"Liz and Krisite, I'm very sorry for your loss. I have many memories of Phil as a young man and father that keep playing through my mind. I hope that your own memories will offer some comfort. Love Aunt Susan"
Phillip E. Brian, 63, of 150 East Shore Road, Jamestown, RI, died Tuesday, October 26, 2010, at South County Hospital, Wakefield, RI. He was the husband of Mary Elizabeth Gayron Brian.Born in New York, NY, on October 27, 1946, he was the son of the late Ernest H. and Mildred Kronk Brian.Phillip grew up in New York and spent his summers on Shelter Island, where he developed a love for the ocean and boats. He spent much of his early life in New York and New Jersey, where he raised his daughter. Phillip began his working career in New York as a purchasing manager. He returned to school for further education, and became a computer programmer for various companies in New Jersey. Throughout his life, Phillip was an industrious and dedicated worker, building furniture and additions to his home, as well as boat models. His analytical skills and thoughtful approach to living rendered him prepared and calm in any crisis. This preparedness served him well, both on land and on the water. He and Liz married in 1990; in 1999, after several years together in New Jersey, they moved to Jamestown, where they remodeled an old summer home and were able to enjoy more time traveling and sailing together. He volunteered for several years at the Museum of Yachting in Newport.Along with his wife of 20 years, he is survived by his daughter Kristine Betlejewski and her husband Jonathan of Plano, TX, and his grandchildren Jonathan and Taylor Betlejewski. His services will be private.Donations in his memory may be made to ACS Astra-Zeneca Hope Lodge Center,125 South Huntington Avenue, Boston, MA, 02130 http://www5.cancer.org/docroot/subsite/hopelodge/ma_boston/azc_index.asp.
"Liz and Krisite, I'm very sorry for your loss. I have many memories of Phil as a young man and father that keep playing through my mind. I hope that your own memories will offer some comfort. Love Aunt Susan"
"Liz, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts. Gary"
"Liz: Heaven for Philip was when he was sailing, and that is where he is now. It is interesting that Bellaire left RI heading south just about the same time Phil left us. Coincidence? Hard to say. My heart goes out to in this difficult time. Life will be tumultuous for a spell, but the sun will rise again. It's just so tough to get from here to there... ...Rob Lawnsby"
"Dear Liz, My thoughts are with you, please let me know when I may pay you a visit, sincerely, Dianne"
"Dear Liz, What a beautiful summary of your husband's life you composed for all of us to see! We never met him, but he sure was a handsome and talented man. I think of you every day. I know from Cynthia that your husband's passing was a blessing, as he had been so sick for so long. It still must be quite traumatic and shocking for you, however, as death is so perplexing. The finality of your loved-one's life has got to take time and deep emotion to grasp fully. When you are ready, we want to take you to a nice restaurant with friends. You are dearly missed! Love, Catherine and Kris"
"Liz, I am so sorry for your loss. May the love and warmth of your friends and family help you get through the sad days ahead. I am still looking forward to beating you at bridge next summer! Barbara Crowell Roy Sachseln, Switzerland"
"What a great guy- loved the sea - could never get enough of it. My cousin - we will all miss you - I have lots of great thoughts of us all growing up at family events with you. Our love to Liz and Christie - Greg &Anne"
"Liz you and his family are in my thoughts and prayers."
"Dear Liz, I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers."
"Dear Liz: I was saddened to hear of Phil's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you need anything do not hesitate to contact me. Love Jim Cumming"
"Dear Liz, you are in my thoughts. May Phil's memory be a blessing."
"My thoughts are with you, Liz, and your family. You were Phil's rock; now it's time for you to lean on others and let us help. Thea"
"May your memories and love of Phil give you peace in the coming days."
"My dear Liz, You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless."
"Liz: My thoughts are with you. I wish I had known Philip. I'll be in touch. What can I do for you? Marcia"
"Liz, All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time and always. Love, Beth"
"Dear Liz, I am so sory to hear of Phil's passing. You are in my prayers."
"I want to express my sincere condolences to Liz and Kristine. I met Phil only once in 1993 when Liz brought him to the BBH 175th anniversary party. He left a lasting impression on me. I remember him as a strong, silent, and friendly man. I know Phil and Liz had a great partnership. I am truly sorry for the loss."