"I have to say that she'll truly be missed. She was so bright and happy, and impacted so many people's hearts for being her. I remember how happy she was, and she was always ready to take on the world no matter what happened. I remember the day she died more than any part of my life, and I'll never forget how horrified and devastated I was when I learned that she died once my father came back from the hospital in tears. I cried for hours and hours at night, knowing that I could have died instead if I accepted that last ride she took. I've been devastated from her death for so long, but I need to accept that these things happen, and move on with my life. She wouldn't want her death to bring me down. She'd be so happy with me for who I am today, and she would love more than anything to help me through my pain. She's with God now, and I'm sure she's watching over everyone with the same positivity she always had. I thank you all, every one of you, for making her life so happy, and I thank all of you for saying such kind things for her. She'd shed a tear reading this. I love her, and yes, I'll miss her, but I need to keep going."
In loving memory of
Tabitha Rodriguez Lancon
November 28, 2009
Tabitha passed away suddenly at her home as a result of an accident. Memorials may be directed to the family in lieu of flowers to assist with the funeral expenses.
A prayer service will be held on Thursday at 7:30 p.m.
Tabitha C. (Rodriguez) Lancon was born on July 19, 1980 in Hamburg, Iowa the daughter of Sandy Rodriguez and Donald Fender. Tabitha departed this life on Saturday, November 28, 2009, along with her beloved cousin Shyla Rodriguez.
Tabby's early years were spent in Shenandoah, Clarksville, TN, and other Southwest Iowa communities. Shenandoah was always a place where Tabby called home and where she enjoyed spending time with her sister and grandmother. While living in Shenandoah she attended grade school and middle school. She attended high school in Creston and received her GED from Iowa Western Community College.
On March 10, 2003 she was united in marriage to William Anthony Lancon in Biloxi, Mississippi. The couple resided in Biloxi before moving to Shenandoah and most recently Clarinda. They were blessed with the birth of two sons, Tristen and Seth. She loved being a mother and her greatest accomplishment, was definitely her children.
Tabby worked for several local businesses including Elm Heights, Earl May, Dollar General, Wal-Mart, NSK, and most recently Conagra Foods. She was a member of the Shenandoah PTO, Girl Scouts, RCI, and Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Biloxi where she joined the church on Easter of 2004. Some of her interest included listening to music, sewing, fishing, dancing, and attending concerts.
Tabby was a survivor! She and her family endured the devastation of Hurricane Katrina which destroyed their home and all of their belongings. Most recently she had just won her battle over esophageal cancer. She has fought a hard fight and has finished the race, her victory has been received.
She was preceded in death by her grandfather William Rodriguez, great-grandmother Maymie Lewis, great-grandpa Toby Lewis, uncle Carl Ray Gibson, father-in-law Terence G. Kent, and cousin Shyla Rodriguez.
Those left to honor her memory include her husband William Lancon and their children Tristen and Seth; mother Sandy Adams; sisters Amber Rodriguez and husband John and Jessika Fender; brother Alex Fender; grandmother Bobby Rodriguez; nephews and nieces Frankie, Christopher, Maygen, and Jesi Rodriguez; aunts and uncles Karen Rodriguez, Terry Rodriguez and wife Julie, Nancy Terrones, and Linda Gonzales; sisters of the heart Nina, Serita, and baby girl Olivia; best friend Kim Griffen; father Donald Fender; mother-in-law Teresa Kent; other family, friends, other relatives, and a host of friends.
Tributes
"Tabitha is and was one of my gifts from God and o miss her as much today as I did then. She was an angel friend and loving person . She was lived by all who knew her and some thy did not. I miss you my baby 7 years ago today God made you a Angel in heaven an left me with a broken heart. Until we are together again. "
"we are so sorry for your loss. We didn't think about your loved one being 29 years. It didn't seem possible and it is heartbreaking to think of your whole family's extreme loss. I'm always at a loss as to what to say. It's a minute at a time letting our Heavenly Father walk With you every step of the way. Having lost ours at the age of 20 a lot of years ago now among others, there's still times it's unreal. They always stay close to you in thought. We extend to you our sincere sypathies, thoughts, and prayers. Jennifer J., Bettie and Dwain"
"my thoughts and prayers go out to your family..."
"I used to go to school and church with Tabiyha when we were younger. You are in my thoughts and prayers."
"Sorry for your loss. I knew her mother Sandy while I was in high school in Shenandoah."
"aunt sandy and cousin amber, i just wanted u 2 ladies to know im here for u always.. tabs now a nother one of our angels. i'll never forget the good times we all had.. i love u "
"Sandy, Amber, Bobbi,and family members, Sandy, I am so sorry to hear the loss of your daughter and niece. I didn't realize she was just 2 months older than my oldest son and my heart just goes out to you, I couldn't imagine losing one of my children after raising them, loving them, and seeing them grow up and to have a family. Amber and Bobbi my heart goes out to you too. Words cannot explain how I felt when I heard the news of the accident. I am so sorry. You have lost loved ones but Heaven has recieved two Angels. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family and I hope you let God help you through this time of your loss."
"Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! "
"We are so sorry about Tabitha's death. You and your boys are in our thoughts and prayers. If you ever need anything we are all here for you. Be strong and take care of your kids. They are really going to need you. "
"Sandy and Amber, I am so sorry to hear about Tabby. It is not suppose to be like this . I am thinking of both of you and will see you in the Morning. LOVE SHel"
"I am terribly sorry for your loss. Tabitha always made me smile growing up. My family's prayers are with your family."
"I do not know your family. My heart goes out to evry 1 affected in this horrible accident. She is now walkin hand and hand with GOD and smiling down on you.Hope you all the best.Sean"
"now my tab, is a angel, she will alway be with all of us until we meet in heaven. billy i am sorry for you lost, but your life has to be for your 2 sons,and we will never forget tab."
"I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I will keep you in my prayers"
"I am so sorry for your loss. I have twin 6 year olds and can't imagine how hard this is on them, especially during the holiday season. We have been praying for your family. "
"So sorry for your loss, Tabitha will be missed by all that knew her, she touch lives in ways she will never know."
"Sandy and family, I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of Tabitha. It has been a long time since I have seen her but wanted to express my deepest sympathy. Again, I am sorry for your loss."
"Just wanted to say that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God Bless"
"Sandy Im very sorry for your loss you and your family are in my thoughts"
"I can not tell you just how much I enjoyed working with Tabitha. We started working together about 4 yrs ago at NSK. She was a doll and always had something to say to put a smile on all of our faces. I am sure that I speak for many people there when I say she will be missed."
"Billy, Tristen and Seth: We are saddened by your loss and will be remembered in our prayers. Your family will be there for all of you."
"I worked with Tabitha at NSK. I did not know her very well, but I did enjoy talking with her.She talked about her family. I will remember Tabitha as an energetic, bubbly gal. My heart aches for each of you. May God grant you peace, and comfort in the days ahead."
"Rodriquez-Lancon Family:I'm sorry for your loss, and know that she went to GOD while having fun. I've heard nothing but good things about Tabitha from 3 of her siblings and I want your family to know she will be greatly missed by them. Tabitha:I never got a chance to meet you or talk to you, but im sure had we met(during a trip you planned on meeting them half way in next year)I wouldve loved you as much as your friends and family do. One day you will see your family and friends again up and you most definitly will have a new friend in me. God Bless. "
"ME AND MY FAMILY HEART GOES OUT TO TABITHA AND HER FAMILY TABITHA HAS BEEN MY DAUGHTER LISA MARIE HUMMEL SCHAPER LONGTIME OLD BUDDIES FRIEND THEY WOULD COME OVER AND PLAY AFTER SCHOOL AND ON THE WEEKEND THEY WOULD HAVE A SLUMMER SLEEP OVER PARTY AT OUR HOUSE THEY BEEN SO GOOD WITH EACH OTHER ALL OF SUDDENLY BANG THIS HIT LISA VERY BAD WHILE SHE WAS WORKING AT MCDONALD SOME PEOPLE FROM CLARINDA CAME IN AND TOLD HER IT SHOCK THE HECK OUT OF HER AND THEY ASK IF SHE KNEW HER AND SHE SAID WELL YES SHE WAS ONE OF MY LONGTIME BUDDIES FRIEND WHO SPEND ALOTS OF WEEKEND TOGETHER OH DEAR I FEEL FOR HER AND THE FAMILY JUST REMEMBER WE GONNA MISS HER ALOTS KNOWING THE LORD WILL TAKE CARE OF HER NOW AND COMFORT ALL OF YOU WHOM IS HER FAMILY AND FRIEND WE HAVE HER IN OUR HEART AND MIND THIS PAST WEEK A BIG HUGS GO OUT TO ALL OF YOU MISS TERRY ANN SCHAPER-MARILYN KAY PARMAN-LISA MARIE HUMMEL AND HER FAMILY BRIAN LEWIS HUMMEL AND BABY TRISH JOY HUMMEL GOD BLESS YOU ALL"
"I am deeply saddened by the loss of sweet and kind Tabitha,as I am sure anyone who had the pleasure of knowing her is. She was a co worker and a friend. My heart and prayers go out to you all in this most difficult time. Tabitha was a bright star that sparkled so bright that all that came in contact with her could feel her warmth from as little as one of her smiles. Her laughter and up beat personality was something I came to count on to get me through a long night at work. She is deeply missed by all of her crew at Conagra. If their is anything, even the smallest thing that I can do to help please feel free to contact me. With heart felt condolences, Christina, Craig and Justyce Dade"
"I worked with Tabitha when she was at NSK. I will always remember her with a smile on her face even when she was having an off day and not feeling the best. She was a terrific person to be around and she always made you laugh even when you weren't having a good day. My deepest sympaythy to the family in your loss and my prayers will be with you. But just remember you will have a wonderful gaurdian angel up their looking over all of you!"
"My heart goes out to the whole Rodriquez family. Tabby was such a wonderful person and a great mom. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her. I hope everyone that loved her can find comfort in all the memories they have of her. My thoughts are with you all."
"Aunt Sandy, sry to hear about Tabby now she is up in heaven with grandma Maybelle i will keep you all in mind and pray for you all everynight.. love your niece Jodi&Mya Johnson "
"To Tabby's husband, Sandy, Bobby, and family - We're so sorry that this unthinkable trajedy happened. We really loved Tabby and will keep you guys in our thoughts. ---Mike & Lori Butcher"
"i just wanted to say im sorry to hear what happened. i havent seen tabs. in years but the family will be in my thoughts. "
"Heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you always. May the Lord give you peace and strength during this time of sorrow. Celebrate her life and remember her in your hearts."
"Sandy, I share in your grief at the loss of some so young. I cannot imagine the impact. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all her family. Maureen."
"Words can't even begin to describe how sorry I am for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers as you try to deal with the tragedy of losing such a wonderful young woman."
"My prayers and thoughts are with Tabitha's family. We went to school together,she will be missed by everyone who knew and loved her!!"
"I am so sorry of your loss and am praying for comfort for the family. May God bless and comfort you all!"
"You are all in my prayers and I love you all. May God be with you. you are in my prayers. Love, Olina and family"
"i am very sorry for the loss of your family member. may Gods peace be with the family in this time of heartache."
"Billy and Boys and Family, I'm so sorry for you loss. I worked with Tabitha at NSK. She was a real sweet person and was really looking forward to reconnecting with her on facebook. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time."
"To Tabitha's entire family - My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. If there is anything I can do, please, let me know. Hold onto all the wonderful memories to help you through this very difficult time. God bless and watch over each of you."