"Gail and Family- I am so very sorry for your loss. Henry will always be a warm and fuzzy memory for me. He was always so caring, upbeat, and such a wonderfully fun and funny person. He will be missed by all that knew him. I know your wonderful memories will help to get you through this very sad time. With Sympathy, Diane Young Conner"
In loving memory of
C. Henry Gilmore
November 19, 1937 - April 3, 2012
Middletown, RI - C. Henry Gilmore, Jr., 74, of 17 Squantum Drive, Middletown, RI, died unexpectedly Tuesday, April 3, 2012 at Newport Hospital, Newport, RI. He was the husband of Madeline Gail Sullivan Gilmore. Born in Newport, RI on November 19, 1937, he was the son of the late Clarence Henry and Josephine Reigle Gilmore.Mr. Gilmore was a 1956 graduate of Rogers High School. After his graduation he served eight years in the R.I. Army National Guard, receiving an honorable discharge. In 1965 he was elected as Tax Assessor for the Town of Middletown until 1969. He began his banking career in 1959 at Rhode Island Hospital Trust National Bank starting as a teller, working as a consumer loan interviewer, a collection department mortgage interviewer and branch head teller. In 1964 he became the Assistant Manager of the Middletown Branch Office and in 1967 he transferred to the Head Office Mortgage Department as operations supervisor. In 1971 he was elected Mortgage Officer and became Manager of the service area, in 1976 he was elected Assistant Vice President with the Mortgage Lending. He ended his career at the bank in 1983 as Assistant Vice President and Branch Manager of the Washington Square Office. Later that year he started his second career in the financial services industries with John Hancock Mutual Life Insurance Company as a marketing representative until 1993 and retired from Prudential Insurance Co. in 2003. During his retirement years, he held multiple part time jobs throughout Middletown, the last being with Barrys Automotive of Newport, but his favorite pastime was spending time with his family, friends and neighbors. Henry served on the Town of Middletown in many capacities. He was on the Middletown Tax Appeals Board for three years, a member of the Middletown Fraternal Order of Police Association, Lodge 21 where he served as president for two years and secretary for 16 years. He was also a town special police officer and Town Sergeant and Sealer of Weights and Measure for the Town of Middletown. He served as the chairman for the Board of Canvasses in 1991.He was a past member of the Aquidneck Island Police Parade Committee and was a program supervisor at the armed services YMCA in Newport. Besides his wife of 49 years Henry leaves his two sons Wayne and his companion Woon of Ledyard, CT, and Doug and his wife Liz of Middletown, RI, and his four grandchildren, Connor, Haydon, Ryan and Isabella Gilmore. Henry also leaves his extended family, Joyce and Jerry Riley of Dover, NH and Ronnie Bulk of Middletown, along with many nieces and nephews. Calling hours will be held on Monday, April 9, 2012, from 4-8pm in the Memorial Funeral Home, 375 Broadway, Newport, RI. His funeral will be held on Tuesday, April 10, 2012, at 11:00am in Memorial Funeral Home, 375 Broadway, Newport. Burial will be in Middletown Cemetery in Middletown.In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to The Three Angels Fund, PO Box 4001, Middletown, RI 02842 or to the Middletown Rescue Wagon Fund, 239 Wyatt Road, Middletown, RI 02842.
Tributes
"Hi I knew Mr Gilmore while I was a program boy at the Navy YMCA. It was my first Job and that I started when I was 14 years old. He was a class act and always a pleasure to talk to and will be missed.He worked with Mr Fay another great man. Mr Gilmore had a great sense of humor! Regards Chris Semonelli"
"I am very sorry to learn of Mr. Gilmore's passing. It is tough sailing at the moment, I'm sure. The passing of time will make things a little easier, but the memories will never fade. Remember the good times. God bless."
"Mrs. Gilmore, Wayne & Woon, and Doug & Liz, I was deeply saddened to learn of Henry's passing. It is in sincerest friendship that I share in your loss. I am sorry to have been not able to attend the wake or funeral but wanted you to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. May your family find comfort in Gods grace and blessings during this difficult time. May his memory be eternal. With my most sincere sympathy, >Michael . . ."
"MY GETTING TO KNOW HENRY WAS GREAT WHILE I WAS THERE HE WOULD GREET ME WITH FLYING COLORS LOTS OF FUN ALWAYS MADE MY DAY .SURE WILL MISS HIS WITTY WAYS OF HELLOTHERE GOD BLESS YOU HENERY YOUR FRIEND BOB"
"Wayne and Doug, So sorry to hear of your dad's passing. It's never easy to lose the ones you love, but with time it becomes at least a little more bearable. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Veronica"
"Doug, Wayne and Mrs G, I'm sorry for your loss. May you all find peace in your memories."
"Dear Gilmore Family- I just wanted you to know how deeply saddened I was to hear of your loss. You were like a second family to me when we were growing up and I am so sorry I could not attend the funeral. Please know how much I share in your grief. Henry was a great man and I'll always cherish my many fond memories of him. I will never forget all the things he did for me. He was kind and compassionate and it was a privilege to know him. Sadly there are few people like that in the world today. I am feeling your pain and sorrow at this difficult time. You have my sincere sympathy. Scott Amico"
"Dear Gail, We want to offer our condolenses on the death of Henry. It is so hard when someone you love leaves suddenly.At least he did not suffer. Our prayers are with both of you. Thank God you have a family and I hope they will stay close by. Will call you when I return to Newport. Sincerely, Rita and Guenter"
"Gail, Wayne and Doug, We just heard the news and we are so sadden. I'm sorry that I can not be there during this time of grief but my thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always cherish the memories I had growing up next door and all the funny moments where shared. Henry was a good role model, husband, and father; he will be missed."
"Doug and Wayne So sorry for the loss of your Father. Death is never easy for anyone. Your memories of him will last forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your Mom and your families at this time."
"Dear Gail, I was very sorry to hear of Henrys passing. He was just a wonderful human being. Full of energy, wit, and most of all life. He will be missed by all who knew him."
"Dear Gail and family, our deepest sympathy to you and the boys.Henry will be sadly missed,he was like a brother to us.Always willing to help and give support when needed.Life will seem so different without him.A nicer person no one could ever meet.Your in our prayers,God bless you all. Love Tony and Barbara"
"Dear Gail and family, My deepest condolences on the loss of your husband and father. Henry had such a great smile, wonderful personality and attitude. You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time."
"He will be missed"
"Dear Gail, we were so shocked and saddened to hear of Henry's sudden passing. Our sincerest condolences to you and your family. We are still in Florida so are unable to attend services but please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Pat and Tim"
"Gail & family, So very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Henry will be greatly missed by all. Sincerely, Karen & John"
"Gail and Boys; My prayers are with You. Henery was a great person."
"Sorry for your loss. It's something we all have to go through but it doesn't make it any easier. Stay strong."
"Wayne and Doug, So sorry for the loss of your Dad. I remember him very well and the smile on his face as the MHS band marched along in all the parades and field shows we did. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Karen Smith Biastre"
"To the Gilmore's: We are so sorry for your loss. Doug, we didn't know your father, but to leave this world a son as fine as the man that you are is no small accomplishment, and for that alone we wish we could have known him. Reading the guestbook and listening to the stories Liz has told, your dad was an amazing husband, father and friend. Remember ~ Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal. May your memories give you strength and may the love of those around you help you through the days ahead."
"Dear. Gail, What a sad time for all of us. I was so shocked when you called. He was such a wonderful man and I am fortunate to have known him. Wednesdays will never be the same! I pray for your strength at this difficult time."
"Gail & Family: With Sympathy at this sad time my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. With Deepest Sympathy, Mimi"
"The Gilmore Family, My sincere condolences. I've known Henry for years where I work and outside of work. A nice guy with a wit. He will be missed!"
"To the Gilmore Family, please accept my deepest sympathy regarding the loss of Henry,my condolences. Henry will be missed! Drew Anderson."
"Dear Gail, Wayne and Doug, So, so sorry for your loss; actually a loss to all of us who've known Henry. Full of life, full of fun, we've shared many laughs! One of a kind, never to be forgotten."
"Dear Gail and Family, We have such good memories of the good times at the reunions with the both of you, I will keep you in our prayers and will keep in touch."
"Gail, Doug & Liz and The Gilmore Family, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Henry. We were so lucky to have been in his company so many times. He made us laugh constantly and we will miss his wonderful sense of humor. Those we love don't go away, They walk beside us every day, Unseen, unheard, but always near, Still loved, still missed and very dear. The Hanlon's"
"gail....i'm so sorry to hear of henry's death.....he was so helpful during the gallaghers sad times.....i've known him since i was 12 yrs old....he was a special person....love prayers and eventually peace.....maureen gallagher dever and family"
"Dear Gail and family, Please accept our sincere condolances on the loss of Henry. We go way back to the class of 56 and again as Henry worked as a special policeman with me. He was always a friend and helped many people during his banking career.Always a smile and friendly gentleman. You will be in our prayers, Bob and Pauline Gibson Fort Myers"
"Dear Doug, Joe and I send our condolences and love during this difficult time. I pray that you can find peace. God Bless, Joe and Sue"
"Dear Aunt Gail, Wayne and Doug, We were so sorry to get the news of Uncle Henry's passing. We have so many wonderful memories of the years that we all had together and the many occasions/parties we enjoyed as a family. We love Uncle Henry and will miss him dearly. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers."
"Wayne and Doug, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. I am sure you will miss his presence. May the love of friends, family and God buoy you up at this time. Hugs to all of you! Love, Becky Wood aka Rebecca Callahan"
"Doug, Sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. We will keep you, Wayne, and your mom in our prayers. During this difficult time, please find peace in remembering that death is only the end of your dad's earthly journey. Rest assured knowing that he is in God’s eternal Paradise and that you and your family will eventually be reunited with him there, and will remain together forever."
"Dear Doug and Wayne - I was so sorry to hear that you lost your Dad. Henry and your mom Gail have always been kind to me and my son Dean Bassinder throughout the years. I think of you two like my own. Although I cannot be with you through this saddest of times I want you to know that you are in my heart and I love you both and your families. Coralie Oliveira"
"Dearest Gail, Doug, LIz, Haydon, Ryan and Wayne, I am deeply sorry to hear of your very sweet Henrys' passing. I have so many special memories which include him and still find it hard to believe this occured esp so very sudden. I wil always remember his kindness and know he has left his imprint on all that knew him. He will never be forgotton...... All my prayers and love!! Wishing I could be with you all at this time..... My condolences go out to all of you!!"