"Lisa, So sorry for your loss. Our sincere sympathy to you and your family."
On Tuesday July 28, 2020 in the early morning hours Shelby lost her battle with addiction, she was 22 years old.
Shelby was born January 16, 1998 in Kingston, NY. She attended Rondout Valley High School and graduated in 2016. She loved spending time with her family and friends. For those who truly knew Shelby they saw her beauty inside and out, her smile could light up a room. She loved wholeheartedly. Though our hearts are broken, we are blessed for we had the privilege of knowing her in this life.
She is survived by her father Phillip Harris and her stepmother Jennifer; her mother Lisa Rider and her stepfather Donald; her sister Sydnee Rider; her paternal grandparents William and Nereida Harris (Nanny and Poppy); as well as many aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Services will be private, and a memorial is to be announced at a later date.
"Lisa, So sorry for your loss. Our sincere sympathy to you and your family."
"May the Lord wrap you all in his arms of peace and comfort, as he has Shelby safely with him."
"Our condolences to Shelby's family so sorry for your loss"
"Our condolences to Sheby's family so sorry for your loss. Steve & Teresa Coddington"
"Sincerest condolences to the family! Ms Shea"
"Shelby you always had a smile on your face. I couldn?t help but feel happy in your presence. I love you and will look forward to our heavenly meeting.????"
"My deeoest sympathy to the family! (Miss) Ellen Michaelis"
"Shelby was an amazing person, she was always there for me when I needed someone to talk to.. she will be missed forever? "
"I'm am so glad to have known Shelby. She was a wonderful friend and amazing girl. I've known her since she was younger and always hanging out with my sister Christina. She always had a smile on her face and knew how to make everyone smile as well. She was always kindhearted and sweet. She will be dearly missed but not forgotten. "
"We are so sorry for your loss. We will treasure the memories, photos and videos we have of Shelby and her gymnastics family. Jody, Scott, Kassondra and Matthew Little (Schoonmaker) "
"Sending my Condolence to the family Shelby was such a sweetheart and a heart of gold loved to have fun rest in peace beautiful "
"My heart is broken for the lost of a beautiful young lady, No I didn't know her personally I did know her though school because we went to school together she was a senior and I was a freshmen I did see her in the hallway a couple times she was always said hi when I said hi back. Shelby will be forever missed.. RIP beautiful"
"I'm so saddened by this loss....such a young and vibrant individual...I still remember you at gymnastics and how much agility you had....May you rest in Paradise....My love and prayers go to all family and friends....So sorry!"
"Lisa & family, I?m so sorry for the loss of tour Shelby. I remember her from when she was little and our children played together. She was such a sweet amazing beautiful girl. Her suffering is over and may she RIP. She will not be forgotten. Deb ferry-Napoli and Patrick and Megan Ferry. "
"To my beautiful girl Shelby who we love more than words can say always honey ,you already had your angel wings my dear. I always loved walking into Grammies and seeing that big smile on your face when you were sitting in your walker as a baby. Watching you grow into an intelligent beautiful young girl. Love you always honey ,..Aunt Dar and Uncle Reggie (may heaven embrace you with open arms).... "
"Oh shelbs you grew up with my girl watched you grow from about 5 years old to a young vibrate ladie. Then as you grew old you started seeing my nephew devon who loved you as the rest of my family did. Your smile and laughter will be missed by so many but I know you are still smiling down on all your loved ones sweet angel..love you shelbs "
"Loving memory of sweet young lady ???"
"I want to send my love and condolences to Shelby family I am so sorry for your terrible loss love patty Westridge "
"Rest In Peace Shelby. Love and strength to your family to help you through. "
"Sweet Shelby, we?ve been best friend since 5th grade! We did so much together, skate time, campfires, swimming, school events, sat together everyday at lunch. You were such a great person & friend. I?m so proud of you for trying to get help, you are at peace now, and not fighting you demons, and the eases my heart a bit. I wish you were still here to celebrate sobriety one day, make more memories together, and spend time with family. You will be missed babygirl. Your family & real friends love & miss you so much. Watch over us, I?ll see you soon beautiful, I love you??"
"Shelby and I recently became close friends this summer, but we were in the same grade and I knew her for years. We actually spoke the night she passed.. it pained me to wake up and hear that news, I couldn?t believe it.. like I was just talking to her.. addiction is a real disease and we need to be there for our friends and loved ones when they are going through it.. not punish them. I love you Shelby and I hope you are resting sweet girl. "
"So sorry Lisa and family...I spoke to Shelby sporadically through the years, which I loved..she was always so upbeat and excited for the next chapter...my thoughts are with you all"
"My heart goes out to Shelby family and close friends. I knew her since she was 14 when my son dated her. Another amazing person taken by the demon called addiction. RIP Shelby. You were such an amazing person with such a big heart ?. You will forever be lived and missed. Fly high beautiful angel xoxo"
"She was a beautiful soul and will be missed by many. Rest Easy sweet Shelby. We all love you and it was an honor to know you. "
"My heart is ? she was a wonderful your lady , I have so many Memories and pictures with her and my daughter Alexis Spencer she came to all the birthday parties I have a lot of memories R.I.P. god had a plan ?? Amen ???????????"