was a great person and he'll keep living in out hearts forever. My Sympathy Katie"

"I just wanted to say Im really sorry for his family and friends. I know how it feels to lose a loved one so qickly like that. I just could not believe that it happened. To me it seems like you were not a person to ever think something like that. I guess I never really talked to you when I was school with you. I just wanted to let you know that you will be missed alot and everyone is missing you. Well like I said before that I am so sorry for the family and friend that are going through this sad part in life right now and i am wishhing you all hope and am praying for all of those who knew Derek. From the Thola Family"

"My thoughts and prayers are lifted for you and your family in this time of grief. Jesus is our strength and refuge in time of need. May Jesus give you comfort now and forever more.Mr. C"

"Well Derek I finally realised today like you always say you are THE MAN. I decided I was going to be strong and go in to work. Well half of that worked out half did not. I went but i could NOT be strong. I walk into the fast room and everywhere I look your all I see. I would have never thought in 6 short months I could come so close to you and Kayla like I have I love you both just like my own siblings. The kids at work are hanging in there but this is really taking a big toll on them. Derek you definitely are the man. No matter how my day was you were there making me smile. And those kids they loved you!!! I miss sooo much already. RIP Derek I will always keep part of you with me!!! Michelle Kayla Erik & Kristin hang in there Derek would want you too."

"Hi Derek It was fun playing at Sunshine with you like football soccer and kickball. It was nice to have a boy teacher and not all girls someone to goof around with. Thanks for being my friend I will miss you! To his family I am sorry to hear of your loss I will miss him playing boy stuff at Sunshine with Derek. I will pray for your family to have strength to get through this hard time."

"Derek I know that I wrote the other day but I can not get my mind off you or the tears to stop. I have so many memories of you growing up I can remember the times of changing your diapers and pushing you in a stroller.Our whole family is heart broken we are trying to be strong but the hurt goes too deep. The next few days ahead will be even harder.Derek I want you to know that Kevin and I would of done anything for you and you will be greatly missed by us. I can't forget the time when we took you to Minocqua and it took me a couple times to get up to water ski and I already knew how then you who never water skiied got up right away.. You wouldn't let that one go.. I found an awesome picture of you and the kids on the hammock that I will cherish forever. I tried calling your phone to hear your voice but it is no longer in service.I love you so much Derek until we meet again please watch over us."

"Michelle and Evelyn and Family We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Zachary would see Derek's car around town and say There is Derek's racecar. He and Ethan both told us and everyone about the snake in the Sunshine shed and how Derek had to get it because everyone else was screaming. The boys will miss him. May you all find peace and comfort."

"I miss him so much. We were suppose to retake English 11 together again this year but he bailed on me. I will never forget on Friday August 22 of what all happened in the gym. Good Memories. Its so sad that he is gone now. He will be missed very much! Miss ya and Love ya Derek♥!!!!!!!! take care of all of us...and make sure you keep watchin over us! We will meet again someday. ♥My condolences are with the family!!! Hang in there♥"

"Recently we have suffered a devistating loss at Maquoketa Community High School. This loss has affected friends family girlfriends teachers classmates and acquaintances tremendously. This loss was more than just some random person he was Derek J. Arensdorf. To many he was the wise ass in the back of the class The cool kid that so many looked up too a son a boyfriend a best friend the one everyone wanted to be friends with and the one everyone wanted to sit by. Although Derek and i weren't the closest or the best of friends some people might think we weren't friends at all but i considered him one. He was my classmate my lab partner in tenth grade biology the one person who could make anyone laugh he always told me the truth even when i didn't want to here it. Derek took many peoples hearts and he will always have them. He affected people so deeply that even now they feel him near. And he will always be remembered. This is for all who are affected by this loss and to those people i send my deepst regrets.We love u and miss u forever and alwaysRIP Derek J. ArensdorfBecca C."

"In life we find things that we feel will always be there to calm our spirits lift us up make us laugh and give us strength. Derek was the strength of our class. He carried us high and brought happiness and energy to us all. I am going to miss having such an amazing kid in my life as will the entire highschool and those closest to him. I can't imagine what it must feel like to have a son taken from this Earth but I give my sincerest condolences to the family of Derek Arensdorf. May his memory carry you high as he did for us. May images of his smile fill your dreams and give you the strength to climb over this mountain of a situation. God Bless."

"Dear Michelle and familyAt times like this words are very inadequate in expressing what is heartfelt; our hearts go out to all of you. Our prayers are for strength far beyond your own and trust in God for peace and healing. Our God is a loving and merciful God.Peacelove and light!"

"I can't even imagine the loss of a grandchild my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time."

"We want to let you know you are in our prayers everyday. Try to be strong and know that he is in God's hand's now. Hopefully this will give you peace"

"Derek's family My daughter Sara worked with Derek and Kayla at Sunshine. I am heartbroken to hear of Derek's passing. Sara spoke of him often. She said he had a magical way with the kids. I know he will always have a special spot in Sara's heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. Take comfort in knowing that Derek is in a better place now. Fondly Juliee Yarolem"

"Michelle and family please know that you are all in my prayers. May God watch over you all in this time of sorrow. I pray wonderful memories of Derek will bring you peace and warm your hearts. My heartfelt sympathy is with you all!!!"

"I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to family of both Jamie and Michelle. I know that my children (especially Sam) have very fond memories of time spent with Derek. May God's presence and the love of your family help you find peace during this very difficult time.FondlyTina Stillmunkes"

"Michelle Kayla Erik and Kristin our thoughts and prayers are with you all and your family. I remember when Brian took the boys fishing he said that was one fishing trip he would never forget. Hold the memories close and dear they help get you through the days ahead. Again our hearts go out to you.Brian Tonya and Kristin"

"I was so sorry to hear about Derek. He was a great kid. I remember Derek at Sunshine when he was so young and I was then fortunate enough to hire him on there as an employee.I was so proud of him at Sunshine. I would ask him to do something for me and he was out the door doing it before I even finished asking.I will cherish the picture of Derek and I at my going away party. He will be grealty missed!"

"Michelle Kayla Eric and Kristin ~ we are so sorry to hear about your loss. Derek will truly be missed by all. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Please don't hesitate to call if you need anything."

"D.J.I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND I MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY. I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU AND I WILL ALWAYS CHERISH THE MEMORIES THAT I HAVE OF YOU AND KEEP THEM CLOSE TO MY HEART. ALWAYS KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH AND THAT YOU WILL FOREVER BE IN MY PRAYERS. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M GOING TO DO WITHOUT YOU!! I'LL NEVER FORGET THE TIME THAT YOU GAVE SPENCER AND I A RIDE IN YOUR CAR....SPENCER THOUGHT THAT WAS THE COOLEST THING. HE REALLY LOOKED UP TO YOU. YOU AND I WERE VERY CLOSE AND AUNTIE WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU. I AM HAVING A HARD TIME DEALING WITH YOU BEING GONE. I KEEP WISHING THAT GOD WOULD HAVE GIVEN YOU JUST ONE MORE DAY! THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS THAT I WOULD OF LIKED TO SAY. IF ONLY WE KNEW HOW WE COULD HELP! UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN........XOXOXOXO AUNTIE"

"I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. What a terrible thing to lose a child. I can't imagine what you and your family are going through but please remember that I'm there for you whatever you need. You're in my prayers. Love you."

"Evelyn & Jim...I am so sorry about the loss of your grandson. My heart goes out to you. May God comfort you and carry you through this difficult time in your lives. Praying for the entire family. Alice & Doug"

"Michelle and family~ Derek was our kids' teacher at sunshine and they would talk about him all the time. He was such a wonderful person and great with kids. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow."

"Derek was a great guy it was amazing to work with and he was so nice. the kids just loved him he was really GREAT with all of the kids. he will be greatly missed he was a great kid we all loved him and we will all miss him."

"Parents Family and His School Friends:I am so sorry for your loss. Memories will last a lifetime keep his life in your hearts.Jan Trekell"

"I just want you all to know that my heart goes out to all of you. Derek was a great person and will continue to live in all of our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with you all."

"Derek...we weren't best friends like you and zach. but we were friends. i miss you so much. =[ "

"I`m sorry about the loss of your sonhe was a good son to you I will pray for your Family too Dan The Man"

"We will miss you!"

"OH DEREK !!! A YEAR AND A HALF AS GONE BY THAT YOU PASSED AWAY. BUT...NOT ENOUGH TIME TO FORGET ABOUT YOU. I HAVE THOUGHT OF YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY THAT YOU HAVE BEEN GONE. I EVEN MADE A GROUP FOR PEOPLE TO JOIN ON FACEBOOK IN YOUR MEMORY. SOMEONE ELSE MADE A GROUP TO OF WHO'S GOING TO MISS YOU. A LOT OF FRIENDS AND ETC HAVE JOINED BOTH GROUPS.I DO NOT EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO YOU I AM AT A LOSS FOR WORDS NOW. I KNOW I MISS YOU AND WISH YOU WERE HERE WITH US. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED NO MATTER HOW MUCH TIME GOES BY. I HOPE YOU AND JIM BOB ARE GETTING ALONG. I KNOW HOW YOU USE TO TEASE HIM AND GET HIM A GOING. DEREK GRANDMA MISSES YOU SO MUCH MY HEART FEELS HEAVY AT TIME BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT HERE. I HOPE YOU ARE RESTING IN PEACE BUDDY. ISEND ALL MY LOVE TO YOU MOM GRANDMA UNCLE BILL JIM BOB TAKE CARE OF EACH OTHER. XXOO XXOOX YOU ARE NEVER TO OLD BUDDY TO GET HUGS AND KISSES FROM GRANDMA !!"

"Wow! Its been over a year already and I can't believe it. I miss you so much. Love you and wish you were here."