"Shirley Sullivan lit a candle in memory of Patricia "Patti" Fay"
In loving memory of
Patricia "Patti" Fay
September 15, 1952 - June 4, 2016
Patricia Ann (Coffey) Fay "PattiFay", of Portsmouth died Saturday, June 4, 2016 at home in Portsmouth, after a courageous and determined battle with cancer. Her adoring family was by her side.She was the wife of Bruce Eric Fay of Portsmouth, RI.Born on September 15, 1952, Patti was the daughter of Barbara Bruno Coffey, of Middletown and the late William J. Coffey. She shared her birth with her lifelong best friend and identical twin sister Bobbi. In addition to her husband and mother, Patti is deeply mourned by her son Kyle Fay and his wife Kate, of Newport, her daughter Michaela DiCarlo and her husband Jon, her most cherished grandchildren Zoey Reese and Liam Jon Patrick of Taunton, MA; her brother Michael Coffey and his wife Melody, of Middletown, three sisters; Carol and Raymond Cordeiro, of Texas, Barbara Kosegarten, and Kathleen and Ron Pilotte, both of Newport. She also leaves behind many adoring nieces, nephews, cousins and a vast number of close and amazing friends. Patti wanted all of them to know how grateful she was for their laughter, love and especially for their prayers and support during her illness.Patti attended Hazard Memorial Grammar School in Newport, which provided the foundation for her unwavering Catholic faith. She graduated from Rogers High School in the class of 1971 and continued her education at the University of Rhode Island, obtaining a Bachelor's Degree in education, and later a Master's Degree from Salve Regina University.In 1976, Patti married the love her life, Bruce, and the two of them embarked on an adventure of nearly 40 years, which included many family trips and plenty of laughs, while raising their two wonderful children.Patti began her teaching career at the Newport Catholic Regional School( now All Saints Academy) and later spent 25 years as a 4th Grade teacher at Elmhurst School in Portsmouth, RI, and upon its closing, several more at Hathaway Elementary School where she finished her career as a 3rd Grade teacher.During 40 years of teaching, Patti steadfastly demonstrated her dedication and unswerving devotion to all of her students, making each feel they were her priority. Many of Patti's former students stayed in touch with her as they progressed in their lives.Patti's Catholic faith sustained her and a source of strength. She gladly and willingly gave her time, talent and treasure to St. Barnabas Church. Patti previously taught CCD classes and most recently had served as a Eucharistic Minister.Patti was a great sports enthusiast and fun loving competitive athlete. She played softball, volleyball, basketball, skiing, tennis and most especially golf. She excelled in all of them. Patti was happiest when spending time with her large family, hosting Sunday pool parties, family dinner gatherings, game nights and dance parties. Watching her beautiful grandchildren grow and learn, provided her great joy. Patti leaves a lasting legacy of caring and compassion that will live on through those she leaves behind.Calling hours will be held on Thursday June 9, 2016 from 4-8pm in the Connors Funeral Home 55 West Main Road in Portsmouth.A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday June 10, 2016 at 10:00am in St. Barnabas Church 1697 East Main Road in Portsmouth, RI.Burial will be private.In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Patti's memory to Hathaway School 53 Tallman Avenue Portsmouth, RI 02871, or to St. Barnabas Church fund 1697 East Main Road Portsmouth, RI 02871. Visitation JUN 9. 04:00 PM - 08:00 PM Connors Funeral Home 55 West Main Road Portsmouth, RI, US, 02871 info@memorialfuneralhome.com http://www.connorsfuneralhome.com Service JUN 10. 10:00 AM St. Barnabas Catholic Church 1697 East Main Road Portsmouth, RI, US
Tributes
"So Sorry Barbara & family for your loss."
"So very sorry for your loss. I do believe Mrs, Patricia Fay had taught my son Kenneth for a time in NCCR school, which was many, many years ago. I remember Mrs. Fay always having a kind and gentle manner and a perfectly wonderful smile. May the Heavens be most beautiful for you. Carol Ann O'Connell"
"I had her for a teacher a NCCRS and I still remember how nice she was to me what a great teacher and person."
"I knew Patti thru the eyes of my grandson who adored her as his teacher. I knew her as a member of Wanu. I always considered her a warm lovely lady. She impacted people with her grace and gentle demeanor . My sincere sympathy to the family she left behind. She will be missed. I am so glad Luke Jr. had the privilege of being exposed to this lovely lady. Sincerely Tom and Lucille Hyder"
"ON BEHALF OF THE MURPHYS OF FIFTH WARD SQUARE-ALL TEN OF US, CONDOLENCES TO BARBARA E., BRUCE, KYLE, MCHAELA, MICHAEL, CAROL, BARBARA A., KATHLEEN, AND ALL THE FAMILY. WHAT A FAMILY! WHAT A WAKE!MY SISTER, Sr. SHEILA WAS OVERWHELMED BY THE RESPECT SHOWN BY COUNTLESS NUMBERS. WHEN ANY FAMILY MEMBER ATTENDED ST. AUGUSTIN'S, THEY WOULD OFFER TO COLLECT, INCLUDING RON. MAY GOD HOLD PATTI AND ALL OF YOU IN THE HALLOW OF HIS HAND."
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"Makes me smile and makes me sad!! I loved Patti Fay! What a wonderful friend and teammate! RIP Patti!!"
"To Michaela and family, my most sincere condolences during this difficult time. I am so very sorry for your loss. You are I. My prayers. All my love. Erica (Ferzoco) Heath"
"Oh Patti, where to start....growing up around the corner from you, seeing you an Bobbi walking on Kay St., not being able to tell you apart, the Creamery days, fun at Sully's, the party's "over the bridge", singing in the back room at the Tavern, driving you and Bruce in your wedding, that ever present smile and incredible quick wit... Nothing but great memories of you.You will be missed by all. Love and prayers to the Fay's and Coffey's Harry Fucilli"
"So very sad to hear of Patty's passing. Condolences to the family. She was the nicest person to work with. Rest in peace, Patty.Pat Allan"
"love, Trish, Rob, Annabelle, and Caroline Seward purchased the Sweetest Sunrise Bouquet for the family of Patricia "Patti" Fay."
"Cherish all my memories of Paari and Bobbi as Morgan St neighbors. An awesome person who always took the time to talk to you and always had a kind word. Deepest sympathy and prayers to the entire family xo. Sue Silveria-Bagley"
"Love Chris & Jim Farrar purchased the Fairest of All for the family of Patricia "Patti" Fay."
"Kirtley S. purchased the Beautiful in Blue for the family of Patricia "Patti" Fay."
"A beautiful person both inside and out. May God watch over her as well as her family. It was my pleasure to have know her.Neal Ribeiro"
"Working with Patti at NCCRS and having her teach my sons are some very fond memories. Patti had an infectious smile that spread to those around her. Although I had not seen her in many years, I will miss her. My prayers are with you.Vivian Bonin"
"To the Fay and Coffey families,One would never think that there is a need for more Angels in Heaven, but God must have need for the Angel he took from us.My deepest sympathies.Bill Barrett"
"Love, "The Girls" purchased the Adoring Heart for the family of Patricia "Patti" Fay."
"My deepest condolences to Patti's family! May our Lord bless and comfort you during this time of grief. Please accept my sincere sympathy.I have fond memories of when the Coffey twins and I were in the same 5th grade class together at Hazard Memorial, and then attended school together again at Rogers High.Denise Clement"
"My fondest memories of teaching included working with Patti at the Newport County Catholic Regional School. As first time teachers we laughed together, grew together, and assisted one another in learning how to reach our students. She was an inspiration. Later Patti convinced me to earn our Masters Degree together at Salve Regina. We took many of the same courses together and I am grateful for her encouragement. She was a remarkable mother, friend, and wife , and I will forever cherish her friendship and humor. God bless her family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Peter McFarland"
"May you be at peace now. My thoughts and prayers for your family this is one of the hardest things in life to endure."
"Enchanted Cottage was purchased for the family of Patricia "Patti" Fay."
"Our deepest condolences to Patti's dear and much loved family.Patti was one in a million. Her love of family, friends and life will live on in all who were blessed to have known her.Our sons were just 2 of many students who benefited so greatly from being in her class.Patti always found the best in her students and encouraged them to be their best. I was extremely fortunate to be her colleague and friend and will always remember her beautiful, contagious smile as well as her kind, caring ways.God's blessings to all of Patti's family.May your wonderful memories and the blessings of family and friends help to bring you comfort and peace.With our love and prayers,Katie and Paul Solecki"
"So sorry to hear of Pattie's passing. She was a wonderful person and a great teacher. Our educational community was blessed by her presence. My heartfelt sympathies are extended to her family.May she rest in peace. Mario Mancieri"
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"There are no words to express our thoughts for all of you. Patti was a beautiful person and will be missed by so many. You will all be in my constant prayers."
"To miss Coffey and family I am so sorry for your loss. Your wonderful daughter, sister, and wife will be missed."
"To Bruce and all the family,Hold no dregs of sorrow.No doubt Patti has moved to a better place.Fran Laffey"
"Mrs. Fay, I promise you will never be forgotten. You were an amazing person as well as a teacher,by far the best teacher I had. Rest in peace :heart: I love you!"
"I am deeply sorry for your loss. May God hold you all in this difficult time with all his blessings and comfort.Holly Neil"
"Patti (Mrs. Fay) had both my boys, Brendan and Jameson, in her classrooms at the Elmhurst and Hathaway Schools. She was one of the kindest and most approachable of teachers. She made each student feel that he/she was special - and I am certain every one of her students felt that he/she was Mrs. Fay's "favorite". As an occasional sub and a room mom, I overheard some of Patti's "pep talks" from time to time. They were so heartfelt and effective that every student strived to impress her - never wanting to let her down... That care and interest in her students never let up even after her students left her classroom. How touching to get a phone call from Mrs. Fay asking about the first day of middle school... to receive a graduation card as well - 8 years after having her for a 4th grade teacher. She taught us all how to care more for each other and how to "build people up", especially the children in our community. Mrs. Fay, you will be missed so very much.., My deepest condolences to your family and loved ones."
"It is with a heavy heart that I send my sincere sympathy to Patti's family. I have so many happy memories of Patti back in our softball days. She was funny, kind and always had a nice word to say. Long after our Newport softball careers were over, Patti would always go out of her way to say "Hello" and chat if she saw me out and about. It was always a pleasure to see her and share a laugh even if it was for just a few minutes.The pain is over my friend and it's time to rest in heaven. Peace...Shelley Amaral"
"I am saddened to hear of Patti's passing. When I think of her I see a funny, kind, loving woman. I have very fond memories of Patti during our high school years. My deepest sympathies to her family and friends. Linda Kardel Anderson."
"My condolences to family and friends! I was one of the students that always stayed in touch with Mrs. Fay. 8 years ago, as my 4th grade teacher she made a life changing impact on me. Always believing in my abilities and urged me to apply for an art contest, which I won out of the whole country. She was so proud of me and til this day I have it framed on my wall with a picture of her on it. I would see her occasionally and always update her on where life has taken me, recently sending a card doing just that again. I hope she always knew how much of a difference she made in my life. Always laughing together and being a great source of encouragement for me. She truly was a gift to this world and I am so grateful to have known her! May her life live on in all the lives she impacted. With love, Kristin Walker"
"My heartfelt condolences to all of Patti's family and friends! One of the funniest and kindest people I've ever met!! I have many fond memories of our days playing Cappy's softball! Patti was competitive yet always had a great time! And yes, blazing speed! Will never forget our post game festivities at Cappy's shooting pool, drinking, and singing along to the jukebox! One of many favorites was her getting everyone to "Do The Locomotion" around the pool table and she pulled a muscle doing a split!! Will always remember the spectacular end of the season pool parties at her house! Such a great hostess!! You will be missed but never forgotten!! RIP Patti"
"She was my 4th grade teacher, a great neighbor for 10 years, a dear friend to my mom, and just one of the nicest people I've ever known. Love you Mrs. Fay :heart: My thoughts and prayers are with your family."
"To Mrs Coffey, Bobbi and family.....I am so sorry to read this. May she fly with the Angels....God Bless."
"With deep sadness, we extend our sincere condolences. Patty was always vibrant and friendly. Our hearts go out to the Fay family. May she rest in forever peace. Philip and Cissie Ferzoco"
"Sentiments of Serenity Spray was purchased for the family of Patricia "Patti" Fay."
"Rest in peace Mrs. Fay, thank you for being a wonderful 2nd & 4th grade teacher. I have many fond memories of Mrs. Fay as a fun, kind teacher at NCCRS. Sincere sympathies to the Fay family.Patricia Martin"
"My condolences to the family. I will always remember Newport Creamery and seeing y'all there for Sunday breakfast. Thinking about you all.."
"In loving memory of Patricia Fay. You were the teacher that taught Jenna to believe in herself and you always made her feel like she was important. You taught her to love learning and why it is important to do your best. You were honestly the best teacher that I have ever met. We shed some tears together tonight when we heard this very sad news of your passing. I hope you know that you made a true difference in the lives of so many and we will NEVER forget you."
"At a loss for words, my heart is very heavy at the loss of such an amazing woman. My boys Alex and Aidan had Mrs. Fay for fourth grade and she was by far our "favorite teacher". She always went out of her way to see that their needs were met even if meant summer tutoring or an "after hour" phone call. Thank you Patti for having such a beautiful impact on our children's lives. You will be missed dearly, never forgotten and forever loved. I'm so sorry for you Bruce and your family's pain. Healing thoughts, from the Ducker boys and April."
"To all who loved PattiFay Fay, and I know there are many, you have my deepest condolences. I have so many great memories of Patty from softball, but also from Cappy's, pool parties, game nights, and golf, and every single one brings a smile to my face. Heaven has a new angel, one with a great sense of humor - and blinding speed! I know that the memories we share will keep her close to our hearts. Rest in peace my friend..."
"Bruce, Kyle, & Michaela,My heart breaks for you with this terrible loss. Both my children were fortunate enough to have Mrs. Fay as their teacher at Elmhurst. They have very fond memories of the 4th grade because of her. I have many fond memories myself of talking to her at all of our kids sporting events. Our deepest condolences,Diane, Pete, Matthew & Stephanie Holdridge"
"My deepest sympathy to Patti's family. I am lost for words. My heart goes out to the Coffey family. Mrs. Coffey you are in my prayers with the whole family. I am so sorry. Dolores Woolhouse"
"My deepest condolences to the entire Coffey/Fay family. Bob Gelina"
"I also have a sadness over me, Patti and Bobbi were with me thru hazard memorial and Rogers high. Such fond memories. God Bless you Patti, may your family realize in their sorry that you are in a better place and no longer in pain. Sincere condolences Christine (Loftus) Ferreira"
"I have so many happy memories of Patti, all through the University of Rhode Island, ski trips, Cape Cod trips, New York trips and our fantastic Italy adventure. She was a constant in my life, even though we lived far away from each other for much of it. She will be in my heart forever and will be missed so much by all who knew her."
"I was a first grade student at Hazard Memorial school when our teacher, Sr. Margaret Gerard, was out for at least two weeks. We were given two superb, compassionate substitute teachers, the Coffey twins - Patti and Bobbie. They taught us superbly while on temporary leave from Grade 8 at St. Joseph's School. I guess our class can lay claim to being the first and youngest pupils of these wonderful sisters. All they were missing were the white bibs and habits. Patti has been a bright and gifted human being. My condolences and Prayers are with the Coffey/Fay families and friends. Patti will be fondly remembered and sorely missed!Bill O'Connell"
"I remember how generous and caring Patti was. She was the best friend to my sister, Kathy, especially when our father and brother passed away. She was not only there for Kathy, but for me and my Mom too. My heart breaks for the Fay and Coffey families.Barbie Westfall (Kathy Sarraino's sister)"