Middletown, RI - Martha E. Crouch Santos, 67, of 233 Morrison Avenue, Middletown, RI, died Wednesday, October 31, 2007 at Rhode Island Hospital, Providence, RI. She was the wife of Francis P. Santos. Born in San Diego, CA on November 17, 1939, she was a daughter of the late Arthur E. Crouch, Sr. and Ruth Burrell Crouch. Besides her husband of 12 years, she is survived by her children, Carrie and her husband Jeffrey Scott of Nashua, NH, Monica and her husband David Martins of Newport, RI, John and his wife Suzette Townsend of Middletown, RI, and Adam and his wife Sarah Townsend of Newport, RI. She was also predeceased by her daughter Amber Townsend. She is also survived by her grandchildren Alyssa and Catherine Scott, Will and Emma Martins, Benjamin Townsend, and Charles Townsend.She is survived by her brother Arthur E. Crouch, Jr. and predeceased by her brother Allen Crouch.Martha was a fun-loving and passionate about her family and friends. Her infectious laugh and warm smile made her a free spirit. She dearly loved her children and grandchildren, devoting her self to them. She was a dedicated nursing assistant for the Child and Family Services agency in Middletown, RI. Martha was a proud member of the First Presbyterian Church.A Memorial service will be held on Saturday, November 3, 2007, at 2:00pm, in First Presbyterian Church. The church is located on Broadway on the corner of Everett Street in Newport, RI. Following the memorial service a reception will be hosted by the Deacons of the church in the Fellowship Hall. Donations and flowers may be send in her memory to the First Presbyterian Church, 4 Everett Street, Newport.
Kathy Martins Sandru - Decembe.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"For Marty's Dear Loving Family, I've needed time to find the words to honor MartyWife, Mom, GrandMaand to try to express my most hearfelt sympathy. When Monica married my cousin Dave, there was a new family on the block! I often saw Marty and Frank and John, Suzette and Ben. I became very fond of you all and especially Marty. Her eyes shined of enjoying her family and life, always smiling. She always asked about my family and life. She gave of herself when help was needed. I know. Marty took time to talk to you when you needed someone to listen.I know. Her laugh would make you feel good. I know. We shared a lot of laughs. Her devotion and love of her family cannot be adequately put into words; you saw the love in action when Marty was with them all. I miss seeing Marty at gatherings at Monica and Dave's house; I hear how grandkids Wil and Emma miss her; I miss talking to her if she answered the phone when taking care of the grandkids; I miss waving and stopping to chat with Marty when she was out stroller-walking Charlie or out driving with Ben, Wil and Emma. Gosh, she adored her grandkids. And Sam....what a beauty!She is so pleased and proud to be a GrandMa, again. I just know it! I miss you Marty. I am so grateful for all the chats and Marty/Charlie sightings I had with you this year! We really had a chance to catch up. Thank you, Monica, for sharing your loving and wonderful Mother with me. My love to you all. Cousin Kathy Martins Sandru"
John Townsend - November 24, 2.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Hi Mom. Missing you lots today. Sam has your nose and your spirit. Thoughts of you bring me tearfulled smiles... we had a nice Thanksgiving being with family we felt your spirit but didn't taste your deviled eggs. I love you, Mom. Your Son, John"
Yvonne Daniels - November 18, .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Carrie, We are so very sorry for your loss. Your mom was a very special person and I am sure you take after her. I used to babysit for you when you were very young and I saw you when you were approximately 13. I just wanted you to know your mom will always be in your heart! She was so much fun."
Karen, Rob and Gabby Davis - N.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Happy Birthday Marty- we all miss you so very much. Frank, John, Monica, Carrie, Adam and everyone- just a little note to say that we are thinking of you today! With Love, Karen Rob & Gabby"
Erin Dwyer - November 10, 2007.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"My condolences on a life lost too soon. My heart goes out to the whole family. A former "Birchwooder""
Evelyn Crouch Au - November 10.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"To Martha's loving family and friends: While I had not the close friendship with my cousin, Martha, my parents, Catharine & Charles Crouch, did have a warm relationship with her. The most warm condolences are sent to each and every one with the absence of her presence, her voice and smile. Her dedication to helping others is a tribute to her caring spirit, an example for each one to ponder. May the Lord bless her spirit and move her ever closer to Our Father. Thank you for sharing her picture. I extend my prayers for her along with yours. Your cousin, Evelyn C. Au age 66, current student in a career school, former social worker, current caretaker for two grddaughters. God Bless you all."
Gerri Bugg - November 07, 2007.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Carrie, Monica, John and Adam, I am so sorry to hear of the death of your Mom. She was such a warm and caring person and always one of my favorite relatives. Last month when visiting my mom, we were transferring slides to disc and found some Christmas slides with Marty and Carrie and Amber and I was reminded of how much I enjoyed your Mom when I was a teen and young woman. To a midwest girl she was California, edgy and could light up a room. My thoughts are with you. Gerri Bugg"
Jaclyn Nakos - November 07, 20.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Mr.Scott Mrs.Scoot Alyssa and Katie, I'm so sorry about GeemaI think that's how you spell it. She was a wonderful lady and I never saw her without a smile on her face. She always knew how to make everyone laugheven herself. I'll miss her too and the memory of her will stay with me forever. Love, Jackie"
Brian Lima - November 07, 2007.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"much love to the family! my prayers! all the best, Brian Lima San Diego, Middletwon!"
VickieLedsworth Willis - Novem.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Carrie, Monica,John,Adam and families, I was very sorry to hear of your mother's sudden death. My thoughts are with you as you heal from your loss. The description of your Mom as fun loving, passionate and a free spirit captured those aspects that we all loved so much about her and will remember her for!! She touched us all in a very positive way!! My best to all of you. I send my love and prayers. Vickie"
Monica Martins - November 06, .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Carrie,John and Adam- I think that Wil Said it best. "Mom, I have an empty space , because grandma is gone" And we will for a long time but Mom gave us so much. Mom taught us how to live everyday and to appreciate the small things. She was a great, nuturing and selfless mother. A support system for so many of us. We have a lot to live up to!! I love you all. Love, Monica"
Denise B. Doucette - November .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Family of Marty: I NEVER saw Marty without her trademark smile. She was a joy & a pleasure to work with. She will be greatly missed by coworkers & clients alike. Peace & strength to all of you. Sincerely, Denise B. Doucette, RN"
John Stratford - November 06, .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Frank, Monica, John and Adam - I'm very, very sorry for your loss. I was out of town and just found out. I am having a difficult time finding the right words. You all are wonderful people who will carry her spirit with you forever."
Scott Baker - November 06, 200.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Adam, As I read all the beautiful condolences from the people who love your Mom and your family, I am reminded of how special she was and will always and forever be in our hearts and minds. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Love Scott"
Walter and Abbe Heath - Novemb.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear John, Suzette, and Ben, We are very sad to hear of your loss. Though I only knew her briefly, I know how much you all love her. Our condolences go out to you and your family. Take care of each other, Walter and Abbe"
Pat & Allen Ulm - November 05,.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear sweetest friend, wife, mother and grandmother, Marty held us all so closely. My friend from kindergarden, sharing her family, her pranks and good times, never to be forgotten. Pat & Allen Ulm"
Karen Ferris Gauthier - Novemb.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Mr. Santos, Monica, John and Adam I was very saddened to see this in the paper today. I am very sorry for your loss. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I am glad that I got to spend some time with her this past summer. always happy always a smile onher face."
Jeff and Ellen Marshall - Nove.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Adam, We are so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful ceremony that showed what a wonderful mom, wife and person your mom was. Keep all your wonderful memories close to your heart. I am sure your mom is smiling down on you at all times. Love, Ellen and Jeff"
Patricia Mitchell - November 0.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Frank, I'm shocked to hear of Martha passing, my prayers go out to you."
Jim and Jackie Cline - Novembe.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"My heart aches with the sadness that I know is in all your hearts as it is in mine. We can find confort in knowing that Marty is with God and Amber and her other members of her family that have went on before her. I pray that you all will feel Gods love and find comfort knowing she is in his hands. I love you all so much. Aunt Jackie and Uncle Jim"
Patrick and Parisa Buffington .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Frank, Carrie, Monica, John and Adam We are truely saddened to hear of the loss of Marty and wish we could be there with you on this difficult day. We will always remember her laugh and the way her smile made us feel part of the family. Her spirit will live on through you and her grandchildren. With much love and sympathy, Patrick and Parisa"
Patrick and Shannon Sullivan -.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Adam, Your mother will be missed greatly by all of us. Yesterday, was a beautiful tribute to a wonderful lady. She would have been very proud of you. Love, Pat and Shannon"
Chris Ledsworth - November 04,.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Your mother was always special to me. She was a great person. I will always remember her smile. Chris Ledsworth and Family"
Chris McCartin - November 04, .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Adam, I'm sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Chris"
Erin Ritz & Family - November .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Martha was a sweet vibrant wonderful woman. My daughter Grace continues to cherish the dress she made for her last spring. Warmest Aloha, The Ritz Family"
Carrie Scott - November 04, 20.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Monica,John and Adam, We were so lucky and blessed to have such a wonderful,nurturing,and fun-loving mother. Always remember how her heart and home have always been open to everyone. Pass on her memory to your chidren. Never forget she always wanted us to follow the golden rule;"treat others the way you would want to be treated". I love you guys."
Nick & Sheena LaShomb - Novemb.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Uncle John and the Townsend family, We are so very sorry for your loss. Sheena and I will keep all of you in our prayers. May God bless you during this time of mourning. With Love, Nick & Sheena"
Chris Nakos - November 03, 200.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Carrie, Jeff, Alyssa and Katie, Our deepest sympathies on the loss of your Mom and grandmother. She was such a wonderful lady. As I have thought of Marty so many times over the last several days, I always see her smiling. She always had a bit of an impish grin like she was up to something. I loved that. She always made me smile. Certainly she will watch down over all of you and guide you through your lives as she has always done. I hope that the memories of the wonderful person that she was help you through this difficult time. We are all here for you. With love, The Nakos"
Paula Langbehn - November 03, .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Adam and Sarah, We are so sorry for your loss and will say a special prayer for you all. Kyle, Paula, Trent, and Cole Langbehn"
Lynne Roe - November 03, 2007 .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Carrie, Jeff, Alyssa, and Katie, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom/grandmother. Marty was the best and I will remeber her fondly with a smile on her face and always willing to lend a hand. My thoughts, prayers, and strength are always with you. If you need anything please let me know! Find strength in eachother and know that you have so much love and support around you. Love and prayers always, Lynne"
Kate and Edward Bidlack - Nove.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Adam and Family, We are heartbroken to hear of your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Never hesitate to ask anything of us to help you in your time of need. With deepest sympathy, Mr. and Mrs. Edward Bidlack"
Mimi McGinty - November 03, 20.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Adam & Sarah, Being 3000 miles away is difficult right now. Ryan and I are thinking of you and wishing we could be with you both. May your thoughts be filled with wonderful memories of Marty. Much love, Mimi & Ryan McGinty"
Pam Hable - November 03, 2007 .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Adam and Sarah, Please accept my sympathy for the sudden loss of your mother. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers."
Steph Laurin - November 03, 20.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Adam, I am truly sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers."
Rosemary Davidson - November 0.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Family, I remember Marty as a young mother raising her family on Valhalla Drive in Portsmouth. My family lived on Viking Drive and the girls all played together. How I vividly remember the heartbreak of the loss of Amber. My family and I send my sympathy to you all. Remember the good times and the love. Sincerely, Rosemary Davidson"
Cindy, Jerry, Shannyn and Bryanna Burns.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Carrie, Jeff, Alyssa and Katie, Our heartfelt prayers and sympathies are always with you."
Lydia Davis - November 03, 200.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear John, Adam, and family, Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family in the loss of your mother. You're in our thoughts and prayers. Lydia, Christine, Brian, & Michelle Davis"
Lucy Bulliet - November 03, 20.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Martha and I met when we were 12 years old. We stood next to each other in gym class she was Crouch, I was Cherry. She started making wise-cracks, and I was instantly charmed. Martha as she was called then never judged people, and she never complained, which makes her almost unique! We just celebrated our 50th high school reunion in San Diego, and I feel so blessed to have had that time with her--we stayed with Pat Farrar Ulm--so we had extra time to hang out and be teen agers again. I can't grasp that she's gone--there's no one like her. Lucy Bulliet New York, NY"
Matt and Amy Ruggiero - Novemb.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"John, Suzette and Ben, Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this time of great loss."
Marian Seguin - November 02, 2.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Carrie, Monica, John and Adam. I want you to know how much I wish I could be there to personally hug each and every one of you. Your Mother was a one of a kind person who touched the lives of all she met. I am so thankful to have had time with her when she and Frank visited here last spring. We shared so many memories and laughs. She worshiped each of you as well as her grandchildren. I am sure she was a wonderful grandmother. Please know that I am always here to talk or share with. Love, Aunt Marian"
Karen, Rob and Gabby Davis - N.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"If there was ever a true angel that lived on this earth it was Marty! She touched the lives of so many people including ours-and for this we feel so blessed. I close my eyes at night and I see her beautiful smile and I know in my heart she is watching down on all of her family and friends. As we will miss seeing Marty-I have no doubt that she will live on in all of us! Her kindness and loving nature was and still is so contagious. We not only loved Marty, we loved her entire family-so to them I extend my shoulder to lean on, my arms to hug and my ears to listen at anytime. Suzette and John: We will be here for you anytime-just call! Ben and "Baby Sam": Aunt Karen, Uncle Rob and cousin Gabby loves you very much and we are here for you too! We wish all of those mourning the loss of this amazing woman our deepest condolences. With our Love Karen Rob and Gabby Davis"
Kirsten King - November 02, 20.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Marty was a wonderful woman who touched the lives of so many, and I feel blessed to be one of them."
Matthew Tsimikas - November 02.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Adam & John, I want to express to you and your families my deepest sympathy. Mothers are truly one of a kind. Let her memory live on through you, your love and the life you live. May her soul rest in peace. Sincerely, Matthew Tsimikas"
Anthony Rego Jr - November 02,.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Frank, Sorry to hear of your loss"
Gina Piszcz - November 02, 200.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"John, Suzette, Ben and baby.... Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. With Love and Sympathy ~ Gina"
Patty Bedinger - November 02, .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Carrie, Jeff, Alyssa, Katie, and family, My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Over time may the memories of Marty bring peace and smiles to your hearts. I know I will miss her she always could make me smile. I watched her be a wonderful mother and a FUN loving grandmother. She was very special I'm honored to have known her! Peace & Love, Patty"
Paul Tsimikas - November 02, 2.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"To Adam and Family, I am very sorry for your of the passing of your mother. May she rest in eternal peace. Paul Tsimikas"
Dan and Paula Baker - November.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Adam and Family, Your mother's smiling picture reminds us of all the happy memories you have of her. She loved all her children so much and we always remember her glowing at every special event. How proud she was of you and always will be! Know this: whenever you think of her, that means she's thinking of you. Take comfort from that and from the sympathy of so many who love you. Love, Dan and Paula"
John Townsend - November 02, 2.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Mom... my heart is heavy and my eyes are full, your love was embracing to myself and all. I'll forever miss you, Mom and await the day I'll see you again. Your son, John"
Christopher and Kiersten Brennan wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Adam, My sincerest and deepest condolences. She was a wonderful lady. Chris and Kier"
John Ledsworth and Bonnie Finn.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"John and I want to express our deep and heartfelt sympathy over the loss of Marty. What a wonderful mother and grandmother she was. So many will miss her contagious laugh, including us. Again, our deepest sympathies."
The Sheerin Family - November .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Adam, we were very saddened to hear of the loss of your mother. Our thoughts and prayers our with you and your family during this difficult time."
The Paolo Family - November 02.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear John, Suzette and Ben; Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you all. Your mother always had a smile on her face and was such a friendly, happy and beautiful person. I always loved seeing Ben's face light up when he saw her. May all the wonderful memories you have give you some comfort in this difficult time."
Danielle and Nick Williams - N.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Adam and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and we love you all very much. Your mother was a lovely person and will be greatly missed."
Harvey Roadcap - November 02, .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Adam and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. My deepest sympathy, Harvey"
Paul and Sue Beard - November .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Adam and Family - Our deepest condolences go out to you on your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Paul and Sue Beard"
Karen and Bill Rafferty - Nove.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Adam and family, We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother, who clearly was a wonderful person. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Karen and Bill Rafferty"
Suzette Townsend - November 02.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"As I sit here looking at your picture, I am reminded of what a wonderful, loving, caring and giving person you were to so many people. To me, you were my "mom" in heart and spirit. I will miss you beyond words. Thank for being a loving mom to John, grandmom to Ben and for taking care of me for 11 years. I love you."
Lisa Molino - November 02, 200.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"My thoughts and prayers to the family at this time. I am truly sorry for your loss. I can tell she was an amazing woman - I did not know her, but I know John."
Michelle Mercer-Burke - Novemb.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"John, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers."
Paige Ryan Goulart - November .. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Family Members of Marty "Mom", My heart goes out to all of you. "Mom" was a loving and caring person who could light up the room with her smile and laughter. I have such fond memories of the time I spent with your family and most certainly feel your loss. May "Mom's" fun, loving, and caring ways continue to live on in all of you and may your memories of her help bring comfort. She will live on within us as we all have a piece of her in our hearts. With love and sympathy, Paige Ryan Goulart"
Philip Sharon Pelletier - Nove.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Sharon and I send our deepest sympathies to you and the entire family. Marty was a wonderful, kind person. A truly remarkable wife, mother, grandmother and lady. She will be deeply missed by all, including Charlie."
Jonathan, Lisa & Avery - Novem.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dear Adam, We were saddened to hear the news of the sudden loss of your Mother. Words seem so inadequate, but with this note come our hearts filled with love and sympathy for you and your family during this difficult time. Her joy for life and kind spirit will be a cherished memory always."
Kendra and David Clark - Novem.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Adam - We are very sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Dave, Kendra, and Mackenzie Clark"
Richardson - November 02, 2007.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Our heart goes out to the Townsend and Santos families with the kindest condolences. Mrs. Santos was such a very special person."
The Dowd Family - November 02,.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Santos and Townsend families during this difficult time."
Peter and Pam Pelletier - Nove.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Adam Pam and I are very sorry and shocked to hear of the loss of your mother. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Peter and Pam"
Carol and Brendan Smith - Nov.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"Dearest Adam, We send to you and your family our deepest sympathy on the sudden loss of your Mother Martha. Your love of life and kindness to everyone is surely a refection of her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Love Carol and Brendan"
Ty Ogunlesi - November 02, 200.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"May God comfort and uplift your family during this trying period. And may her soul rest in perfect peace."
Adam Sargent & Family - Novemb.. wrote on Oct 31, 2007:
"My family is very sorry for the loss. We just believe she's in a much better place now."