"Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. With symphathy, Heather"
In loving memory of
Judith Stevens
April 27, 1939 - April 6, 2009
Judith Judy Miriam Vincent Stevens, 69, passed away peacefully at home in Portsmouth, RI, with family by her side on Monday, April 6, 2009.Born in Hartford, CT, on April 27, 1939, Judy was the daughter of the late Joseph P. Vincent and Rowena Washburn Vincent Merrill. She was the middle sibling of 3 children and a step sister. As a child, she enjoyed fishing with her Dad and outdoor activities. Judy graduated from Wakefield High School, Alexandria VA in 1957 and went on to Bay Path College in Longmeadow, MA, graduating in 1959. In 1960, she and her sister were the first few administrative assistants at Raytheon in Newport, RI. In 1962, she married Frank M. Stevens, Jr., in Newport, RI. Judy raised 3 children starting in 1964, living in Rochester, New York and eventually settling in Portsmouth, RI. Along with caring for and raising her children, being an avid gardener, expert seamstress, crafty homemaker, she spent a period of time employed at the Portsmouth Abbey and Raytheon, both of Portsmouth, RI. After retiring in the early 90s, Judy spent a brief time working as a home companion. She was able to take up her gardening full time, taking in many feline companions over the years, volunteering at the Robert Potter League, traveling with friends to Bermuda; Italy with her brother and sister in-law; Seaworld and Disneyworld with her children and grandchildren, and most recently, Ireland with her son, Kevin. Judy also enjoyed many fun events and the sisterhood of many within the Healing CoOp thru her illness.In addition to being a devoted Mom, Judy, was a loving grandmother, aunt, sister, stepsister, stepdaughter and friend whose spirit of strength and support will be greatly missed. Judy leaves a daughter, Pamela and son in-law, Ken Reynolds and their 2 children, Matthew and Justin of Middletown, RI; a son, Kevin Stevens of Cambridge, MA; a son, Gregg Stevens and daughter in-law, Kristina Kline of Clermont, FL; a brother, Joseph P. Vincent, Jr. and sister in-law, Elizabeth MacAulay of Norwood, MA; a stepsister, Patricia Merrill and brother in-law Richard Budd of Portland, ME; a step-dad, USN Ret. Capt. Sidney D. B. Merrill and his wife Terry Winiarski of Portsmouth, RI; along with nieces and nephews, Rolf and Eric Budd, Andrea Larison-Masch and her family, Johnny Larison, Patrick Vincent as well as Judys 2 feline companions, Buddy and Samantha. She joins her late sister, Barbara Vincent Larison.A memorial service will be held on Saturday, April 11, 2009, at 11:00 in St. Marys Episcopal Church, 324 East Main Road, Portsmouth. Burial to follow in St. Marys Churchyard.In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to the following: The Healing Co-Op, 272 Mitchells Lane, Middletown, RI 02842 www.thehealingcoop.org, The Visiting Nurse Services of Newport County, 1184 East Main Road, Portsmouth, RI 02871 www.vnsri.com; St. Marys Episcopal Church, 324 East Main Road, Portsmouth, RI 02871 www.saintmarysepiscopalchurch.org.
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"Dear Kevin and family. I have worked with Kevin for over 10 years. I've known him as a very caring and devoted son. The trip to Ireland Kevin shared with his mother is a lasting memory. In this time of her loss you can look back with fond memories. Through your mother's illness my thoughts and prays were with you. God Bless. Jim E"
"Dear Pam, Kevin & Greg, What a joy it has been to know Judy and have her bright spirit be a part of our "sisterhood" here at the Co-Op. You all took such exquisite care of your mom and I know that made her feel very special and happy. We will forever miss her presence here with us. With love, Linda and The Healing Co-Operative"
"Dear Pam, Kevin, Gregg and your families, Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your mother and grandmother. We are on the road heading for home from AZ so sadly can't be there for the funeral. Judy was my dear friend and her memory will always be with me. I will miss her. Sympathy and prayers, Ruth and Norman Siebens"
"we were so sorry to hear that Judy had passed. She has been in our prayers since she found out she had cancer. I sent a card to her home around the day before she died. I had tried to send on the Caring Bridge website but never could get it to go through. My husband, Paul, tried also and he's much better with the computer than I am. I have so much enjoyed the conversations with Judy especially after Bobbi Larison, her sister, died. She and Bobbi sounded so much alike on the phone. As Andrea said, "they must be enjoying each others company again and going shopping if there is shopping in Heaven." I was glad to get to talk to Gregg one week on the phone and Kevin the last week and Anrea too since I didn't have her correct number in Richmond. We are lifting all you guys up in prayer. Paul and I both lost our mothers to cancer so we can somewhat understand, but only God knows what's in each person's heart at a time like this. Keep in touch. Love, June"
"Pam and family, Kevin, and Greg, I am saddened to hear of your mother's death. I offer my deepest sympathy. She was such a beautiful person and a dear friend. I shall always remember her smile and fun-loving ways. May God bless you with peace. Rosemary"
"Dear Family, I shared many visits with your mother. We'd met at Raytheon and later became friends. She's been to my house, and I hers when she was on Fischer Circle. Many nice phone calls. I thought she was a beautiful person, both inside and out. So sad to have seen the obituary. Sorry, we'll be in CT. and cannot attend her services. Greg, you went to school with our daughter, Kristen Lenzi now Raposa and they're in CT. God Bless you all. Shirley Lenzi"
"Dear Kevin, I am so sorry for the lost of your mother. Sympathy, Nuvee"
"Kevin, My family and I extent our condolence to you and yours during this time of bereavement."
"Pam, Ken and Family, My thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family. She is no longer in pain, so embrace the memories."
"Kevin and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you."
"Pam, Sorry to hear of your lost.Remember the good times they last forever"
"Pam, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. With sympathy, Your friend Carollynn..."
"Pam and family - my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Hold on to the happy memories, laughing times and bright and sunny days."
"Pam, Kenny and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time."
"I had not met her but she has been and is very much in my prayers. I look forward to meeting Kevin's siblings, nephews, and other relatives. My sincere condolences, Johnny"
"Dear Family, Judy was a beautiful person who was kind to all. I met her thru mutual friends and my husband also knew her from Raytheon. Our deepest sympathy."
"My prayers are with Judy's family. I will always remember her warm smile."
"Pam- You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. May you find yourself surrounded with love from family and friends. With Deepest Sympathy Kim Casey"
"Dear Pam, Kevin, Greg and all the Stevens family. May God's love guide you during this time of sorrow. God Bless, Anne-Marie Parent"
"Pam and family, I am so sorry about your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you."
"To Pam & Family: You have my deepest sympathies and profoundest admiration for the care and courage you've displayed through the most difficult time any and all of us must experience. Peace."
"Pam and Family....You are in my thoughts and prayers. May you find strength during this difficult time through the many years of memories you hold so dear."
"Pam,Kevin,Gregg; My sympathy goes to all of you during this hard time. Your Mom was a lovely person filled to the brim with goodness for others. She was so loving and talented as well. She will be missed! I will always remember the wonderful cookies she baked and brought to Raytheon where I first met her in 1960. I know how proud you were of her; she was quite simply a very special person who will be missed. I send my love to all of you and your families. Gretchen Kelly."
"Pam and family, I know no words can really help ease the pain of your loss right now, but know that you are very close in every thought and prayer. Peace... Shelley Amaral"
"Pam and family.....My thoughts, prayers and love are with you during this time. All my love, Beth, Paul, Mitchell and Casey"
"My heartfelt condolences to your family and friends. May you find comfort in the sharing of warm memories of your loved one."
"My heart goes out to Judy's family. Words aren't adequate to express my sorrow at Judy's passing. Suffice it to say, it was a privilege to have had her in my life as a loving and loyal friend. Our years of friendship date back to Wakefield High School. I will miss Judy, let there be no doubt of that...as will her family."