In loving memory of

Patricia Walsh
October 30, 1930 - April 29, 2008

Middletown, RI - Patricia L. Sullivan Walsh, 77, of the John Clarke Retirement Center, Middletown, RI, formerly of Eustis Avenue, Newport, died on Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at the retirement center. She was the wife of the late Peter A. Walsh, former owner of Walsh Brothers Furniture Store. Born in Queens, NY on October 30, 1930, she was the daughter of the late Charles Patrick and Dorothea Stuart Sullivan.Mrs. Walsh was a graduate of House of Pines High School in Taunton, MA and a 1952 graduate of Salve Regina College. She owned and operated the Patique Shop for 15 years on Memorial Boulevard and was also a CDC for Court 110. Pat was involved with the 1st Bookmobile of the Newport Public Library, helped feed the homeless at the McKinney Shelter every holiday with her family, was on the former board of Cluny School and modeled for Fashion Shows for charities. She is survived by her children, Peter Walsh and his wife, Kitty; and Patrick Walsh and his wife, Annie, all of Maui, Hawaii; Patricia Walsh Haskell and her husband, Todd, of Cardiff, CA; Kathleen Beaumarchais and her husband, Don, of Carlsbad, CA; Maureen Mimi Carrellas and her husband, Dr. Robert Carrellas, and Erin Hebel and her husband, Dr. Glen Hebel, all of Middletown, RI; Colleen Calabrese and her husband Michael, of Tallahassee, FL; and Jennifer Gigi Smith and her husband, Brad, of Sarasota, FL. She is also survived by her brother Shaun S. Sullivan and his wife, Bonnie, of New Haven, CT; her sister Maureen DeAngelo and her husband, Larry of Norfolk, VA; her grandchildren, Ian, Luke, Dennis, Shaun, Nathan and Dylan Walsh, all of Maui, Hawaii, Jake and Andy Beaumarchais of Carlsbad, CA, Nicholas, Madeline, Julia and Peter Carrellas of Middletown, RI, Ryan, Emily, Kenleigh and Jonathon Hebel of Middletown, RI, Stephen and Patrick Calabrese of Tallahassee, FL and McKenzie and Addison Smith of Sarasota, FL, and many nieces and nephews. Her funeral will be held on Tuesday, May 6, 2008 at 8:00am from the Memorial Funeral Home, 375 Broadway, Newport, with a Mass of Christian Burial at 9:00am in St. Lucys Church, 909 West Main Road, Middletown. Burial will be in St. Columbas Cemetery in Middletown.Calling hours will be held on Monday, May 5, 2008 from 4-8 pm in the funeral home. Donations in her memory may be made to Visiting Nurse Services of Newport and Bristol Counties, Hospice Care, 1184 East Main Road, Portsmouth, RI 02871.

Tributes

ed king - June 12, 2008 at 12:.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"Dear Walsh Family I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. She was a Great Lady, just look at all her children and gran children. Ed King and Family"

Mimi Carrellas - June 11, 2008.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"Wish you were here, I have so much to tell you! Love Mimi"

Russell Allen - May 31, 2008 a.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"Patrick, Peter, Mimi, Gigi & Family, I'M so sorry to hear about mom. And Gigi, I have met her and I will never forget her. I copied your wonderful writings along with the others. I remember it well, back in the 1970s surfing and skateboarding with Patrick. Pat & I would pop into the house and Mom would always have some Food & Drink for us. When she walked into the room it got brighter. She Set The Standard for all the Beautiful Young Women in the Walsh House. Hanging with Patrick had Exceptional Perks. So many great memories and conversations with Mom, she really pumped it into us to Keep Our Standards High and don't settle for second best. How could I forget those kind words. God Bless and I hope to see you all some day. I don't normally post my e-mail addy for fear of Spam. Patrick & All, Drop me a line if you wish. palmbeachflorida@aol.com Sincerely, Russell Allen"

KEITH LAUDER - May 10, 2008 at.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"MIMI,SO SORRY TO HERE OF YOUR MOTHERS PASSING.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME.KEITH"

Mimi - May 10, 2008 at 12:00 A.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"Mom tomorrow is Mother's Day and I cannot tell you how much I miss you! You were a great mother!"

Gigi Walsh Smith - May 08, 200.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"Have You Met Her? By Gigi Walsh Smith Thatâ??s my beautiful mother over there. The woman with class and manners to share. Did you notice the pink nails and lipstick just right? Her coiffed hair and clothes made her a perfect sight. The Patique Shoppe was her job during the day And feeding kids and doing homework went along the way. The dinners were the best of times for the family of ten. Weâ??d sit down and eat in the cozy kitchen, like our den. Could the milk or ketchup sit on the table for ease? No, my motherâ??s etiquette would be there for teachings to please. I hear her voice in my head, â??Donâ??t snap your gum, your jeans have holes, pull your hair back, and ladies donâ??t sweat.â?A My girls have heard these phrases a few timesâ?¦donâ??t you bet? Getting ready for a night out alone with my dad would be great Could you imagine how busy life was with us eight? Her perfume would linger and the look of her face would make me want to resemble this woman of grace. It was hard after my dad died you see. It was the house with just Erin, Mom, and Me. Her life wasnâ??t the same without Pete, my Dad, to take care of her. She had to learn the ropes of life very quickly and became independent for sure. The kids, the grandkids, and the friends sheâ??ll no longer see Will remember the times with Nanu, Pat, and Patty. The summers at the beach or the talks on the phone, Made each day here or away never seem alone. Remember the Creamery bucket of green and white And the Hollywood Cold Cream sheâ??d lather at sunâ??s first sight? Her chair at Hazardâ??s would always let others know That each summer sheâ??ll be there even as her children would grow. The woman of culture, poise, and grace, weâ??ll no longer see, But her friends and children will honor her memory. Did you think the mother of eight would go without a fight? She was not willing give up, not even on her last night. The #14bathhouse, the car, the big house she had to see let go Made her the humble, strong woman you know. What she did for her children, she did on her own. Pat, wasnâ??t a quitter, but a fighter made of stone. The days will seem long and times will be sad, But cherish the memories and stories that we all can say we had. Her style, beauty, love and grace She passed on to her grandchildren, to take over her place. I wish to be like the mother I will treasure The love and sacrifices she gave, no one can measure. The days will pass, but her presence will be Found in each person in this large family. Iâ??ve met the woman, I wanted to be She guided me through life so I could see That letting go is the hardest thing to do Remember Mom, Iâ??ll always love you!"

Marie Twomey - May 08, 2008 at.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"When I learned of Mrs. Walsh's passing I was flooded with memories from my childhood. Colleen and I were great friends for years, and there were times when I spent as much time on Eustis as I did on Gibbs. Your house was so different from mine -- for one thing, there were kids everywhere! I always thought it was great fun to visit. I particularly remember that huge communal bathroom up on the third floor. I also recall learning some important things from Colleen, like how to use a filched piece of a charcoal briquette to draw hopscotch grids, and that one of the finest delicacies on the planet is raw chocolate chip cookie dough straight out of the package. I, too, remember how tan, stylish, and well-put-together your Mom always was, even though I can't imagine how she found time for herself. I also remember hauling all of your O'Hanley cousins furniture to the store to be stowed away there for winter. Best of all, when I think of your childhood home I remember that it always seemed to be filled with laughter, smiles and fun. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you."

May 08, 2008 at 12:00 AM wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"Momâ??s Eulogy, Patricia Loretta Walsh Thank you all for coming today to honor the life of Pat Walsh my mother for 53 years. I am Patâ??s oldest daughter, Trish and I thought it would be a great gift to deliver Momâ??s eulogy. The relationship between a mother and daughter creates a bond unlike any other, between two people. She was the first one to give me life and love. Losing a mother is like losing a part of yourself that cannot be replaced. I have much consolation in the good feelings my memories give me. However, Mom would not want us to focus on the sadness of her death, but instead look at the happiness we still have in our lives. She always told me that we all have so much to be grateful for. Iâ??ve had some wonderful runs through Newport over the last few weeks while Mom was sleeping and so many great memories came to me. Mom was born in Queens, New York on October 30, 1930. She was the oldest daughter of the late Charles and Dorothea Stuart Sullivan. She also had a younger brother Shaun and younger sister Maureen. The family eventually settled into Newport where she graduated from Salve Regina College in 1952. Shortly after she met my father, Peter Walsh, fell in love, married and settled on Tuckerman Ave. Momâ??s father died in a fishing accident off of Ledge Road at 40 years old and Momâ??s mother passed away four years later from cancer. Mom took in and raised her younger brother Shaun and younger sister Maureen after her mother passed away. A year later in 1953, Mom had her first son Peter and she was pregnant for the next six years straight and we were all 10 months apart. She somehow made pregnancy look easy and she was gorgeous. She also managed to model at charity fashion shows in between her pregnancies. When the family started growing she and Dad moved to his original 19 room house on Eustis Ave. She eventually had 8 children- 6 girls and 2 boys. She smiled easily, laughed often, and was a genuinely nice person. Mom was her own person. She had her own style and was the epitome of class and timeless glamour. Mom loved the ocean and the beach. She lived for the summer and was a warm weather girl at heart. We are all grateful that she instilled in us all a love for the ocean and the beach. All 8 of us live in striking distance to the beach. I think Mom was the tannest person in Newport and could always be found at her spot on the right side of Hazardâ??s Beach every summer. When I moved away, I loved coming home from California to spend a week in the summer in Newport and would say to her â??Mom you know itâ??s not cool to be tan any longerâ?A, but she didnâ??t care, she loved the sun and looking like Miss Palm Beach in her bright colors of pink, green, turquoise and white. In the last two weeks of her life, Mom said there was a sale at Old Navy and Talbotâ??s and sent me out looking for a yellow top since she was tired of wearing pink, green, turquoise and white. I found one for her. She was very social, loved to entertain and cook. She was the most incredible hostess. For those lucky enough to be invited to one of her fabulous parties you know what Iâ??m talking about. Everything she served was made from scratch. I also have fond memories of Mom making all eight of us homemade pound cake with fresh vanilla frosting for each of our birthdays every year. While Dad was working at the furniture store Mom made sure we had every lesson available, tennis, swimming, diving, sewing, cooking, sailing, piano, and ballet. She provided us with memberships to skate and play hockey at St. Georgeâ??s and also at the Casino for tennis. And how about all that driving to and from all these activities. Mom wanted us all to be well rounded, sent us to catholic private schools and taught us about good values and manners. She gave us the perfect upbringing that made us the women and men we are today. There were many advantages to being raised in a large family. When it came time for Hazardâ??s Beach annual costume party Mom always was pretty creative. One year we all went as a baseball team, the Red Soxâ??s of co"

Moira Libby - May 05, 2008 at .. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"She was my friend and I will miss her. However, I have wonderful memories of you all and those I shall carry forever. I kept up with you all through her,so now I ask that you all stay in touch with me once in awhile. Coleen please send me your email so I can write to you. Much love to you all Moira"

Patty Carney - May 05, 2008 at.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. I've lost track of all of you over the years but remember with a smile the times I was a "mother's helper" to your Mom when I was in high school. She was a great lady and a role model to me too - lots of good memories. How she ever kept that giant house and all you kids going with a smile on her face and looking like a million bucks - I don't know. My thoughts are with you guys. Love, Patty Carney"

Bob Decker - May 05, 2008 at 1.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"Dear Patricia My Condolence and prays go out to your family, as it is a great loss to lose a mother. I am sure your memories will be with your family and friends forever. R.I. will never be the same without you but your memory will live on forever. Much love to you and all your family !"

Raymond Walsh - May 05, 2008 a.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"I'm sorry for your loss - having been through this recently with my mom, I know how difficult this is for all of you. You had a wonderful Mom - I will remember you all in my thoughts and prayers. With love - your cousin, Raymond Walsh"

Mimi - May 04, 2008 at 12:00 A.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"Mom, I miss you and love you so much! Mimi"

PATTI JOHNSON - May 04, 2008 a.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"DEAR PAT'S FAMILY, LOOSING A PARENT IS DIFFICULT. YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPEN IN YOUR MIND WAS THE BEST FOR PAT BUT IN YOU HEART WE DON'T WANT TO LET GO. I HAD THE PLEASURE TO KNOWING PAT FOR MANY YEARS THROUGH HER VISITS AT NEWPORT HAIRQUARTERS AND THEN AT MY HOUSE. WE HAD MANY LAUGHS AND SHARE THE SAME HEALTH PROBLEM, WE UNDERSTOOD WHAT WE WERE GOING THROUGH. HER FAMILY MEANT ALOT TO HER AND SHE ALWAYS HAD A STORY TO TELL WITH MANY LAUGHS. MY THROUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU AT THIS TIME. GOD BLESS"

Denise Cerelli - May 04, 2008 .. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"To me losing your Mom is like losing your best friend amongst so other things. Trish Patâ??s oldest daughter is my best friend and I canâ??t image my life without her. So, I deeply feel for all her kids, grandkids, family members and friends. The void will never be replaced but a reminder that she is always with you. Thinking of you All Denise Cerelli"

annette fougere duke - May 04,.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"To Pats family, I had the honor of spending time over the last two months with your beautiful mother. I couldn't tell her enough what a inspiring family she had raised. But she knew that. She cherished you all. I told your mom what a privilege it was to be spending time with a woman who took care of me as a teenager helping me pick out sweaters. We both agreed it was very special for us. I miss her just like I would my own mother right now. I want to make her baked stuff shrimp. I want to thank all of you for letting me spend the precious time I did, with your mom. She is at peace, that I know. Sincerely, Annette Duke Fougere"

Madeline Corey - May 03, 2008 .. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"To the children of Pat Walsh, I am so sorry for your loss. With sincere sympathy, Madeline Elshant Corey"

Trish Walsh-Haskell - May 03, .. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"It's true what they say, you can never really understand what it's like until it happens to you. Losing a mother is like losing a part of yourself that cannot be replaced. Mom made everybody fell comfortable around her, family, friends even strangers. Everybody. She smiled easily, laughed often and was a nice person. In her final hours Mom's will was strong, full of hope and she never complained. There are only a handful of people who come into your world and touch your life in a dramatic fashion. Mom was one of them. Thank you for all you've been and all you have done for family and friends. Mom, you have graced our lives more than you will ever know. God bless you now, we love you and always will. May the memories of Mom stay alive in your hearts. She was a beautiful women, inside and out. I loved her more than these words can convey."

Gigi Walsh Smith - May 03, 200.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"Iâ??ve met the woman, I wanted to be She guided me through life so I could see That letting go is the hardest thing to do Remember Mom, Iâ??ll always love you!"

Edward Cooney - May 02, 2008 a.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"Pat was influential in helping me to grow into a young man and I will always be grateful for the kindness and support she showed me. She will always be in my thoughts."

Bill Stone - May 02, 2008 at 1.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"Dear Mimi - I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers these days. with sincere sympathy, Bill"

Lizzy St. John Nielsen - May 0.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"So very sorry for your loss. We St. John's voted Pat in as "life time best neighbor!!""

Charlotte StJohn - May 01, 200.. wrote on Apr 29, 2008:

"Pat was a good neighbor, and a great friend. I missed her so much when I moved to Florida, but we kept in touch by phone. Sometimes not for months on end, but we always picked up where we left off. She will never be gone, as she will always have a place in my heart."