Middletown, RI ? C. William ?Wild Bill? Cote`, 73, of 10 Osage Drive, Middletown, RI, died Sunday, September 23, 2007 at Newport Hospital, Newport, RI. He was the beloved husband of Bette Hubbs Cote. Born in Springfield, MA on July 6, 1934, he was the son of the late Clarence and Rose Frappier Cote.Captain Cote` was a graduate of Mt. Pleasant High School in Schenectady, New York. He entered the Navy in 1951 as a Hospital Corpsman serving with FMF Korea, Naval Hospital, Coco-Solo Panama, Canal Zone and Navy Dispensary, Roosevelt Roads, Puerto Rico. He also served aboard USSIOWA BBB-61 and USS New Jersey BB-62. Leaving the Navy in 1956, he attended Siena College, Loudenville, New York, and Utica State Hospital School of Nursing, Utica, New York, graduating in 1960. In 1960, he received a direct commission as a Second Lieutenant in the Nurse Corps, U.S. Air Force, serving at Wilford Hall, San Antonio, Texas, and at Westover Air Force Base, Chicopee, MA. In 1965, he applied for and was granted, an inter-service transfer to Lieutenant junior grade in the U.S. Navy, thus becoming one of the first half-dozen male nurses in the Navy. Graduating in 1966 from the former Women Officers School in Newport, RI, he served as staff nurse at Naval Hospital, Bethesda from 1966-1968, and at Naval Hospital, Guam from 1968-1970. In 1971, having received a Bachelor of Science degree from Syracuse University, he served as an instructor at Naval Hospital Corps School, Great Lakes, Illinois. Captain Cote` became a Nursing Supervisor at Naval Regional Medical Center, Newport, RI, in 1975 and in 1979 he reported to Officer Indoctrination School, Naval Education and Training Command, Newport where he was the Nurse Corps Program Coordinator until 1983. Captain Cote` was selected as the first male Nurse Corps Captain in 1983. From 1983-1985, he served as Director of Nursing Service at Naval Hospital, Groton, CT. Prior to his assignment as Commanding Officer, Naval Hospital Long Beach, California, he served as Commanding Officer, U.S. Naval Hospital Guantanamo Bay, Cuba. Captain Cote` assumed command of Naval Hospital Corps School, Great Lakes in June 1989. He retired from the Navy in 1992.Captain Cotes medals include the Purple Heart, Meritorious Service Medal, Navy Commendation Medal, Korean Service Medal, Overseas Service Medal, Untied Nations Medal, Navy Unit Commendation Medal, National Defense Service Medal, Air Force Outstanding Unit Award Medal, Navy Good Conduct Medal, Legion of Merit and Expert Pistol Medal.He was a member of St. John?s Lodge #1, the Newport Elks, the VFW, the MOAA Retired Officers Association and the Navy Nurse Corps Association. He was the Director of Nursing at St. Clare Home in Newport and for the past years has worked for the Aquidneck Island Adult Learning Center in the CNA and Diploma Plus programs. Besides his wife of 44 years, he is survived by his children, Christopher Cote` and his wife Susan of Temecula, CA and Charon McCra of Middletown, RI, his brother Robert Cote` and his wife Linda of East Longmeadow, MA, his sisters, Arlene Carangelo and her husband John of West Haven, CT, Patricia Laughlin of Chicopee, MA and Carole Cean of Indian Orchard, MA, his sister in-law Mary Sandford and her husband Paul of Carlsbad, NM, his grandchildren Matthew and Alicia Cote` and Jessica and Benjamin Orts, his great granddaughter Julia Rose Orts and several nieces and nephews. His funeral will be held on Friday, September 28, 2007, at 11:00am, in Trinity Church, Queen Anne Square, Newport. Burial will be in St. Columbas Cemetery in Middletown.Calling hours will be held on Thursday, September 27, from 2-4 and 7-9 in the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the charity of one?s choice.
Tyler Seibert - February 01, 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear great uncle Bill I met you as a very small child. You've always been an inspiration to me, I've strived to be you one day. I joined the navy as a corpsman at 17. Became a 8404 and medical lab technician, And have been working my way towards commissioning. I wish I could have had more years of memories, but your memory will never fade. I'm stationed at Walter Reed Bethesda. The same halls you walked, I do now. And it's a great feeling to be the LPO of serology, knowing you once had lead sailors in the same hospital . I rest easy knowing I'm making you proud. I love and miss you uncle Bill. Fair seas, and winds! Love, your great nephew Tyler Seibert"
Billy Vitvitsky - May 27, 2014.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"This is way out of the blue but here goes . I met Bill when I was a musician Navy Band Great Lakes. I taught his son Chris beginning drum lessons at Grand Music Center. Bill and I connected. He invited me over for thanksgiving and you knew right from the start what a great man he was and what a great family he had. I was just looking up to do a surprise visit when I read about him passing. So sorry to the whole family. Billy Vitvitskyvitvitsky@att.net"
Kevin Hermey - September 01, 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Captain Cote'was a good, fair man. I am glad to have known him."
cheri - September 23, 2010 at .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"It is 3 years today Dad and I miss you everyday....... Love you..... Cheri"
CHERI - September 15, 2009 at .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dad, It has almost been two years since I had to say good bye to you. My best friend, the best Dad anyone could have. Not a day goes by that I do not think about you, miss you and wish you were still here. What I would do to see your smile, or have you tell me a joke. I love you so much. Your Daughter"
cheri - May 12, 2008 at 12:00 .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dad, There are times when it seems like just yesterday I saw your face,and then there are times it seems like years. I miss you so much. I could never tell you how much is missing without you here, life is not and will never be the same. I love you so very much and wish you were here. Your daughter"
Joel & Elizabeth LaRose, LCDR Ret wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My wife and I only recently discovered the tragic news of Captain Cote's death. We our so sorry for his wife and family's loss. There are people in this life who merely exist, and then there are those who truly live and leave a large wake in their passing. Captain Cote was defintely of the latter persuasion. I first met him at OIS in Newport in 1983 when he chased me down with a pair of khaki pants that had slipped off a hanger as I walked back from the tailors. We next served together at sister commands at NH GLakes, where we also met his very gracious wife Betty. At all times he was the epitome of humanity and ease in a leadership position and most definitely was a powerful role model to me. The world is a much smaller place without him. Our condolences to Betty and his family."
Jerry Krocke'', HMCMRet - Dece.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs Cote` and the Cote` Family: The Captain will be sorely missed by all. From when we first met in 1972 to when we were stationed together at Hospital Corps School in 1989, his knowledge and overall character made a lasting impression upon myself and others who worked with him. I am deeply sadden by your loss and the loss of such a great Naval Officer. My sincerest condolences."
jim and janet partridge - Nove.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear betty and family Bill was the best Commanding Officer I ever served with I was priveleged to be His Command Master Chief at Corps school, My memories are fond and I was Damn proud to have known him Godspeed jim and janet Partridge"
Yvonne Bowman - October 22, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Betty I wish my sisters and i could have been there. we will miss bill very much."
Philip G. Rosene Capt MCUSNRRET wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Bill was a wonderful shipmate. I first met him at Chelsea Naval Hospital, Chelsea, Mass. He was the first male Navy Nurse that I met. We immediately became good friends as we both had been Hospital Corpsmen in the Korean War. I had been stationed at Great Lakes Naval Hosp. after Corps School and never saw combat, but Bill had. After my Korean War active duty I went back into the active reserve and back to school and ultimately ended up with an M.D. degree and another tour of active duty in the Navy.I took my residency training in Anesthesiology at USNH Chelsea, 1966 to 68 and that was when I met Bill. In 1968 I was assigned to USNH Guam and there was Bill again and our friendship continued. He was truly a wonderful friend and Shipmate. God will truly bless him and may God bless his wonderful family and sustain them in their grief over his passing."
Cathy and Bernard Winston - Oc.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Betty and Family, We just heard about Bill and are so saddened to know that he is no longer with us. He was a gentleman who was compassionate, funny, fun and caring. He brightened my world whenever I talked to him or saw him. He will be missed for his sense of humor, wit and commitment to helping teens. He has left a lasting legacy in all those lives that he had an impact on. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Fondly, The Winston Family"
Denise Salisbury - October 09,.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"To the Cote Family, I am saddened by this news of Wild Bills passing. I met him in 1983 & he told me our paths would likely never cross again ... I was headed west & he loved the east. Sadly, he was right. But I never forgot him. He left an indelible inspiration. I am deeply sorry for your loss."
Bob and Toni Edmons - October .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"One of a kind, "Wild Bill", was one of the legends of the Navy Nurse Corps. Some people are bigger than life and though we never were stationed with Capt Bill we knew of him throught many of our comrades and what we knew was always positive. To his wife and family we extend our heartfelt sympathy at this time of your loss. May the many memories of happy times with "Bill" be a lasting comfort to you always. God Bless you all. Toni and Bob"
Barbara Vernoski - October 07,.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"To the Cote Family, My heart sank as I just learned of Bill's passing. I first met him when I was stationed with him at NRMC Newport many years ago. He was the first down to earth 'supervisor' I had encountered in my career, and always there ready to mentor his underlings every chance he got. As I progresses through my career, Bill was the role model I turned to for many things. If nothing else, he loved life! Know that you all will remain in our hearts and prayers, and may God bless and guide you over the days to come! Sincerely, Barb CAPT, NS, USN Ret"
Eliseo and Cindy Roybal - Octo.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Bette and family, Our sincere condolences to you and your family. It was a privilege and pleasure to have served with CAPT Cote at the Naval Hospital GTMO. It was especially rewarding to be his Command Master Chief at GTMO. The example he set and his reputation for willingness to offer advice and counsel to young sailors who needed that extra push to become better Hospital Corpsman was especially noteworthy. Cindy and I will always remember our friendship and good times we had with you and CAPT Cote at GTMO. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family."
cheri - October 05, 2007 at 12.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I miss you Dad. It has been a week since I was able to see you. I miss our talks, our laughs, just being with you. You were and always will be the best Dad and I was blessed to have 41 years with you."
Gene Fernandez - October 04, 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My sincere condolences to the Cote' family. I had the privilege and honor of meeting CAPT Cote' while attending OIS in the early 1980s. He was a visionary leader and will certainly be missed by all. Respectfully, Gene Fernandez LCDR, MSC, USN ? Ret. Pasadena, CA"
Mary Mason - October 03, 2007 .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Bette and family, I was deeply saddened to hear of Bill's death. He had a significant impact on my Navy nursing career and I will be forever grateful for having known him. My thoughts and prayers are with you."
Lynne and Harry Ahern - Octobe.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Bette, I am so sorry about Bill?s passing. I have been reading all of the notes in the guest book and I am without words. I remember back to 1963 when I first met Bill. He had been in the Navy stationed in Texas but asked for a transfer to the Air Force and to be stationed at Westover so he could be near his father who was terminally ill. I remember celebrating your wedding and I remember playing cribbage with Bill?s father. They had a special bond. I remember when Chris was born and you asked me to be his Godmother. It wasn?t long after that his father passed away and Bill transferred back to the Navy to continue his career and you all moved away. Our friendship has been long distance ever since. But since that first move from Springfield you have always stayed in touch. I loved getting your letters and the pictures of the children and on occasion you and Bill. You were back in the area in 1972 and called for a quick visit at the lake. That was when I got to meet Cheri. I never saw you again until Chris? wedding. I followed you around the world as you continued to transfer to faraway places, some that I had forgotten about but as I read the guest book it was like a summary of all of those years, all of those letters that came from so many places. All of the love, honor and trust that so many people expressed for Bill and thanking you, Chris and Cheri for your support in his career and for sharing him. You truly are an amazing family. In reading all of the accolades I cannot help but think of Bill?s father and how proud he would be to know of his accomplishments and to read these messages. Bill?s was a life well-lived and you and his children, grandchildren and great grandchild are his legacy. May you find comfort in the many memories you have and your love for each other. Our deepest sympathy to all of you. Love, Lynne and Harry Ahern"
Alan Alfonso - October 02, 200.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Please accept my deepest sympathies on your loss. He was a true gentleman and Naval Officer and will be missed by all of us. -LCDR Alan Alfonso, MSC, USN"
CAPT Cathy Wilson - October 0.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Bette: I'm very saddened to hear about Wild Bill's death. You probably don't even remember me but our paths crossed many times. I'll never forget babysitting Jessica in your quarters in GTMO. The psychiatrist, surgeon and two of us Navy Nurses used to teach Jessica words while you were out bowling. We are responsible for her learning to say 'rubies', 'diamonds', 'MasterCard', 'Visa'.... Your husband got such a kick out of that. You are, and have been, in my thoughts and prayers. You and Bill will always have a special place in my heart. Cathy"
Mary Sandford - October 02, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Bette- Thanks for bringing Bill into our family so that we could share him for the past 44 years. He was a special part of all our lives. I feel that I lost my only brother, but I have such wonderful memories of our times with him over the years. I'll cherish those memories forever. Love you. Mo"
Ann & Thad Sandford - October .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Bette and family, It was a pleasure knowing Bill. Just thinking about the crusty old salt made us smile. He was an honorable gentleman and it was our priviledge to have known him since December 1975. Calm seas old friend. Happy memories."
Maria Millsap - October 01, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"The Navy Nurse Corps family will sorely miss CAPT Bill Cote. We will keep his loved ones in our thoughts and prayers."
Bonnie Holder - October 01, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I am so sad to hear of CAPT Cote's passing. The world is a better place because of him. I still remember reporting to OIS and meeting him for the first time. I knew immediately that I wanted to stay in an organization that had him as a leader. He was always the gentlemen and his caring is the Navy Nurse Corp's legacy. Thank you for sharing him all those years. He has a special place in heaven and will always be in the hearts of those he so lovingly touched. CAPT Bonnie Holder, NC, USN"
Marie S. Senzig - October 01, .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"CAPT Cote was one of my instructors at Officer Indoctrination School at Newport, RI from October-mid November of 1980. I remember a highly competitive man on the other side of the volleyball net with a great sense of humor. At the time he was one of a small number of male nurses in the Navy and served as a great role model for both genders of Navy Nurses. My deepest sympathy on the passing of a wonderful man. CAPT Marie Senzig, NC, USN"
CDR Steven J. Wyrsch, NC, USN Ret wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I met Bill in Newport, RI in the early 1990's playing volleyball in the gym on base. Albeit it was after he had retired, he became a became a source of guidance and support. He was a mentor to many people and it was an honor to know him. May your family find peace in knowing that he made a difference in many people's lives."
Denise Boren - October 01, 200.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"To CAPT Cote's Family; I want to express my sincere condolences for the loss of a wonderful person. CAPT Cote was stationed at Newport when I went to OIS in 1982 and influenced the beginning of my Navy career as a Nurse Corps Officer. He was a great guy and loved by all."
Elaine and Eddie Roach - Octob.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Bette,Chris,Susan,Matthew, Alicia,Cheri,Jessica,Ben and Julia, This is a very sad time in yours lives and your all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.You all did a wonderful job over the pass few days to honor Bill.He touched many peoples lives. He loved you all so much and he will be greatly missed.He would of been so proud of his loving family."
James Hulslander - October 01,.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Chris, We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Having lost Jim's dad just months ago, we certainly can sympathize with the magnitude of your grief. If there is anything at all we can do for you and your family, please feel free to contact us. With great sympathy, Jim & Kim Hulslander"
Emily Hepler - September 30, 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Bette & Family...Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time and always. Thinking of you... Guy & Emily Hepler & Kim"
Mack Amick - September 30, 200.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"To all of Bill's family, please know that Bill's passing was received with much sadness when I learned of it just this weekend. I knew Bill in the Navy and was honored to have known him and worked with him on occasion. I have, of course, many fond memories of Bill. I sought him out many times for advice and counsel. I have forwarded the announcement to several former Navy personnel who I thought would want to know, as well. My thoughts are certainly with you all at this difficult time. Sincerely, C. Mack Amick, LCDR, NC, USN-Ret"
HM1 Beth Creasing Sheeran - Se.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I was an ODS vet with Bill. He was a good nurse, a good officer, and a good person to have in our FH. My condolences to the family."
Judy Byrnes - September 30, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I had heard about "Wild Bill" for many years before I finally met him. Everyone always spoke of him with such fondness and respect. When I met him, he was all that everyone said he was and more! I once asked him why he never worked at one of the local civilian facilities. He smiled and said, "Well it's kind of a funny story. I had a job interview and and the interviewer said: "What kind of a job position would you see yourself filling here?" Bill told me as his eyes twinkled "I said-well, I think I'd like to have your job,and that was the end of the interview!" To say he will be missed is such an understatement. My sincere condolences to his family."
Karyn Miller LCDR/N/RET - Sept.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"A friend passed this along and I was so sorry to hear of CDE Cote's passing. I was stationed with him in Newport, RI, and will never forget the pm shift I was on, when he let a couple of us make a Newport Creamery run for sundaes. Sometimes, the little things meant alot.....My prayers are with you at this time,"
Laurie L. Williamson - Septemb.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"CAPT Cote was a leader when I attended OIS in 1982. He spoke to our class several times and made a lasting positive impression with me. From among all the instructors at OIS, his is the only name I remember. He made a lasting contribution to the Navy and the Navy Nurse Corps. With regret and respect, Laurie L. Williamson, CAPT, NC, USN"
Mike Munzert - September 28, 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I will always remember Capt. Cote. He taught me some valuable work habits. I remember his patience and his smile. I bought a card to send to him, but I was too late.I was very happy to see he attended the NRMC reunions and I was hoping I could see him. I will miss him."
Captain A. Nancy Templeton, NC, USN, Re.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My sincerest sympathies for your loss and the loss to our Nurse Corps Family. You must be so proud of a man who is so loved and respected by so many. God bless and keep you and your family."
Carol L. Schemmer - September .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"So sorry to hear of Captain Cote's passing. He is remembered dearly by so many of us. My thoughts and prayers are with all who loved him."
Eric Miller - September 28, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I first met Mr. Cote by accident. He administered my CNA license exam in Newport, RI. As we were chatting afterwards, he found out that I was already signed up to become a Navy nurse after I received my nursing degree. I knew him for a limited time, but he made an impression on me. My condolences go out to the Cote family. Respectfully, LT Eric Miller"
John Lien - September 28, 2007.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"To the Cote family: I served with Bill in Newport when he was at OIS and I was on Captain Ed Redden's staff. I have very fond memories of him. He was without a doubt one of the finest men I've ever known. My thoughts and prayers goe out to you in this time of sorrow. Blessings, John"
Bonnie A. Leadford McClure - S.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I am saddened to hear of Bill's death. Though he was several years senior to me and our Navy paths never crossed, I certainly knew about him and his illustrous career. My prays go ourt to the family and close friends. Bonnie A. McClure, Capt./NC/ USN"
Marion Perlow - September 28, .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I am probably Wild Bill's oldest time and age Navy buddy.I first met Bill when I was on Recruiting Duty and gave a talk at his School of Nursing. He gave me a "bad" time because then we didn't take male nurses into the Corps. A few years later I was one of his instructors at Women Officers School, Newport. We met again when he was on my staff at Hospital Corps School, Great Lakes. After reading all the well deserved accolades I am at a loss for words to add something new.He was a fun guy and a great role model. My thoughts and prayers go out to Bette and her family. Marion Perlow CAPT NC USN RET San Diego, Ca."
CDR James Beasley - September .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"It is a sad day indeed, Capt Cote' was the inspiration for me to become a nurse corps officer. I had the pleasure of meeting him in Guantamano Bay, Cuba when he was the CO. As a male, I had lots of questions for him about his career and journey of joining the ranks of the nurse corps. He was truly a "hero" and role model to me and one of the reasons I remain in the USN today. He served his country proudly. My heartfelt condolences are with you and your family. S/CDR James Beasley"
Dan Bolton - September 27, 200.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote, For your husband to be remembered like he is shows just what kind of great man he was. Every one of us remembers the honorable way he led his corpsmen. I proudly served under Captain Cote from 1976-1979. I was amazed back then of how a man of his stature could relate to all of the enlisted corpsmen so well. He encouraged us all to do our respective jobs to the very best of our abilities. We were very proud to be members of his crew. I have always spoken very fondly of your husband, and will continue to hold those years in high regard always. Dan Bolton"
Terri White, CAPT NC RET - Sep.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"God placed a great man on this earth to pave the way for others in the Navy Nurse Corps. What a stellar legacy he leaves! May the accolades of those who knew him and knew of him provide some comfort to his family. God Bless you, CAPT Cote."
Mary Ann NezovichKonya - Septe.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Sorry to hear of Capt Cote's passing. The Navy Nurse Corps sure was changed by his presence. He was the very 1st person I met when reporting to NRMC Newport, RI and he helped make that a very memorable time of my life. Thanks for everything! My thoughts and prayers are with his family."
Margaret and Allen Mullinix - .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Bette We were deeply saddened to hear of Bill's passing. Having served with him in Groton, my memories are of a positive leader with a sense of humor and a joy for life. He will be missed. Please accept our condolences for your loss."
Bill Raucci - September 27, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I served with Capt. Cote at Naval Hospital Newport R.I. He was the finest Naval Officer I served with in over 13 years of Naval service. He will be greatly missed by all who new him, he made us better men. God bless his family I know there is a special place for him with God."
CDR and Mrs. Art Fox, MSC, USN, Ret. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote and family. Your husband and father was an inspiration to many of us who knew him at OIS. I am truly sorry to hear that he has passed. Our prayers are with you and the family."
Elissa Speckmann - September 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My memories of Bill always bring a smile. He was able to "lighten up" the most difficult times. We shared learning and laughs at many ot the NNC "Short Courses" at Bethesda. I send my prayers for him and and my deepest sympathy to his family along with prayers that God will bless them with His loving consolation. Elissa AKA Lee"
Ted Traskos - September 27, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote and Family, My sincere condolences on Bill's passing. Thank you for sharing Bill with us and our Country as young Naval Pups. I had the pleasant opportunity to share his bright smile and a few laughs when we visited Newport recently this month. BROKEN CHAIN ?Little knew that morning that God was going to call your name. In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same. It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone; for part of us went with you the day God called you home. You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide, and though we cannot see you, you are always by our side. Our family chain is broken and nothing seems the same, but as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again.? Respectfully, Ted Traskos"
Rosemary Geraghty Cox - Septe.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Betty and Family: Our Guam 1968 days seem like just yesterday. Wild Bill always had an answer for the hard questions. May your memories of him be filled with all that sage,positive thinking...and a large dose of that wicked sence of humor."
Capt. Barbara A. O''Brien - Se.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Bill. He was much loved and so well respected as a Naval Officer and a nurse. He blazed many trails in the nurse Corps for our male colleagues. His contributions were far-reaching. Barbara A. O'Brien, Capt NC USNRet"
Arthur S. Manzitto - September.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"It is with great sadness that I send these condolences to Bill's family and friends. I did not know Bill personally, but I knew of him through mutual friends and acqaintences. I have admired him for his many achievements. He is a Legend in the Navy Nurse Corps. I shall pray for his repose and for the grief and sadness brought on by his passing. With heartfelt Sympathy, Arthur S. Manzitto LCDR, NC, USNRet."
Jim Fitzsimmons CDR NC Ret. - .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote' and family, Words will not express the heartfelt sadness we feel for your loss. Our paths crossed numerous times over Bill?s and my career. His service reputation was that he was the quintessential officer and gentleman. I regret I never had the opportunity to serve with him. Please know that our memories of Bill will always have a special place in our hearts. He has meant so much to so many over the years and made a huge impact on many lives. Jim & Rita Fitzsimmons"
Kathee Murphy CDR, NC, USN Ret wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Mrs. Cote and Family, During my 24 years of active service I never served with your loved one, however, I can assure you that at every duty station I heard wonderful compliments about CAPT Cote. Without a doubt, the Navy Nurse Corps was enriched by his talents, contributions and dedication. May you all find comfort knowing he touched so many Navy Nurses who undoubtedly delivered improved services to their patients thanks to his leadership."
Patrick O''Halloran, MD CAPT MC USN ret.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Bette -What a shock to read the obituary column of the Newport Daily News and see Bill's name. I am one of many people who consider it an honor to have known this wonderful man, husband, Naval Officer and nurse. Our Naval paths crossed many times and included a most important period when he was Chief Nurse at St. Clair's Home where he cared for my mother during her final days. There is no doubt that the Lord has brought him to his reward for all the good he did for his fellow man. Our sympathy and prayers to you and your family. Pat and Darcey"
CAPT Dan Wasneechak, NC, USN Retired wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Bill's family and friends. As a fellow male NC officer commissioned in 1976, Bill was part of Nurse Corps history while I was at OIS in Newport. Being one of the first male nurse commissioned, he was the one who broke ground for others to follow. Although I never served with Bill, I had several conversations with him during my active duty time. He was an inspiration and highly respected. His legacy will continue. Thank you Bill. You did make a difference in at least one other life. God Bless you and your family for supporting you over your career. DAW"
CDR John Nagelschmidt, NC, USN.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote and Family, I was able to meet CAPT Cote after his retirement while I was the Nurse Corps Instructor assigned to OIS. CAPT Cote would stop by to visit Bill Travis, he was a wonderful man and always had a word of advice for the Lieutenant. Rest in peace "Wild Bill", from those you have trained and taught, we have the watch."
Captain Jerry McClelland, NC, USN RET wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I am so saddened by Bills passing away. He, like me, was in that first historical group of men to enter the Nurse Corps and he and I were friends during his Navy Nurse Corps days. I agree he will be greatly missed and we have not only lost a wonderful person but a piece of Navy Nurse Corps History. My prayers are with Bills family."
David Seifert - September 27, .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote and Family, I originally met Cdr. Cote while attending Corps School in Great Lakes and later served under him at NRMC Newport. He was a man to be respected always since he gave respect in return. He was truly a "Man's Man" and had a positive influence on myself and all the other Corpsman that he supervised. His honor, competence, and honesty were virtues that led all of us to emulate him as our mentor regardless of our positions in the Hospital Corps. Thank you for sharing this wonderful man with us. My deepest condolences and may God bless you. Respectfully, David Seifert"
Jack and Gloria Caffrey - Sept.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Betty and Family, Glo and I were deeply shaken by Bill's passing and our sincerest prayers to you and the family. God bless him and you at this time. Love, Jack and Glo"
Teri Olson, CAPT, NC ret. - Se.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Bette and family, What a guy Bill was! I heard about him throughout my Navy career and finally met him when we served on the Board of the Navy Nurse Corps Association together. I am so glad I had that opportunity to get to know him and his great sense of humor. He will be missed. May God bless you all and be with you in this time of figuring out the "new normal" for your lives."
Larry A. Walker CRNA, MS - Sep.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Mrs. Cote and family. My sympathy to you all in this time of great loss. Wild Bill left an indelible impression on me as a young HM2. I believe much of my subsequent professional success was due to his direct input in my life as a young man. He is truly one of the few people I have met in my life who was inspirational. God bless you all and I will see you later Bill."
CAPT & Mrs. John E. Tracy, MSC, USN Ret.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Our thoughts & prayers are with the Cote family. We are saddened with Bill's passing but find comfort in our faith believing life is eternal. His service to country, love for family, and being just a darn nice fella will be a memory not quickly forgotten by us. Fair winds to a wonderful shipmate..."
Al Shimkus - September 27, 200.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote and Family, Bill had a profound positive influence on so many lives, inside and outside of the Navy he loved. He will be greatly missed by those whose lives he touched directly and those others, many others, whose lives he influenced from afar by just being Bill. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time."
Fran Connor, CAPT, NC, RET - S.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My prayers are with you at this difficult time. I never worked with Captain Cody, but over the years I had many corpsmen that did and all told me how wonderful he was. With my deepest respect. Fran"
Diane Holman - September 27, 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I was also lucky enough to have known and work with this wonderful human being who epitomized the generosity and love of life that was Bill Cote. He was a great leader, a compassionate nurse, but above all a superb example of how one should live one's life. I am so grateful that so many of us were graced with being profoundly affected by knowing him. I think he would have been pleased. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. He will be missed by us all, but take comfort in the positive effect his life brought to so many. Captain Diane Holman, USN, NC ret"
Daniel T. DuBois HMCMFMF/NAC/DV USNret<.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote and family, Please allow me to convey my deepest sympathies to you on the passing of Captain Cote. As a young Sailor arriving in Newport in 1977 one of the first people I met was Cdr Cote. Over the next few years he made a significant and lasting impression on me. A leader in every sense of the word, he was there to deliver a word of encouragement, or a kick in seat depending on the requirements of the situation. I remember when my exuberance got me in trouble and I faced the XO at XOI. CDR Cote went to bat for me there, speaking to the XO about my record, performance and future potential. He saved me from Captains mast and serious consequences of NJP. After my XOI he brought me into his office and delivered a dressing down that stuck with me the remainder of my 27 year naval career. Before the Navy adopted it?s Core Values of Honor, Courage and Commitment, the CDR was living them and impressed them on me at that moment. Later when I applied to Dive School the CDR was a champion for my request. One of the ways that you take the measure of a man is how he touches the lives of those he interacts with. He touched my life and many others in a profound manner. Captain Cote may you always have fair winds a following sea and star to guide you, God Bless you and your family."
Trish Culver CDR NC Ret - Sept.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"The planet will miss him, a true gentleman. Trish Culver on behalf of the New England Navy Nurse Corps Association"
Carline BuckleyLTJG/USN/NC - S.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My deepest honor to you for being the pioneer and the trailblazer for us nurses of the Corps. Thank you for your dedication, hard work and sacrifice. You have excelled. My condolences and prayers to your family as they mourn your passing."
Alice A. Cagnina, CAPT, NC, USN wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote, I am sorry to hear of the passing of your husband. He was a wonderful man and an awesome Nurse Corps Officer. I had the privilege of serving with him at Naval Hospital Corps School. His leadership inspired me to make the Navy a career. Captain Alice Cagnina Naval Health Clinic Charleston"
CAPT Carol Morones - September.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"CAPT Cote gave me my first impression of a Navy Nurse when I entered OIS in 1981--he was awesome. My sincerest sympathy for your loss."
CAPT Dawne Gabrielson - Septem.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"To the Family of CAPT Cote: Such a loss and so young. I was a student at Officer Indoctrination School in Newport RI when he served as the Navy Nurse Corps Program Coordinator. He was such an passionate and enthusiastic supportor of the Nurse Corps - and what a sense of humor. I will never forget his "salty" sense of humor. I still remember things he told us. He was that kind of man - unforgettable! He is one of the major reasons I am still on active duty more than 25 years later. He will be missed."
CAPT Danette Svobodny - Septem.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote' Please accept my heartfelt condolences. CAPT Cote' was a wonderful man and officer who always had a kind word and quick smile. He embodied the spirit of the Navy Nurse Corps and truly loved life and all those who served with him. I served with CAPT Cote' at Hospital Corps School Great Lakes. May your memories of your years together help you through this difficult time. Respectfully, Danette Svobodny"
CAPT Denise Smith - September .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. CAPT Cote' will long be remembered for his great contributions to the Navy and especially to the Navy Nurse Corps. In Sympathy"
Dan Whalen - September 26, 200.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Best CO I ever had. Greatest guy in the world, easily. My heart goes out to Betty, Cheri and Chris."
Danny Fahler, CDR, MSC, USN, RET wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Condolences on your loss. CAPT Cote was an inspiration and mentor to me and hundreds, perhaps thousands of other young enlisted Corpsman seeking success and a life's purpose in the Navy. The example he set and his reputation for his willingness to offer advice and counsel to young sailors wishing to follow his example produced many fine and faithful Officers and senior Enlisted Sailors. He is thought of often for the way he lived his life and guided others to make a real difference in peoples lives."
kim m caulk - September 26, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I had the honor of hearing "Wild Bill" speak at a retirement and graduations while stationed in Newport. He struck me as someone I wished I could have served with. He will be missed. God Bless you all. Kim"
Jan Carrio, CAPT, NC, USN - Se.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you all. CAPT Cote was an inspiration and mentor who impacted many people in the Navy Nurse Corps. He will be remembered fondly. Jan Carrio, CAPT, NC, USN"
R.QUINONES, CAPT, MSC, USN - S.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My sincere condolances to the Cote family on your loss. CAPT Cote was a great American and Sailor. I had the distinct pleasure of serving with CAPT Cote and benefited from his mentorship and leadership. v/r CAPT R. QUINONES, MSC, USN Commanding Officer Naval Medicine Manpower, Personnel, Training/Education Bethesda MD"
CDR sel Mark Bisbee - Septembe.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I only met CAPT Cote one time, but was impressed by him and will always remember his kindness and concern for others. He was a great man, and Naval Officer."
CAPT Pam Roark - September 26,.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Betty and Cote' Family, My heart goes out to you and am so saddened to hear this news. I was so blessed to have served with CAPT Cote' on three occasions! I attended OIS in 1981 and he was our mentor and role model. What a great introduction we all had to the Navy Nurse Corps with him leading the way! We worked hard and also played hard - especially on the volleyball court! Years later I was in the MAC terminal in Norfolk waiting on a flight to my next duty station - USNH GTMO. CAPT Cote' had an uncanny nack for remembering everyone's names! Across the terminal I heard "LT Fye" - I was so impressed that my future CO even knew who I was. I was LT Roark then and CAPT Cote's name is on my youngest son's GTMO Birth Certificate. I then followed CAPT Cote to Naval Hospital Corps School. I am his biggest fan and admirer. He epitomized a Naval Officer and so many of us are still in the Navy today because of his leadership, courage and devotion. God bless you, CAPT Pam Roark, NC, USN"
CDR Kathy Tines Becker - Septe.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Captain Cote was my Commanding Officer at Naval Hospital Long Beach. I served as an usher at his change of command. He promoted me to LTJG and provided guidance and laughter that I've never forgotten. He was the first and one of my most memorable mentors in Navy Nursing. His contributions are innumerable. He will be sorely missed. V/R CDR Kathy Tines Becker NC, USN"
CAPT David R. McCarthy - Septe.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote, My heartfelt prayers for your great loss. I was fortunate to be instructed by CAPT Cote at Hosp Corps School in 1973, OIS in 1980 and as a member of his team at USNH GTMO 1983. He was a pioneer for the Navy Nurse Corps! Warmest regards, CAPT David McCarthy Navy Medicine East Portsmouth, VA"
Penny Heisler, CDR, NC, USN - .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My prayers and thoughts are with CAPT Cote's family in this difficult time. I appreciate all he did to make Navy Medicine and the Nurse Corps better for his service. Fair winds and following seas. Very Respectfully, Penny Heisler CDR, NC, USN"
M. Jill Hansen CAPT, NC, USN -.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote and family, my deepest condolences on your loss. CAPT Cote made a huge impression on me almost 25yrs. ago at OIS. I was lucky enough to serve with him at Hospital Corps School Great Lakes. He always had a smile, or wink, or "sea story". My NC memories will always include him."
CAPT MARY I. GREENWOOD, NC, USN wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"CAPT Cote was a true Navy Nurse pioneer; already a legend when I came on active duty in 1983. He is always spoken-of by those who knew him with the utmost respect and admiration. My thoughts are with you all."
Dr Robert M. Padula PhD - Sept.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I would like to say that God has called a good man home. One only need look at Captain Cote's history and the strength he projected while reaching the very top of Leadership within Navy Medicine. May God's Blessings be on your family in this time of sadness. Fair Winds and Following Seas Captain. You are missed. V/R"
Maureen McMahon Hogan - Septem.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Wishing you fair winds and following seas."
David Mangler, CDR, NC, USN Ret wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Please know that you are embraced in heart and soul during this time of loss."
Kristen Bouvier - September 26.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Words can not express how saddened we are to hear of Bill's passing. Bette, you and Bill have always been people I'm thankful to know because you truly make the world a better place and enrich the people's lives you touch. I will deeply miss Bill's kindness, humor, honesty, and that twinkle in his eye that so few people have. He will be fondly remembered as one of the best! Our love to you, Cheri, Chris and the rest of the family. You are in our thoughts. Love always, Kristen &HoMan"
CAPTAIN Kevin J. Gallagher, NC, USNret<.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"CAPT "Wild Bill" Cote touched a lot of Navy nurses... I am just one. Please know that you are all in my prayers. R/Kevin"
Joyce Douglas - September 26, .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I knew Bill through our bowling league. He always was ready to great me with a warm smile and a hug. I will greatly miss him, he was a special man. My condolences to his entire family."
Patrick J. Ryan - September 26.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Cote Family- Please accept my condolences at the passing of CAPT Cote. Although I have never met him, as an active duty male Navy Nurse Corps Officer, I am grateful that he was one of the first who opened up for nurses like me very rewarding nursing careers in the service of our country. It is very clear that he was integral in setting a high standard of service, training of staff and care for sailors and Marines. My heartfelt thanks to you all for the support you gave him in his career. Respectfully, LCDR Patrick Ryan, Nurse Corps, USN- Naval Medical Center San Diego, CA"
Joseph Murray, CAPT, NC, USN -.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I did not know Bill but had heard of him. He paved the way for many of the men that followed him in Navy nursing. The nurses at the Naval Hospital Pensacola will keep him in their thoughts and prayers. We are sorry for the families' loss."
Jani Wolstenholme - September .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"The best part of Wednesday night bowling was being around Bill Cote. I will always remember him as a warm, generous, kind man with a great smile. His professional career is unparalelled and I am honored to have known Bill. My deepest sympathy to Mrs. Cote and family."
Dot O''Very - September 26, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote' - My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Your husband was the Director of the Officer Indoctrination School when I first entered the Navy Nurse Corps and I served under CAPT Cote' when he was the CO of Naval Hospital Corps School, Great Lakes. He was an incredible leader and, always, great fun to work for; I also recall some entertaining evenings that you hosted there in Great Lakes. I will keep you and CAPT Cote' in my prayers. Dot O'Very, CDR, NC, Retired"
Jose M. Pi - September 26, 200.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I served under CAPT Cote in GTMO as a Hospital Corpsman - he was a great skipper and a great person. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Jose M. Pi LT, MSC, USNR"
Rev. Vianna Witcher-Jones, CDR, NC, USN.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"To the Cote' Family, My prayers are with you at this time. I only met CAPT Cote a few times, but it was a lasting and wonderful impression. May God bless and keep you and your family at this most difficult time."
Jacquelyn Finley - September 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"The first of many interactions with CAPT Cote was at my first assignment in the Navy. He underscored the committment and integrity of the professional Navy Nurse Corps Officer."
DALE DUVALL - September 26, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"CAPT Cote and I served together at Nval Hospital Guantanamo By, Cuba. He was a great CO and good friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with Bette and his family."
Capt Shirley Lewis-Brown - Sep.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Bette and Family Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you. Bill was a great person, super Navy Nurse and wonderful colleague. His impact on the Nurse Corps, the Navy, and all of his friends was tremendous. My words are so inadequate as your loss is so great. My heart of love is extended to you. God's Blessings are extended to you."
gloria ford - September 26, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My prayers are with you at your time of sorrow."
John Rothacker, CAPT, NC, USN .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Our prayers and thoughts go out to Mrs. Cote and family during these difficult times. I was taught by CAPT Cote in Corps School in 1973 and ran into him over the years in various places. He was a great mentor, role model and person who will be greatly missed. The nurses at Naval Hospital, Guam send our condolences and will think of him and his family in our prayers."
Captain Bobbie Clinton USN,NC,RET wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"He was one of a kind. Feel sure that all who knew him, loved him. May God be with you at this time of your loss and hold Bill ever so gently in his arms."
CaptainTommy Stewart, NC, USN .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Cathy and I send our sincere condolences to Mrs. Cote and the family. I had the honor of meeting this great individual as I went through OIS in Aug 1983. As a former HM we had much in common. He was truly an inspiration to many. He will be greatly missed. Let us all lift our glasses high to salute and celebrate the life of this great leader as he joins the Navy of the Supreme Commander."
Dennis Jones - September 26, 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"To the family of Captain Cote, As a young Corpsman who reported to Captain Cote in 1977-1980, this great man taught me more about leadership and integrity than anyone in my entire lifetime. He will be missed greatly. Our thoughts are with you."
Brian Schultz - September 26, .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Mrs. Cote, family and friends, This is a sad time for you. I wish you the very best and as an offering of joyful remembrance, here is but one story about your husband, your father and friend. We were a contingent of young corpsmen with orders to report to the Naval Regional Medical Center, Newport, Rhode Island. We came from just about every corner of the United States. We were eager and energetic and red-blooded. We had some rough direction in life but still full of all the mischief that springs from youth. That was thirty years ago. The war in Vietnam was just a few years behind us. Jimmy Carter was president and the country, while at peace, was in a bit of malaise. For those of you old enough to remember, the Iran Hostage Crisis was the main topic. It was also a time when the military at large was not keen on the idea of a serviceperson attending college concomitantly while on active duty. However, being motivated albeit a tad wild, we wanted to take advantage of the several schools in the area and begin our college degrees. The Navy wouldn't allow this of course... unless our commanding officer gave us the green light. This was an apparently overwhelming problem because the commanding officer was inaccessible to us. Except for a commander named Bill Cote our story would have ended before it began. Maybe we initially bonded with Capt. Cote because we had heard he started out as a corpsman. Maybe we instinctively knew we had an ally in this friendly, approachable, receptive Nursing Supervisor because he was easy to relate to. Whatever the reason, we all respected Capt. Cote from the get-go. He was a mentor and role model to us before we even knew it. We requested permission to attend classes at the various local schools. Sticking his neck way, way out there, Capt. Cote didn't hesitate to make it possible for us to go to college. He said we could enroll IF we kept our "noses clean" and did our jobs with "NO complaints from the nurses and doctors". Well, we did our jobs well, no complaints there. We just couldn't seem to stay out of off-duty trouble. Nothing felonious, just the typical teenage pranks and antics...we were sailors after all. We were holy terrors to more than a few our supervisors but somehow we were allowed to stay in school. Years later, after college and nursing degrees, med school for some, distinguished military careers for others, and professionals all, we learned, from the very officers we tormented, that Capt. Cote ran blocker for us time and time again. While the other officers and supervisors tried to run us up the pole, Capt. Cote sang our praises publicly while chewing us out in private. We were growing into young men and women and he believed in us before we believed in ourselves. Now, we have Navy reunions every year. We are all good friends and shipmates still. And over the years Capt. Cote came to each of our reunions when able. It was always good to see him and he will always be a part of our reunions and our lives. While he was at the helm, he was our guidepost. He was our captain. Godspeed Capt. Cote. Brian Schultz - one of many fortunate corpsmen to serve with Capt. Cote throughout the late 70's and early 80's."
HMCM and Mrs. Dana R. Goodwin, USN wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Jacqueline and I had the honor and privilege to serve with CAPT "Wild Bill" Cote and Bette in GITMO. He was the best Skipper a young, newly married Third Class could have ever asked to serve with! He took care of his Sailors and treated everyone equally. He was right there the day my son John was born one month premature, asking what we needed and how Bette and he could help. Our deepest sympathy and condolences go out to Bette and the family."
Charles M. Collins, MD - Septe.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Bette and Family, I was saddened to read of Bill's death. He was such a gentleman, a wonderful husband, and outstanding Naval Officer. I admired him and always enjoyed visiting with him and caring for his eyes. He was always concerned about others. I pray that God comforts you all during this difficult time. I have great confidence that Bill is in a better place. Charley Collins CAPT, MC, USN Ret"
La Francis D. Francis - Septem.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I am tearful in my note to you the family. I can truly say that CAPT was the only reason I remained in the Navy during a very challenging time in my life. I can say too that I am the CAPT NC officer I am today from the impact he had on my life. Thank you to the family for sharing him with us the Navy Nurse Corps and with me in my life as a Nurse Corps Officer. Not many can say they passed through this place and had the impact CAPT did on the many then young lives of the future of the Nurse Corps as we know it today. He will live on in many heart warming sea-stories to come. CAPT had no idea the brief time he had as my leader made such and impact on my Navy career."
Thomas L. Chaput - September 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My condolences to your family. I served under then-CDR Cote 2/75-3/78. No other officer has ever made such a lasting impression on me, and I have thought about him regularly in the years since then. Anyone who had any contact with a man of such character and integrity could not help but to have been somehow lifted up in this life!! God Bless "Wild Bill", God Bless every one of you! Tom Chaput HM2"
Madeline Ancelard - September .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Bette, I was deeply sadden to hear about Bill's passing. He was a great guy and will be missed by all Navy Nurses who knew him. I still smile everytime I think of his promotion to Captain and you telling him you were going to sleep with a CAPT."
Kris & Larry Monger, CAPT,NC,USN,RET wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Bette, Our thoughts and prayers go to you and your family. Bill was an inspiration to all of us - a leader with a great sense of humor. He was loved and will be missed. Duty in CT was memorable."
CDR Tammy Jones - September 26.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"CAPT Cote was an incredible individual. I was fortunate to know him while stationed at Great Lakes and he was great fun to bowl with. My thoughts and prayers are with his family."
Captain and Mrs. Mark Bernier .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Words cannot express the heartfelt sadness we feel for your loss. Our paths crossed several times over the past 34 years. Please know that our memories of Mr. Cote will always have a special place in our hearts. He has meant so much to so many over the years and made a huge impact on many lives. Both my husband and I feel honored to have known him, to have been lead by him, and to be inspired by him. Fondly, Chris Bernier"
John - September 25, 2007 at 1.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"A big hug to Mrs. Cote and my condolences to the whole family. It does not seem possible that the big, calm, fun person that Mr. Cote was is no longer with us. With Love, Jay Bouvier"
Mr. and Mrs. Edward Elliott - .. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Mrs. Cote, family and friends, We are ever so thankful that Capt. Cote was visited by some of his "Corpsfest" friends a few weeks ago during his hospital stay. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Captain Cote was loved by all and our memories will never fade. Bill will be forever missed. God Bless"
Dolores - September 25, 2007 a.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"To the Cote Family, I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I was a student in the CNA classes recently and had the pleasure of meeting Bill. He knew my Dad very well from the Mason's and when I mentioned to my Dad about him, he spoke very highly of Bill. I must say it was a very mutual conversation with both of them. I am very sorry for your loss. God Bless, Dolores Woolhouse"
Claudette Clunan - September 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Cote family..What a great loss to lose such a great man...and friend.. I will always cherish the times we had together during our Navy careers..especially IT and Hospital Corps School.. Thoughts and prayers are extended to his wonderful family. Claudette Clunan"
Al Cameron - September 25, 200.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Now the Labors task is ore' , now the battle days are past, now upon the furthest shore lands the voyager at last, "Father in thy gracious keeping, leave we now our Brother sleeping. Eternal rest grant to him oh Lord, May thy light perpetual shine upon him and give him Peace, now and forever." Amen. R.W. Associate Grand Chaplain East Bay AF&AM Rhode Island"
Tom DeRouville - September 25,.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I met Captain Cote, on a number of occasions. But, mostly, when we were stationed at Newport. Wild Bill and Terrible Tom. We are from the same area of the country. A fine Officer and Gentleman, but mostly a Good Sailor. God Bless his Family. Tom DeRouville HMCM USN Retired"
CAPT Kathleen M. Pierce - Sept.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"CAPT Bill Cote was a prince of a man; he was a stellar Navy Nurse Corps officer and a warm, kind gentleman. He was stationed at Officer Indoctination School, Newport, RI and as a student there a mere 26 yrs ago, he taught all of us so much through how he approached life and his work. He had a zest for life that was infectious to all in his midst. He was a leader and mentor extraordinare, and made you excited about what you could do for Navy Nursing and Navy Medicine. He blazed trails for all of us, and we were blessed to know him, work with him and his legacy lives on in us. We are the ones he trained, mentored and lead. We will miss you Bill and know that we will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. God Bless, V/R Kathleen"
Jeannie McCarthy - September 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"I was so sorry to hear today of CAPT Cote's passing. I'm a civilian worker at Naval Hospital Corps School at Great Lakes and CAPT Cote' was my favorite Commanding Officer out of the numerous COs at Corps School in my 22+ years here. My prayers are with CAPT Cote's family at this difficult time. He will be greatly missed. God bless!"
Karen D. Johnson - September 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Dear Bette and family: I have no words to describe the feelings that I have at the loss of Bill. What a wonderful man and an incredible loss. I am so grateful for the little time that we had visiting recently. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Karen."
Amit M Shah - September 25, 20.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"Cheri: My deepest condolences to you and your family for the loss."
George McDonough - September 2.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"My condolences to your family. Your Dad will be missed."
Cecelia McManus - September 24.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"God bless the Cote family at this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you rest in peace dear Bill, after your challenging journey. You have set a proud, beautiful example for all."
Jack Raeke - September 24, 200.. wrote on Sep 23, 2007:
"God bless you wild Bill a great guy he will be missed."